posted September 29, 2005 04:55 AM              

My love life is fine.....we are together a long time and it aint always been easy, but he can match me.....ha ha......so I have great love and respect for him......respect always has been a BIG one for me girl......and I never lost it for him......thank God !!!

I really hope you will figure this one out......mmm...have a feeling you may meet someone else.....completely different.....ha ha ha !!!!

Love

posted September 29, 2005 10:01 AM              

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Can totally identify with u on this one ... crazy in love ....... it is difficult not to love 'em ........... dealing with the weeks of silence is the nightmare - then they contact you like no time has passed and nothing has happended.

Am dying to know what this seduction trick is ........... pleae don't keep us in suspense..

Do these guys continue to do this forever or to they stabilise at some point?

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The first questiion , does he know about your affection . if he doesn't , tell him.
and dont expect him to run around u , cancers dont like running after anyone .

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One of my pet hates is "henpecked"men

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a lot times , we are accused of being not as strong as scorps . let me ask , what do u mean by strongness ?
ok, right we are not as gutsy as scorps , we are not as adapt at maintaining calmness on our face in case of urgency but for that u gotta understand the whole psychology of cancers .
1. guts - i wont argue on this , they are more gutsy ( in violent scences , not in every aspect of life) but cancers can be more cruel.
2.again , we are not very good at keeping our emotions bottled up or not showing it . we are ,what we are at your face. but this only this intial phase , once this passes ( even reactions in this phase depend a lot on thier moods) second phase starts and that matters . so let me ask , all the scorps , how many times have u seen a cancer running away from a problem ( yes deep within they want to) or responsbilities .
they have a defensive approach to life and a lot of reactions come from this .

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we cancers like patient people and we like scoprs , they are enchanting be it negative or positive but they are .
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then angel, why don't cancers show it?

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playing games: they dont know how play games . take my words for it .
infact , it would be very wrong to say about your and celtic's man but in a general way , they dont play games with anyone . they can play games only when they having a grudge against someone , when its the payback time . again, take my words , they can be very good at this with the emotional bonding skills .

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just curious....since it is basically a new moon have you Cancers gone into hiding?? mine seems to have

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ah , that trick . its very simple actually . make him sentimental ,for that u 'll have to go and say wahtever u feel about him . if u can do that , u most probably have him if he is even a bit interested in u.
but the caution , dont try to play mind games . he may not understand it in the first moment but he 'll sure think of every thing that happend, afterwards and if he feels he has been used in any sense then insted of a lover , u 'll have a grudging enemy.

posted September 29, 2005 10:17 AM              

whatever will be will be ........... amongst all the astrology in the world we all have personalities that are also based on past experiences and future dreams/hopes! it all depends where people are placed mentally/emotionally at any one point in time.

If the moment arises to progress with him then I will, if it doesn't then I wont. He knows how I feel without me having to say it and if he wants to come forward he will ........ in the meantime I will give him the respect and space that is his right and let him make his own decision here. I can always hope and send loads of loving thoughts thru the universe to him.

He is a fab guy and whoever he chooses in life will be a lucky woman.

If u have any other words of wisdom please let me know and I will always take note.......... e'thing u say is spot on and is adding great insight into my thoughts and ideas. U have been a great help.

One thing I am sure of is that Cancerians make wonderful friends

posted September 29, 2005 10:38 AM              

They don't show it, but I think secretly they WANT to be the center of attention, but they play humble like this whole "Me really? No way!" stuff. Irks me.

My best friend's(an Aries) brother is a Cancer...BIG clown, always good for a laugh. Not so much a deep person. But recently went through some deep crisis and did the typical: Hid like a crab! He is sensitive but again, like the women cancers plays it off....He is very concerned with home and family (not so much his, but the one he envisions down the road)

To cancers moodiness and secrecy, I just say: Let it all out!! lol. :-)

But no matter what, usually everyone loves a cancer...

posted September 29, 2005 01:03 PM              

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1. guts - i wont argue on this , they are more gutsy ( in violent scences , not in every aspect of life) but cancers can be more cruel.

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posted September 29, 2005 01:05 PM              

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They don't show it, but I think secretly they WANT to be the center of attention, but they play humble like this whole "Me really? No way!"

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posted September 29, 2005 08:11 PM              

so you mean exactly how I feel about him??? Cuz I love him, but am afraid to tell him that because I am afraid that it would sending scrabling over backwards to fast and go in to hiding where I'll never see him again!! We both told each other that we care for each other a great deal but the "L" word has not come up..even tho it seems to be on the tip of coming out at times I know for me anyway, and maybe for him...i don't know.....I have new moon snow more than ever!!!!

posted September 29, 2005 08:32 PM              

I have been the boss and I have been dominated before also.

