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Topic: Whats the dynamic of scorpio moon/libra moon couple?
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kate999 Knowflake Posts: 129 From: Registered: Aug 2019
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posted September 08, 2019 10:24 PM
Whats the dynamic between a scorpio moon and libra moon relationship? Whether a close friendship or longterm relationship? Can it work? Anybody have that type of relationshi₩p, tell me how it works for you guys. IP: Logged |
Hikaru29 Knowflake Posts: 3734 From: Asia Registered: Nov 2018
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posted September 08, 2019 11:19 PM
I don't think they gel very well especially in close, intimate relationships (air vs water). Very likely Libra will find Scorpio too intense & overbearing at times.This is from cafe astrology: Libra is friendly, sociable, and agreeable, with a gracious, personable manner that others find very congenial. Libra enjoys people and wants so much to be liked and to be surrounded with pleasantness that Libra often avoids confronting people and dealing with anger and conflict in personal relationships. Scorpio, on the other hand, has a quiet disposition that masks much emotional complexity and sensitivity. Light, superficial social interaction doesn’t interest Scorpio at all, and, in fact, frequently makes Scorpio feel separate and lonely. Scorpio feels a whole range of powerful emotions – desire, jealousy, rage, fierce loving attachments or intense loathing -and Scorpio cannot live without relating on a very deep, intimate level, which often includes conflict and confrontation. In fact, if things become too easy and mellow, Scorpio will (consciously or unconsciously) provoke some trouble in a relationship. Scorpio seems to thrive on emotional drama and intensity, while Libra very much prefers harmony, sweetness, and peace. Scorpio is drawn to the hidden, dark, mysterious side of life and of people, while Libra focuses on the light and good in others. Generally Libra accepts people as they appear to be, while Scorpio probes and analyzes and is more suspicious. Also, Scorpio can be manipulative and controlling, and may be subtly dominating in this relationship. IP: Logged |
kate999 Knowflake Posts: 129 From: Registered: Aug 2019
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posted September 08, 2019 11:32 PM
quote: Originally posted by Hikaru29: I don't think they gel very well especially in close, intimate relationships (air vs water). Very likely Libra will find Scorpio too intense & overbearing at times.This is from cafe astrology: Libra is friendly, sociable, and agreeable, with a gracious, personable manner that others find very congenial. Libra enjoys people and wants so much to be liked and to be surrounded with pleasantness that Libra often avoids confronting people and dealing with anger and conflict in personal relationships. Scorpio, on the other hand, has a quiet disposition that masks much emotional complexity and sensitivity. Light, superficial social interaction doesn’t interest Scorpio at all, and, in fact, frequently makes Scorpio feel separate and lonely. Scorpio feels a whole range of powerful emotions – desire, jealousy, rage, fierce loving attachments or intense loathing -and Scorpio cannot live without relating on a very deep, intimate level, which often includes conflict and confrontation. In fact, if things become too easy and mellow, Scorpio will (consciously or unconsciously) provoke some trouble in a relationship. Scorpio seems to thrive on emotional drama and intensity, while Libra very much prefers harmony, sweetness, and peace. Scorpio is drawn to the hidden, dark, mysterious side of life and of people, while Libra focuses on the light and good in others. Generally Libra accepts people as they appear to be, while Scorpio probes and analyzes and is more suspicious. Also, Scorpio can be manipulative and controlling, and may be subtly dominating in this relationship.
