posted June 08, 2014 09:01 AM            

I could sense you had some Taurus in you.
And Libra. Gosh I'm so good! Kidding, actually you remind me of a very good friend of mine. She has similar placements to yours and she can't make a decision without asking for advice first.

You need to own that Aries DSC and Mercury, girl! Come on, do what you gotta do. Don't look for advice, don't look for reassurance. Embrace your own strength and your own inner guide.

And don't forget to apply logic to the mix!
If someone doesn't do anything to show you that they want to talk to you/be with you/ whatever, what does that tell you?

Okay, they may be shy, insecure, waiting for you to make the first move, etc. But how would you know? All you can do, is basically go in there, all guns blazing, and make that first move. Initiate. If the dude is cold and seems careless, drop him. Ain't nobody got time for that!

Love yourself first. I can assure you, that men don't waste their time thinking about the "what ifs" and what "could be". They strike or they move on.

I'm not saying you should become a guy, but apply some of that to yourself.

It's your life, hun. Don't waste it on people who are wishy-washy or who don't know what the f they want.

Take ownership of your life! That Leo Mars is majestic, you're a Queen. Don't settle for a damn frog.

posted June 08, 2014 09:14 AM            

I dont like to manipulate. He manipulated me a bit though.

posted June 08, 2014 10:06 AM            

http://www.depthastrology2.com/MARSSIGN.html#MarsLeo
http://www.depthastrology2.com/MERCSIGN.html#MercuryAries

posted June 08, 2014 11:02 AM            

Don't know, is he honest with you?

posted June 08, 2014 11:29 AM            

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For me, it depends upon how things end.

Don't know, is he honest with you?

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Yes and no. On occasion very very honest....to the point of bluntness but he has an aqua moon and mercury.

He didnt tell me the truth about why we broke up. He blamed work stress when im sure it was a someone else. But as we met om a dating site, it happens and I was dating others too. Could have been me that met another just as easily.

posted June 08, 2014 11:29 AM            

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Meet him again, that'll clear things up.

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This ^

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( just realized, what in the world am I doing in Soul Unions though? )

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posted June 08, 2014 11:36 AM            

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Yes and no. On occasion very very honest....to the point of bluntness but he has an aqua moon and mercury.

He didnt tell me the truth about why we broke up. He blamed work stress when im sure it was a someone else. But as we met om a dating site, it happens and I was dating others too. Could have been me that met another just as easily.

he got dumped by the one he dumped me for.....hence why he.might be more open to contact.

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posted June 08, 2014 11:38 AM            

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Aaaah it's the Pisces! Duhhh. Neptune's in the middle of your stellium, right? Actually it'll do a number of aspects to your stuff - Scorp, then the Gem Moon. Damn you're in for a trip.

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posted June 08, 2014 12:30 PM            

It's not too bad, yet. Right now it's in applying conjunction to my Sun. Then later this year it'll touch the whole Sat/Pluto/Mars thingie. And later my Moon, ASC/DSC, SN/NN and Chiron. Uh... yay? lmao.

I'm planning to move out and become independent, at last. Things are really tense with my mother and I need to "grow up", learn how to make a living and all that jazz.

Troubles with career as well. No idea what I'm gonna do yet. I still have a year to go in Uni before I graduate (should have graduated this year, but had a problem and it's postponed - how about that for Saturn symbolism? Saturn rules my 9H and MC).

Health problems galore, as well. Saturn's in my 6H now (on my natal stellium). Nothing too crazy though, just very "chronic" stuff (Saturn = chronos) and annoying basically. But hey, I'm still alive! That's all that matters for now.

In other news, tNeptune opposes my Chiron now, and that's quite something. You have that one too, don't you? When it was first applying I thought I was going mad - felt really weird, isolated myself and had severe dissociation episodes. A lot of transiting planets were in my 12H though.

Now my progressed Moon conjuncts my natal ASC in early Gem. So I'm seeking more contact with people and sometimes get it without even trying. I'm still not an extravert though! Ha.

posted June 08, 2014 01:42 PM            

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He might be using you to get over her. Be careful with that.

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posted June 08, 2014 05:46 PM            

Whatever happens, don't be hard on yourself and don't take things too seriously.

Mercury in Cancer right now makes our thinking more emotional/moody and nostalgic than usual.

