posted July 31, 2013 10:07 AM            

The funniest thing about that situtation is the have thought she was a have because she/her family had something we didn`t. They owned the general store. But, her Dad extended so much credit to our families, he didn`t have 2 pennies to rub together. She was in fact, poorer than we were.

Life isn`t always what it seems or we believe it to be .

Have a good day ladies!!

posted July 31, 2013 04:55 PM            

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Thank you, T!

I don't think I have any special talent except sheer belligerence, which comes in handy sometimes.

Honestly, I've seen you handle several conflicts much better than I ever could. You often walk away when things get too crazy, and let people think whatever they want. Now that's dignified.

You and Charmaine were arguing last time I checked and I hope Charmaine will not read my comment above as referring to your argument with her. I really can't make sense of that one and kind of don't even want to, since I like you both a lot.

Sh*t just happens. (Sorry for the expletive, Randall, but it does!)

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Thank you I don't see any belligerence coming from you ever!

Last time I checked charmaine and I were not arguing. She did come into a recent thread to lash out at me, out of anger, as she admitted here. But before that we werent really connecting. I think you have to be speaking to someone to be arguing with them, which we were not doing before that.

posted July 31, 2013 05:05 PM            

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Also, my fondness or liking certain individuals is not based on who they're friends with or who they associate with. I don't roll that way. It's based on our interactions with each other.

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Same here. & that's what got me annoyed recently when I found out someone was requesting people to choose sides, hoping to get people against me.

Not sure why I am not allowed to be upset by that and it made me the bad guy. Luckily I get over things quickly.

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No, Faith, I don't think you are referring to me.Our arguments don't have to make sense to anyone else. Others should just let us be and not interfere, especially if they don't understand what it's about.

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They don't make senses to me either. Youve made clear "what it's about", but I don't see how it's still considered some sort of ongoing argument between us? I honestly did not think we were in one. I can tell you hate me, but I've moved on...

I'd like it if your anger for me was not made out to be some sort of ongoing fued, sort of soap opera-like. I do not see it that way and am not holding onto anything and don't think you should be either. I find it interesting to read what you wrote there though and see how you percieve our interactions....? Like there is so much history, drama or mystery behind it. There isnt.

posted July 31, 2013 05:09 PM            

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Originally posted by juniperb:

As adults, we shouldn`t have to make choices based on anothers whim but like you said, based on our personal interactions .

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posted August 01, 2013 07:39 AM            

Now you may be thinking that it sounds like people we have karma to balance out with, yes to a certain extend. Soul groups desire to be incarnated at more less the same time but it's also for the sake of divine purpose of the soul group and also elevate the vibration of the soul group to bring us closer to the Source or "God".

Astrology can give us clues to our soul groups, sometimes we just "know" with certain individuals and we can use astrology as a tool/ guide to verify it.

From my own experience, I noted that people within a soul group may have grown up with similar experiences or had similar life experiences. Sometimes there an instant mutual feeling of empathy between these individuals even if there were a few negative interactions between them. Belonging to a soul group does not imply that all of our interactions with them will rosy or pleasant (a common misconception).

On another note about soul group "purposes"; some may be good or some may be negative. The use of the word purpose is not synonymous with good alone.( Another topic altogether).

Sooo, although we belong/ connected to a soul group, we need to remember that we are still on a individual path and we need to be true to ourselves at all times.

posted August 02, 2013 02:30 PM            

I'm in somewhat of a rush but just wanted to say

I need to go to Thailand!

Thank you for describing it, Charmaine, I got a palpable feeling for how it might be, just from your vivid account. I feel like I left part of my soul there even though I was never there...maybe just the peaceful respectful atmosphere is what I am longing for.

It's funny you mentioned Australia and the back-talking...I am reading the memoir of Jenna Miscavige Hill who was brought up in Scientology, and she was talking about how shocked she was when she visited, on very rare occasions, with non-Scientologist children who were back-talking and being bratty. Jenna's upbringing was like hell on earth but at least she learned her manners.

I love what you said about soul groups. Although I still don't understand too much...I guess it's something that must remain just a theory. I do see how people are interlinked in very meaningful ways but can't fathom how this could be a continuation from a past life. And I can't quite figure out how my present relationships could play out in a future life.

For instance, I'm estranged from my sister. Were we enemies in another life, thrown together in the same family to try and work this out, but here we are again with a total breakdown? Or...?

