posted July 07, 2014 08:44 PM            

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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
I'll slam whatever I consider disgusting and you can squawk all you want, and it won't do a hill of beans. A tramp is a tramp. Dresses like one. Walks like one. Then is one.

And Karka is not even 16 years old. Shameful fantasizing about whorish tendencies online while you grown ups fan the flames.

I see that shame isn't factored into the equation here.

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Really? Squawk? I was being very tongue in cheek.

FTR - I have no idea how old Karka is or, frankly, what you're going on about. I was only responding to your post specifically (and jokingly) because my hard-working rich husband married a loving wife that occasionally wears low cut shirts.

posted July 08, 2014 11:14 AM            

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Originally posted by BellaFenice:

You better not be referring to Karka here. S.lut shaming is one thing but attacking a teenager is another.

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I think you are missing my point entirely.

A teenager ought not to even be here, let alone discuss such gibberish. I won't allow my college aged *son,* now a legal adult, to engage in such discussion.

As for compassion, here are my two cents. No education? No job? Shape up and get both. Life is tough for everybody. Get a grip.

Karka talked about not passing algebra. How about beginning with cleaning up the act in school and preparing for the SATs?!?

posted July 08, 2014 11:18 AM            

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Originally posted by MoonWitch:

Really? Squawk? I was being very tongue in cheek.

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posted July 08, 2014 06:57 PM            

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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
I think you are missing my point entirely.

A teenager ought not to even be here, let alone discuss such gibberish. I won't allow my college aged *son,* now a legal adult, to engage in such discussion.

As for compassion, here are my two cents. No education? No job? Shape up and get both. Life is tough for everybody. Get a grip.

Karka talked about not passing algebra. How about beginning with cleaning up the act in school and preparing for the SATs?!?

You talk a whole lot about female independence and feminist power and all that, but instead of spurring women to better themselves, you rather condone thoughts of trashy behavior for unsavory motivations.

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YTA, It's summer right now and I already know I failed school and wasn't taking it seriously. This is literally my only chance and I won't screw it up this year. When the time comes I will prepare for it.

posted July 09, 2014 12:00 PM            

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Originally posted by KarkaQueen:
Realize that you are [b]not my father and I take high offense to you trying to baby me like this.[/B]

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And that is really too bad. I don't care who you are: Sasha Obama, Lourdes Ritchie (Madonna) or Hailie Mathers (who btw as valedictorian and now at U. Michigan despite the Eminem stereotype), I will speak my mind all the time. It's only for your own good, even if it irritates you (which means it works).

Good that you will refocus your efforts in school next year. Aspire and inspire. Achieve. Be successful.

posted July 09, 2014 06:34 PM            

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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
I think you are missing my point entirely.

A teenager ought not to even be here, let alone discuss such gibberish. I won't allow my college aged *son,* now a legal adult, to engage in such discussion.

As for compassion, here are my two cents. No education? No job? Shape up and get both. Life is tough for everybody. Get a grip.

Karka talked about not passing algebra. How about beginning with cleaning up the act in school and preparing for the SATs?!?

You talk a whole lot about female independence and feminist power and all that, but instead of spurring women to better themselves, you rather condone thoughts of trashy behavior for unsavory motivations.

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Part of feminism is letting women have the choice to do what they want with their bodies, so thanks for showing me you have no idea what feminism is. I literally said in my post that I wish women didn't have to do this so how is that wanting one to 'bettering oneself?" I'm not going to call someone a ***** because they engage in a sex occupation, your body your choice.

posted July 09, 2014 08:54 PM            

^Seems like the topic's gone a bit out of hand... but to answer your question: I'd be the concubine, contrary to popular belief.

My mom had this decision when she was growing up- not to be a concubine, but to marry a rich man, as some plaything cause she was rather good-looking. She married my dad instead, who was very poor, because he told her that he loved her. Even though she didn't really have feelings for him beyond friendship.

She actually suffered a great deal in their marriage, and was taken away from her family, her friends, and her hometown because she had to live with him. He's also made some really questionable decisions in their relationship that led to both emotional and physical abuse. So, no. I'd prefer not to be the wife.

Being a wife doesn't necessarily mean that you are loved, or that you are treated right.

posted July 09, 2014 09:36 PM            

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Originally posted by BellaFenice:
Part of feminism is letting women have the choice to do what they want with their bodies, so thanks for showing me you have no idea what feminism is. I literally said in my post that I wish women didn't have to do this so how is that wanting one to 'bettering oneself?" I'm not going to call someone a ***** because they engage in a sex occupation, your body your choice.

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It is of no concern to me how you choose to define feminism or lack thereof. Neither my Mrs. nor myself subscribe to any of that. BTW I got myself two As in sociology classes on feminism and gender studies in college, given that you are also focused on education.

