posted September 16, 2003 02:50 PM              

I actually got an astro phychological reading for my chart and it was spot on. At least in what concerns the psychological meaning of my chart, it does reflect reality real well.

From what I know, the second house has many meanings - Money one makes through life, self esteem, values and so on. The 6th also means daily life, food, quality of service we give others and so on.

posted September 23, 2003 08:12 AM              

Yes my place of birth is Fulham, London England and my boyfriend's would also come under London England....I think the nearest town to Carshalton is Sutton - Surrey.

Hope this is of help to you. Please don't hesitate to contact me again should you need any more info.

posted September 26, 2003 04:43 PM              

Sorry to respond so late, but I was ill and it took me more than 2 weeks to get better. But I have used this time to do some charts and will try to answer your questions as best as possible.
Trillian, I have looked at the aspects you gave me and I must say there is not much I can conclude without the birth data - nevertheless, you are right to some point, your chart is not super fertile, but it reminded me the same minute I looked at it of my mothers chart; she never got pregnant until she met my father ... bam! 4 pregnancies in 4 years, then 2 pregnancies in the last 4 years of their marriage! She carried out only 2 pregnancies, my brother and me, but this was the result of her own choice to have abortions, not due to the fact she had miscarriages or other problems. Her chart has not a single water planet, nor air (I am all water, my brother all air) and I think it was destiny - her Saturn, Pluto and Mars make a strong conjunction in her Vth, square her Venus in Taurus and trine the Moon/Jupiter conjunction in her VIIIth. The first pregnancy lasted, after her appendix was removed during the second trimester, only 7 months and the delivery started on Friday night and ended on Monday morning, so I think the whole ordeal lasted more than 3 days. She gave birth to me with her last ounce of strength, as the doctors came in announcing that the fetal monitor showed no heart beat of the baby. My mother fell in a coma, I was half-dead. The hospital got in such a panic, my father was out of his mind. The family started to make funeral arrangements.
We both survived with no damages and I owe it to my mothers Vth house - it indicates a strong, enduring, fighting child, the trine with the Jupiter and Moon in the VIIIth shows luck in critical situations. The VIIIth house is the IVth of your child and shows the final outcome. Do I need to say more? I think that if my mother had a weaker chart none of us would have survived; I have a weak chart, not a single strong planet, but my mother's heavy planets conjunct my Asc - she gave me the extra strength and there are some other things in our mutual chart that support this claim.
A Moon in Capricorn does NOT show infertility, it shows a woman who is not super fertile and most of the time a woman which will be a mother later in her life (35-40). The Cappy Moon shows a woman who is not very comfortable being a mother, unless she has a very strong Cancer or the IVth or Vth house. Those are women who conclude that a solid career, a good home and a full bank account makes the woman, not a bunch of babies. And I have noticed that the Cappy Moon is, when SHE is ready for this task, a good mother, although a little bit cold at times and seeing kids as a investment. Sure, there won't be much hugging (too much will spoil the kids) or playing (there are more useful things to do), but I bet if the kids have any problems in school, this is the mother who storm into the principals office slapping him with all her might for "not respecting and neglecting" her kids. If the school has no playground tell it to a Cappy mother - the swings will be there tomorrow. The kids are not feeling well? She will gather other parents to drive all the children to the nearest sports center. And yes, a second grade sports instructor won't be of any use. The best man on the team will do just fine. After all, for the one you love, the best is just good enough. And I mean JUST good enough. And believe me, this is a woman who will change the tables and chairs in the classroom more than 10 times, if she finds out the kids spine or posture could be damaged by "poor quality". She will take care of her kids health, emotional well-being and their economic future. Cappy moms are ambitious mothers and I think that every person with a Leo or Cappy Moon will confirm that this mom is only happy with the best results, and only the best.
I do not think that you will make a bad mother, as your Sun is in Aries and Venus is there. Our beloved Aries women are great fun to be with and the "baby" of the Zodiac; so you should have fun being with kids, although I think that teenagers and young students are more your area than please-change-my-diapers-and-feed-me-and-cuddle-with-me babies. You should be a good pal and a trusting friend an support for you kids. The Moon/Venus square is soooo difficult for any woman and I will explain why: Venus shows a girl, a young woman, the Moon the mother and wife. Every time there is a square, there is a female person who does not know how to stop being one thing and doing the next. The trine, conjunction or sextile shows a woman who knows how to express love and will take over the role of the mother and wife with no trouble. As you have a Aries Venus/Sun (and I guess that the Uranus trine is near) this shows that you value your freedom and individuality most and that you want a free and happy relationship where each party can have all the space in the world - I do not think you are jealous. As your female planets are not too good I think you deny the role of the 'classic' female and prefer to be treated as a human being, rather than a wife, girlfriend or mother. I don't even think that you enhance your femininity, keeping your face with no make-up, the clothes in a sports style and the behavior friendly and business-like. The square with Saturn shows that you have had your portion of demanding and difficult relationship with men - starting with your father who was strict, cold and harsh. The Venus square shows tears and heartache in love and the Saturn in the Vth shows that there were not that many and that they were restricted. Moon and Jupiter show that you are someone who wants to give love and basically knows how to have fun - although not overdoing it. This could show a person who separates sex from love and likes to have sex with no commitment. The biggest problem is the Leo/Aquarius Asc/Desc and astrologers believe that this is one of the constellations that brings trouble in a marriage; divorce or someone who rather walks alone through life. The fact that you have difficulties to find a suitable partner to raise your children with makes things probably more difficult. The Moon/Jupiter conjunction is good, it shows an emotionally satisfied person, sometimes depressed and sad though, and I think that a child will give you the inner peace you wanted. It will be later in your life and if your Vth house cusp starts on the 27th, 28th or 29th degree - than you can be sure of it. As it aspects your Pluto and probably rising sign - it will be a rewarding and a transforming experience for you. It will take some time to adjust, but I like the cardinal squares - they are fighters and never give up and like new stuff. Your chart is not the most fertile chart of them all, but there are some good aspects and with a proper hormonal therapy (you should have a higher level of testosterone) there should be a chance for you to have a kid - if the power Aries and the executive Cappy woman in you find the time in their busy schedule.

