posted March 15, 2007 01:48 PM         

MOGGYM -
for you, i'm giving the Yve's Understanding Love Spread, using playing cards, a go for your interpretation:

1.How do you think you receive love
Joker
New developments, fresh starts, taking a risk

2.How do you actually receive love
4 of Clubs
Beware of dishonesty or deceit; avoid blind acceptance of others at this time

3. How do you think you give/express love
King of Clubs
Dark-haired, king-hearted man; or a man with Fire predominating in his chart. A generous, spirited man.

4. How do you actually give/express love
9 of Hearts
The card of wishes. A wish/dream fulfilled. Look to the card just preceding this one to determine what the querent desires.

5. What you need to understand about giving love
Queen of Diamonds
Fair-haired woman; or a woman with Earth predominating in her chart. A gossip.

6. What you need to understand about receiving love
3 of Hearts
Love and happiness when the entire spread is generally favorable. In a difficult spread, this can indicate emotional problems and an inability to decide who to love.

7. What is holding you back/working against you giving love fully
9 of Spades
Illness, accident, bad luck. The querent is at his/her personal low.

8. What is aiding you in giving love more freely.
10 of Diamonds
A change in financial status, often for the better.

9. What works against/holds you back from receiving love
5 of Diamonds
Happiness and success. A change for the better. A birth, or good news for a child. A good tim eto start new projects.

10. What aids you in receiving love more freely.
6 of Clubs
Financial aid or success.

11. What do you need to focus on/build on to give love more fully
9 of Diamonds
A new business deal; travel; restlessness; a change of residence.

posted March 15, 2007 02:02 PM         

1. The person's current situation.
6 of Clubs
Business success. Getting financial help.

2. What other people say about the person.
8 of Hearts
Visits and visitors. Invitations out or attending a party.

3. This person's self-image.
King of Hearts
A good-natured, fair-haired man. Good advice.

4. Obstacles for this person.
10 of Hearts
Good luck and happiness.

5. Where this person is going if they remain on their current path.
10 of Clubs
Unexpected money coming in. Good luck. Travel abroad.

posted March 17, 2007 07:36 AM         

<<3. How do you think you give/express love
King of Clubs
Dark-haired, king-hearted man; or a man with Fire predominating in his chart. A generous, spirited man.>>

Very funny and spot on!!!! Am dating a dark haired Aries boy!!!! LOL

Thank you

posted March 19, 2007 01:20 PM         

I'm very happy - thank you. Glad to know you got something out of it.

iadorelinda, i'm going to do a Relationship Problem Solving spread for you:

Card 1: The problem, the real question; present situation, reason for asking.
1) 5 of Hearts
Jealous people around you. Take your time to make any decisions.

Cards 2,3,4,5 and 6 represent the nature of the relationship.
2) Ace of Clubs
Wealth, health, love and happiness. A letter concerning money.

3) 6 of Clubs
Business success. Getting financial help.

4) Jack of Hearts
A close friend or a good-natured, fair-haired youth.

5) Joker
New developments, fresh starts, taking a risk

6)Ace of Diamonds
A ring or present of jewellery. News about money. A letter.
Card 2: Shows how you relate to the other person.
Card 3: Shows how the other person relates to you.
Card 4: Shows what the relationship looks like as a whole.
Card 5: Shows your hopes, needs and desires in the relationship.
Card 6: Shows the other person's hopes, needs, and desires in the relationship.

Cards 7,8,9, represent conflicts and insights into impediments.
7)7 of Diamonds
A love affair attracting disapproval from others. A business partnership.

8)9 of Hearts
The wish card. Dreams come true.

9)2 of Spades
Separation, gossip and deceit. Difficult changes.

Card 7: What is causing conflict or impediments.
Card 8: Represents your perspective of the problem and how you will deal with it.
Card 9: Represents the other person's perspective on the problem and how they will deal with

Cards 10, 11, 12 offers insight and solutions
10) 5 of Diamonds
Success in business. Happy family.

11)Queen of Clubs
An attractive, self-confidant woman. A dark-haired woman.

12)Jack of Diamonds
A reliable friend. A dark-haired youth.

Card 10: What needs to change to overcome challenges.
Card 11: This is how you can resolve any differences and how you can improve the relationship and take it to the next level.

posted March 19, 2007 04:18 PM         

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Virgo Rising 8'57, Sagittarius Sun/4thH 3'26, Pisces Moon/6thH 8'22

"Our passions are not too strong, they are too weak. We are far too easily pleased." - C.S. Lewis

posted March 19, 2007 06:54 PM         

Im a little bit scared of asking you some things.
But here it goes:

Im on my first serious relationship. We´re very different from each other,and live on different cities. So, we´re only together when possible.
I love him deeply and I know he loves me to.Sometimes e feel scared of loosing him or find out that he still has feelings for the only love he has ever knowned before me.
Her name was also Ann and she died tragically on an acident years ago.
I know he feels guilty and deep inside him he has unresolved things that hurts him, and influences our relationship.
My questions are how can I help him and show him I really love him? Does he still loves her as him unique great love?