I do think my tight Venus-Saturn conjunction with my husband (I'm Venus) which I also shared with my father (whose Saturn is conjunct my husband's, almost exactly) is very karmic and feels like a multi-lifetime situation. I recognized that with my husband early on, when people were like, "Why on earth are you two getting together??" and my answer was like, "I dunno...just trust me I HAVE to." Something like that.

posted August 02, 2013 02:32 PM            

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Nice for me that most people can make up their own minds and are adult enough to choose their friends themself.

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posted August 05, 2013 08:20 AM            

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Why on earth are you two getting together??" and my answer was like, "I dunno...just trust me I HAVE to." Something like that.

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Very same here. Mine is much younger and different is many of lifes aspects. Yet, I said about the same thing when
shocked folks asked the same question. Trust me, it`s right for us was my reply. I/we felt the very "soul connection" the moment we locked eyes.

posted August 06, 2013 08:14 AM            

Faith, I read this and thought of you:
http://m.huffpost.com/us/entry/3617506

Just popping in - my Mom's coming over to watch the girls while I go to the doc, and I need to straighten up bit while they spend time with their other babysitter (a Peter Pan movie).
My Mom has a Cancer Asc...a messy house won't do

posted August 06, 2013 10:03 AM            

Awww, that's cute~ Peter Pan is "the babysitter."

My daughter's first crush was on the cartoon Peter Pan. She would blush when talking about him. Come to think of it, that's the only crush she's ever admitted to me, apart from some Russian figure skater whose name I can't spell (but I looked him up on wikipedia a while ago and noticed he's a late degree Pisces... her sun is trine his. )

I liked that HuffPo article! The woman writes so well. My youngest is three and still in diapers I'm sorry to say. I bought him a potty that vrooms loudly like a racecar when full and it traumatized him. We're in recovery for now.

For the past two nights he's been sick with a cold, keeping me up all hours bringing him water, hugging him, chatting about random stuff (his sun is right on the Taurus-Gemini Cusp...but he sure is talkative!)

So I don't feel like I am in the sweet spot just yet, but I look forward to it! Assuming I haven't been permanently damaged by what the author calls The Blur

@juni

So you are older than your hubby? How neat, I never would have guessed! My Aquarius brother is 18 years younger than his wife.

Maybe it's a Uranus thing because I have an Aqua DSC and my husband has sun conjunct Uranus exact. Hmmm

(If you didn't know, he is 18 years older than me. Hence the uproar when we got engaged after one date...well, amongst other things. But in my defense transiting Pluto was right on our Venus-Saturn conjunction! What's a girl to do??)

posted August 06, 2013 12:11 PM            

No I didn`t know your hubby was 18 yrs older. Neat as he is all grown up. I`m still raising mine

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posted August 10, 2013 07:30 PM            

That was just an example.

posted August 12, 2013 08:38 AM            

My sister was diagnosed with schizophrenia and bipolar disorder. She abandoned the family after our father died. Moved across the country and after a few years stopped answering our emails and phone calls. Maybe I can forgive her, but I don't know how.

I love her and have fond memories...but I also have a lot of bitterness from the difficulties she imposed on me, her schemes and betrayals...well, what do I expect, she is clinically insane.

Her sun and Mercury (and possibly her moon) are almost exactly opposed to my sun; in synastry, her planets turn my Cardinal t-square into a grand cross. Heavy cross to bear!

*Hug* Thank you for talking about it with me.

Hope you have a nice day~

posted August 27, 2013 01:26 AM            

Thought I'd give you some "space". Picked up on you not feeling too comfortable me prior to you mentioning your sister.

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posted August 27, 2013 11:37 AM            

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Originally posted by charmainec:
Didn't forget about you, Faith.

Thought I'd give you some "space". Picked up on you not feeling too comfortable me prior to you mentioning your sister.

Anyhow, hope you had a good weekend.

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I don't understand what you mean. I don't remember being uncomfortable about anything.

posted August 27, 2013 11:45 AM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Faith, Does your sister have Sun cazimi Mercury?

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I just checked...no.

Her sun: 14.51 Cancer
Mercury: 17.45 Cancer

The moon was in Cancer that day, and I'll bet it was conjunct both of them, or exactly on one....there has to be something freaky with her moon.

What orb do you use for a cazimi?

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An Arabian astronomical term applied to the center of the Solar disc. It is employed to describe a planet located within an arc of seventeen minutes (17') of the Sun's longitude: or by some authorities within half a degree of the Sun's center.

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If you allow a thirty minute orb, my brother might have one:

His sun: 17.28 Aquarius
Mercury: 17. 54 Aquarius

^ Though I don't have his birth time.