Pidua, I could not find your birth town in my Atlas, could you give me the name of a bigger town nearby?

WhiteWitch, thank you for that info about the terminated pregnancy, it was quite helpful and I found it in your chart, although after looking quite a bit. The directional Saturn crossed over your Vth house by the time you were 21/22, and made a square with Mars (the surgical knife) in your second. You probably were not in a stable relationship, nor did you have any money and decided to terminate the pregnancy. If the IInd house is involved it indicates a difficult decision which alters your future self-worth system and confidence. Don't be too hard on yourself! The ruler of your Vth house is Venus in Sagittarius in your XIth in conjunction with Neptune - I think it would have been a miscarriage anyway, due to stress and a infection of the bladder or something like that. You actually wanted the child (conjunction Sun - our desires) and it was a quick decision (sextile Uranus). I think that you still regret this decision and you often wonder what could have happened if ... too bad, but what is done is done.
You are quite OK with your Cappy Moon/conjunction Asc/Mercury ans will make a strict but fair mother who will devote her time mostly educating her kids and taking care of them. You are more sensitive to your children need than other Cappy moms (Asc) and will have a close relationship to your child. The square with Pluto shows that it will be sometimes difficult, with quarrels etc. but nothing alarming. The square with Uranus can show your kid will be an independent thinker (you are too) and I can say 100% that he or she will be good in mathematics and physics (science). Please do not try to suffocate your child running around, behind and in front of him/her all the time. I know you will try your best protecting and carrying about the kid - just don't overdo it, or you will have a totally dependent child.
Why aren't you getting pregnant? Too easy - Saturn is marching through your VIIth house (second child) and is making a heavy opposition with your Moon/Mercury conjunction. As it is the ruler of your Asc. you probably spend much time with your partner trying to give the entire relationship a deeper and profound meaning - and children are one of the things that will make the bond special. Do not worry, your Vth house cusp has good aspects, the Moon has good aspects too, the bad ones are not frightening. Just wait until Saturn leaves your VIIth house (by the way: this is a bad time ti sign the marital contract and I would advise you not to do so), as this will happen during the year 2006 - I know, a lot of waiting but the Cappy Mercury requires time to arrive. Your VIIth house has 3 signs, Gemini, Cancer and Leo; so that the Moon has no ruler - this is only another indication that you will have to wait for your child and become a mother when least expected. Creating a domestic environment will be a challenge for you trough your entire life and this also shows secrets (if you are buying a house - Cancer - please check all the papers and maybe switch lawyers). The house could have hidden flaws. This is a time when family secrets will be revealed and I don't think you are going to like it. It seems more to me that your partner is going to tell you something about himself and this will require your time, trust and patience. Your IIIrd and IXth house also have more than 2 signs and there MUST be something which is kept hidden from you. But I do not worry - if your relationship lasted during the horrible Saturn/Venus opposition then I can only congratulate you: you seem to have used the best side of this aspect - to see someone who she/he really is and love him for the true, with all the good and bad sides person he/she is. And to know that there are not always roses, flowers and candlelight in a relationship.
I would check your hormones though; a Cappy Moon indicates a lower estrogen/progesterone level and a higher level of testosterone. Your Mars in your IInd could indicate it too, maybe the transit of Uranus triggered a hormonal unbalance and you should check it out. The ruler of your VIth is Mercury and shows the same thing making that strong aspect with Pluto (sexual hormones) and Uranus (thyroid hormones). But those are aspects most people have, just make a little blood check and everything will be OK.

posted September 26, 2003 04:59 PM              

I am simply amazed about how much you know about Capricorn Moons! You described this moon to a tee, as this is exactly how I am and those things are precisely what I would do for my kids!