Please, this is really important to me..

posted March 20, 2007 12:02 PM         

PAST
Strengths
7 of Diamonds
Surprise news or a gift. problems and losses at work.

Weakness
8 of Spades
Trouble and disappointment. Plans go awry. Friends let you down. Cancellations.

Opportunities
9 of Diamonds
Surprise with money. New business opportunities. Restlessness.

Threats
9 of Spades
Bad luck in all things. Depression and low energy. destruction, deaths. Extreme anxiety.

PRESENT
Strengths
3 of Spades
Unfaithfulness and partings. Be wary in partnerships.

Weakness
5 of Diamonds
Success in business. Happy family.

Opportunities
Queen of Diamonds
A woman who loves to party and to gossip. A flirt. A very fair-haried woman.

Threats
Ace of Hearts
The home, love, friendship, joy the start of a romance. A love letter.

FUTURE
Strengths
Ace of Spades
Emotional conflict, obsession, death. Things coming to a head.

Weakness
Queen of Clubs
An attractive, self-confident woman. A dark-haired woman.

Opportunities
5 of Spades
Happy home but interference from other people. Reversals and opposition but eventual success.

posted March 20, 2007 01:18 PM         

I'm going to try Umbrae's Relationship spread for you, your friend and the relationship - you are supposed to read person 1, person 2, and relationship separately from one another first and then together:

Left column
Person 1 Feels this is the emotional baggage.
8 of Diamonds
A marriage and travel late in life. Financial ups and downs.

Person 1 Needs intellectualized emotion
3 of Hearts
You need to be cautious. don't say something you'll regret.

Person 1 Expected Outcome
5 of Diamonds
Success in business. Happy family.

Right Column
Person 2 Feels this is the emotional baggage.
2 of Clubs
Gossip. Disappointments and opposition.

Person 2 Needs intellectualized emotion
Queen of Clubs
An attractive, self-confident woman. A dark-haired woman.

Person 2 Expected Outcome
Ace of Clubs
Wealth, health, love and happiness. A letter concerning money.

Center Column
Core (what the relationship is founded on)
King of Diamonds
A stubborn and influential man. A very fair-haired man.

Needs (what the relationship needs)
8 of Spades
Trouble and disappointment. Plans go awry. Friends let you down. Cancellations.

What we can expect of the relationship (expectations)
10 of Spades
Misfortune and worry. Imprisonment. Unwelcome news.

The future of the relationship. (Probable reality)
3 of Spades
Unfaithfulness and partings. Be wary in partnerships.

posted March 20, 2007 03:32 PM         

i want first of all to thank you for your response.

I´ve red it but im sorry for not totally understand how to reed that.hE´S supposed to be person 1 and me person 2? that cards mean that this realtionship wont work and that i´ll be disapointed, and he will be unfaithfull?

posted March 21, 2007 02:41 PM         

It´s not good news but im ready to what´s ahead, whatever it is .

posted March 22, 2007 07:23 PM         

Kay Libra - well, I couldn't find a "breaking up" per say, tarot spread but I can do a Triangle of Love reading for you - I'm using my Navigators Tarot of the Mystic Sea today (fyi - I want you to get a feel of what reversals are and i'm not too great with words today so i'll copy and past someone else's description of it)
"Mary Greer, in "The Complete Book of Tarot Reversals" defines twelve specific ways in which a reversed card may manifest its energy:

1. Blocked or resisted - blocking/resisting the urge to work with a specific energy
2. Projected - something that you are seeing in someone else
3. Delayed, Difficult, Unavailable - something from the past, or the near future, or something you are having trouble with
4. Inner, Unconscious, Private - inside you, part of your internal self, rather than existing in your external world
5. Releasing - being willing to let go of things that are not necessary, or that need to change
6. Breaking through; Overturning; Refusing; Changing Direction - being in the process of breaking free of the energy depicted
7. No/Not; Lacking - the cards may be asking you not to identify with the energy being shown
8. Excessive; Over - or Under-compensating - either avoiding specific energies, or overindulging in them
9. Misused or Misdirected - using the energy of the card in an inappropriate manner
10. Redoing, Reconsidering, Reviewing, etc. - an energy may need to be worked with again, actions may need to be redone
11. Rectification - If you have a reversed card that you really wish was upright, use this as a wake-up call to get something done.
12. Crazy Version - Finding a bizarre way of doing what the upright card indicates, but not being too serious about it."

