posted July 13, 2015 04:27 PM            

Manglik Considerations
Male is not Manglik and
Female is not Manglik.
Hence there is no Manglik Dosh.

Match Analysis

Varan Match Analysis 1 / 1

The boy and the girl both comes under Shudra varan. This is a very good combination. They will help each other to be more efficient and effective. Domestic affairs will be mutually taken care well by both of them. They will also promote their living standard and status. Since, both are hard working individual and appreciate each other’s work quite often. Good communication and sharing of labour will make work easier. In short, both are compatible as far as other gunas are concerned.

Vaishya Match Analysis 2 / 2

The boy and the girl both belongs to Manav vashya. This combination indicates mutual interests and the ability to resolve problems through clear thinking and communication. They can help each other, achieve goals and objectives through stimulating each others mental processes and conveying useful information. The natives can also work together effectively to promote family status. They will have lot of love and respect for each other. Therefore, this guna matched well.

Tara Match Analysis 3 / 3

The boy’s tara is Sampat and the girl belongs to Atimitra tara. This will be a happy and fruitful match, as these two people have a sound understanding of each other’s needs. They also have innately co-operative spirits and will allow each other a fair degree of independence and assertiveness. The natives will be loyal friends and can accomplish much that is constructive through mutual co- operation. THEY WILL COLLECTIVELY FIGHT BACK IN ODD Ë ADVERSE SITUATONS

(the best I've ever read ^^)

Yoni Match Analysis 1 / 4

The boy’s yoni is Ashwa and the girl belongs to Vyaghra yoni. Not very good prospects for happy cohabitation here. He is too versatile, high strung and out going for the organised, proper and dedicated lady. He is always giddy excitement and she is too gober to share his zest. He finds her very respectable but too undemonstrative and rigid. She feels, she can not depend on him because of his light hearted and unpredictable moods. He finds her honourless and difficult to work or play with. This is also not a very satisfactory union as far as physical relations are concerned.

(^ I can tell you / I LOVE To touch and hug which my personal yardstick for love / without it there would be nothing / At least and God thank we're not driven by lust for each other)

Griha Match Analysis 5 / 5

The boy’s rasi lord is Saturn and the girl comes under Venus lordship. This is a very good combination as far as grah maitry is concerned. The boy can help the girl to find emotional and social security. The girl can draw out the boy, providing love, warmth, beauty, grace and sociability. They will also develops lot of liking of each other. In the midst of adversities, both will come out gracefully and face the situations boldly.This combination also strengthen the over all compatibility in the charts.

Gan Match Analysis 6 / 6

The boy and the girl both comes under Rakshasha gan. This is one of the best combination as far as gan guna compatibility is concerned. The natives bring out each other’s qualities of patience, hard work, prudence and fore sight. In marital relationships, this combination enhances the durability of the union. The natives adherence to principle and mutual responsibility will make them stead fast and loyal friends. There could be mutual mutual interest in making the home a place of peace, spiritual retreat, mediation or religious or educational activity.Both natives will be interested in helping those less fortune than themselves.

Bhakoot Match Analysis 0 / 7

The boy’s bhakoot rasi is Kumbha and the girl comes under Tula bhakoot. This is not a good combination as far as bhakoot compatibility is concerned. The girl is likely to regard the boy as cold, harsh, unfeeling, insensitive and disciplinarian. The boy may regard the girl as lazy, superficial and irresponsible. This is also not a very conducive combination for progeny. There could be a danger of lack of children or premature demise of children may takes place.

(The latter ^ can't be an issue anymore )

Nadi Match Analysis 8 / 8

posted July 13, 2015 10:03 PM            

I found an interesting discussion on it with a very respectable vedic astrologer (S. Rath). So, for what I understand this has to be a VERY important Kuta as it's all based on "day-to-day living".

His words;

(Lagna = ascendant / Janma = Moon)

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Dear Hari
1. Dina Kuta means mating of charts or compatibility for 'day to day living and sharing of happiness and sorrow'. The word dina simply means day and refers to the day to day living and sharing.

