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Topic: Venus-Neptune in the Natal Chart
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enchantress299 Knowflake Posts: 737 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted October 25, 2008 01:55 AM
I have retrograde Neptune trining retrograde Venus (the only 2 retrograde planets in my chart). For me, it's not so much that I'm looking for "the most perfect guy EVER." I'm too realistic for that. It's more that I'm looking for the right person to fit into my life in the right way. Unfortunately, it is hard to find that person because I have very unique ideas and perspectives on the world, and because I enjoy my freedom and because of my retrograde planets, it is naturally harder for me to express myself romantically. It's always seemed to be an uphill battle for me. I know I'll figure it out eventually. I'm not really worried about it. I find that a lot of people are in fear based love relationships because they are afraid that if they lose this person they are never going to find someone else. I disagree with that because there are always other people in the world. I'd rather love from a love based perspective in which both people are loving the other because they want to, not because they feel they have to (or they'll be alone FOREVER!; that is usually the implication). ------------------ Virgo Sun/Aries Moon/Scorpio Rising IP: Logged |
kayteeh Knowflake Posts: 72 From: canada Registered: Jul 2012
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posted August 07, 2013 05:06 PM
I know this thread is old but, I read once that a venus trine or sextile netune can mean that you may meet your soulmate in this lifetime ,I am assuming by soulmate it mean a romantic soulmateIP: Logged |
curiouswoman Knowflake Posts: 1123 From: on earth Registered: Sep 2011
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posted August 15, 2013 12:39 AM
quote: Originally posted by kayteeh: I know this thread is old but, I read once that a venus trine or sextile netune can mean that you may meet your soulmate in this lifetime ,I am assuming by soulmate it mean a romantic soulmate
i was actually gonna ask the same thing IP: Logged |
next to neptune Knowflake Posts: 3104 From: The Moon Registered: Aug 2013
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posted August 20, 2013 04:57 AM
Well, I do know the feeling, and I wan't to find "the one" and only...I often fantasize about the perfect man I'm gonna meet in my future, or if I see another couple on television and want my own relationship to be equally romantic... but the reality is often different! But I have a scorpio venus in 5th house, sextile capricorn neptune in 6th... I'm almost always flirting with someone, and sometimes it happens to become more than just a lover... then after a while I get more and more disappointed, because he was not what I thought, but I still continue to fight for our relationship, it is rarely me who is making the actual break up...I always try to stay, even though I don't really want to...it's a bit strange, but I'm a really hopeless romantic too!Venus sextile saturn, uranus and neptune...venus trine jupiter and conjunction pluto Pisces moon!!! (this is so hopeless romantic) Mercury square neptune - (puts people on a pedestal big time, all the time)
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Garnet75 Knowflake Posts: 67 From: Registered: Feb 2010
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posted August 21, 2013 10:14 AM
I also read that the positive aspects between the moon and neptune in a synastry chart provides unconditional love between the two people involved. Sounds like a beautiful aspect to have providing tender and nurturing feelings to the one that you're bonded with.Is that correct? IP: Logged |
Brendan34 Knowflake Posts: 541 From: Albany, NY, USA Registered: Aug 2013
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posted August 28, 2013 11:51 AM
What about Neptune in House 7, would this apply? Neptune also Opposes my Ascendant, Venus Squares my Ascendant.IP: Logged |
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posted September 08, 2013 03:08 PM
It kind of dissolves Venus. So you tend to dream, write poetry, or play music about love. Or a dream lover. Romantic minded.But when it comes down to actual relationships, sex etc. You kind of don't want to deal with it because it may not be pretty. IP: Logged |
NeptunianSag Knowflake Posts: 1386 From: Your imagination Registered: Aug 2013
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posted September 12, 2013 12:21 PM
I knew somebody with this natally and we had it in our synastry. It felt beautiful but it was really saddening once the illusion died. IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 202777 From: I hold a Juris Doctorate (J.D.) and a Legum Magister (LL.M.)! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 15, 2013 12:34 PM
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fireopal09 Knowflake Posts: 760 From: George Registered: Oct 2010
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posted September 24, 2013 02:34 PM
I have a Sagittarian Venus-Neptune conjunction in the 4th. I can commit as I am a Libran Sun with a 7H Pisces Moon. However, I have been proposed to 3 times, engaged twice, and married once. I think I only got married because I became pregnant only 2 months after the engagement. My experience is being put on a pedestal and disillusioning the exes when it becomes apparent I am only a human. The old cliche that a woman always tries to change her man is actually reversed in my experience. Falling from the pedestal is a giant, painful ouch. My manfriend's moon conjuncts my neptune. I finally feel accepted for who I really am and not for some illusory perception of me. ------------------ Claire "When going gets weird, the weird turn pro." -HST IP: Logged |
blueskiez06 Knowflake Posts: 167 From: Registered: Oct 2012
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posted September 25, 2013 07:35 PM
quote: Originally posted by deuxantares: Is it true that a Venus-Neptune aspect in the chart indicates that the person has some sort of aversion to marriage and will avoid getting hitched officially for as long as possible? (Take note I'm not saying the person is against relationships or partnerships). Do you think they are saying "haven't found the right one" to justify their commitment phobia? Do you know anyone with Venus-Neptune aspect?
