posted December 18, 2014 02:45 PM            

Bye Violets ...

posted December 18, 2014 02:49 PM            

Yes, I suppose the emojis are my Gem Mars. I can't sit still or let my text sit still.

Looking forward to food pics and food envy.

Oh and you're always welcome for the compliments.

@Bella

I don't get the tea joke.

posted December 18, 2014 03:02 PM            

Erm...regardless of...eh...whatever this is.

posted December 18, 2014 03:04 PM            

Thank you for not holding these threads against me. Or, concealing the matter, if you do.

Hope your life is going smoothly.

posted December 18, 2014 03:09 PM            

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posted December 18, 2014 03:10 PM            

We're all hanging in there with these transits, we're in it together, right? My Saturn is at 12 degrees Cancer, and my Moon at 5 degrees Virgo, so I'm pretty pleased with myself this time around, all things considered.

posted December 18, 2014 03:38 PM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
@PD

Yes, I suppose the emojis are my Gem Mars. I can't sit still or let my text sit still.

Looking forward to food pics and food envy.

Oh and you're always welcome for the compliments.

@Bella

I don't get the tea joke.

#OldLadiesCan'tHearYoungPeople

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posted December 18, 2014 03:40 PM            

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Originally posted by Randall:
Hey, Violets!

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posted December 18, 2014 03:45 PM            

I'm set to explode on March 16th when the Pluto-Uranus square exactly overlaps my cardinal t-square.

I was just thinking of you the other night...someone mentioned Leos and I remembered our talks about our Leo hubbies.

It's no wonder that you show up right after I was thinking about you. You've always been weirdly psychic.

In fact, I started a "Let's Play Psychic" thread in Sweet Peas and kept hoping you would show up and perform some tricks But that's okay...Juni was a good stand in.

posted December 18, 2014 03:47 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
There's lots of old farts in here. lol

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posted December 18, 2014 03:48 PM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
@PD

Yes, I suppose the emojis are my Gem Mars. I can't sit still or let my text sit still.

Looking forward to food pics and food envy.

Oh and you're always welcome for the compliments.

@Bella

I don't get the tea joke.

#OldLadiesCan'tHearYoungPeople

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posted December 18, 2014 03:54 PM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
Yay, glad you're hanging in there with these transits, Violets.

I'm set to explode on March 16th when the Pluto-Uranus square exactly overlaps my cardinal t-square.

I was just thinking of you the other night...someone mentioned Leos and I remembered our talks about our Leo hubbies.

It's no wonder that you show up right after I was thinking about you. You've always been weirdly psychic.

In fact, I started a "Let's Play Psychic" thread in Sweet Peas and kept hoping you would show up and perform some tricks But that's okay...Juni was a good stand in.

Happy holidays to you and yours, too.

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Ha! I was just making a comment about how there are too many Leos in my house right now (or Leo placements)! My husband, and his dad, and then his dad and I have our Leo ACs within a few degrees of each other, and his wife has Mars and Pluto in Leo. Then there's my Taurus son, and it's like one big, stubborn, overly opinionated brouhaha.

posted December 18, 2014 04:06 PM            

My Leo ASC roars with gratitude that you stoked my ego by remembering my Pisces moon.

Lots of Pisces energy here:

-My wife PisceanDream is a Pisces sun, conjunct yours more or less.
-Her paramour BellaFenice is a Pisces moon.
-Our commune director Juniperb probably has a progressed sun in Pisces.
-And our mascot aquaguy, he's working on getting to pr Pisces sun, too...til then he is just running drinks out to us on the beach.
-DF has 12H planets and that's why his position here isn't exactly settled yet, he's more ghostlike...but in a good way.

Oh oh oh and T is a mermaid so...

You definitely will fit right back in here if ever you want to swim with us again.

All the best to you!

ETA:

Oops it just got heavy again (see below) ....I see why you may not want to swim here after all.

posted December 18, 2014 04:07 PM            

To answer your statement, PisceanDream, no the Spirit of Darkness despite her "niceties" (including making illogical statements about my commentary-you ain't slick down there) does not bother me. Because we both know she cannot touch me, despite her attempts over the past couple of months to try and put me down. Why? I am clearly a threat to her whole existence, and any other woman on this site as well who is outspoken, confident, and willing to challenge her distorted views on women. Belittling my opinion doesn't make me feel some type of way, because really it is just a reflection of low self-esteem- it is way easier to drag other people down than to a take a deep breathe and really look in the mirror. Actually, I feel sorry for her, because all of the repeated thread topics show a lack of inner growth that could be easily addressed by intensive therapy.

