posted May 28, 2014 04:21 AM            

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Originally posted by AmelieRose81:
Pisces man back in touch after breaking up last sept.

only went out for 2.5 months. He was in a bad place with work life etc. Didnt give us a chance. I initiated.

he seems open to friendly contact. He put smileys and kisses on texts. He hasnt done that since he ended it

ideas. What do they respond to? More friendly contact?

He is very Pisces: sun venus and mars.
Aqua moon.

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How about boundaries. Give him boundaries, either explicitly tell him or just in your own mind.

posted May 28, 2014 10:34 AM            

That Aqua moon.....

I have to research that....it's one of those placements where I usually just smh....especially when Pisces placements are involved.

The only thing I can think of, is pices/aqua conbos can be big on friendship, platonic love, etc....these people treat a stranger, the same way they would treat a partner....friendly to the core....

This is why I have a hard time understanding what makes someone special to them....

I would say be friendly, initiate platonic activities and emphasize friendship and taking things slowly. Express your feeling gradually, but don't overwhelm the aqua moon.

I find also that people with Pisces placements can be very self-centered in that they cannot accept other people's emotions (perhaps because they are dealing with their own)

posted June 02, 2014 04:18 AM            

While it is true Pisces Mermen may have daily challenges bringing home thick-cut bacon from the material world. They do usually make great parents. Ladies, if you want a career and kids, then a Pisces Merman might be a good match for you. Pisces men usually have no problem changing diapers, tending to the children, and simultaneously keeping the house tidy while you are out climbing the corporate ladder. Not to mention, as a token of his appreciation for you braving the material world, getting the Merman treatment when you get home from work.

LOve & LIght
HRH

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posted June 02, 2014 12:14 PM            

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Originally posted by AmelieRose81:
Because I really liked him. He was nothing like my last ex (a gemini).

He was gentle & accepting of his flaws. Blamed himself for things. Healthy acceptance of his flaws and his role when things went wrong.

He didnt really give me a chance. We met every couple of weeks or so and every new date felt like the first time. It didnt reach cruising speed.

We met on a dating site. Im absolutely sure he was dating others (and so was I).

He ended it over work stress and losing his job. But I found out from facebook it was because of meeting someone else. He doesn't know that I know. I went on dates with others so it could just as easily have been me who met another.

It happens: on a dating site you meet others and heads get turned. But he was good to me when we were together.

I met someone else but we broke up in feb/march. So I thought of Pisces man again.

I used to text him every now and then. He would ignore.

But then I found out his new relationship broke up just as quickly as ours did. They barely lasted 3 months.

I started texting him about things I needed to know about. For example I was going on vacation to a destination I knew he had been to. So I asked about it because I remembered him mentioning a nice restaurant and places to go. So I asked him where it was and he texted me the details and put smileys in his texts to me.

He is a doctor so I asked him about a scan I had coming up on my wrist and he again replied nicely. I always just text as I would a friend. This time he put smileys and kisses in the texts.
He hasnt done it since we broke up.

Ive noticed he is more open to contact since his last relationship broke up.

I know how this sounds but I was dating others too while with him. It happens.....

Given that he is more open to contact and put kisses in the texts...any idea how to play it?

Please don't say forget him. Any ideas how to stay in touch. I would like to see him again or at least establish friendly regular contact. Then ....

He is Pisces sun and venus and Mars.
Aqua moon.

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posted June 02, 2014 01:21 PM            

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Originally posted by HRH-FishAreFish:
Oh, those poor Mermen! It is so sad that most people have been so brainwashed by astrological over-simplifications, they think every Pisces is a wishy-washy candidate for Alcoholics Anonymous, or group therapy.

While it is true Pisces Mermen may have daily challenges bringing home thick-cut bacon from the material world. They do usually make great parents. Ladies, if you want a career and kids, then a Pisces Merman might be a good match for you. Pisces men usually have no problem changing diapers, tending to the children, and simultaneously keeping the house tidy while you are out climbing the corporate ladder. Not to mention, as a token of his appreciation for you braving the material world, getting the Merman treatment when you get home from work.

LOve & LIght
HRH

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posted June 03, 2014 04:02 AM            

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Originally posted by AmelieRose81:
Please don't say forget him.

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Okay =)

posted June 04, 2014 04:56 AM            

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Originally posted by AmelieRose81:
But then wouldnt he just ask me if he wanted to try?

He wasnt the most forthcoming when we did date though.

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woulda coulda shouda aint gonna cut it...if you cant forget him you either call or forget him !

posted June 04, 2014 06:23 AM            

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Originally posted by AmelieRose81:
But then wouldnt he just ask me if he wanted to try?

He wasnt the most forthcoming when we did date though.

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posted June 04, 2014 09:44 PM            

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Originally posted by AmelieRose81:
Initiate how. ....just stay in touch friendly like?

Just try to be friendly. I dont want to be too pushy.

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posted June 04, 2014 09:47 PM            

The Readers Digest version: Be the worm. Cast, reel back in, and wait...(repeat)...have patience.

"If it were easy as fishin'
You could be a musician..."

Takin' Care of Business ~ B.T.O.