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Topic: Ladies man, player
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Leocassandra Knowflake Posts: 360 From: Poland Registered: Jan 2013
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posted November 21, 2013 12:28 PM
What aspects, placement to look for in a chart of player? Lot of Libra energy? Venus conjunct/trine Moon? Mercury sextile Venus? IP: Logged |
Kerosene Knowflake Posts: 7178 From: Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
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posted November 21, 2013 12:35 PM
I'm pretty sure libra men play for the other team most of time probably Leo, Aries, Sagittarius, Scorpio, sometimes Aquarius without cap influence. Aspect wise.. Moon-venus negative aspects seem to be players because of their weird relationship with women. IP: Logged |
LovelyAries86 Knowflake Posts: 919 From: OH, USA Registered: Dec 2012
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posted November 21, 2013 12:57 PM
quote: Originally posted by Leocassandra: What aspects, placement to look for in a chart of player? Lot of Libra energy? Venus conjunct/trine Moon? Mercury sextile Venus?
3rd House Venus!!! I've said this before LOL. They are the smoothest talkers I've ever encountered. Beware! IP: Logged |
Leocassandra Knowflake Posts: 360 From: Poland Registered: Jan 2013
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posted November 21, 2013 12:57 PM
Thank You One popular(that i know) man in ladies crowd has Moon conjunct Venus in Libra trine Mars in Gemini. The other one has Sun/Venus/Mercury conjunction in Libra. 3rd guy has more girl friends than boys has Mercury sextile Venus. I think Adam Levine has Moon square Venus...IP: Logged |
Leocassandra Knowflake Posts: 360 From: Poland Registered: Jan 2013
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posted November 21, 2013 12:59 PM
quote: Originally posted by LovelyAries86: 3rd House Venus!!! I've said this before LOL. They are the smoothest talkers I've ever encountered. Beware!
Ooo i didn't know about it IP: Logged |
Kerosene Knowflake Posts: 7178 From: Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
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posted November 21, 2013 01:43 PM
As for that guy, women might gravitate towards him but that does not make him a player.I have Moon conjunct Venus square Jupiter. I'm not a player at all I genuinely like female company. I like being around women more because they smell better, look better, and are usually more communicative. My dad has Moon in Libra conjunct Neptune. He's surrounded by females, they gravitate towards him and laugh at all his corny jokes. Prominent Neptune gives people empathetic sensitive aura. I can tell he was never a player type, he respects women. IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze Knowflake Posts: 149 From: Pluto Registered: Nov 2013
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posted November 21, 2013 02:04 PM
Asteroid Casanova (7328) as well - depending on where it's placed. Nymphe (875) also. IP: Logged |
Rosalind Knowflake Posts: 2147 From: Registered: Mar 2011
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posted November 21, 2013 02:09 PM
Usually people with a lot of Air in the chart but its not a rule.Its the first time I hear about Venus in 3rd. IMHO, all men are players until they find THE ONE. IP: Logged |
LovelyAries86 Knowflake Posts: 919 From: OH, USA Registered: Dec 2012
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posted November 21, 2013 04:01 PM
quote: Originally posted by Rosalind:
Its the first time I hear about Venus in 3rd.
It's some truth to it! Check it out! Males w/ this placement pursue me often - they are talented LMAO.
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Freesia Knowflake Posts: 241 From: Registered: Mar 2013
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posted November 21, 2013 04:17 PM
quote: Originally posted by Rosalind:
Its the first time I hear about Venus in 3rd.
Sounds fair, 3d house has Gemini characteristics
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ail221 Moderator Posts: 3845 From: Hanging Gardens of Babylon Registered: Feb 2012
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posted November 21, 2013 04:22 PM
Ruler of the 5th in the first perhaps.IP: Logged |
acousticbob Knowflake Posts: 123 From: UK Registered: Aug 2010
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posted November 21, 2013 04:38 PM
quote: Originally posted by LovelyAries86: 3rd House Venus!!! I've said this before LOL. They are the smoothest talkers I've ever encountered. Beware!
Oooh I'm a 3rd house Scorpio Venus. I have been told I'm charming but I'm certainly not a ladies man or player! IP: Logged |
Rosalind Knowflake Posts: 2147 From: Registered: Mar 2011
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posted November 21, 2013 04:49 PM
quote: Originally posted by LovelyAries86: It's some truth to it! Check it out! Males w/ this placement pursue me often - they are talented LMAO.