Thank you!

posted September 26, 2003 09:01 PM              

I wanted to let you know that my sister is pregnant- by insemination. We shall wait and see now.

A question for myself, I am done having my children, and I feel as though my hormones are changing now. I am not 40 yet.
I was wondering if there are any indicators for early menopause in my chart?
I also have a chronic health prob. as well high BP- well controlled.
Birth data: 3/25/64 7:00 a.m. Waukegan, IL.

If you have time, Cindi

posted September 26, 2003 09:07 PM            

I am glad that you are feeling better. Sounds like you had quite a bout of flu.

You can use Los Angeles for my birthtown instead of Artesia.

Thanks again for taking a look and I do hope you get to feeling 100% again.

Take care,

posted September 27, 2003 11:16 AM              

I have noticed this thread since 12house aries started it, but have been to nervous to look. I was just married this past June and think I might start to try next year. It makes me nervous just to write that. Like Trillian, I've always hade a sinking feeling I would have a very difficult time getting pregnant. Not from anything in my horoscope( I wouldn't know were to look!) just a general feeling it wasn't in the cards for me. My husband has 3 children from his previous marriage so I know the problem would not be with him.

posted September 28, 2003 02:00 PM              

Feeling much better and getting back to work in a week, so I had plenty of time to do some charts. Thank you all for the nice wishes!

