posted March 11, 2008 07:04 AM         

I am hoping someone can help me (I confess I am a very confused and scared Libran)

I have a strange dilemma which is as follows;

I suffered a very traumatic childhood at the hands of a very warped Capricorn step father who has left me with quite a few fears and hang ups now that I am an adult (34). From the moment I entered my young adult life I decided that ALL Capricorns where horrible people which was only to be compounded by the fact that everywhere I went there they were and the more I tried to avoid them the more we got entangled, in my working life and in-law associations, friends of friends, work relationships etc until I literally became a hermit. I managed to successfully avoid them after some careful association reviews and simply refused to socialize with friends if I knew that a Cappy was to be present, (I apologize to the Cappy's who may be reading this.....the dynamics of Libra Capricorn just leave me in a puddle on the floor) unfortunately the universe had other ideas.....I became pregnant and had a baby boy Capricorn (whom I adore with all my heart and soul) Universe 1 - Me ZERO. Now my relationship with the father (cancer) of my child ended 6 months later, (been together 9 years) and 6 & 1/2 years later I find myself ready to welcome a new man into my life but I have this nagging feeling that this person will be a Capricorn, so can anyone tell me if there is a way to know for sure? I say this because my life has never really been my own so to speak ( I have had visions of my own future which all came true, so I believe destiny has a very large part in my life) I have tried to research this on my own but honestly do not know where to look.

My birth data is as follows: October 3 1973 4.45 am AEST Southport Queensland Australia.

Sun position is 9 deg. 26 min. of Libra
Moon position is 21 deg. 29 min. of Sagittarius
Mercury position is 29 deg. 55 min. of Libra
Venus position is 22 deg. 31 min. of Scorpio
Mars position is 8 deg. 03 min. of Taurus
Jupiter position is 2 deg. 19 min. of Aquarius
Saturn position is 4 deg. 34 min. of Cancer
Uranus position is 22 deg. 33 min. of Libra
Neptune position is 5 deg. 15 min. of Sagittarius
Pluto position is 4 deg. 29 min. of Libra
Asc. position is 24 deg. 21 min. of Virgo
MC position is 26 deg. 20 min. of Gemini
2nd cusp position is 2 deg. 40 min. of Scorpio
3rd cusp position is 1 deg. 56 min. of Sagittarius
5th cusp position is 20 deg. 14 min. of Capricorn
6th cusp position is 17 deg. 56 min. of Aquarius

Thank you to anyone who can help me thru this

posted March 13, 2008 02:00 AM         

Are you at risk of being hurt? I only ask because I sense a little desperation? I could be wrong of course as I am not going by "reading" so to speak just the nature of your request.

Peace

posted March 13, 2008 07:23 PM         

Also you cannot leave one for another...there must be healing time in between relationships sweetie, I know you just want out & you think you will be with this other man and then everything will be fine.....unfortunately this is not so....you need to be on your own for a while to heal and process everything otherwise this relationship you want will be doomed. All I can say is listen to your instincts, not your heart or your head because I don't think your in a place of clarity at this current moment, if you can find some place where you feel safe and peaceful, I suggest you go there when ever you can to meditate on things....Also I wanted to ask if you have a trusted friend that you can go to for help or at least a sounding board for what is going on inn your head? I say this because I think you need more than just a reading honey.

I am here for you anytime.

Bless you Nattie

posted March 14, 2008 02:38 PM         

Sorry it took me a while to respond.

I will do the "Web of Connection" spread on you. Hopefully it will help you, as I wasn't totally clear on what your question is.

1. Why did you meet? Ten of Swords (Page of Swords). When you met, were you going through a difficult time in your life- something ending? Because that's what this card is about- inevitable endings.

2. What are you suppose to learn from the relationship? The Hermit (Three of Cups). You are to learn to be on your own and study yourself more closely. Also learn to step back and just enjoy life for what it is and have fun.

3. Why are you connected to them? The Chariot. There is some sort of conflict that binds you together. Perhaps it is a mutual goal that you must fight for.

4. What do you gain from being connected to them? The Sun. Joy and a good friendship.

5. What will you lose if you remove the connection? Strength. You will lose a valuable part of your support system.

6. General Advice/outcome. The Empress. Represents motherhood and nurturing. Knight of Wands. Are you planning on taking a trip or moving somewhere? The Knight indicates that. Combining the cards together it means that you will realize that you have abundance in your life without him and that you have enough energy to carry on, should that be your decision.

Why can't he let you go? Three of Swords. He is heartbroken, and that is hard to move on from sometimes.

Hope that helped,

posted March 15, 2008 02:26 AM         

6-15-1978 11:27est NJ
10-15-1978 11:32est NJ

posted March 16, 2008 10:26 AM         

Sunny,

thank you so much for your wonderful readings. it is ultimately amazing that you take time out of your life to come in here, and help those of us who are lost with our lives. you are an angel! (=
it's amazing how "on point" the last reading was. it's almost like the cards were pulling information directly from me.

1st card- Dave and i met after a very intense breakup with my ex. i was surely on the rebound.

3rd card- we are tied in trinity by our son.

6th card- i am moving to Tuscon soon. i realize that my efforts in trying to make this relationship work (a four year effort, to be exact) will never pan out, and i need to learn how to make it on my own. we are meant to be parents, and close friends, and a super support system. i do love him, not in that way of course, but i'm afraid to loose him, because he's so darn important to my well being. i'm afraid to be alone i guess. i feel like there is someone missing, and have felt this way my whole life. i'm sure most people feel that way though.

one more question? what am i suppose to do with my life? in other words, what is my purpose? i am so very lost in this world. i feel alone, useless, insignificant, and very tired of all of this. i have no idea how to heal, and that is all i want to do. anyway, thank you again sunny! you are sensational.

Pollie <3

posted March 25, 2008 01:50 AM         

here is my birth data
Jessica
June 25, 1986 6:31pm in Sylva, NC

posted April 29, 2008 06:53 PM         

If anyone enjoys reading charts, it would be most appreciated, I am specifically interested in career interpretation. Thank you so very much.

posted May 11, 2008 11:37 PM         

ME:
06/30/73 @ 12:33 am Rio Piedras, PR
Sun: Cancer
Moon: Cancer
Mercury: Leo
Venus: Cancer
Mars: Aries
Jupiter: Aqua
Saturn: Gemini
Uranus: Libra
Neptune: Sagittarius
Pluto: Libra

HE:
12/21/1983 Ponce, PR 11:00 am
Sun: Sagittarius
Moon: Cancer
Mercury: Capricorn
Venus: Scorpio
Mars: Libra
Jupiter: Sagittarius
Saturn: Scorpio
Uranus: Sagittarius
Neptune: Sagittarius
Pluto: Scorpio

Thanks a million! (=

posted May 14, 2008 06:56 PM         

Thanks,