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Gemini sun, Cancer rising, mercury in Gemini, moon in Taurus *29, venus in Taurus, mars in Libra

posted September 30, 2005 10:35 AM              

scorps lkie to take situations head on but a cancer would think , think ,think and then walk his crabby walk . thats why they seem so confusing to others , its just that .

i have been in the situation that your man are , u know why i dont want to and ask for a date is ,
first, fear of rejection ( in lov's case its sounds more prominent but i think celtic should talk straight and tell why she likes him , dont forget to add that she feels and has great respect for the way he's taking care of his daughters and dont forget to add that even if he doesn't want a realtion , her respect for him wont diminish . i feel this can do the trick. i think he might not be taking a step is that he might not be sure if u would be able to adjust witha father of two , this is very important for them . they are afraid of broken realtions thats why he 's not commiting , may be b'cos he isn't sure )

second, insecurity ( something that is there in celtic case and even in luv's but in a different way )

third and the last , they dont want to run after anyone . thats thier let it go attitude . this attitude actually hampers thier growth and this is one reason why they like sags as friends . the opposite attracts . this is not to say that they are not positive people .

posted September 30, 2005 10:44 AM              

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They don't show it, but I think secretly they WANT to be the center of attention, but they play humble like this whole "Me really? No way!" stuff. Irks me.

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hahahahahahahahah..................
ok caught . gem , could u please let us have some of our secrets .
actually , that reaction is also b'cos of thier inherent shyness .

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at some point, it does have to be about me and who I am too!

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posted September 30, 2005 11:10 AM              

I will be seeing him tonite at the station but it is not the most appropriate place to discuss matters of the heart. But I will tell him I missed him this week (which I really have) I always kind of miss him when he's not around bu t this was the heart panging kind of missing someone. First time that that has happened, maybe because it is the longest since we've been seeing each other that that we have gone with out seeing or mutual contact with each other. I would like to be at the point of have some daily contact. Do cancers ever get to that point or is it always 2 steps sideways and one step backward????

posted September 30, 2005 11:19 AM              

before all that , let me tell u , i would have personally liked it very much if someone had said that she missed me . and i think your man would too . he's a pisces moon too , isn't he?

about getting to the point , cabs like talking about the prospects of the realtions in a very special way to all the people in general but more with people that they are fond of .

and u know what , cancers love the way scorps show respect . i have always said this , that scorps are the best people to feel someone feel respected even though they are sarcastic . they are the best in this way.

i alraedy feel so connected and immersed in your situatuion . wish u very very very very good luck .

we are online at the same time .

posted October 01, 2005 05:17 AM              

Got a call which woke me up yesterday morning from the cancerian guy in question (please bare im mind that I haven't heard from him in ages & was giving up), first he said hello and realised he had woken me up and all apologetic (sweet) ..... i didn't mind & then he just talked and talked and talked and I just listened. He Started off saying he has a business proposal for me and wants me to go into business with him and another friend ......... because of something I had mentioned about 4 months ago in passing about a niche in the market ........ well he is trying to organise it omg

Then he wants me to spend time with him, have lunch as well etc.......

Well I tell you what is bizarre .......... for ages nothing ........... and then everything all at once ........... completely mind blown to say the least ............... and to top it all off he wants to all of this next week and for me to meet the business people etc....

On top of that he was paying me compliment after compliment pretty much telling me that I have the whole package and he has never met a woman like me ...... not in a romantic way more in connection with the business idea ........... but he has doen loads of research on what I said about the business etc...........

Unbelievable ............. but fab ......... feel very overwhelmed by it all actually ........... nice surprise!

One thing though I made him laugh himself silly on the phone which was so great to hear ...........

and guess what ........ the texting has stopped and he is calling now ..... probably has something to do with the very direct text I sent him about the games he was playing & the texting etc.... about a month ago lol

Anyway things look like they might be moving forward and I am just going with the flow but very happy he is back in my life in a way ............. will keep you posted.

Don't give up on cancer guys cos they do return and in the most amazing way.

posted October 01, 2005 11:31 AM              

thank him . he saved us , cancers !

to tell u one more thing about cancers , cancer always have plans that include thier very trusty people ( for this, who better than a life partner )in thier business plans . they dont even want to include friends b'cos relations always have the possibility of going sore , so it has to be someone that they trust . in your case , its not completly the case but yes, to an extent.

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Well I tell you what is bizarre .......... for ages nothing ........... and then everything all at once ........... completely mind blown to say the least ...............

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thats the special crab way !!!!!

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One thing though I made him laugh himself silly on the phone which was so great to hear ...........

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Good for u . they like people who laugh freely or those who can make them laugh that throaty silly laugh .

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..... probably has something to do with the very direct text I sent him about the games he was playing & the texting etc..

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It worked . didn't it ?

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Just hope he doesn't go ino hiding again lol

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posted October 01, 2005 12:29 PM              

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He Started off saying he has a business proposal for me and wants me to go into business with him and another friend ......... because of something I had mentioned about 4 months ago in passing about a niche in the market ........ well he is trying to organise it omg

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I think I said that we never go straight to the point... You gave him a excuse for calling you (the niche in the market).

I can't tell how romantically interested is him but the worst that will happen is that you'll make some money