TINK, I have a question for you: I saw looking at your chart that Saturn entered your Xth house (work, career, bosses etc) and I think this is a good period in your professional life, if you are working. Saturn never brings any major changes in any area of your life, just the well-deserved awards ... or punishments. This is the time to collect the fruits of our labor and if you have been working hard and doing your best, you will receive all the acknowledgment and extra credit you hoped for. This could indicate trouble with your bosses, but as the Xth house is connected to the father, maybe you parents do not approve of this marriage. The trine with all your planets in Scorpio shows this will be a stable and good year (2003/2004). The transit of Uranus in your VIth in the near future will show the change of your working place. I never could figure out 100% precise what someones occupation is, but I guess your work has something to do with food, children, or houses, as the ruler of your Xth (Cancer: food, vine, children, real estate ...) is almost in the IVth (the Cancer house), but in Sagittarius, so it all has an exotic note, maybe even connected to a foreign country. It seems to me that you sometimes bring your work home. The VIth house shows WHERE we work, and yours is in Pisces (institutions, restaurants some strange and hidden places, sometimes even no specific working environment), but the ruler is in Scorpio, on the 29th degree - so I do not think that you are too happy with your work. The IIIrd house shows that you are working "somewhere near your house". Schools, kindergartens and communication places are connected with the IIIrd house and please give me the info what your occupations is, as I am still learning.
You have a VERY strong IInd house with good and bad aspects - money is a very important thing for you and can show that you define your sexual identity with the amount of money (better security) you have, or the amount of food in your refrigerator.
I will have to be indiscreet now: the IVth house in Capricorn shows a traditional and old-fashioned life-style of the parents. They are probably good folks and have a strong and strict moral system, maybe even too religious - which reflects itself on your sexual life (ruler IVth in your VIIIth). As Saturn is here in Taurus - who is old-fashioned and compensates with food - and makes a bunch of bad aspects with your natal Scorpio planets in your IInd, it shows a strong feeling of guilt every time the woman enjoys physical intimacy with her husband/partner or boyfriend. The IInd house is connected to food, so please: every time you feel you want to have sex (and you want it a lot, as there are tons of planets in Scorpio - sex -, the ruler of your VIIIth in Aries - pure sex - and your Vth house - making love - is in your Ith - identity) DO it and do not EAT! I have seen about 20 charts like this of women who feel like ****** just because they enjoy this part of their marriage as any other, so they stuff themselves with chocolate and sweets and end up with 50lbs overweight. Scorpio and Aries are not perverts, they just need a lot of it (Uranus is here, so a little bit of experimentation is probably nice, but nothing too kinky). Your VIIth and VIIIth house are connected in Libra (sign of marriage) and this shows only few men in your life - you do not want to have sex with everybody, you want it to be GOOD. Send the kids to their grandparents and make that closet, kitchen table or bed rock and scream your eyeballs out - and leave the Cookie jar alone! This is a chart of a woman who will end up unhappy and even ill, if not sexually satisfied. You have every right to it and if your husband does not fulfill your needs - demand more! The second house is connected to the endocrinology system and a poor sex-life could make you sick, triggering the testosterone hormones or the thyroid. Compulsive eating and gaining weight will make things just worse, so check that scale now and then.
You asked about babies? Before I answer that question I would like to know if this is your second marriage? Or at least the second very long relationship? This is because your chart indicates divorce. The ruler of your VIIth (marriage) is in Libra, so you have a good opinion about husbands and partners, but is in the sign of its exile (not good). This shows a husband who is inferior and weak. planning his life according to the wishes of his wife. But with 2.5 degrees apart there is Uranus (divorce), so it could indicate a man who will leave you. The aspect is applicational (what will be) not separating (what had happened), so either he will divorce you - or started dating and living with you while still married, those would make that 2.5 years. If this is your second marriage, and I think so, because the Libra woman tends to get married early in life and an early VIIth house cusp shows is too, this will be very good, as Venus and Mercury rule your IXth - second marriage - and are in conjunction with a whole bunch of good planets and the Sun (our desires), so this will be a passionate marriage with lots of love. The opposition with Saturn shows a long waiting period and should indicate someone who is older (7-15 years). As your Vth is his IXth (second marriage) and Neptune is still there - watch out for major dissapointments (square with your Scorpio planets) and lies. I mean from your part, if there is something from your past you are keeping from him, please tell him. Neptune is the planets of illusions and lies and in Aquarius it shows the TRUTH. So no lie will last forever. Ask your husband about his financial transactions and his banking account. I do not think he is telling you everything and could be in trouble.
The IXth house ruler is Uranus and shows that you left or divorced someone, before meeting him. Your VIIIth (what happens after the marriage) shows that you felt left alone and sooo sad! And you were probably in debts to pay of the house you bought. As this is getting confusing, please tell me just a bit more about your marital status - it would make things easier for me.
Your Moon is in Sagittarius, but on the - fatal! - 29th degree. The Moon is also void of course (no aspects until entering the new sign) and shows that you had great difficulties with your own (very demanding: square Pluto/Moon) mother, which probably made you unsure about yourself as a mother and wife. The 29th degree is the degree of tears and it will take hard work and extra effort for you to become a mom and a classic wife. The same degree is very uncomfortable, as the owner never knows if he/she is good enough for the task. The Moon has not too much aspects and I doubt that you are willing to get pregnant so soon. Sagittarius Moon women enjoy out-door activities, sports theater and friends rather than cooking cleaning etc. So you do not wish to be a mom, but will make a good parent ... when absolutely necessary. The Moon in Sagittarius shows a mother who is more a friend to her children and a good sports, disliking any sort of mental or corporal punishment, although the stellium in Scorpio shows a possessive string and a strong will (your husband must be charismatic and charming) and sometimes jealousy. But the 29th degree shows vision: you know what will happen after giving birth - a part of your freedom will be lost for good.
Mercury has good aspects and one of them is a conjunction with Jupiter, Venus, Sun etc. in Scorpio (water sign) so there is no way you are infertile. The Mercury in Scorpio indicates special children: the child will chose when to get born, not you. So those are the constellations when the doctor says you can't get pregnant, but the kid proves otherwise as HE/SHE chose YOU to be his/her mom. The womb just had to cooperate, because it realized that kid WILL be born ... even through your nose if there is no other way. The Saturn opposition shows it will be later in life (35-40), but every other person has such a square, as Venus and Saturn are slow. Your Venus conjuncts your Neptune (ruler of the VIth) in Scorpio and you MUST have had a nasty infection of the urine-genital tract. The Scorpio is too strong not to show so. Neptune is marching through your Vth (kids and pregnancies) making it virtually impossible for you to conceive with planning, but has another interesting interpretation: Neptune is the planet of adoptions, so maybe this shows those 3 kids from the previous marriage of your husband. It will be here for a couple of years, so planning won't bring anything. But this is a wonderful time to get another infection, so please take care! As the ruler of you VIth is on the 29th degree to, this can show a infection when and where least expected. Saturn and Pluto are connected too, and they tend to make everything last FOREVER. So an overall check-up would be good, this is a time when you will be more sensitive than usual to every little virus that comes along. One question: do you have problems with your right ovary?
Your pregnancy is a matter of timing: Saturn is faster than Uranus and Neptune and the key is to wait until Saturn leaves the opposition with your Moon and Asc/Mars/Uranus conjunction and makes a trine with all the planets in Scorpio and a sextile with the natal Saturn. Uranus will be in your VIth by then making a good trine with your natal Scorpio planets and Neptune will make a trine with your Mars/Uranus giving you the chance to get pregnant. There will be a square with the Scorpio planets, so getting pregnant will give you a new, but scary and strange feeling about your femininity, goals, feelings etc. This should happen around the year 2004, but if you wait until the beginning of 2005, Jupiter will be in Libra (trine with your Vth, conjunction with your Asc, VIIth and Vth house ruler), making things easier and yourself more ready for a new job! There is too much Aquarius and air signs to indicate a natural pregnancy and could show a artificial insemination, but can show a dreamy and unusual child. The directional Uranus will hit your natal Mercury (children) and Jupiter (luck) next year, so the year 2004 and the beginning of 2005 will give you more chances to get pregnant, but you will have to see a doctor first. I am not worried about you, your Scorpio nature is too strong to accept bead news: your motto is: "then there has to be another way" and you have patience and enough stubbornness to drink medications or take shots for the next 15 incarnations, if necessary, to get pregnant. You will do EVERYTHING in your power to become a mother and a lazy ovary or hostile womb is something that will NOT scare the Scorpio lady - it takes more than a few non-cooperating organs to intimidate her. Bravo for fighters!
The next 3-4 years will be very good and interesting for you whatever you decide and there is nothing alarming in your chart: your chart has planets next to each other and this shows major changes in all areas of your life during one period, because as soon one planets make a square with one bunch of planets, it will make a trine with another. Every time something good happened to you, something bad will happen too. As soon Jupiter enters Scorpio (2005) there will be a significant life-style swing in your house - you will gain a LOT of money or jewelery or a house near a little river (inheritance) and will be content and happy for the next few years. A definite expansion of your home (bigger house or more kids) will be during the year 2007, when you will accept your role as a mother and wife 100%.

