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Topic: The Truly Happy People Place
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BellaFenice Knowflake Posts: 2282 From: Sparkles the Unicorn-When will your faves? Registered: Sep 2013
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posted December 18, 2014 05:15 PM
quote: Originally posted by T: Sorry, girls. I'm too sickened by that last passive aggressive jab at me to reply to more right now.
Its okay, do you what you need to do. But just know, you are not alone and that was the whole point of the my post. No one can take away your value. Speak your truth, no matter what the cost is. IP: Logged |
PisceanDream Knowflake Posts: 1381 From: Here Registered: Jun 2014
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posted December 18, 2014 05:19 PM
quote: Originally posted by BellaFenice: Its okay, do you what you need to do. But just know, you are not alone and that was the whole point of the my post. No one can take away your value. Speak your truth, no matter what the cost is.
Bella your words... Hit my heart so deeply. To the point of tears. T, you always have me to reach out to and all of these wonderful women. Please know this, take your time to heal. But as Bella said, "no one can take away your value". Let this echo in your head, darling. IP: Logged |
T Knowflake Posts: 11537 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 18, 2014 05:19 PM
Bella, a huge thank you to you. Thank you for speaking up. That is all I can say for right now. IP: Logged |
BellaFenice Knowflake Posts: 2282 From: Sparkles the Unicorn-When will your faves? Registered: Sep 2013
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posted December 18, 2014 05:20 PM
You are welcome. I am always there for people I care about.  IP: Logged |
T Knowflake Posts: 11537 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 18, 2014 05:28 PM
PD thank you too. Her words hit me deeply there as well.I have things to heal from, but they have nothing to do with anyone from LL. I'd like people to really understand that and let it sink in. And for the most part I really am okay. I'm not wounded by what's gone on here recently or in the past. I have been angry about some things, but I think people are taking that and misinterpreting it. So, I don't need to take time to heal from anything or anyone here. I'm not sure how else to explain....
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BellaFenice Knowflake Posts: 2282 From: Sparkles the Unicorn-When will your faves? Registered: Sep 2013
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posted December 18, 2014 05:32 PM
No, I get it. You do not need to explain, nor do you have to justify anything related to your wounds. As long as you know there a lot of people here that care for you, that is all that matters to me.That is something I think about when I have bad day, remembering all the people on here who showed me compassion. Life is what you make of it, and I do not regret any of the decisions I made because they make me who I am today. IP: Logged |
PisceanDream Knowflake Posts: 1381 From: Here Registered: Jun 2014
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posted December 18, 2014 05:33 PM
I understand T... You don't owe anyone an explanation. Do you. I hope to hear only good news from you in the next few days/weeks/months or however long.  You are most welcome. IP: Logged |
PisceanDream Knowflake Posts: 1381 From: Here Registered: Jun 2014
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posted December 18, 2014 05:34 PM
^Bella, why are we in sync right now? Minute apart too  IP: Logged |
T Knowflake Posts: 11537 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 18, 2014 05:34 PM
This is me right now  because of you two. There are no words besides Thank You right now. IP: Logged |
PisceanDream Knowflake Posts: 1381 From: Here Registered: Jun 2014
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posted December 18, 2014 05:35 PM
Nothing more beautiful than collective empathy. Truly. IP: Logged |
teasel Knowflake Posts: 6586 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 18, 2014 05:45 PM
I'm only wounded by things that keep happening, because of what was happening in my offline life. I've been trying, but I think the past few years have destroyed me. My sister, and mum doesn't remember her part, because she was drunk most of the time. other people who took sides, without actually being here - and I was just supposed to be okay once she left? But this is supposed to be a happy thread. I'll be back with something happy. IP: Logged |
BellaFenice Knowflake Posts: 2282 From: Sparkles the Unicorn-When will your faves? Registered: Sep 2013
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posted December 18, 2014 06:16 PM
quote: Originally posted by teasel: I'm only wounded by things that keep happening, because of what was happening in my offline life. I've been trying, but I think the past few years have destroyed me. My sister, and mum doesn't remember her part, because she was drunk most of the time. other people who took sides, without actually being here - and I was just supposed to be okay once she left? But this is supposed to be a happy thread. I'll be back with something happy.