OKAY - onto your reading - AGAIN, this is subject to your interpretation. Let's see:
Basically the formation is to place 10 cards in a pyramid starting with 1 at the top.

position 1: present problem
Emperor (propulsion) - reversed
When you use ability with restraint, it reacts like a laser beam of focused light which has incredible penetrating force in whatever direction you turn it. You have a highly competitive spirit which seeks to skillfully outdo your rivals by clever maneuvering. Be sure to use your amazing force for benevolent purposes, and make certain the end justifies the means.

2,3,4 represent past

position 2: childhood influences/what you were taught about love
Eight of Wands (Velocity)
There is an impetus to get somewhere! Use this time to get things organized and projects established. Everything is in your favor, so do not procrastinate. Joint forces with others who have similar ideas to achieve fruition. Wands tell us to use intuition when choosing the right group of people, and base our actions on instinct.

position 3: adolesent/young adult lessons about love
Two of Wands (Dominion)
Be sure you do not agree with other people's ideas merely to keep the peace. There is no harm in having your own opinion and stating it categorically. Your view of the world is just as important as anyone else's. When you find yourself in a position of leadership, be humble and do not take advantage of those who trust you.

position 4: resent past/ within the last year what has been happening in your love life
Tower (Attention)
A separation is felt between the two halves of your personality as an inner conflict grows. Pay attention to the causes of this exhausting mental battle. "Towers" of false convictions divide people both inwardly and outwardly, and in order to understand each other, we must demolish them, brick by brick. Tear down your personal Tower piece by piece, and examine each psychological "block" that prevents you from achieving your dreams as you set them firmly aside, leaving the way clear to move ahead.

5,6 represent the present

position 5: current influences
Eight of Swords (curtailment) - reversed
Rational beliefs have been thwarted and plans related to logical thinking have gone awry. Nothing is turning out as you hoped and planned; it is possible that you did not assess the approaching situation correctly and underestimated opposition from others. A temporary retreat might help you to carefully re-think the situation and return with a better plan of action.

position 6: where things will lead if you keep going down the same path
Seven of Wands (fortitude)
it is difficult to hold out for what you believe in while the crabs of illusion attempt to devour those truths. Stand firm, even while others desert you. They are weak and you will be better off in the long run. Those who hold the Wand of their self-respect high will triumph in the end.

7,8, 9, 10 represent advice

position 7: What the querent needs to work on
Hermit (exaltation) - reversal
You have become receptive to cosmic vibrations by setting aside the demands of your ego-personality. despite the daily troubles which separate you from your chosen destiny and purpose on earth, you have attained a freedome which allows your mind to dwell on eternal matters. You need to surround yourself only with essentials and live a life of frugality.

position 8: who/what can help the querent
Two Cups (harmony)
Listen to an opposing point of view and allow it to be heard without interruption. Do not control others, but be patient and allow people to proceed at their own pace. This is a card of platonic love.

position 9: who/what the querent should avoid
Nine of Pentacles (acquisition) - reversal
A rising force with teh power to achieve; upward-moving possibilities, gains, comfortable legacy or divorce settlement. Travel, commerce, adventure. Beware of becoming too lazy; keep moving.

position 10: summary and final advice.
Four of Swords (recuperation:
A time for rest and healing peace is at hand. You need "time out" to recuperate and reconsider your course of action. Do not rush head-long into the fray, but allow yourself to regain composure so that you don't make a wrong turn. A vacation or time to play is ideal now.

Kay Libra - hope this has helped you in some way.

Alright - I have to go for the evening but peace and blessings to you all and i'll be back on tomorrow.

posted March 23, 2007 02:20 PM         

1...past or underlying factor
Destiny (equilibration) - reversed
The card of the choices you made before birth in the search for karmic justice. People will appreciate your integrity for your ability to discern what is right and what is wrong. Seeing another person's perspective enables you to be more accepting of the mistakes we all inevitably make. Everyone has strengths and weaknesses, and the aspec tof character you may consider faulty in a person may be perfectly acceptable to someone else. you have the power to make choices; choose to forgive others and you also forgive yourself.

2...current situation
Four of Wands (delight) - reversed
this is a romantic, gentle card but with a feeling of impending change. Remember that romantic thrills are transient and that new relationships need to be based on something more substantial. Consider whether there is a solid basis of mutual regard and shared values behind a new powerful attraction.

3...action (Maine?)
Aeon (realization) - reversed
You are realizing a fresh inner energy. A new clairty will enable you to concentrate on subtle messages that evaded you before. You will find an ability to sympathize with others and put yourself in their place. You need to mentally classify and order your thoughts, which will allow you to use inventive ideas in unusal ways. This fresh inspiration is your first encounter with the spiriti of quintessence, the fifth sense. You will notice the energy passing between people as they meet and part, exchanging different vibratioins which are clearly visible in their movements.

4...internal influence
Ace of Pentacles (generation)
You have succeeded beyond your wildest dreams, yet you know now that there is more to life than worldly fame. It is time to turn your back on material gain and seek a spiritual path.