Pidua - the independent woman of the 21th century, who shows us that modern women can do everything if they just want to. The everlasting optimistic and a good sports and best friend type of woman. A fiery lady, if I may add and the executive director of her own life: "I can't get something? Says WHO?" You asked about babies? Mercury in Vth in Capricorn, kids OK, but not too loud or too many - "Mommy has her meeting of the board of directors today ..." Square Moon/Mercury: "OK people, this is not the child I ordered! What kind of kid sits at home all day and reads books? He could play soccer or be at least outside. Is there a refund?" Just kidding, but it will take quite some time for you to accepts that the kid WON'T be like you. He will be quite and isolated, but a good and obedient child (I know that the Aries Moon mom likes little rascals and rebellions, but hey ...). I think you will make an excellent mother for a quite child, helping him to be more open and friendly with other children and participating in group activities. You will instinctively know when something is wrong (trine Neptune) and I bet there is no problem for you to beat up the older kid next door who bothers your beloved offspring ... the dad has something to add too? No problem! I am a modern lady so I can punch a man too. Just try to be less extravagant and electric (opposition with Uranus) than usual. The Mercury kid loves stable and secure situations and more than 2 surprises per month could be over demanding for him. The ruler of your Vth is in Scorpio, so there is no use hiding anything from this kid. Wait for the family reunion and your innocent angel will announce that uncle X is cheating on his wife, aunt Y had a her boobs fixed and sister Z is pregnant although only 15. By the time he is 6 he will know what sex is exactly. If there is something YUO don't know, don't hesitate to ask him. It will seem to you that you brought a 50 year old baby to this world who is more responsible than you are. You are having trouble because your Moon is attacked by Saturn and that makes you more sensitive and grumpy (female organs too) and Jupiter entered Virgo and will make a square with your natal Sun/Venus conjunction - try to buy less things and save more money. This is not the time to be extravagant. The best time to get pregnant is during August 2007. Jupiter will be in conjunction with your Sun/Venus and Vth house cusp, making a trine with your Moon in the VIIIth (easy delivery). The transit ruler of your Vth will be in your Ist house in Virgo making a trine with your Mercury and natal Saturn.
One advice: if you have any legal activities during this time - watch out. The transit Mars (the lawyer) is in Pisces and Uranus is near too. There could be some unpleasant change in the area of other people's money (is your partner in any financial trouble) and the lawyer won't be prepared enough. You could easily change your marital status right now, as the arguments and quarrels between you and your partner are more than enough for you.

Cindy, I do not think that your sister is going to get pregnant soon, as Saturn is marching over her Moon making a square with her Sun/Mars in Aries. The Jupiter is in Virgo, making aspects that are of no use and a prominent opposition with her Saturn/Mercury in Pisces. This will be money and time consuming with no or very little results and can cause heavy fights and arguments between the spouses. The entire year of 2006 will be the best for her to get pregnant, as Jupiter will complete the grand water trine in her Vth, making it more than easy to conceive. But this is the year when your sister and her husband will get closer and make a good team ... or split up if the pressure is too great and the task too demanding.
I do not think that you will enter menopause yet, Saturn (death, getting old) and your Moon make absolutely no aspect, but Saturn will be crossing over your Moon during November, December of the year 2007. Before that you will feel good, then bad, then excellent. Uranus (also the ruler of sexual glands) will give the final kick during October and November of the year 2007, giving you the last period. A word of advise, outer planets are little mischiefs and tend to bring trouble wherever they are. Sudden cold and heat fluctuations, tenderness of the breasts, please see a good doctor and avoid heavy drugs. Virgo indicates eating healthy, so a good life-style (I have heard that women from Japan experience no symptoms of a menopause because of the soy food they eat, ask your doctor about that) should do it. Pluto shows tumors and a hormonal unbalanced system is just the spot for that: ovaries, womb and the breast should be checked every now and then.
I do not know what your health problem is: the kidneys are your weak area too and the stomach, pancreas the liver etc. Maybe you have an ulcer or something like that. A stone? You have a VIth house that has 3 signs, the Libra has no ruler. This shows that sometimes doctors can not find the real source of your problem and treat the wrong disease. The kidneys are the trouble makers and the opposition with Neptune could show that they do not let enough fluid out, or that you have an infection. And your condition will require hospital treatment (VIth in the XIIth) and will be treated with either the laser or the ultrasound. Something modern. Medication won't help. I do not see any surgical knife. Anyway, if you are gaining weight, you are treating the wrong thing. Please let me know what your chronic problem is.

posted September 28, 2003 02:39 PM            

Thank you so much for the advice!!! As it happens I am entering the final stage of divorce, which will be final October 23rd. There have been many upheavals on the personal and career fronts. Legally, my company is in a major battle with a licensee of our and that case is before a tribunal / arbitration. Our lawyers, under the micromanagment of our CEO, were not prepared for the task and I was working on the legal arguments as late as last week. In any case, the outcome could affect my position with the company, which may not be a bad thing.