Freedom of choice provides one with decision making abilities to choose whatever course of action one would like to undertake. It's my prerogative to opine either way, and it's my opinion in this instance that it is flipping idiotic.

posted July 10, 2014 01:48 AM            

In addition, prostitutes are easier, it's cost of doing business and the ones who are busted are typically broken spirited anyway with nothing to lose. But the johns who DO have something to lose along with money are much more likely to fight it which isn't as sure or profitable (especially if the case is won and the department sued), and worse, you may bust the wrong person (that is offending someone who can hire and fire the police, not necessarily the john busted).

Though I was gobsmacked when someone showed me a vid he recorded of Houston cops talking about businessmen being robbed and they were going to put a stop to it...and then immediately pose as would-be johns picking up boy prostitutes. Were the majority of the TV viewers really too stupid to realize the police were protecting the johns and putting the boy prostitutes back in their place, or is it an open secret so they didn't care?

Though the worst corruption I heard of (in the USA anyway) was a girl who fled her pimp, got busted, and then when she was released 2 men of the pimp were waiting. The Harris County (Houston) deputies didn't save her though they'd have surely caught the abduction on cam which means not only did a deputy call the pimp (who knew to call him) but that others at least turned a blind eye to it. The pimp shot her in the leg to teach her not to escape (she showed me the bullet scar). That's...terrifying.

Though one told me of a better one...news show a place hiring underage exotic dancers and the reporter goes to them who say the girls are all licensed by the police, so go to police who stonewall and then the story disappears...but now people who want an underage girl grinding in his lap (and spend their money there and elsewhere) know where to go so the report was essentially an advertisement. And then I heard of a girl whose probation officer made her give lap dances to pay the fees (though she at least was of age), it was either that or jail.

posted July 10, 2014 09:38 AM            

YOU have no idea what feminism is.

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posted July 10, 2014 10:12 AM            

You are fortunate you can bond with a community because you can see life is bigger than your home. You will not like everyone, of course, but that is a good lesson in life, too

I wish I had more people to connect with when I was your age. I was so alone with my mother and her crazy ideas.

There are some very good people here who love and care for you and I am one of them, as I hope you know

PS Ian cares for your best interest imo

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posted July 10, 2014 11:12 AM            

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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
Wasn't referring to way you said. Sorry.

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posted July 10, 2014 02:56 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
[b]so thanks for showing me you have no idea what feminism is

YOU have no idea what feminism is.

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GIIIIRRRRRRLLLL

BYE

Given your previous and current comments on women, don't even play this game with me.

Obviously having taken 5 classes on feminist studies, reading feminist literature daily, and being a member of a women's graduate club focused on women's rights (inclusive to men though) I clearly do not what the fluck I am talking about. This thread really isn't about feminism so do I really need to write paragraphs on it to defend my point?

posted July 10, 2014 03:45 PM            

It is about respecting yourself. It is about respecting how you interact with men. It is about acting with personal dignity.

It is simple Life 101

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posted July 10, 2014 04:07 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
You don't need to study about feminism to understand it. It is not about what politically correct things like birth control and abortions.

It is about respecting yourself. It is about respecting how you interact with men. It is about acting with personal dignity.

It is simple Life 101

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So how do you understand and know what feminism is if you haven't studied it? So how you would know about Greek literature if you never studied it? You don't.

LOLOLOLOLOL. Women have been fighting for equality for decades, and part of that is the right to use abortion and birth control are things that had (and still do) to be fought for.

It is about respecting yourself. It is about respecting how you interact with men. It is about acting with personal dignity

I see your shade, which is hysterical given you are using one interaction with a man in this post, and raise you one.

Explain to me how your constant bashing of women, including the mutilated genitals and dismissing several posters' past abuse experiences part, is respecting yourself, interactions with women, and personal dignity????

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
This is one thing I have learned on here, but it took me 6 long years and lots of angst. A person can do anything to you on here and if you don't respond, they are fighting with themselves

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Part of respect is following your own advice....

posted July 10, 2014 07:45 PM            

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Originally posted by Yin:
This thread is cringe-worthy.
I thought this was not a sex forum, especially where minors are concerned.

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What's not allowed on this forum is phone sex operator talk. That is no explicit sexual directions, fantasies, or recollections. If it would get filed under porn or erotica then it doesn't go here.

However, this thread hasn't been about that and therefore is still firmly in safe territory. What's been shared here wouldn't get filed under porn, it would get put in social science. Its focus is history and social issues, not graphic sex talk. This thread is meant to inform (and occasionally to annoy) rather than to titillate. If you can't tell the difference then call a phone sex operator, and what's said there are good examples of what's not allowed in this forum.

posted July 10, 2014 07:53 PM            

"When a man talks dirty to a woman it's sexual harassment. When a woman talks dirty to a man it's $3.95 a minute." --unknown