2. Dina Kuta is based on the Navatara chakra which is all too well known for astrologers. The transit of the natal Moon on the various naksatra is judged to give favorable and unfavorable results to the mind and its perception of the various events. The transit in naksatra 3,5 and 7 from Janma rasi are considered very unfavorable. This is the basis for the dina kuta matching. The point is that when two people marry then they should be supportive of each other during the days of worry and troubles. For example on a day when the Moon is in the 3rd from janma naksatra of the boy and he is sorrowful then this should be strong for the bride and she should be able to support him to tide over the difficulties. That is the reason why dina kuta is necessary.

3. To understand the working of Dina Kuta you have to study the janma and lagna naksatra of the couple and determine their compatibility in both the janma naksatra i.e. Moon naksatra as well as lagna naksatra. If dina kuta is not present in the janma naksatra matching then the couple will never really become very close to each other and they will not be of any support to each other during difficult days and sharing will be low. On the other hand if dina kuta is not present from lagna naksatra then they cannot agree on major issues and should be advised to respect the views of their partner instead of getting into meaningless arguments.
This is also one of the reasons why marriage between couples having the same janma naksatra was not encouraged.
I have given a class on the various aspects of mariage compatibility in Delhi last week and you can ask someone to mail the notes.
Best Wishes
Sanjay Rath

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So, the Lagna (ascendant) is also very important to look at when it comes to tara/kuta as we see.

But I wonder.. most texts talk about counting from the Woman's Moon to that of the Man. And if you get a result of 2,4,6,8,9,11,13,15,18,20,24 or 26 then Dina porutham will be Good.

But all or most online calculators take it BOTH ways. So, ALSO from the Man's Moon to that of the woman. That's why u get a score of 1,5 OR 3.

posted July 14, 2015 04:28 AM            

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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
Honestly, I'm not sure how this could be achieved, since we're living under the same stars. There can be only one truth, when it comes to the same system. But I am willing to understand the theory behind establishing this compatibility: the astrological theory. The animal food chain doesn't do it for me though, I hope not everything is based on something like that.

EDIT: also giving verdicts of incompatible/compatible for marriage is a pretty big thing in astrology and people's lives, so it better have a sound astrological background to even be taken to further study.

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Hey, Leel, it is not literally biology. Should I throw some light? And as I have said earlier it is a preliminary test after which in reality those charts that identify with any of the 8 doshas are further analyzed using Navamsa and 7th house, Jupiter placements and Venus chart. Navamsa being the strongest.

But most "commercial made by marketing astrologers" use this system to mislead and exploit people just like Doctors who declare a "Cancer" the moment they see a lump. The problem is this exploitation has been ongoing now for centuries.

One thing you can be assured that, "Food Chain" goes way back during the BC period! lolz, now on the serious part. I will be blogging about this!

See, humans are the top of the food chain because they actually they are supposed to be the ones who know how to control actions. For e.g when somebody acts incessant we say, he didn't act human. So, astrologically it means that those who are under Human vasya are "less aggressive, more patient individuals". It doesn't mean others are useless, although, it sounds that way.

If you are Vanchar then it means that you are on the wilder side. Now, until you have a Pi like situation, you wouldn't want to live with a Tiger (Vanchar), would you? Okay, now this is one aspect of the preliminary test. Overall, stuff depends upon several analysis and they go way deep as my Guruji told me (which I had forgotten).

Keet is the one who is unpredictable and can react impulsively without a prior notice. So, you can understand the rest. It is like Chinese or Zodiac signs. Analysis of nature, your Vasya, Varna, Yoni, Bha koot all speak about your nature. The doshas and the best points only indicate, the further analysis tell you if they will be heavy or countered. Or what will be the strong points or what would be less strong.

posted July 14, 2015 04:32 AM            

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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
In my Navamsa Moon is in Magha,
they have to say this about the placement:

"They are noble and eminent persons with leadership abilities. In this nakshatra kings or presidents are born, or simply those who rule or take charge. There is a drive for power and wealth. They are traditional with strong values and strong ambitions leading to restlessness. They are attached to their heritage and ancestry, and will usually seek out their family tree or origins. Worldly power and a need for recognition can obsess them. They have a generous hart, and deep loyalty with possible arrogance and egotism. Elitism and class-consciousness can make them quite snobby. There is a sense of emptiness that drives them towards enlightenment."

DEMONIZE THIS!