Funny thing, the guy that I have been seeing has a 1 1/2 year old, she is a Capricorn with a Scorpio moon. Sweet child, very intelligent and wise beyond her years. I once had a dream that she was almost 5 when I was carrying our child. That would put things in the year 2007. That blew my mind when you said that. I will of course be 37, but that is still a good age to have kids.

posted September 28, 2003 07:55 PM              

To answer your 1st queston - yes, it has been a good time for me professionally. I was recently transferred to a new location that I am very happy with. The last two locations were quite unpleasant and I do feel that this was a bit of a reward for loyal service under very trying circumstances. Although, you are correct - on the whole I am not happy with my profession. Yes, I do often bring my work home.

I think my mother was happy with my marriage. She certainly approves of my husband - she adores him! I always said I wasn't the "marriage-type" so she was suprised when I told her we were engaged. My husband and I eloped out of state without our families there. I know she wasn't thrilled about that. My father and I are estranged (my choice)and as far as I know he is unaware of the marriage. Prehaps that's what you picked up on? My mom is a VERY high-minded, moral sort. My father, sadly, is not. This has had a deep influence on me. My mom (yes, very demanding)and I had a tough time of it for a while but we have been quite close for about 8 years. The difficulties she had with my father did make me "very unsure about myself as a wife and mother". I dread making the same mistakes, repeating the same story.

Money is important to me. But not in an obvious sort of way. Growing up, money was either in abundance or impossible to come by. Consequently, I don't trust it. I don't feel right without a nest egg safetly stored away in the bank.

Sex?! Guilt?!?. Never! "you don't want to have sex with everybody, you want it to be GOOD!" Exactly. "A little experimentation is good, just not anything kinky" Exactly.
I do very often feel unworthy of sex. Not thin enough, not pretty enough, etc., etc. This has been a topic of discussion in my house lately My weight's normal I suppose(5'7",130lbs) but I sure would like to be thinner! I will give that "overeating to replace sex" theory some thought.

This is both my 1st marriage and first long-term relationship. Sad to see my chart indicates divorce. We did start dating (just dating!) before his divorce was final. He is 8 years older than me - right again! I did keep a few secrets in the begining but everything's out in the open now. And yes, he did have a financial problem he kept to himself up until the last minute. He's very self-sufficient and doesn't liked to be helped. But that is also out in the open and taken care of. Yes, he is charismatic and charming!

"classic wife and mother". I just don't think I have it in me. Not sure I want to. My sister(a taurus sun/cancer rising/libra moon) is VERY good at it and I respect it but...

I did have a nasty urinary-tract infection recently. I will be careful. Cranberry juice is now my best friend.

My "life plan" has been to be pregnant in 2005. That seems to fit in with your analysis. Thank you for saying you don't think I'm infertile - that was my fear. We plan to relocate and buy a home(near the water!) in 2007. Neither of us have owned a home before. So that was nice to hear also.

I am a retail manager for a medium size pharmacy chain in New England. Hope that helps.

Thank you so much for the time and effort you put into this. It means so much. I will think deeply about everthing you said. God bless you!

tink

posted September 28, 2003 09:02 PM            

My goodness but your insights and your detail are amazing and impressive. You got many things right about me...though, I don't actually go for the look you thought I might . No one would call me a 'girly girl,' I'm not prissy or frilly, but I am still pretty feminine, full make up every day, from foundation to shadow to blush to liner, don't leave the house w/o it! I have at least 5 shades of lipstick in my purse at any given time, a compact, a brush and other accessories too.

Yes, I have put career in front of nearly everything else, and still continue to do so. Actually, am working towards an almost drastic shift in career, and am hoping for some very good news in the coming weeks.

And, I hug pretty often actually! Yeah, I suppose at times I can be seen as cold, but I genuinely care deeply about many people in my life and love very deeply. I am often considered a very caring and sympathetic ear, I have an open mind. But yeah, I can also be seen as a b*tch sometimes.

Oh, total nail on the head about a lot of the Cappy moon stuff, though! If something needs to be done, I do it! If my niece or nephew need something, I get it or get it done.