Yeah ive seen it. I just wonder if anyone has this type of relationship. Cuz ive this good friend of mine that i have feelings for and he is libra moon while im scorpio moon
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Librapurr Knowflake Posts: 1585 From: Registered: Jul 2019
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posted September 08, 2019 11:35 PM
quote: Originally posted by Hikaru29: I don't think they gel very well especially in close, intimate relationships (air vs water). Very likely Libra will find Scorpio too intense & overbearing at times.This is from cafe astrology: Libra is friendly, sociable, and agreeable, with a gracious, personable manner that others find very congenial. Libra enjoys people and wants so much to be liked and to be surrounded with pleasantness that Libra often avoids confronting people and dealing with anger and conflict in personal relationships. Scorpio, on the other hand, has a quiet disposition that masks much emotional complexity and sensitivity. Light, superficial social interaction doesn’t interest Scorpio at all, and, in fact, frequently makes Scorpio feel separate and lonely. Scorpio feels a whole range of powerful emotions – desire, jealousy, rage, fierce loving attachments or intense loathing -and Scorpio cannot live without relating on a very deep, intimate level, which often includes conflict and confrontation. In fact, if things become too easy and mellow, Scorpio will (consciously or unconsciously) provoke some trouble in a relationship. Scorpio seems to thrive on emotional drama and intensity, while Libra very much prefers harmony, sweetness, and peace. Scorpio is drawn to the hidden, dark, mysterious side of life and of people, while Libra focuses on the light and good in others. Generally Libra accepts people as they appear to be, while Scorpio probes and analyzes and is more suspicious. Also, Scorpio can be manipulative and controlling, and may be subtly dominating in this relationship.
I think this is too superficial description of libra moon. They do prefer to keep peace and be likable, but libra is sign of justice and they won't agree with you if you're not right . They might not to show it to you directly.. And libra is not always in balance. Watch Judge Judy)IP: Logged |
Librapurr Knowflake Posts: 1585 From: Registered: Jul 2019
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posted September 08, 2019 11:43 PM
I think it's not easy one. But if you don't mind difficulties.. Need to see other placements. Not all Scorpios are so hard to deal with and not all libras are really peaceful. In fact, couple libras I know are not that sweet and sociable at all)IP: Logged |
Hikaru29 Knowflake Posts: 3734 From: Asia Registered: Nov 2018
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posted September 09, 2019 12:15 AM
quote: Originally posted by Librapurr: I think this is too superficial description of libra moon. They do prefer to keep peace and be likable, but libra is sign of justice and they won't agree with you if you're not right . They might not to show it to you directly.. And libra is not always in balance. Watch Judge Judy)
Websites give mostly stereotypical interpretations. Having said that, by being agreeable it doesn't mean Libra agrees to everything you say, just that on surface, it often appears so (and that's why people usually like them). The Libra Moons I know will only speak their minds if they know you well, and in a tactful manner. They're usually not combative and more likely to walk away from a fight. After that, they would wanna make peace again quickly. Scorpios can be one of the most devoted, loyal & protective (I love this about them) but when offended, they ARE very hard to deal with because they can be secretly vindictive, you don't even know you've been targeted. And they're unlikely to forget easily. IP: Logged |
Hikaru29 Knowflake Posts: 3734 From: Asia Registered: Nov 2018
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posted September 09, 2019 12:20 AM
quote: Originally posted by kate999: Yeah ive seen it. I just wonder if anyone has this type of relationship. Cuz ive this good friend of mine that i have feelings for and he is libra moon while im scorpio moon
Does he have Pluto-Moon aspect or Moon in water houses? That will add intensity to his airy Moon. IP: Logged |
kate999 Knowflake Posts: 129 From: Registered: Aug 2019
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posted September 09, 2019 05:58 AM
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Librapurr Knowflake Posts: 1585 From: Registered: Jul 2019
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posted September 09, 2019 10:14 AM
quote: Originally posted by kate999: Im really trying to be understanding cuz im fully aware of my intensity as a scorpio moon. I dont rage nor do i seej revenge, however libra moon can be appear so cold at times..i know they intellectualize alot their emotions which can appear detached to others..