i definitly would not say this indicates commitment fobia unless its placed in certain houses, but per se Neptune always blurrs things, so with venus its money, love, values depending on what house you have these planets in, one tends to not see things for what they are or is taken advantage of, i would not say it produces fear or avoidence cause thats saturn
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incognito Knowflake Posts: 220 From: Registered: Dec 2013
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posted December 22, 2013 03:31 PM
I have venus square Neptune. 2 words. Unrealistic expectations. I expect love to be this heavenly, beautiful, otherworldly thing, different and separate from normal life. I want this ethereal, spiritual and soulful bond. I had to say out loud to myself that "what I want doesn't exist on earth" after being disappointed so many timesIP: Logged |
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posted December 22, 2013 03:41 PM
I have venus quincunx neptune and I can agree with a few things. However, venus/neptune aspects can indicate artistic talentIP: Logged |
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posted December 22, 2013 04:37 PM
quote: Originally posted by incognito: I have venus square Neptune. 2 words. Unrealistic expectations. I expect love to be this heavenly, beautiful, otherworldly thing, different and separate from normal life. I want this ethereal, spiritual and soulful bond. I had to say out loud to myself that "what I want doesn't exist on earth" after being disappointed so many times
Yes it does exist, I lived it. It didn't last long and things turned real nasty after that, but for a period there it was totally real.
I have Venus square Neptune too btw. IP: Logged |
mercury89 Knowflake Posts: 108 From: America Registered: Nov 2013
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posted December 22, 2013 06:12 PM
I know someone who has Venus opposition Neptune and he say he never want to get married and that he never will. IP: Logged |
incognito Knowflake Posts: 220 From: Registered: Dec 2013
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posted December 23, 2013 09:46 AM
quote: Originally posted by IMoppedtheFloor: Yes it does exist, I lived it. It didn't last long and things turned real nasty after that, but for a period there it was totally real.I have Venus square Neptune too btw.
Hi floor mopper. I mean it exists but a lot of it is in my own head. How long did it last for you and why did it fall apart?
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earthypisces Knowflake Posts: 544 From: Greenville, South Carolina Registered: Jan 2012
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posted January 09, 2014 01:19 PM
Not true for me either.Venus conjunct Neptune in Capricorn in the Ninth House ------------------ My chart: http://i.imgur.com/N9w5x4Z.gif IP: Logged |
Boilermaker Newflake Posts: 14 From: Katy, TX, USA Registered: Jan 2014
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posted January 13, 2014 09:14 AM
I died on 1/04/2013 & came back to life. Used to be an Aries with a Leo rising and a Libra moon (full moon) born on 4/14/1984 in Katy, TX. Now I think I'm a Capricorn, still with a Libra moon and a Pisces ascendant conjunct Pisces in Neptune. I feel very different and I have MAJOR ESP. Am I a psychic? ------------------ Courtney Leigh Bolt IP: Logged |
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posted February 06, 2014 10:58 PM
quote: Originally posted by incognito: I have venus square Neptune. 2 words. Unrealistic expectations. I expect love to be this heavenly, beautiful, otherworldly thing, different and separate from normal life. I want this ethereal, spiritual and soulful bond. I had to say out loud to myself that "what I want doesn't exist on earth" after being disappointed so many times
Agree. I have a Venus Neptune square (although it's actually a T-square with Moon). All in fixed signs too: Neptune in Scorpio, Venus in Leo and Moon in Aquarius. Guess why I'm still single? lol IP: Logged |
Canadiangirl Knowflake Posts: 883 From: Canada Registered: Nov 2013
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posted April 09, 2014 07:28 PM
AcousticGod: My Venus and Neptune are conjunct in the 7th. I'm 35, and never been married. I'm not averse to getting married, but I would take my time on figuring out if it really seemed right.--I'm the same way when it comes to love. I've dated and was engaged to someone for 7 yrs but never married him bc it didn't feel right. IP: Logged |
IntuitiveJ Knowflake Posts: 883 From: Registered: Dec 2013
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posted April 14, 2014 04:37 PM
I have venus sq neptune natal too. Venus in virgo in 7th- neptune in Sag in 9th. I feel like I see everyone with rose colored glasses. How would this affect synastry with someone who's pluto conjunct my venus (exact in 7th) and who's neptune trines my venus? I'm having trouble understanding how an "afflicted" natal planet plays out in synastry  IP: Logged |
IntuitiveJ Knowflake Posts: 883 From: Registered: Dec 2013
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posted April 14, 2014 05:19 PM
Meant to say neptune in 10th- not 9th  IP: Logged |
lud.hess Newflake Posts: 9 From: São Paulo Registered: Apr 2014
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posted April 17, 2014 11:31 AM
Yes. I can say for me that I have a very idealistic personality. I have Venus quincunx Neptune in the tenth house. I always had the idea of the truly romantic girl as the perfect partner.IP: Logged |
IV XXIV Knowflake Posts: 450 From: Registered: Mar 2014
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posted April 17, 2014 01:44 PM
I've got Venus (in Aries, in the 12th house) quintile Neptune (in Capricorn in the 9th house). I dunno if you're interested in a quintile aspect.. But I'll still share I'm not "against" marriage in the slightest. I'm more traditional in that I want to have children after marriage and etc. I do have many standards when it comes to the person I'm going to marry, though.. So maybe my almost-insatiability can look like an aversion.. I can see myself settling down and getting married, or I can also see myself living life freely, and alone, just as happily. And while I have many standards, I can also see myself being impulsive and marrying whilst drunk (or even worse, sober.. but "drunk in love" lol). Or I can see myself dating someone long enough, whom I'm no longer in love with but fear leaving for some reason, and end up marrying them out of a fear of saying "no" and hurting their feelings. I'm clearly a fun paradox. IP: Logged |
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posted May 16, 2014 06:23 AM
uhm..mother has venus square neptune and she married at 27....I have the trine :D IP: Logged |