Well I hate to add to your work load, but I'll post my birth data here, and if you have time and wouldn't be troubled by it, I would gratefully appreciate any insights you can share.
April 16, 1960 1:40 p.m. Pittsburgh, PA

Thank you, and many blessings to you.

posted September 28, 2003 11:59 PM              

I was thinking of calling my gyne and getting a full check up. Lately I have had the symptoms of hot /cold and tender breasts. I also have had a kidney stone in the past.

I have eaten more soy in the past and was just thinking tonight that I need to start up again. I am quite health conscious, I exercise regularly and weight is normal.

Thank you, I will call my MD in the am.

posted September 29, 2003 06:28 AM              

your interpretations of the others horoscopes have been giving me the chills, I've been following this thread with a lot of interest. You have a huge talent for astrology. If, when you've done all the others charts who are standing in line, you don't mind to take a peek at mine; I have huge guilt problems with my son and am unsure whether I should have a second child. Only if you have the time to look, though...no pressure. Windsor, Can 06.06.75 at 5:59 pm.

Thanks for the inspiration for learning more about astrology,

posted September 29, 2003 05:04 PM              

You are an amazing saint.

*she said, meaning it sincerely but afraid that it's going to sound like a butterin' up*

My partner and I got pregnant around late July and are due in the very early part of May...seeing what you wrote for pidua, what kinda Mom do you think I'll be? What kinda kiddo? How 'bout my husband as a father?

(NOTE: I ask this out of curiosity...if you are swamped...and I will completely understand if you are, just say so.)

My info:
12 MAR 80
9:43 PM EST
Fairfax, Virginia, USA

posted September 30, 2003 07:44 PM              

I am feeling sick ... real sick! I took a look at your chart, Nackie, and felt a strong cramp in my stomach - your chart is strange and is giving me the chills. I am not psychic or anything, but my XIIth house is strong - I sense trouble in your life!
I hope that this is just a post-flu symptom and that I am 100% wrong ... but there is something WRONG with your child. Definetly wrong! His planets are attacked and the aspects are a threat to his life ... if I upset you, please forgive me! I sense there is something terrible going on with him ... almost as he is not with you! Is he ... God frobbid! dead? What is going on with him? Please tell me, I can not sleep! Or e-mail me at zorana24@yahoo.com.

posted October 01, 2003 06:39 AM              

Thank you for your incredibly kind offer; you've always seemed a groovy chick.

zoka -

posted October 01, 2003 07:33 AM              

Well, so glad to be wrong about Nackie's chart and her boy ... until now, for that matter! A bad and disobedient child is always better than a missing or sick kid. But you were right when asking about the child - he will be a big problem in your life and the fact that I saw him 'missing' (sorry for the rising of your blood pressure) is connected to the fact he has a really weird chart, the Pisces and Neptune are so strong and with strong bad/good aspects, that I could not find out what is going on in his life and where he is. Sorry to have upset you, but if I may add, I got pretty upset too!

Nackie, I have looked at your chart and noticed the strong Vth house and the Moon in Taurus in the VIIth (as you asked about kids). There is often a great difference between HOW we see our children and what they REALLY are (yes, my kid is the best, the smartest, the prettiest the, the, the ...). We often try our best and although we think that bad people live in some other places, we often find them near us; the bad mother, the tyrant father, the problematic child. And then, we find the wicked kid in our own yard and no matter what we do - and the mother loves the child no matter what he/she does - it won't get better.
There is nothing wrong with your motherhood for that matter. The Moon in Taurus in the VIIth shows that you probably said farewell to all the friends, parties, independence etc. and focused on your family. You made a 180 degree life-style switch. It has an strong opposition with your rising sign: you really sacrifice a lot for your husband and your kid, the exact quincux with Neptune shows it too. You are tuned to every emotional, material, psychological , you name it! need of them and you change your behavior to indulge. Every problem they have is yours, every little worry they have is yours. The fact that this is making you sick or depressed does not concern them. Maybe people notice how much you have changed after getting married - the little dreamer and princess, the deep thinker is now the little wife. This may be so more or less, but your chart shows someone who can take a lot - and people around you who use that too often.
Your Moon in the VIIth shows a great mother and a great wife; there is literally nothing you would avoid doing to make your family happy. You have patience, understanding, tolerance ... for 100 children.
Your first child is a little rascal. I now know what the feeling of guilt is about, and believe me: he deserved it! - the kid will be a problem, not you as a mother. Mercury (children general) is in opposition to Neptune (ruler of the Vth, the first child) and he is not the way you wanted a child to be. He has a lot of planets in his Vth - Aries Jupiter and Mars and they have some difficult aspects: opposition with Pluto (horrible temper and a lenience toward criminal activities), the square with Saturn (stubborn and if I may say: mean). He has a lot of energy and if not taken care properly, this is a child who will be a criminal; problems with alcohol, drugs etc. are inevitable when he gets older. But he has charm, he will have his way with women and knows how to get what he wants. I would force him to join sport activities: swimming (water polo) would be best, although I think that basketball or football should be good too, as he is a loner and too self-centered, so group activity will teach him to handle other people. I do not see an disease or serious health problem - hope I am right! - but there are some aspects (not strong) that could show problems with the thinking process, with the movement of his limbs or speech/hearing. A hot temper and strong will, watch out for high fever with this child, it could easily get out of control. If focused right, he can be a good person and achieve good results in life, but it will take the strength of a Titan and the patience of a mountain, if not - this is a child that will neglect the rules of society and do whatever he wants.
There is one thing, though. Your Vth house is in Pisces (lost things, lies and confusion) and the ruler moves back. A painful question: is he living with you? Did you give him away for adoption? Is there something you are hiding from him (who his biological father is)? The Pisces Vth house can alter the whole interpretation, as it brings unusual and mysterious happenings with the child, the retro Neptune and Mercury proves so. This is the chart of a child who gives me the chills! Pisces are no good here, giving you a kid who lives in his own world with his own rules. The kid has 'dramatic' aspects, so a normal interpretation is almost impossible.