BTW this is also a Rakhasa gana. lol

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Gana is your personality, I am Rakshasa too! But this is not related to your Gana. It is also your nature. Rakshashas are the ones who express themselves loud and clear! Manushyas are soft people while Devas are spiritually bend people with a calm tempo!!

posted July 14, 2015 04:34 AM            

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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
btw the interpretations I posted for my placements refer to my Navamsa not my Rasi.

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If you have a strong Navamsa, it will strengthen your Rasi chart as well as Lagna chart. What is your marriage placement in Navamsa?

posted July 14, 2015 04:39 AM            

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Originally posted by mir:
Ok now I'm lost (and no I refuse to look at other planets if I don't understand the whole guna concept yet! - don't underestimate vishaka here ) ......

Well, looking at my parents...

They got 15 points (and they've been such a creative couple together!) and then I saw their YONI part; 3 points!! (out of 4) ....

So I thought, well, this must be the best (sexual) compatibility ever (almost) ... but look at the description!! ;

^^ and what do they mean with the last sentence "Sexually, this is not a very encouraging combination, [b]as they may develope very good liking towards each other"

HUH?? what does that ^ mean? Do I read a contradiction here?[/B]

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Mir, just take the summary not literally. I have noticed these "computer generated" readings have grammar errors. Mahish and Mrig are compatible Mahish is supportive of Mrig which is delicate and can be naive at times. Mahish is protective. Sexually it is a great match. On what have your parents scored high? The doshas are just a starting point but their strength is checked only after proper analysis.

posted July 14, 2015 04:41 AM            

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Originally posted by Aunt Anomalia:
No worries, I get it. I don't see a decent modern Vedic astrologer pretend that Uranus, Neptune and Pluto don't exist though (not saying you do it), they must have some significance. IMO they should be at least as important as major asteroids in western astro. I found an interesting interview with a take on these planets, I hope you enjoy it as much as me: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=valq74I2XIc

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Uranus is known as "harshal" and he is the "mischief maker" as per Indian astrology. He is unpredictable and can say the weirdo.

posted July 14, 2015 08:27 AM            

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Originally posted by NikiVenus6:
Gana is your personality, I am Rakshasa too! But this is not related to your Gana. It is also your nature. Rakshashas are the ones who express themselves loud and clear! Manushyas are soft people while Devas are spiritually bend people with a calm tempo!!

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Yes, I understand that. Just I am pretty calm myself, sometimes even withdrawn-introvert and certainly spiritually inclined.
however I cannot deny either, that I might be a little uncompromising in certain regards, and while I would not be really brash and loud about it, I might be a little on the stubborn side.

posted July 14, 2015 08:37 AM            

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Originally posted by NikiVenus6:
If you have a strong Navamsa, it will strengthen your Rasi chart as well as Lagna chart. What is your marriage placement in Navamsa?

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Is this the 7th house?
If so probably rather bad. I have Saturn in my 7th house, and actually on the degree of the ASC/DESC, if that matters.

Venus in Cancer probably is not that great either, and Sun, Mercury in 6th house I cannot really think of as good either.

But I am not versed enough to really interprete it, so I am posting my Navamsa here.

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I read I am also having the single worst placement of Ketu, especially for marriage prospects, as it is in 7th house and thus nullifies every possibility of getting married.
And well I am not married, so I guess it must be true.

posted July 14, 2015 07:03 PM            

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Originally posted by NikiVenus6:
Hey, Leel, it is not literally biology. Should I throw some light? And as I have said earlier it is a preliminary test after which in reality those charts that identify with any of the 8 doshas are further analyzed using Navamsa and 7th house, Jupiter placements and Venus chart. Navamsa being the strongest.

But most "commercial made by marketing astrologers" use this system to mislead and exploit people just like Doctors who declare a "Cancer" the moment they see a lump. The problem is this exploitation has been ongoing now for centuries.

One thing you can be assured that, "Food Chain" goes way back during the BC period! lolz, now on the serious part. I will be blogging about this!

See, humans are the top of the food chain because they actually they are supposed to be the ones who know how to control actions. For e.g when somebody acts incessant we say, he didn't act human. So, astrologically it means that those who are under Human vasya are "less aggressive, more patient individuals". It doesn't mean others are useless, although, it sounds that way.