People who won't accept who they are often go at others, and the fact I constantly here the chirping of "oh, just ignore" followed by a passive-aggressive attack proves this. That is a message from the subconscious mind that one is afraid to deal with the inner demons. The issues with those who hurt us are from the past, but the wounds are still fresh - but in reality it's that inner demon who keeps opening up old wounds until you acknowledge and tame it. And that is why she gets very close to members who have issues with women, it feeds the inner demons. Take a step back and see the bigger picture, is going after people really going to help you find peace?

7th Guardian can back me up on this statement, he feels quite similar to me.

Hiding behind emoticons, oh I will ignore you, and throwing the Bible in my face does not justify meanness. It is a way to bait and switch people, which is highly evident in the thread. T cannot say one thing without her getting harassed, and why this is I do not know. I do not care for this because it is not right no matter what excuse you want to justify for it. This is a blatant misuse of power, for T merely acknowledged she didn't like Ellyn's comment and there was no need to rip her head off. It is no secret they don't get along, so why would T want some sort of fake sympathy? Why do you think I ignore all of Ami's "nice" comments towards me? She doesn't mean it, not one word of it. This is a just a passive-aggressive way of being rude to someone.

On that note, yes Randall I do agree with you that everyone does have the right to post wherever, I cannot really disagree with that. But...why have the three of you all of a sudden jump into our threads? Doesn't that seem...suspicious? This is why I went hard at you the other day, because it was blatantly obvious that you wanted to rile us all up and get tension continually brewing. The past few months I never seen any of you highly post in my threads, so the motive here is very questionable. It is a very easy instigative tactic, which I will not fall for.

However, I would appreciate it if you did not speak for me, because I can speak for myself. More importantly, that was a blatant attempt at trying to cause derision between me and my friends. It won't work though, because loyalty is the most important value I have. I am very loyal to anyone who gives me their helping hand. That is why I despite the arguments DeepFreeze and I have gotten into over the past months, I will be there for him if needed. You extend your hand to me, I give my hand back. No questions asked.

Which brings me to the next point: every single decision made the past 72-hours has been calculated. I am not an idiot, I can read between the lines. Picking a new moderator that has tension between three out of the four in the "clique" (which is funny, because I would say the same thing about the welcome barbie to SP thread) is a very good method to create more tension and divisive tactics to make us all angry, I'm not taking the bait though. It is clear that by having your new mod at the H&H and SP threads where we frequent a lot, you have a better chance of not only stifling what we want to say, but also the chance we will get banned through a slip up from anger or rebellion.

I know I have a target on my back, which is why I dropped this quote in the first place:

"Psychological manipulation is similar to a chess game, only the pawns are people and the outcomes are deeper than a simple checkmate. People who manipulate will employ tactics on the grid to make you play the game, and ultimately give into their desires. So how you do beat someone who employs psychological warfare? Don't play the game- step off the grid and don't feed into their games. Once you walk off the grid, you not only win the game, but also win the game of life."

Have you noticed that despite the fact Barbie has the most issues with me I have not once communicated with her? I refuse to play the game, simply. The idea here is to make us get upset with the new power she has and get on the offensive. I have stepped off the grid and will not play the game. Barbie is only being used as collateral, and it is sad to see what the consequences have become. She is simply a pawn in the game used for an agenda.

Barbie, I want to make this clear to you: I am NOT the enemy. None of us are. Have you noticed that you are the only mod to receive a thread praising your leadership after only being a mod for a few days? You are being used here, to cause tension between the groups. What everyone wants here is for me and you to go at it- I refuse to do this. Despite what has gone on between us, deep down inside I know you are really hurting and outside of LL I guarantee our interactions would be different. The real consequence here is that it is causing tension between you and DF, as it is very clear to me that you and DF are being highly affected from the crap on LL. Step off the grid and take your power back- no one's personal life should ever be impacted by this site, ever. As soon as your purpose is done, you will get turned on and thrown away like the rest of us 'users.'

Which brings me to my next point: it is never okay to infringe upon someone's personal life, and I would like the rules of LL to be modified to reflect this. I do not care if Jesus in the flesh pops in here, no one should ever have personal information or their lives impacted outside of LL due to manipulative tactics. I may have been involved in some fights, but this is one fight I want no part of. So I may have been the quietest one in the group about this whole mess, but that doesn't mean I am compliant.

In fact, it means the opposite. I may not be playing chess with everyone else, but my eyes and ears are open. To show solidarity and protest the fact personal information and lives being messed with, here is real name: Carla. There. Now the whole world can see my name, users and browsers alike. No one deserves their personal information shared without consent. I encourage anyone else who feels the same to drop their name too. It doesn't bother me, because I will stand by my principles, no matter the consequences.

You can lock the thread if you want, but that would be taking the easy way out. Real change comes from addressing the issues concerning LL right now, not sweeping them under the rug. Instead ignoring questions, see them as an opportunity for growth. I'm not hiding and neither should you. Ignoring does not solve anything.