It is okay, feel better soon.  IP: Logged |
BellaFenice Knowflake Posts: 2282 From: Sparkles the Unicorn-When will your faves? Registered: Sep 2013
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posted December 18, 2014 06:21 PM
I have a cool game we all can play too when everyone is feeling better!Take care everyone.  IP: Logged |
T Knowflake Posts: 11537 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 18, 2014 06:21 PM
quote: Originally posted by Faith:
@Ellyn, if you read the threads, you know that T is beyond over it. Your statement of "compassion" here ignores everything she has been saying, implies that she has been disingenous, and is therefore not compassionate. It would be much more compassionate for you heed to her request and keep some distance.
The funny thing is she proves my point and the reason I knew some things needed to be cleared up to people here in the first place. Thanks for understanding it Faith. btw that pizza looks AMAZING! Thank you for bringing it  IP: Logged |
T Knowflake Posts: 11537 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 18, 2014 06:23 PM
Cat, Hi Glad to hear it's getting fixed. & happy holidays to you too.  IP: Logged |
T Knowflake Posts: 11537 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 18, 2014 06:26 PM
quote: Originally posted by BellaFenice: I have a cool game we all can play too when everyone is feeling better!Take care everyone. 
Sounds good! Tonight I just wanna curl up with my pup and catch up on some of my shows. Look forward to playing a new game later  Love to you and you too teasel.  IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 59240 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted December 18, 2014 09:17 PM
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BellaFenice Knowflake Posts: 2282 From: Sparkles the Unicorn-When will your faves? Registered: Sep 2013
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posted December 18, 2014 09:36 PM
quote: Originally posted by T: This is me right now  because of you two. There are no words besides Thank You right now.
Just never forget what I said, ever. I know what it is like to feel your life has been destroyed by someone/something. IP: Logged |
PisceanDream Knowflake Posts: 1381 From: Here Registered: Jun 2014
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posted December 18, 2014 10:05 PM
I agree with Bella, so much wisdom. Wow. Such a well of knowledge and experience. I know what it's like, too... Amazing. Great minds think alike. IP: Logged |
T Knowflake Posts: 11537 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 19, 2014 06:16 AM
quote: Originally posted by BellaFenice: Just never forget what I said, ever. I know what it is like to feel your life has been destroyed by someone/something.
I won't ever forget it. You are a really special person and i'm so glad you have been speaking up here and sharing your self with us. And it's not a good feeling. Besides the little issue here I know that feeling and the effects moreso from people in my families own choices and how they've seriously effected me and my life. I know I will always be trying to pick up the pieces from those scenarios. They won't ever go away. All we can do is our best to rise above it and better our lives. Not always easy. Thanks for the love. The very best to you  IP: Logged |
T Knowflake Posts: 11537 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 19, 2014 06:20 AM
teasel, i know how hard issues from family can be to heal from. I'm really hoping this holiday turns out to be just as you'd hoped and makes up for the other ones that didn't turn out so well. I just saw your email this morning and have sent you one.Hang in there my friend. IP: Logged |
T Knowflake Posts: 11537 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 19, 2014 06:34 AM
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HAHAHHAHAHAH Are you really Irish? Me and Bella are. That's why I'll be drinking "liquid bread" 
I am So no wonder I like you two so much! I haven't had a Guinness in forever!!!! Yes, it's a meal in a glass! Maybe we could all open up juni's e-card again ( http://www.jacquielawson.com/viewcard.asp?code=0212320003 ) and head off with those people to that lovely looking pub Now wouldn't that be fun?! btw Veggie pizza is my pizza of choice too. If i order delivery, it's always a veggie supreme. Recently I made my own except with a white sauce and fresh sliced mozz and ricotta cheeses on top of the cheesy béchamel based sauce. it came out soooooo good. I might do it again tonight now that i mention it. That one was loaded with artichokes, broccoli, cauliflower, roasted red peppers, caramelized onions, mushrooms, spinach, garlic, black olives. Different than a typical veggie pizza, but a veg pizza nonetheless. YUM. I looked up potato leek pizzas and that is one i will def. have to try some time too.  IP: Logged |
T Knowflake Posts: 11537 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 19, 2014 06:41 AM
btw has anyone tried to make a cauliflower pizza crust?Been wanting to for awhile now. Here's one recipe for it: http://recipes.sparkpeople.com/recipe-detail.asp?recipe=249048 IP: Logged |
PisceanDream Knowflake Posts: 1381 From: Here Registered: Jun 2014
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posted December 19, 2014 08:37 AM
^Yummmmmmmmmmmm! That looks delicious! T, do you enjoy cooking?IP: Logged |
Faith Knowflake Posts: 9544 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted December 19, 2014 09:41 AM
quote: Originally posted by PisceanDream: Nothing more beautiful than collective empathy. Truly.
 Yes. IP: Logged |