If you are Vanchar then it means that you are on the wilder side. Now, until you have a Pi like situation, you wouldn't want to live with a Tiger (Vanchar), would you? Okay, now this is one aspect of the preliminary test. Overall, stuff depends upon several analysis and they go way deep as my Guruji told me (which I had forgotten).

Keet is the one who is unpredictable and can react impulsively without a prior notice. So, you can understand the rest. It is like Chinese or Zodiac signs. Analysis of nature, your Vasya, Varna, Yoni, Bha koot all speak about your nature. The doshas and the best points only indicate, the further analysis tell you if they will be heavy or countered. Or what will be the strong points or what would be less strong.

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Clear and interesting ^ !, and let me know when you're blogging about it....

posted July 14, 2015 07:32 PM            

((I also read that some are convinced that bahkoot prevails over any part / now refering also to this part """Per Sarajit, you advise Prasna Marga as the standard text for learning about compatibility of charts. According to Prasna Marga, the first kuta is rasi kuta. Is there a definite order in which the kutas are arranged? For example, if there is no rasi kuta, then we need not proceed with the analysis and reject the pair of charts?""" from the thread-link I gave above regarding Dina-Kuta))

Parents:

posted July 14, 2015 08:23 PM            

My Navamsa;

Venus - 19'41 Leo
Mars - 16'30 Leo

My mom's Navamsa;

Venus - 15'43 Leo
Mars - 19'36 Leo

posted July 15, 2015 04:20 AM            

but the text below and texts like these are the reason vedic astrology grabbed me by the throat / why do I miss such a pronounced depth in the western realm?

(It's related to the Graha Maitri kuta)

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According to the muhurtha shastra it is not the temporary dispositions based on karma that the individual is going through that is to be taken into consideration, it is the birth constellation and not the birth chart as a whole. This many people misunderstand. Some think that to judge to see if they both like to watch the same kind of movies, .....have the same music in common or .....follow the same football team will bring about compatibility. They seem to think that the same kind of temporary, transitory sensual satisfaction is what is required. "Oh we are compatible, because she likes to play squash and so do I."
Then never stop playing squash, or your relationship will end abruptly. But one day it will if that is the basis. "Oh I like tall men," one day he'll be bent double then what? "Oh man she's so beautiful," but believe me it won't last two or three children later and everything changes. "Oh he's so suave," but now he's an irritable, smelly old man. Unfortunately this is the scourge of the sense enjoyers, everything is upside down, the relationship is only based on what I like now, with no thought of the future.

Even we have seen that some persons had made marriage compatibility data bases before, but looking at their contents they had collected much information, but most of it was not relevant to marriage. Probably buying a car, a new jacket, or a piece of furniture would be alright, or something of that nature. As mostly the questions were all based not on the natures of the persons that we have at hand, rather it was based on inconsequential things, what those individuals had as their objects of sensual enjoyment. "What do I like, what do I want?" According to the philosophy of the Vaishnavas those externals or bahyopadhis are of a temporary nature, which are always changing. So if you want to buy a shirt it's all very important, the colour the size etc., what fits now, but for marriage we want to see natures and the phases that persons are due to go through. This generally will be very difficult to analyse without the use of Vedic astrology.

In Vedic or devotee circles we want know primarily if the coming together of these two souls will be conducive to their spiritual development, or not, isn't it? Some who are more inclined to tasting the goods before purchase, and who are not so patient as to wait for the relationship to mature like to have trial periods of association. In all honesty it is not a substantial method to work with as we have seen, for such trials have made many errs.
Previously in Vedic times, when arranged marriages were organised properly the couple were brought together each willing with an open mind and heart, knowing that to be there together this far many calculations, and great endeavour had been ensured to protect their, and their society's mutual interests. There is a science involved here, and guidelines are necessary to be followed. To circumvent proven fact, to either speed things up, or get what one likes without endeavour is not possible. Anything that is worth anything is worth working for, nothing comes cheep. When things do come cheaply, generally it doesn't last long.
I have seen my children do the same thing with their toys. They get something that they think will answer all their dreams, but later we find it broken and discarded somewhere and they're looking around again. It's very difficult to live like this, especially in the long term. Simply because all of one's perception is based on the mind, it's accepting (sankalpa) and rejecting (vikalpa). And on the basis of that mentality everyone's getting caught up thinking it's important for the couple to associate to see if they are compatible using the mind and senses to see the future. They try this one, then that one, and even many find that due to the present situations of their karma they are very "happy". However when that present karma passes, as it often does, passing through different Maha Dasas (planetary periods), they'll look around for another to bring satisfaction of temporary happiness.