Take your time, relax, focus on things that make you feel good and don't try to control anything.

posted June 08, 2014 09:15 PM            

It’s funny how we know about all these transits but can do fk all about them. Things haven’t changed much, but I’m more relaxed now, about the whole thing. lmao, saying you’re going through some “tough” transits would be an understatement.

Good luck, hope it will relieve you.

I’ve had troubles with career as well. Neptune conj. my Sun(MC ruler) for ages. Anyway, I just flushed the whole thing down the drain, recently. And I’m starting right from the scratch again. Do what you feel passionate about. There must be something, right? Maybe you’ll need to go back to the past to find it.

Uranus is in my 6H currently, don’t get me started on health.

Yeah, I have it too. I kept jumping to and fro between ecstasy and despair when it was exact. And Neptune is coming back again, oh well.

So that means your progressed Moon will also get to meet Neptune soon ?

posted June 08, 2014 09:25 PM            

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Thank you for your kindness.

what does it mean when mercury is retrograde?
I included some personal stuff briefly as I held back alotbwhen we were together as I was scared and trying to ge posituve. Id had a bad time and trying to fake being happy all the time. He was very open let his issues hang out and all his problems. Maybe I shoukd have veen my vulnerable self wuth him.

the thing that really gets me is the text style. I said it before but mine were utterly neutral. I get smiles and kisses back.....thats really thrown me.

if I let the problem go and dont analyse and dont go griefy and mental maybe we xan be friends.

I do feel teary and super sensitive. Is that the whole cancer thing?

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posted June 09, 2014 03:05 AM            

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If you want him, open up and go for the kill. Send him some hearts and kisses, lol. Even if he rejects you, you can hang around with him, Pisces usually don’t mind it.

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posted June 09, 2014 04:18 AM            

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Pisces usually don't mind what? You staying in touch and hanging around.

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posted June 09, 2014 06:12 AM            

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Thank you for your kindness.

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You're welcome, AmelieRose.

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what does it mean when mercury is retrograde?

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http://www.cafeastrology.com/mercuryretrograde.html
http://astrology.about.com/od/advancedastrology/p/MercuryRetro.htm

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the thing that really gets me is the text style. I said it before but mine were utterly neutral. I get smiles and kisses back.....thats really thrown me.

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Well, he probably likes you, at least a little.
Has he replied yet?

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I do feel teary and super sensitive. Is that the whole cancer thing?

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posted June 09, 2014 06:29 AM            

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It’s funny how we know about all these transits but can do fk all about them. Things haven’t changed much, but I’m more relaxed now, about the whole thing. lmao, saying you’re going through some “tough” transits would be an understatement.

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Yeah, I know what you mean.
I think we can't control sh*t. It just happens, but what we can do, is react differently. Well, what do I know, it's the whole destiny vs. free will thing. Maybe sometimes, we're meant to be screwed over. But it looks like some people get screwed over all the time. So then you're like, okay, either they're really unlucky or have really bad karma, or they're stupid and keep making bad decisions. IDK.

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Good luck, hope it will relieve you.

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Thank you. I hope so too.

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I’ve had troubles with career as well. Neptune conj. my Sun(MC ruler) for ages. Anyway, I just flushed the whole thing down the drain, recently. And I’m starting right from the scratch again. Do what you feel passionate about. There must be something, right? Maybe you’ll need to go back to the past to find it.

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Good luck with finding your path! It's tough. I think we Saturn kids especially can take time to find it. Or maybe it's just the way it is nowadays for most young people.
I'm not exactly the most passionate person around, lol. I gotta deal with my lack of energy and self-doubt first, then we'll see.

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:/ Sorry to hear that. Hope it gets better for you soon.

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Yeah, I have it too. I kept jumping to and fro between ecstasy and despair when it was exact. And Neptune is coming back again, oh well.

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I feel ya. It'll go back to 4° in December, so it'll be pretty close to a square to my ASC and Nodes again. Yay.

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So that means your progressed Moon will also get to meet Neptune soon ?

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Yep. My progressed Sun is at 6° Sag, almost 7°, so it's squared by Neptune, too. In a few months it'll be a Grand Cross, with Sun/Moon opposed, both squared by Neptune, and Chiron squaring and opposing all that sh*t from Virgo. Wow, I can't wait to see what's gonna happen, seriously! I'll either be high 24/7 (naturally or not so naturally) or like in complete despair, wallowing in weird feelings. Ouuh.

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posted June 09, 2014 11:18 AM            

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I think so. Don't worry about it. Let yourself feel things, it's okay. Happens to all of us. It'll pass eventually.

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