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Topic: Venus-Neptune in the Natal Chart
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sunshine_lion
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posted October 21, 2008 04:22 PM
 
actually cap rising with both the wrong andright birth data. saturn always was in his first house..
you may say I'm a dreamer....but I'm not the only one....
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deuxantares
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posted October 21, 2008 04:25 PM
I was browsing thru the old posts. Did anyone predict that you're gonna meet a Sag and he's the one?IP: Logged |
sunshine_lion
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posted October 21, 2008 04:32 PM
yup, back in nov of 07, lotusheartone did a tarot reading for me and told me that in about 6 months I would meet a sag, lucky jupiter.... i met him in june...she alsopredicted a baby, and not soon after, my son's gf was pg, due any day now! Her reading was very (scary) accurate. IP: Logged |
deuxantares
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posted October 21, 2008 04:36 PM
Wow 
Oh your grandson is going to be a Scorp!  IP: Logged |
sunshine_lion
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posted October 21, 2008 04:37 PM
excerpts from that read......these are exact quotes..THE OUTCOME-
3 of Cups, there is a marriage and/or birth
announcement, this is in about 6 months..there is
celebration, but it's all quick, because there is
great work to do, so enjoy, the short break, for
a journey comes right after.
OPPOSING MATTERS-
Page of Pentacles, the Golden Child, a young person,
prptected by God, here for a purpose, a mission, there
is something very special here.
PRESENT EXPECTATIONS-
The LOvers, you are expecting a committment, and you
are correct, there will be a time to live the correct
sacred way in pure LOve. WHAT IS NOT EXPECTED-
King of Wands, a fire sign male, popps in, is there
competion? For this man rides on the tides of success,
forgets all failures, could fall in a pile of crap,
and come out smelling like roses, lol, he like lucky
Jupiter, a Sag?
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AcousticGod
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posted October 21, 2008 04:40 PM
My Venus and Neptune are conjunct in the 7th. I'm 35, and never been married. I'm not averse to getting married, but I would take my time on figuring out if it really seemed right.IP: Logged |
deuxantares
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posted October 21, 2008 04:42 PM
AG, i have noticed similarities in our charts.
Gemini Rising
Saturn in the 1st
Saturn retrograde
NN Capricorn
and this last one. Ah wait, mine is sextile. So doesn't count much. But counts.  IP: Logged |
sunshine_lion
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posted October 21, 2008 04:57 PM
yes. a wonderful little scorpio! IP: Logged |
blue moon
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posted October 21, 2008 05:09 PM
Deux ~ the Venus/Neptune Square guy put it down to emotional immaturity, chronic insecurity and having attended a public school (i.e very posh private) where he learned absolutely nothing about women. Still, good at mending things, and he looked handsome while he did it. Whilst I am on the train of thought I have another friend with this, but he has the Trine. He put down the failure of his first marriage to them both being too young. I did think he could use getting rid of the ex-wife. Which he did, in the end. Venus/Neptune people are lovely, maybe sometimes in need of a friend to point out when someone is taking advantage. IP: Logged |
amowls
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posted October 21, 2008 05:14 PM
I think those with a Venus-Neptune aspect are more prone to idealism in marriage, hence why some might not choose to marry (because they are looking for something PERFECT). I don't think they are averse to marriage, per se.IP: Logged |
deuxantares
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posted October 21, 2008 05:19 PM
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Venus/Neptune people are lovely, maybe sometimes in need of a friend to point out when someone is taking advantage.
True. IP: Logged |
deuxantares
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posted October 21, 2008 05:24 PM
Amowls, quote:
I think those with a Venus-Neptune aspect are more prone to idealism in marriage, hence why some might not choose to marry (because they are looking for something PERFECT). I don't think they are averse to marriage, per se.
Yes you are right. What if he/she is not the one? What if I marry him/her now and then someone better comes along? IP: Logged |
scrappydog
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posted October 21, 2008 05:42 PM
I have venus in virgo square neptune in sag and i'm getting married soon for the 3rd time, i'm only 28. Venus is really important in my chart since i'm a libra with taurus rising. I've seen this aspect play out in both extremes, either someone who is commitment phobic or people who are completely romantic and dependant (can't be alone) and is always chosing the wrong person, but goes from bad relationship to bad relationship constantly searching for the "ideal". Almost everyone i have known with this aspect has notorious bad judgment in the opposite sex. Pamela Anderson and Jerry Lee Lewis both have the square(I think JLL has been marries 7 times.IP: Logged |
deuxantares
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posted October 21, 2008 05:47 PM
Scrappy, which one are you, commitment-phobic or relationship-dependent? Btw, are you female or male?IP: Logged |
Kick It
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posted October 21, 2008 08:14 PM
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kick it (me) is probobly looking for that one in a million girl too. aww....but isn't love grand!