Just adding my unvalued and unnecessary two cents as a "user."

posted December 18, 2014 04:10 PM            

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Originally posted by BellaFenice:
You will.

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posted December 18, 2014 04:22 PM            

TALKING about it is stepping ON the grid.

If you want to step off the grid, do that, but you can't be both on the grid and off the grid LOL

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posted December 18, 2014 04:26 PM            

I have to think things over before replying. I sent you my unfiltered thoughts over email and have to consider how to say that without it coming off the wrong way.

I don't wish anyone any harm, that's for sure.

Hope everyone heals from whatever is ailing them, heart mind body & soul.

posted December 18, 2014 04:59 PM            

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Originally posted by Ellynlvx:
Oh, thanks, Ami.

Really was worried about you, T.

Love is difficult.

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Another attempt at riling me up Ellyn?

You really were worried? Whatever for? Nothing's wrong.

Seeing as I am not in love and haven't been for quite some time and have never been in love with Randall, which I think is what you are trying to imply, by saying that - that is a very odd comment to make.

Or are you saying you love me and it's difficult for you because you worry about people like me when nothing is even wrong?

I don't for one second believe you were worried about me and anyway what for???

Oh, because "love is difficult". lol

It is? I've never found it to be.

Seeing as I've never mentioned being in love or even anything for anyone to be "worried" about, I find it highly suspicious comment for you to make and guess you are trying to upset me with it.

Yeah, that shows you're really worried about me to make that comment.

Don't talk to me here again Ellyn. It's clear what you are trying to do ONCE AGAIN and I don't appreciate it.

posted December 18, 2014 04:59 PM            

Instead of handling this like an adult, in which you could've easily clicked on my email address and emailed me, we resort to more drama and public call-outs. So fine, here ya go. I'll take a swing at YOUR game.

I think it's pretty clear as day that I don't like you, everyone here knows it, strangers who Google this site and see the last few times we've communicated know this. I am sick of every damned time I comment anywhere it's a motive to bait, harass or taunt you. It is not.

I DO NOT, I repeat, DO NOT have any use for you, do you really think I'm that bitter? That I'd harass you? Do you really think what you think or feel of me is that important to me? No, Bella you are not what I think about when I close my eyes at night, and open them in the morning. Stop acting as if the site runs around YOUR feelings, it doesn't. It revolves around the feelings of the entire community. My life and motives do not include you. My world does not revolve around you.

The last few times that I've commented on a thread that you so happen to be apart of, has never been to taunt you. That same logic could be applied to you then, as any thread that I've commented on you still address me, without actually addressing me. I haven't talked to Violets and got excited when I saw her reply here. My earlier post in the exact thread was to help get the thread back on topic, as it's clearly stated right under the picture that I posted.

I would really appreciate it if you wouldn't stick your nose in my business. It's of ZERO concern of yours. Mind your own business and don't worry about me.

Before Randall asked me to be a mod, the only person that I had a "problem with" was you. As soon as I accepted it I was thrown in with the wolves like a bag of meat. Did I take it personally? No, the only thing I took and will take personally is when private things that I've shared here have been thrown in my face. I have gone through SOOO much my 22 short years on this Earth, you really have no clue. People whom I thought I could trust throwing their *help* in my face as if talking with them, getting personal, asking for advise is a dammed Godsend. Same with you throwing your troubles with suicide in my face, you have no idea how much that hurt me, deeply. Just because I didn't or don't address those issues doesn't mean that I didn't care. I apologized if what I said hurt you, as that was never my intention, but of course no one saw or read that.

Yes, the drama that unfolded here unfortunately triggered the WORST fight my husband and I have ever had and it's been killing me since then. Happy now? None of you would have even known had he not thrown hints here and there. I would appreciate it if you'd allow us to settle and fix the issue on our own. Butt out, it's of zero concern of any of you. Thank you.

Clearly the biggest issue you have is with yourself. Stop being so paranoid, move on. Have a great life and I'll do the same.

"You can't fix yourself by breaking someone else."

posted December 18, 2014 05:08 PM            

It hurts to be thrown under the bus, it's something I personally have experienced quite a few times but I've always believed in the Almodovarian concept of "kindness from strangers". If I didn't, we'd have never met each other. Extending a hand is all it takes to open gateways for beautiful friendships and relationships. Ones that open your heart and mind and heal you.

Barbie, I just want to tell you to be wary of falling into any traps. Think long and hard about what you wish to say and really try to get a feel of what Bella's post is getting at.

It's upsetting because this whole drama began as a result of emotional and mental manipulation. I hope it doesn't end on this note.

I have nothing more to say on this matter as I feel I've said all that I can through my incessant urging and dare I say nagging to inspire a realization about the hurtful and toxic dynamics that play out here. No more flying off the handle because it's stressful and unnecessary. As Faith said, no one deserves to be harmed in this.