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enchantress299
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posted October 25, 2008 01:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for enchantress299     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have retrograde Neptune trining retrograde Venus (the only 2 retrograde planets in my chart).

For me, it's not so much that I'm looking for "the most perfect guy EVER." I'm too realistic for that. It's more that I'm looking for the right person to fit into my life in the right way.

Unfortunately, it is hard to find that person because I have very unique ideas and perspectives on the world, and because I enjoy my freedom and because of my retrograde planets, it is naturally harder for me to express myself romantically. It's always seemed to be an uphill battle for me.

I know I'll figure it out eventually. I'm not really worried about it. I find that a lot of people are in fear based love relationships because they are afraid that if they lose this person they are never going to find someone else. I disagree with that because there are always other people in the world. I'd rather love from a love based perspective in which both people are loving the other because they want to, not because they feel they have to (or they'll be alone FOREVER!; that is usually the implication).

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kayteeh
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posted August 07, 2013 05:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for kayteeh     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I know this thread is old but, I read once that a venus trine or sextile netune can mean that you may meet your soulmate in this lifetime ,I am assuming by soulmate it mean a romantic soulmate

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posted August 15, 2013 12:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for curiouswoman     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by kayteeh:
I know this thread is old but, I read once that a venus trine or sextile netune can mean that you may meet your soulmate in this lifetime ,I am assuming by soulmate it mean a romantic soulmate

i was actually gonna ask the same thing

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posted August 20, 2013 04:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for next to neptune     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well, I do know the feeling, and I wan't to find "the one" and only...I often fantasize about the perfect man I'm gonna meet in my future, or if I see another couple on television and want my own relationship to be equally romantic... but the reality is often different!
But I have a scorpio venus in 5th house, sextile capricorn neptune in 6th...
I'm almost always flirting with someone, and sometimes it happens to become more than just a lover... then after a while I get more and more disappointed, because he was not what I thought, but I still continue to fight for our relationship, it is rarely me who is making the actual break up...I always try to stay, even though I don't really want to...it's a bit strange, but I'm a really hopeless romantic too!

Venus sextile saturn, uranus and neptune...venus trine jupiter and conjunction pluto
Pisces moon!!! (this is so hopeless romantic)
Mercury square neptune - (puts people on a pedestal big time, all the time)

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posted August 21, 2013 10:14 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Garnet75     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I also read that the positive aspects between the moon and neptune in a synastry chart provides unconditional love between the two people involved. Sounds like a beautiful aspect to have providing tender and nurturing feelings to the one that you're bonded with.

Is that correct?

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Brendan34
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posted August 28, 2013 11:51 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Brendan34     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What about Neptune in House 7, would this apply? Neptune also Opposes my Ascendant, Venus Squares my Ascendant.

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posted September 08, 2013 03:08 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It kind of dissolves Venus. So you tend to dream, write poetry, or play music about love. Or a dream lover. Romantic minded.

But when it comes down to actual relationships, sex etc. You kind of don't want to deal with it because it may not be pretty.

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posted September 12, 2013 12:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for NeptunianSag     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I knew somebody with this natally and we had it in our synastry. It felt beautiful but it was really saddening once the illusion died.

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posted September 15, 2013 12:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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posted September 24, 2013 02:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for fireopal09     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have a Sagittarian Venus-Neptune conjunction in the 4th. I can commit as I am a Libran Sun with a 7H Pisces Moon. However, I have been proposed to 3 times, engaged twice, and married once. I think I only got married because I became pregnant only 2 months after the engagement. My experience is being put on a pedestal and disillusioning the exes when it becomes apparent I am only a human. The old cliche that a woman always tries to change her man is actually reversed in my experience. Falling from the pedestal is a giant, painful ouch.

My manfriend's moon conjuncts my neptune. I finally feel accepted for who I really am and not for some illusory perception of me.