We try to always emphasise the shastra, scripture, Shruti pramanam for after all how much can we perceive? Even with our logic and reasoning what can we deduct, sometimes we're wrong also, but when shastra speaks we can confidently rest assured. Then all that is require is some tolerance and application of Krishna consciousness. Srila Prabhupada gives a nice example that when a boy and girl are brought together in wedlock, it is not that immediately the girl becomes with child. No things take time. The same is there in sacred marriage, let it be known that they are compatible, become married and then develop a nice relationship. Don't expect to know each other right from day one. Great expectations falling short cause problems also. Rather than the girl expecting the boy to be like Kardama Muni, the ideal husband, and he expecting the girl to be like Devahuti, the ideal wife, simply come together and try to serve the Lord in a nice way and get to know each other gradually. If he is bijaman, potent and she is fertile then all will be achieved in due course. Some of the nicest tapestries have begun from just having the right materials and good intent to try to give each other the chance to let something happen, and nurture each other.

Therefore also in Vaishnava agama and tantra, which deal with as we have stated, nature rather than karma we are more interested in seeing a persons potential, propensity, any problems, and how to overcome them. Rather than like the fruitive workers, if he will be rich or poor, how much he will enjoy, etc.
I have had persons coming to me asking for charts for all kinds of reasons, but I emphasise that muhurtha is meant for assisting in the development of your, not just your, our spiritual lives. Unlike mundane astrology muhurtha is not based on intuition, as we have stated it is based only and firmly in shastra, no need of speculative readings, just read.

When the lords of the Janma Rasis of the bride and bridegroom are friends, the Rasi Kuta is said to obtain full strength. When one is a friend and the other is neutral, it is passable or all right, and when both are neutral, Rasi Kuta is considered very ordinary. When both are enemies, Rasi Kuta does not exist.

Exception:- Even when there is no friendship between the Janma Rasi lords of the bride and groom, Rasi Kuta can be obtained by friendships of the planets on the Navamsas occupied by the Moon.

The number of units for this Kuta is 5 (five).

Example :- In our illustration, the Janma Rasi lords are Venus and Saturn. Both are friends. Therefore the Rasi Kuta is complete. Supposing the bride and bride-groom are born in Makha 2 (Leo) and Satabhisha 2 (Saturn). The lords will be the Sun and Saturn respectively and they are not friends. In such a case if the Navamsa relationship is considered, then the Moon will be in Taurus (Venus) and Capricorn (Saturn) respectively. Venus and Saturn are friends and therefore the match is permissible. One will have to be very careful in the assessment of these factors and on superficial grounds no horoscope should be rejected as unsuitable or unfortunate.

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posted July 15, 2015 08:41 AM            

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Originally posted by mir:
I wanted to say this before ..

but the text below and texts like these are the reason vedic astrology grabbed me by the throat / why do I miss such a pronounced depth in the western realm?

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Because many people prefer the "quick fix" nowadays, hence the cookbooks and keyword-oriented books sell best (which has their place, too, I do not want to condemn that).

posted July 15, 2015 08:43 AM            

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Originally posted by mir:
Another thing - for a moment - which I discovered some days ago and left me completely flabbergasted and so adds to what I already expected regarding the importance of the 9th Harmonic/Navamsa;

My Navamsa;

Venus - 19'41 Leo
Mars - 16'30 Leo

My mom's Navamsa;

Venus - 15'43 Leo
Mars - 19'36 Leo

So when she gave birth to me......... ! !

