posted June 28, 2014 06:51 PM            

Go ahead and do it.

Let's see if he has the ballz to tell the truth or if he comes up with some stupid excuse.

posted June 29, 2014 10:34 AM            

Here's the thing.

He won't just suddenly change... His behavior will most probably remain the same.

So, you can either accept it, and still try and hook up with him, or you can talk to him about what you truly want from him and that his ignoring you upsets you; maybe ask him where he stands with you, what he wants, etc.

Of course you shouldn't be on the defensive; just a calm, mature conversation.

Or you can wait... and wait... and wait.

I dunno.

posted June 29, 2014 12:47 PM            

If you don't do anything it looks like it's not gonna go anywhere anyway.

To be honest I have the impression he has other people on the side.

posted June 29, 2014 02:09 PM            

quote:

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Originally posted by AmelieRose81:

He told me he only meets people who are not interested or interesting.

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posted June 30, 2014 01:18 PM            

Why does he only meet up with people who are not interesting, nor interested in him?

Sounds like extreme low self-esteem or a weird fetish.

I don't quite get it.

Most people like being around interesting people and it's even better if said people are interested in them... No?

posted June 30, 2014 02:08 PM            

quote:

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Originally posted by AmelieRose81:

Hence if he can't meet anyone why not ask me out.

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posted June 30, 2014 03:13 PM            

quote:

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Originally posted by anonymidarkness:
Fear of rejection?

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posted June 30, 2014 06:02 PM            

Effin' Mercury Retro.

I get it now.

posted July 01, 2014 01:05 AM            

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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Ohhhh.

Effin' Mercury Retro.

I get it now.

Fear of rejection.
Not wanting to be in a relationship.
Loss of interest.
Busy.

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So it might change when the retro ends?

posted July 15, 2014 03:14 AM            

quote:

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Originally posted by AmelieRose81:
Still here.
we chat nicely. He responds positively and seems interested and asks me about me.
So what now?

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KKQbcJyVKR0

Set me free, why don't you, baby?
Get out my life, why don't you, baby?
'Cause you don't really love me
You just keep me hangin' on
You don't really need me
But you keep me hangin' on

Why do you keep a-coming around
Playing with my heart?
Why don't you get out of my life
And let me make a new start?
Let me get over you
The way you've gotten over me, hey

Set me free, why don't you, baby?
Let me be, why don't you, baby? (Ooh-ooh-ooh)
'Cause you don't really love me
You just keep me hangin' on (Ooh-ooh-ooh)
Now you don't really want me
You just keep me hangin' on

You say although we broke up
You still wanna be just friends
But how can we still be friends
When seeing you only breaks my heart again?
And there ain't nothing I can do about it

Whoa-whoa-whoa
Set me free, why don't you, baby?
Whoa-whoa-whoa
Get out my life, why don't you, baby? (Ooh-ooh-ooh)
Set me free, why don't you, baby?
Get out my life, why don't you, baby?

You claim you still care for me
But your heart and soul needs to be free
Now that you've got your freedom
You wanna still hold on to me
You don't want me for yourself
So let me find somebody else, hey

posted July 15, 2014 01:10 PM            

quote:

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Originally posted by AmelieRose81:
Still here.
we chat nicely. He responds positively and seems interested and asks me about me.
So what now?

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posted July 15, 2014 04:51 PM            

quote:

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Originally posted by AmelieRose81:
Im not giving much away either.....shall I be more open.

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Follow your instincts, past experience with him, and what you really want out of that special 1-on-1 relationship with a man. If you two don't vibe, no harm no fail. You are better prepared for new experiences.

I disagree with those who say don't follow advice given here. Isn't this a forum where people can come to get advice or guidance or counsel for challenges they face or encouragement and high-fives for the victories they achieve? Whether any of us follow the advice given, I'm hoping that the thoughts expressed here are sincere and non-judgmental for those of us seeking a sense of community and goodwill.