posted December 23, 2015 02:13 PM              

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Originally posted by StubbornVirgo:
Venus-Neptune people usually do get that magical feeling, or at least I do. There is a fairytale, fated, meant-to-be aspect to it. If the connection lacks that feeling, it usually means (for me) that there is no connection. I can't make it appear out of thin air. It either happens or it doesn't. And there is no rationality to it. I've had that magical feeling with people who were incredibly incompatible. It lasts long enough for the ugly truths of reality to seep in and the arguing to begin. When peace and good feelings/vibes cease to exist, I'm likely to hold on for ages in hopes that I will get that fairytale feeling back. So yes, I do agree that Venus-Neptune differs from other aspects that might imply commitment phobia.
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posted January 19, 2021 07:15 AM            

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Originally posted by mercury89:
I know someone who has Venus opposition Neptune and he say he never want to get married and that he never will.

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posted January 19, 2021 07:16 AM            

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Originally posted by shyberry:
i have venus trine neptune natally and i don't want to get married at all lol. something about being stuck with one person is not appealing to me...i'd rather be in a relationship where you date like 7 people at once and everyone's okay with it.

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posted January 19, 2021 07:25 AM            

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Originally posted by shyberry:
i have venus trine neptune natally and i don't want to get married at all lol. something about being stuck with one person is not appealing to me...i'd rather be in a relationship where you date like 7 people at once and everyone's okay with it.

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posted January 19, 2021 07:25 AM            

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Originally posted by mercury89:
I know someone who has Venus opposition Neptune and he say he never want to get married and that he never will.

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posted February 05, 2021 05:25 PM            

« Relationships can take center stage with this aspect ...Although childhood ideals may become sophisticated as one matures, the ideal that is childlike and free from adult consensus. These people tend to see relationships in their own set of rules and purity standards.
These relationships have a hard time manifesting because the ideal is deeply rooted in the psyche, and the psyche always has a deep yearning for what it perceives as a need.« 

posted March 31, 2025 03:26 PM            

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Originally posted by Krista_Kay_1993:
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posted May 09, 2025 12:05 AM            

I feel like talking about the institution of marriage may be too specific, since to me it is only a legal formality. But in terms of a long-term life partner, if I ever really fell in love with someone and they felt the same about me--and everything worked out okay otherwise--I would expect I would like to be with them "until death do us part". I believe I'm a very serious monogamist, and even though I really like sex, I actually also quite like the idea of devoting myself to one sexual partner for the rest of my life.

My issue is that I develop romantic feelings very deeply and VERY enduringly but also very rarely (it has only happened once in my adult life; I'm only 25 though). Like Hikaru29 commented, "I don't believe in settling ... being with someone just for the sake of it is torture". It seems a lot of other people with this (or other Venus-Neptune) aspect replying here share this sentiment in some form.

This is why I don't really date or anything, and I can't understand friends and acquaintances who are always dating or with someone. I especially can't understand why people ever have these feelings of disliking or hating their exes. In that respect, I also relate to the "unconditional love" thing someone mentioned; it's not that I don't have boundaries or sense, but even if I have to end something or distance myself from someone I love (family, friends, anything), I can't imagine ever actually disliking them or not wishing the best for them.

It's great to find romantic love, but if I don't, I'm also happy being by myself and with friends!