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Topic: Pisces man, what to do?
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Voix_de_la_Mer
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posted August 15, 2014 05:57 AM
  
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Evidence of what a self doubting vulnerable person I am....read this thread. Its evidence alone. But I hide it and pretend I have it all together with people.
There is nothing wrong with protecting yourself when you do not really know where you stand with someone, or with yourself. It is never a good idea to embark on a relationship until you are at peace with your vulnerability and have true strength and confidence in who you are. People, irrespective of their astrology, are quite astute at detecting someone who is together or not, and will react in kind.
If they are also not together with themselves, you may end up with a codependency - fine if both parties are ready to work through problems - difficult if parties are simply looking for affirmation of destructive ways of being. Best to actually get oneself together first, before considering what we can bring to a relationship. What can we actually bring if we do not know ourselves? IP: Logged |
AmelieRose81
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posted August 15, 2014 07:22 AM
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AmelieRose81
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posted August 16, 2014 12:56 PM
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Doux Rêve
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posted August 16, 2014 02:27 PM
Lies are not cool, eh.IP: Logged |
AmelieRose81
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posted August 16, 2014 05:00 PM
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Randall
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posted September 13, 2014 01:44 PM
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AmelieRose81
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posted October 05, 2014 12:17 PM
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AmelieRose81
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posted June 07, 2015 07:11 PM
That was fun. Heart broken again last week.You can all say I told you so. IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted June 08, 2015 01:02 PM
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That was fun. Heart broken again last week.You can all say I told you so.
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Vajra
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posted June 08, 2015 01:55 PM
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AmelieRose81
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posted June 08, 2015 02:21 PM
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Randall
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posted June 09, 2015 02:13 PM
No one will say they told you so. We've all been there. The heart wants what it wants.IP: Logged |
AmelieRose81
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posted June 13, 2015 09:48 AM
Are Pisces the type to use others until they get what they want. He was dark and moody finally. Is that another pisces thing. IP: Logged |
LexusVirgo
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posted June 13, 2015 10:35 PM
Pisces are moody like all water signs. They are as clingy as cancers and as amblivant as aquariuses Pisces can be everything you want him too and still have a secret side. I noticed Pisces lie a lot because they cannot stand to hurt anyone. With Pisces you have to make the move because they don't know what they want they are a lot like Gemini and libra. A Pisces will never purposely hurt you though. He is more like I was going call but then I seen a cookie..lol. I can't stand them it is said there is attraction between Pisces Virgo butt their in ability to make desicions bugs me,IP: Logged |
AmelieRose81
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posted June 14, 2015 11:44 AM
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Doux Rêve
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posted June 14, 2015 06:20 PM
Good lord, it's been a year and you're still writing about him?  I think you're asking the wrong questions, Amelie... Knowing if it's common or not won't really make a difference. What you should be asking (yourself especially) is if you can accept that behavior, and if you are happy with what that man gives you.
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AmelieRose81
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posted June 14, 2015 07:48 PM
I know. It went on for a year and he broke my heart again. Trying to get over it by finding out if they're like this a lot of the time.IP: Logged |
Vajra
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posted June 15, 2015 02:06 PM
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AmelieRose81
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posted June 15, 2015 02:29 PM
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^In all honesty, I don't think they are…I've known very many Pisceans of both genders, it's actually my favorite Sun sign in other people, and been married to one Pisces guy for a long time, and none of these people behaved like that. A Gemini Sun guy I was with, however, seems quite similar to your Pisces. My take is that this is an individual issue of his; immaturity, lack of self-respect and honesty and the like, which translates to his relationships. I'd say you would likely be better off without such a guy who continually causes you pain. Don't expect him to change himself for you either. The only person who can change him is the one who shaves his face every morning.
You are so right x Moods have always been . something he mentioned. Foul mood after work. ....ex left for his moods once, went into a foul mood with me when i had done nothing wrong. That isn't going to change over night is it. It's who he is IP: Logged |
Vajra
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posted June 15, 2015 05:58 PM
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AmelieRose81
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posted June 16, 2015 11:18 AM
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Vajra
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posted June 16, 2015 05:27 PM
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AmelieRose81
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posted June 16, 2015 06:45 PM
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Randall
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posted June 20, 2015 11:38 AM
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AmelieRose81
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posted June 21, 2015 03:23 PM
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Thanks. So sad. Does he even think about me.... IP: Logged |
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