So you checked astrologically all the men that have pursued you and you found out that ALL of them have Venus in 3rd. Weird, if you ask me. Have you ever considered that you might be the problem and not them? Something in your chart make them pursue you. That doesn't mean men with this placement are ALLL players because its impossible. Natal charts are 100% different. Everybody is unique. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Knowflake Posts: 6772 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted November 21, 2013 04:54 PM
An emphasis on mutable signs / houses (?) There doesn't seem to be a clear pattern.IP: Logged |
Odette Knowflake Posts: 2861 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted November 21, 2013 05:07 PM
Afflicted Moon and/or Venus .. and a weak Mars, eg. Moon square or opposite Pluto or Saturn... with a Cancer or Taurus or Pisces Mars... or Mars with several hard aspects. But this is just an indication.. I mean people are different.. and they use the energy in their charts in different ways. IP: Logged |
LovelyAries86 Knowflake Posts: 919 From: OH, USA Registered: Dec 2012
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posted November 21, 2013 05:07 PM
quote: Originally posted by Rosalind: So you checked astrologically all the men that have pursued you and you found out that ALL of them have Venus in 3rd. Weird, if you ask me. Have you ever considered that you might be the problem and not them? Something in your chart make them pursue you. That doesn't mean men with this placement are ALLL players because its impossible. Natal charts are 100% different. Everybody is unique.
I don't have a problem. Do you? LOL. I've had all kinds of men pursue me. I'm simply stating that the ones w/ their Venus in the 3rd were all super smooth, charming, lively speakers who knew how to get their way most of the time. *I* personally called them out on it and they weren't used to being figured out LOL. They admitted that they had been a player at some point or that they currently still 'played' the field very actively! I'm not mad at 'em. They are charmers. LOL. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Knowflake Posts: 6772 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted November 21, 2013 05:11 PM
Agree with Odette & Lovely Aries.IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 6399 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted November 21, 2013 05:11 PM
A "Ladies Man" indicates attraction by women to a man. It does not make him a "player" !!!!I find this annoying. IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 5741 From: neptune Registered: Nov 2012
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posted November 21, 2013 05:13 PM
The player-type guy has a muchly aspected moon and Venus. Such a guy will naturally be popular with the ladies so his reputation will be that of a player even if he doesn't try to be, deliberately. It's written in his stars. If you want a non player, simple, look for the guy who has barely any moon or Venus aspects. He probably won't be that popular with the opposite sex which means he might not be with you, either. You can't win them all and sometimes must settle. But if he is a good looking guy who has a wonderful personality, women are always going to fawn over him. It's a given. So if you elect to be with someone like that, you just gotta put up with it. Otherwise find uglier with a yucky personality. Then you don't have to worry IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 6399 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted November 21, 2013 05:15 PM
I have Moon Trine Venus.My Moon is in the 3rd House, and it is Gemini as well. My Venus is Aquarius. I have all manner of women friends and naturally all women around me without even seeking out. That hardly makes me a "player." IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Knowflake Posts: 6772 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted November 21, 2013 05:16 PM
quote: Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme: Otherwise find uglier with a yucky personality. Then you don't have to worry
Omg! IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 5741 From: neptune Registered: Nov 2012
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posted November 21, 2013 05:17 PM
quote: Originally posted by Doux Rêve: Omg!
I don't want to sound rude but it's so true! Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and a perfectly wonderful partner could be waiting in the wings it's just they don't look that great and they might be insecure or not what you expect. They could still be the best choice if given a chance. IP: Logged |
Odette Knowflake Posts: 2861 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted November 21, 2013 05:18 PM
Libra men are. charming but not necessarily players. It depends on the rest of the chart. Mutable men are just all over the place and interested in many different people - but that doesn't make them players, unless they're dishonest in some way.. There is no sign or element or modality I associate with this kind of behaviour. They need to have bigger issues lol IP: Logged |
Kerosene Knowflake Posts: 7178 From: Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
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posted November 21, 2013 05:21 PM
LOL sss exactly. Besides who would choose to be a guys guys? I mean unless women find you creepy. Every time I think of guys I think of Cheeto stained fingers and game controllers.Girls are just better to be around. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Knowflake Posts: 6772 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted November 21, 2013 05:23 PM
quote: Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme: I don't want to sound rude but it's so true! Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and a perfectly wonderful partner could be waiting in the wings it's just they don't look that great and they might be insecure or not what you expect. They could still be the best choice if given a chance.
I see what you mean. But I really can't get past looks though (which sucks!! I wish I could).
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