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posted September 25, 2013 07:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for blueskiez06     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by deuxantares:
Is it true that a Venus-Neptune aspect in the chart indicates that the person has some sort of aversion to marriage and will avoid getting hitched officially for as long as possible? (Take note I'm not saying the person is against relationships or partnerships). Do you think they are saying "haven't found the right one" to justify their commitment phobia? Do you know anyone with Venus-Neptune aspect?

i definitly would not say this indicates commitment fobia unless its placed in certain houses, but per se Neptune always blurrs things, so with venus its money, love, values depending on what house you have these planets in, one tends to not see things for what they are or is taken advantage of, i would not say it produces fear or avoidence cause thats saturn

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posted December 22, 2013 03:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for incognito     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have venus square Neptune. 2 words. Unrealistic expectations. I expect love to be this heavenly, beautiful, otherworldly thing, different and separate from normal life. I want this ethereal, spiritual and soulful bond. I had to say out loud to myself that "what I want doesn't exist on earth" after being disappointed so many times

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posted December 22, 2013 03:41 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have venus quincunx neptune and I can agree with a few things. However, venus/neptune aspects can indicate artistic talent

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Originally posted by incognito:
I have venus square Neptune. 2 words. Unrealistic expectations. I expect love to be this heavenly, beautiful, otherworldly thing, different and separate from normal life. I want this ethereal, spiritual and soulful bond. I had to say out loud to myself that "what I want doesn't exist on earth" after being disappointed so many times


Yes it does exist, I lived it. It didn't last long and things turned real nasty after that, but for a period there it was totally real.

I have Venus square Neptune too btw.

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posted December 22, 2013 06:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mercury89     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I know someone who has Venus opposition Neptune and he say he never want to get married and that he never will.

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posted December 23, 2013 09:46 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for incognito     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by IMoppedtheFloor:

Yes it does exist, I lived it. It didn't last long and things turned real nasty after that, but for a period there it was totally real.

I have Venus square Neptune too btw.


Hi floor mopper. I mean it exists but a lot of it is in my own head.

How long did it last for you and why did it fall apart?

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posted January 09, 2014 01:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for earthypisces     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Not true for me either.

Venus conjunct Neptune in Capricorn in the Ninth House

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posted January 13, 2014 09:14 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Boilermaker     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I died on 1/04/2013 & came back to life. Used to be an Aries with a Leo rising and a Libra moon (full moon) born on 4/14/1984 in Katy, TX. Now I think I'm a Capricorn, still with a Libra moon and a Pisces ascendant conjunct Pisces in Neptune. I feel very different and I have MAJOR ESP. Am I a psychic?

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posted February 06, 2014 10:58 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by incognito:
I have venus square Neptune. 2 words. Unrealistic expectations. I expect love to be this heavenly, beautiful, otherworldly thing, different and separate from normal life. I want this ethereal, spiritual and soulful bond. I had to say out loud to myself that "what I want doesn't exist on earth" after being disappointed so many times

Agree. I have a Venus Neptune square (although it's actually a T-square with Moon). All in fixed signs too: Neptune in Scorpio, Venus in Leo and Moon in Aquarius.

Guess why I'm still single? lol

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posted April 09, 2014 07:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Canadiangirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
AcousticGod:
My Venus and Neptune are conjunct in the 7th. I'm 35, and never been married. I'm not averse to getting married, but I would take my time on figuring out if it really seemed right.

--I'm the same way when it comes to love. I've dated and was engaged to someone for 7 yrs but never married him bc it didn't feel right.

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posted April 14, 2014 04:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for IntuitiveJ     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have venus sq neptune natal too.
Venus in virgo in 7th- neptune in Sag in 9th. I feel like I see everyone with rose colored glasses.
How would this affect synastry with someone who's pluto conjunct my venus (exact in 7th) and who's neptune trines my venus?
I'm having trouble understanding how an "afflicted" natal planet plays out in synastry

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posted April 14, 2014 05:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for IntuitiveJ     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Meant to say neptune in 10th- not 9th

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posted April 17, 2014 11:31 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for lud.hess     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes. I can say for me that I have a very idealistic personality. I have Venus quincunx Neptune in the tenth house. I always had the idea of the truly romantic girl as the perfect partner.

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posted April 17, 2014 01:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for IV XXIV     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I've got Venus (in Aries, in the 12th house) quintile Neptune (in Capricorn in the 9th house). I dunno if you're interested in a quintile aspect.. But I'll still share

I'm not "against" marriage in the slightest. I'm more traditional in that I want to have children after marriage and etc.

I do have many standards when it comes to the person I'm going to marry, though.. So maybe my almost-insatiability can look like an aversion.. I can see myself settling down and getting married, or I can also see myself living life freely, and alone, just as happily.

And while I have many standards, I can also see myself being impulsive and marrying whilst drunk (or even worse, sober.. but "drunk in love" lol). Or I can see myself dating someone long enough, whom I'm no longer in love with but fear leaving for some reason, and end up marrying them out of a fear of saying "no" and hurting their feelings.

I'm clearly a fun paradox.

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uhm..mother has venus square neptune and she married at 27....

I have the trine :D

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