I can not give you any specific details if I do not know what the child's problem is - it is definitely not the result of bad motherhood!
A second child? Yes and no. Your Moon is in the VIIth (second kid) and this is the child whom you will be comfortable with as the mother. The child will be good and obedient, not too smart and with some problems is school, but a deep thinker - if interested in the subject. A friendly and charming kid with a Million of unusual friends. So you should get pregnant a second time, but try to be not so over-protecting or you will suffocate the child, focusing ALL your motherhood onto him.

I am looking at your chart and the South Node is grinning. It is the point of loss and one of the most difficult things to handle. At age 20 your directional Moon and the VIIth house marched over the South Node - a major loss in your life (partner, mother, an older woman). At age 15 the directional South Node marched over your Sun, the ruler of your Xth - did your father die? Then this stupid point walked over your Mercury at age 20 (again!) making this one of the most difficult years of your life - mentally! I am 100% sure you have lost your child in some way, the Node is too wicked not to show so. The transit planets are in a so-so position. Transit Neptune is in your IIIrd. I have said it before: when Neptune hits Pisces, every lie will be revealed. As it is in your IIIrd house (thinking, younger sister/brother), you are not thinking straight and you are easily confused. Maybe you are forced to hide something and can't keep it forever. You just have the urge to tell something to somebody and it is quite a burden for you. It is the ruler of your Vth (the child) so please tell me what is troubling you so much. The transit Uranus is in your IVth with the Mars. Now is the time to clear things with your family and home - watch out for flaws with the electric installation, computers etc. - it could lead to a short-cut and cause a fire in your home.

Once again, sorry to have scared you so much, but your question was not about the little trouble before school, this has much deeper roots and is troubling you very much. The charts with the strong Mars/Saturn and Pluto aspects NEVER have a normal life, there is always some trouble waiting around the next corner. Those aspects are not easily controlled and bring big transformations in your life, they are often called the "life hard knocks" as the happenings are everything but pleasant. And the signs are strong too, so there is no way you will have (or had!) a peaceful life. Your child's chart is stubborn and self-centered and he thinks you don't love him enough (Moon in Capricorn square Saturn in Aries) and that you are spending too much time away from him with other people (Moon near the XIIth house cusp). The father has no importance in his life and any other father figure will evoke the rebel in him causing heavy arguments. This is a child who seeks trouble, fighting, stealing f.e. and will break his bones more than once in his life, while playing with other kids. I would advise you to keep him away from alcohol no matter what, he is magically drawn to it. I am so sorry to say this: this is a totally independent child who will do through his entire life whatever he wants without any regret. Every word you say has no point, every punishment has no meaning. He will be a walking problem in your life and at this point I would strongly advise you to have a second child to devote your time and love to. This will teach your child that he is not the center of your life (although he is) and maybe make him softer ... the IIIrd house cusp is on a late degree, so looking ate your kids chart, there should be no other children, but your chart shows a possibility to get pregnant the second time. The ruler of his IIIrd (younger brother/sister) is in Virgo and trines his Uranus (the Ist house ruler in the Ist), so they should get along quite well and as your second child will have a strong will too (sorry, it seems you will bring only strong children into this world) they both will learn they can't have everything their way - but will make a good team and help each other. Soft emotions? Never! You have some gentle planets and probably shake your head now and then looking at your kid. Both of them will be totally different and you should try to accept this - I know it will be hard.

The thing that confuses me is that you got pregnant while Saturn was marching through your Vth - this usually can not give a normal pregnancy or a pregnancy at all! Although there is a trine with the ruler of the Vth, but those are outer planets and the aspects are lasting long. Saturn makes us think, evolve and revolve and demands deep transformation and suffering. Endurance is the key. If you had gotten pregnant during your 24. year of life, the whole mother-child relationship would have been easier. This way, you will have a mischief in your hands and I don't know what you can do about that. Your Moon in Taurus will be patient, but I do not know for how long ...

One more thing: if you had an abortion or a miscarriage, please tell me: this will alter the whole interpretation a lot and I will be more specific about your kids. Sorry to have upset you!