Yep. They do try to intellectualize a lot of things, and be indecisive and take time. You need to be patient and a little turn down your intensity. I don't mind Scorpios, but it's like on the one side, I'm attracted to their intensity; on the other, I'm a little disturbed . IP: Logged |
Hikaru29 Knowflake Posts: 3734 From: Asia Registered: Nov 2018
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posted September 09, 2019 10:47 AM
quote: Originally posted by kate999: His moon sextile his pluto, and his libra moon is in the 7th house..My moon conjunct pluto, and my moon is in the 3rd house
Pluto should add intensity to his Moon but he still will not match the depth of your Scorpio Moon which also conjunct Pluto. He thrives in partnerships (Libra Moon in 7th) but can be sensitive (Moon in 7th has Cancerian qualities). I'm dating a Libra Moon conjunct Pluto in 11H (edited). He has very intense feelings but all wrapped nicely under the Libra mask. He rarely lets his feelings go outta control (not unless he's drunk). He will give short volcanic spurts then be back to his nice Libra self again. I've a Sag Moon and I also find him too cool at times. Btw, Scorpios often say they don't seek revenge... but (haha) nvm, that's another topic I don't wanna get into. IP: Logged |
kate999 Knowflake Posts: 129 From: Registered: Aug 2019
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posted September 09, 2019 01:50 PM
quote: Originally posted by Hikaru29: Pluto should add intensity to his Moon but he still will not match the depth of your Scorpio Moon which also conjunct Pluto. He thrives in partnerships (Libra Moon in 7th) but can be sensitive (Moon in 7th has Cancerian qualities). I'm dating a Libra Moon conjunct Pluto in 3H. He has very intense feelings but all wrapped nicely under the Libra mask. He rarely lets his feelings go outta control (not unless he's drunk). He will give short volcanic spurts then be back to his nice Libra self again. I've a Sag Moon and I also find him too cool at times.Btw, Scorpios often say they don't seek revenge... but (haha) nvm, that's another topic I don't wanna get into.
Oh girl, lets get into it. Cuz i know i do not seek revenge..i knos what im capable but I dont follow through, ive worked really Hrd on myself not to let these elements get the best out of me..ive been betrayed way too often and this intensity is so overwhelming. Despite it all, i still try to have an open mind and soUl, getting out of my comfort zone and understand everybody is different. It takes work and a level of consciousness to not let your nature control you.
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Hikaru29 Knowflake Posts: 3734 From: Asia Registered: Nov 2018
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posted September 10, 2019 09:37 AM
quote: Originally posted by kate999: Oh girl, lets get into it. Cuz i know i do not seek revenge..i knos what im capable but I dont follow through, ive worked really Hrd on myself not to let these elements get the best out of me..ive been betrayed way too often and this intensity is so overwhelming. Despite it all, i still try to have an open mind and soUl, getting out of my comfort zone and understand everybody is different. It takes work and a level of consciousness to not let your nature control you.
It's good that you don't let the negative side control you, but I can't say the same for some Scorpios I know. Scorpios can be vindictive... just like Taurus can be possessive and Gemini can be a flirt. This isn't a personal attack towards you.
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kate999 Knowflake Posts: 129 From: Registered: Aug 2019
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posted September 10, 2019 09:42 AM
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Hikaru29 Knowflake Posts: 3734 From: Asia Registered: Nov 2018
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posted September 10, 2019 11:56 AM
Ah... I'm not a pro. There're some on LL who're really good with Synastry. This is your childhood friend, isn't it? You said something changed during Summer... did you check your progressed-natal and progressed-progressed Synastry? If you have Sun-Venus, Sun-Moon-Asc conjunctions/trines/oppositions, it might kick-start a r/s.Your ASC-DSC Axis conjuncts are really nice. It gives a feeling of 'you-complement-me'. His 5th ruler Moon conjunct your Venus in his 7th house. His 7th ruler Mercury sextile your venus, trine your Pluto. His 8th ruler Venus conjunct your MC, trine your Venus, square your ASC. Your Moon/Pluto in his 8th... his NN conjunct your ASC... these are all very nice overlays/aspects. I can't see other aspects maybe you can check the aspects table? Anyway, since you say feelings only recently changed, then I would look more at progressed synastry to see if there's a chance of a r/s. IP: Logged |
kate999 Knowflake Posts: 129 From: Registered: Aug 2019