Nah, plenty of decent women out there, just looking for my independence. No.1 on the list! Why do you say (me)? IP: Logged |
oneruledbymars
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posted October 21, 2008 10:35 PM
Scrappy-dog you are right. I have the square with my Venus being in Pisces, and my Nep in Sagitarrius, and it basically sucks, its one of my least favorite aspects in my chart. And it has taken a while to free those Neptune energies. I have had bad relationship, after bad relationship. I definitely used to be in love with being in love. I can't count how many times looking back that I sacrificed myself for love like a idiot. It was the ultimate form of self-deception, its like you see what you want to see, instead of what it really is. I used to think that codependency is love. But I have learned the hard way that it is not. And up until my most recent soul connection I used to be obsessed with finding the ideal partner. But somehow that has become not so important now. I am now more focussed own working through all this Karma I have collected from previous lives. And thats keeping more than occupied.
And Deaux honestly I have no intentions of getting married anytime soon! lol
Marriage just doesnt appeal to me, I feel like if I am going to make that kind of commitment to someone, I don't need a ceremony or a piece of paper.
For me if its meant to be, time will prove that it was meant to be.------------------
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buena36
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posted October 22, 2008 05:55 AM
Hi deuxantares,I know very well this aspect: Venus-Neptune! I have that (good) aspect and I can love somebody from far away (I did it more times) and that person has no idea what is there going on. We are dreamy persons:
we are in love with love but when it comes very close than we don't see the situation very clear and are afraid that after that won't be the same. Dream is always good as long as is only dream. Venus-Neptune means also love from overseas.
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deuxantares
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posted October 22, 2008 08:03 AM
Kick It, go look for a woman with a Ven-Nep aspect. Perfect match for you! IP: Logged |
deuxantares
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posted October 22, 2008 08:08 AM
Oneruledbymars: quote:
Marriage just doesnt appeal to me, I feel like if I am going to make that kind of commitment to someone, I don't need a ceremony or a piece of paper.
I hear you.
If I really have to get married I would prefer doing it while I'm a bit tipsy maybe. Or the ceremony has to be really short and quick, so I won't have time to over-analyze. Or maybe we can just sign papers and go, no need for ceremonies. Accckkk! Thinking about it makes me feel weird. IP: Logged |
deuxantares
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posted October 22, 2008 08:32 AM
Buena, very true. A long-distance relationship makes you see only the "ideal" side of the partner. His absence supports the fairy tale you see in the imagination. For people who have this aspect and are dating online, it is advisable to meet the other person face-to-face ASAP and get to know them well before getting into a serious relationship. IP: Logged |
scrappydog
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posted October 24, 2008 10:45 PM
I'm a relationship dependent female. I'm in love with being in love. Never have I decieved myself in the way I do with men. In every other way I am realistic and down to earth. But in a relatioship I let the other person take advantage any way they want and I used to completely lie to myself about it. I can believe whatever I want when it comes to my so. I start my relationship idealizing the other person to a point they can never live up to, when I discover they are flawed and human in a way I never imagined in the beginning, I become resentful and hurt and I always leave. I'm always the dumper in a relationship. Men are never what I think they are in the beginning, I have so far always chosen really bad characters, but I am always shocked when I finally take the blinders off because for a period of time I only see what I want and block out everything I don't like the things that are so obvious to everyone else around the person, like me being used or abused.IP: Logged |
pearler
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posted October 24, 2008 11:25 PM
Mr Pearler has the square and I, too have the square, albeit with a wide orb though my venus is part of a stellium therefore it gets pulled into it. We also have the opposition in composite.6+ years on and still not married, but there’s no rush!!
We are engaged.
Neither of us are going anywhere.
We’ll get there one day.
It’ll have to be a ‘different’ type of wedding, the idea of all that planning and inviting family (mine) comes a close second to the thrill of a dental appointment. Obviously the ‘romanticism’ inherent in a venus/Neptune aspect is lost on me.
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deuxantares
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posted October 24, 2008 11:29 PM
Pearler, do you have Ven-Nep in your synastry or composite?IP: Logged |
deuxantares
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posted October 24, 2008 11:32 PM
Pearler quote:
It’ll have to be a ‘different’ type of wedding, the idea of all that planning and inviting family (mine) comes a close second to the thrill of a dental appointment.
 I can relate. I'm thinking maybe we can officiate our own wedding, no priest no judge. No traditional vows. No traditional reception. IP: Logged |
pearler
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posted October 24, 2008 11:42 PM
Deux, we both have the square in our natal charts.
In synastry my Neptune trines his Venus and
in the composite we have a Venus Neptune opposition.IP: Logged |
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