posted May 18, 2014 09:42 AM            

When I was about 8 yrs old, I randomly told my mother I that I didn't want to get a divorce (notice I skipped over the marriage part?) lol now when I was a little girl I did the typical dreaming about a wedding & all that but as I got older anytime I did that I'd stop myself.

posted August 07, 2014 02:40 PM            

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Originally posted by deuxantares:
Buena, very true. A long-distance relationship makes you see only the "ideal" side of the partner. His absence supports the fairy tale you see in the imagination.

For people who have this aspect and are dating online, it is advisable to meet the other person face-to-face ASAP and get to know them well before getting into a serious relationship.

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posted August 07, 2014 03:43 PM            

I noticed, this Venus-Neptune position gives me quite a lot of creativity. And also a lot of day dreaming.

I noticed also that because of that aspect:

- I tend to see the best in other people

- I am seeking for a soul mate and I really do believe, he exists.

- I still believe in fairy tales, but I don’t live in ‘clouds’. I know that there can be this special someone, who helps you to make life like fairy tale with happy ending, but it’s never easy. It’s hard work. (Probably that is my Saturn conjunct Venus speaking…

posted September 03, 2014 02:26 AM            

"Talk back to me and your future husband will beat you."

posted September 03, 2014 09:22 AM            

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Originally posted by IV XXIV:
I've got Venus (in Aries, in the 12th house) quintile Neptune (in Capricorn in the 9th house). I dunno if you're interested in a quintile aspect.. But I'll still share

I'm not "against" marriage in the slightest. I'm more traditional in that I want to have children after marriage and etc.

I do have many standards when it comes to the person I'm going to marry, though.. So maybe my almost-insatiability can look like an aversion.. I can see myself settling down and getting married, or I can also see myself living life freely, and alone, just as happily.

And while I have many standards, I can also see myself being impulsive and marrying whilst drunk (or even worse, sober.. but "drunk in love" lol). Or I can see myself dating someone long enough, whom I'm no longer in love with but fear leaving for some reason, and end up marrying them out of a fear of saying "no" and hurting their feelings.

I'm clearly a fun paradox.

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posted September 04, 2014 02:14 AM            

Venus-Neptune aspects relate to idealism and sensitivity in relationships. It isn't a matter of commitment phobia, but idealism and sensitivity.

Married at nearly 41. Its not that I was 'putting it off' as long as possible. I just didn't have the opportunity till then.

The Venus-Neptune seeks an ideal and doesn't want a relationship that must be dragged through. If the compatibility isn't good enough so the whole thing becomes work, then its not worth it.

Some would rather keep alive a romance with the ideal. These aspects enhance imagination and fantasy.

posted September 23, 2014 06:38 AM            

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Originally posted by deuxantares:
Is it true that a Venus-Neptune aspect in the chart indicates that the person has some sort of aversion to marriage and will avoid getting hitched officially for as long as possible? (Take note I'm not saying the person is against relationships or partnerships). Do you think they are saying "haven't found the right one" to justify their commitment phobia? Do you know anyone with Venus-Neptune aspect?

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I have Venus trine Neptune/Uranus and I got married at 19 officially, but I attempted to get married to him when I first got to college at 17(it was determined invalid....long story)

posted October 28, 2014 04:56 PM            

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Originally posted by shyberry:
i have venus trine neptune natally and i don't want to get married at all lol. something about being stuck with one person is not appealing to me...i'd rather be in a relationship where you date like 7 people at once and everyone's okay with it.

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Hmm... Interesting. Do you think that is Venus to blame for this feelings?

My Venus conjuncts Neptune and I think that this makes me hopeless romantic.

But... Sometimes I also think about how will it be if I will get married - will I be able to be/to stuck with just this one person and be ok with it? But I have my Jupiter in 7th (in Taurus) and I have read that when Jupiter sits in your 7th, sometimes you have problems with staying with just one person...

posted January 05, 2015 03:30 AM            

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Originally posted by incognito:
I have venus square Neptune. 2 words. Unrealistic expectations. I expect love to be this heavenly, beautiful, otherworldly thing, different and separate from normal life. I want this ethereal, spiritual and soulful bond. I had to say out loud to myself that "what I want doesn't exist on earth" after being disappointed so many times

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You hit the nail on the head!!!
Another Venus square Neptune here, plus Neptune in the 5th.
I would add that I'm quite prone to falling in love with unattainable people.

posted January 14, 2015 12:04 AM            

I see alot of you have talked about the "delusion" of your relationships.

Where did the delusion come from? Like did your ex boyfriend/girlfriend basically LIE about who they were or did you just see them as "the perfect one" only to find out that nobody is perfect?

posted January 15, 2015 03:47 PM              

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Originally posted by incognito:
I have venus square Neptune. 2 words. Unrealistic expectations. I expect love to be this heavenly, beautiful, otherworldly thing, different and separate from normal life. I want this ethereal, spiritual and soulful bond. I had to say out loud to myself that "what I want doesn't exist on earth" after being disappointed so many times

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posted January 15, 2015 03:50 PM              

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Originally posted by Gemini30:
Ok girls and guys,

I see alot of you have talked about the "delusion" of your relationships.

Where did the delusion come from? Like did your ex boyfriend/girlfriend basically LIE about who they were or did you just see them as "the perfect one" only to find out that nobody is perfect?

Also, to the ones that have Venus conj neptune in capricorn, how do you deal with having venus conj uranus as well?

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For me, it's not really that they lied, it's more that I never asked and instead chose to see them a specific way

posted April 03, 2015 09:24 AM            

I am extremely picky about my loves.

I usually date older, distinguished successful men.

At 26 I am not married but I did come close until I sabotaged it because he wasn't living up to his potential.. D:

posted June 29, 2015 06:08 PM              

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Originally posted by deuxantares:
Is it true that a Venus-Neptune aspect in the chart indicates that the person has some sort of aversion to marriage and will avoid getting hitched officially for as long as possible? (Take note I'm not saying the person is against relationships or partnerships). Do you think they are saying "haven't found the right one" to justify their commitment phobia? Do you know anyone with Venus-Neptune aspect?

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