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posted September 10, 2019 01:05 PM
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Hikaru29: [b]Ah... I'm not a pro. There're some on LL IP: Logged |
Hikaru29 Knowflake Posts: 3734 From: Asia Registered: Nov 2018
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posted September 11, 2019 02:49 AM
quote: Originally posted by kate999: Im not sure how to read the progressed synastry. Is it the one progressed composite chart, midpoint method? here is the link: http://imgbox.com/eyFz5jBT
You can generate each person's progressed natal charts and check from there. IP: Logged |
jjj Knowflake Posts: 504 From: Registered: Aug 2009
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posted September 11, 2019 05:28 AM
I have it with my ex, me - cappy w sco moon and he libra w libra moon (I have sco stellium and he libra stellium, but his stellium is in 8th house and he has scorpio venus like me and my moon is cj his sun (out of sign conjunction).We were couple for a very short time, some months, but we have remained lifelong friends, he is my best friend actually. We live even together for the moment, just being friends, as he does some works in my flat. We have an arrangement that he lives from time to time in my flat. But besides that, we are not soul mates and we have basic incompatibility... our passion/emotional natures too dfferent, Im an hermit, he is v social etc But we are both v stubborn lol. To conclude - I dont think it s good for a couple. IP: Logged |
kate999 Knowflake Posts: 129 From: Registered: Aug 2019
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posted September 11, 2019 05:47 AM
quote: Originally posted by jjj: I have it with my ex, me - cappy w sco moon and he libra w libra moon (I have sco stellium and he libra stellium, but his stellium is in 8th house and he has scorpio venus like me and my moon is cj his sun (out of sign conjunction).We were couple for a very short time, some months, but we have remained lifelong friends, he is my best friend actually. We live even together for the moment, just being friends, as he does some works in my flat. We have an arrangement that he lives from time to time in my flat. But besides that, we are not soul mates and we have basic incompatibility... our passion/emotional natures too dfferent, Im an hermit, he is v social etc But we are both v stubborn lol. To conclude - I dont think it s good for a couple.
Okay you guys had basic incompatibility i understand..
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Librapurr Knowflake Posts: 1585 From: Registered: Jul 2019
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posted September 11, 2019 09:29 PM
With Scorpios, it's like their way or highway !IP: Logged |
Hikaru29 Knowflake Posts: 3734 From: Asia Registered: Nov 2018
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posted September 11, 2019 11:38 PM
@Kate, If you really like this guy, then don't worry so much about your incompatible Moon signs. Astrology helps you understand how each sign behaves and the likely manifestations of aspects, and from there you learn how to manage it. There are other nice aspects in your synastry, so focus on those. IP: Logged |
kate999 Knowflake Posts: 129 From: Registered: Aug 2019
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posted September 12, 2019 08:34 AM
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Hikaru29: [b]@Kate, If you really like this guy, then don't worry so IP: Logged |
Librapurr Knowflake Posts: 1585 From: Registered: Jul 2019
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posted September 12, 2019 09:34 AM
I didn't want to discourage anyone. I just try to figure out my Scorpio stuff. I saw some really non compatible couple being together for years. In fact, I got attracted to Scorpio despite of everything. He is not my type, did some really not nice things. But still If he would come to me with heart, I would never hurt him. But I would wanna be friends first, doesn't matter what is the final goal..
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Librapurr Knowflake Posts: 1585 From: Registered: Jul 2019
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posted September 12, 2019 09:46 AM
Actually, I wanted to create the similar topic. And I took it as a sign And I'd love to hear more Scorpio/Libra stories! Sorry,if I sound kind of negative of the subject, I'm not really peaceful Libra(). And all my relationship is not really peaceful. Some other Libras (I'm not sure what are their moons) I know, they just have that nice mask for public..IP: Logged |
kate999 Knowflake Posts: 129 From: Registered: Aug 2019
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posted September 12, 2019 10:06 AM
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Librapurr: [b]I didn't want to discourage anyone. I just try to figure out my Scorpio stuff. I saw IP: Logged | |