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posted July 15, 2015 11:04 AM            

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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
did you see this?
[URL=http://www.bava.org/articles/relationship-compatibility-and-astrological-counselling/]http://www.bava.org/articles/relationship-compatibility-and-astrological-counselling/[/UR L]

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Ceri, it is to a great extent true, like I donno if I have mentioned this earlier, but the matchmaking as per Vedic texts is purely on finding your soulmate. The moon is the soul and the one who balances your energies is your soulmate. Like Mahakaal is of Kaali, Mahadev is of Mahadevi, Vishnu of Laxmi, Martanda of Mahalsa and VeerBhadra of Bhadrakaali.

posted July 15, 2015 11:09 AM            

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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
c Because many people prefer the "quick fix" nowadays, hence the cookbooks and keyword-oriented books sell best (which has their place, too, I do not want to condemn that).

If you want a philosophical discussion and elaboration on astrology, you´d probably have to seek out older texts.

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dats right, actually in India too, that's y people don't go in the depth after the "preliminary test". I would recommend you to read Brigu Samhita all 5 books. Brighu Maharaj had created our Kundalis in the BC period itself. There is a past life reading book which is a part of the set as per our Kundali. Again, you have to take the summary and understand the messages. Besides, the rashi part of the set is so accurate at times when it comes to your physical description. It is so surprising!

posted July 15, 2015 11:15 AM            

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Originally posted by mir:

Clear and interesting ^ !, and let me know when you're blogging about it....

I have one Keet (insect scorp) in my life and wow yess.. it's so Obvious the things you say about it, I really can't fall for or even respect this guy without even having a proper reason for it! (well I'm the top of the food chain u know LOol)

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thanks I will be blogging about it. You are human, so nice input! One by one may be.

posted July 15, 2015 11:19 AM            

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Originally posted by Ceridwen:

Is this the 7th house?
If so probably rather bad. I have Saturn in my 7th house, and actually on the degree of the ASC/DESC, if that matters.

Venus in Cancer probably is not that great either, and Sun, Mercury in 6th house I cannot really think of as good either.

But I am not versed enough to really interprete it, so I am posting my Navamsa here.

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I read I am also having the single worst placement of Ketu, especially for marriage prospects, as it is in 7th house and thus nullifies every possibility of getting married.
And well I am not married, so I guess it must be true.

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Ceri are you German? Ok, Saturn in Navamsa seventh is a bit of nightmare. Ketu is SN and it is the 7th house. I can't really understand this chart can you go to a Vedic site, like Om ganesh because I want to be precise.

posted July 15, 2015 02:20 PM            

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Sun: Aries
Moon: Leo
Mercury: Aries
Venus: Cancer
Mars: Libra
Jupiter: Pisces
Saturn: Taurus
Rahu: Scorpio
Ketu: Taurus

Well, with Saturn and Ketu in 7th house, I am probably doomed to stay alone for all my life.
I read that Ketu in 7th house means the native does not WANT to get married, Well that is not true for me. Not that I would press the issue, but I want to be in love, love and be loved like everyone else.

posted July 16, 2015 06:03 AM            

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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
Like this here?

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Sun: Aries
Moon: Leo
Mercury: Aries
Venus: Cancer
Mars: Libra
Jupiter: Pisces
Saturn: Taurus
Rahu: Scorpio
Ketu: Taurus

Well, with Saturn and Ketu in 7th house, I am probably doomed to stay alone for all my life.
I read that Ketu in 7th house means the native does not WANT to get married, Well that is not true for me. Not that I would press the issue, but I want to be in love, love and be loved like everyone else.

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Hey, Ceri, don't worry! My dad has ketu in 7th house in Navamsa Chart and Saturn in the 7th house in the lagna chart which cancelled my mom's Mangal in the 7th house. I will tell you what it means when they say "will not want to marry", it means that those who have Saturn in the 7th house have a high taste in men/women. They can't just marry anyone until they are sure of that person. My dad got married late as per that period. He was in his mid 30s and he went through lot of delay and even got insulted from shallow women. With Ketu which is SN in the 7th house. It means that there will be lot of trouble in finding partners. I think it vibes with my dad. He also had a initial troubled marital life and couldn't marry the girl he first wanted to marry. It is a good position to win arguments over enemies.

I can suggest you one remedy, that I discovered after chart analysis. You must be having current love interests, right, so check their 7th house rulers from Lagna, Rashi and Navamsha chart with your moon, lagna, 7th house rulers of lagna, rashi, navamsa chart. I have seen a pattern those who got married and/or are having long and loving relationships have "same nakshatras". Like my dad with mom! along my sis n her boyfriend etc.