5...external influence
Nine of Cups (satiety) - reversed
Atendency toward self-denigration and a fear of success, which can manifest themselves in heavy partying and denial of problems. Destiny ultimately plays a role in our lives, there is no harm in going with the flow as long as principles are not abandoned.

6...outcome
Ten of Wands (oppression) - reversed
The most powerful of the four tens signifies fire out of control and the centering of intuition. Intuition frees us from the desire to receive plaudits for our daily work, thus teaching us humility. Leave behind psychological baggage; look within in order to learn and grow.

7...action (Missouri?)
King of Cups (transition) - reversed
This is a strong and gentle man with a great capacity for forgiveness for those who atone for their misdeeds. By this he gains immense respect, and is even feared by some because of his competent and aspiring nature. He can be ruthless toward those who do not repent.

8...internal influence
Chariot (conclusion) - reversed
Through self-analysis, you have learend to appreciate the voice within. You understand the needs and desires fo your ego, and are capable of silencing its voice and demanding that it regard you with deference, for you are far greater than it can ever bee. You are aware of the gulf of ultimate sadness in life through the knowledge of ephemeral and transient situations.

9...external influence
Ace of Swords (respiration)
Your mind is alwaysa active. Instead of allowing it to roam among random thoughts, take some time to direct your mental energy toward your personal growth. The challenging sword of your will can be used for both good and evil purposes. Which will you choose?

posted March 24, 2007 05:43 PM         

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Virgo Rising 8'57, Sagittarius Sun/4thH 3'26, Pisces Moon/6thH 8'22

"Our passions are not too strong, they are too weak. We are far too easily pleased." - C.S. Lewis

posted March 27, 2007 07:32 PM         

nattie 33 - well, what do the rest of the people who are moving with you think? Is there a mutual regard and shared value behind the move? I think there is potential in either case - I believe that staying in Maine - you may hamper any external opportunities that may come your way. In the Missouri move, you may have the opportunity to pursue your ideas instead of just dreaming about them.

thebigeliza:
hmmmmm, like a love triangle, right? Ok - well, this is subject to YOUR interpretation.

1) Querent (that would be you)
Queen of Swords (subversion) - reversed
The coldly beautiful Queen is a perceptive indivualist and a confident diplomat. She may become treacherous if thwarted. There is now an opportunity to demolish rational edifices to allow intellectual energy to guide us during times of deep reflection.

2) Person #1
Page of Wands (equivocation)
The Page is a quick, daring young person who can be cruel in anger or love. Full of courage and untamed beauty, he aroses consuming passions in others but frequently betrays or rebuffs them. There is ambiguity in the quest ahead which takes patience to decipher.

3) The heart of the relationship between you and Person #1
Tower (attention)
A separation is felt between the two halves of your personality as an inner conflict grows. Pay attention to the causes of this exhausting mental battle. "Towers" of false convictions divide people both inwardly and outwardly, and in order to understand each other, we must demolish them, brick by brick. Tear down your personal Tower piece by piece, and examine each psychological "block" that prevents you from achieving your dreams as you set them firmly aside, leaving the way clear to move ahead.

4) The mind of the relationship between you and Person #1
Art (verification) - reversed
You need to verify the wisdom of choices you have recently made. Mentally illustrate exactly what you are aiming for. Practice temperance and moderation, for you need to keep an inner equilibrium. You may also test your willpower by denial of certain things which give you pleasure. It is essential to persevere, even though you have become impatient. On every side, thoughts and sense-images will attempt to entice you from your goal. But if you turn aside, you will have to begin all over again.

5) The outward appearance of the relationship between you and Person #1
Five of Wands (contention) - reversed
A battle lies ahead in which you will be pushed to the limit in defending your point of view. Although you are shocked and saddened, make sure you know who is really on your side. You can succeed despite all odds if you face facts and state your case courageously.

6) Person #2
King of Wands (restriction)
A proud and active man with a wonderful sense of humor, he can show coolness and resolution in his actions. He jumps to conclusions easily and needs to remember tolerance and generosity rather than an autocratic approach on occasions where he is required to state his opinions. This card reflects the ability to visualize future actions and focus firmly on goals.

7) The heart of the relationship between you and Person #2
Sun (organization) - reversed
this is a time for intellectual activity and thorough reorganization of goals. Do away with negative thoughts and discipline yourself toward a definite aim, for time is slipping by. You may not have been able to focus on a particular objective until now. You need to examine your areas of greatest proficiency and realize tha tyou have untapped talents. Resolve now to go ahead with a creative activity that appeals to you. Your dreams will guide you if you have difficulty interpreting your deepest wishes. However, you must have patience, for in this world, events do not always move as swiftly as we would like.

8) The mind of the relationship between you and Person #2
Moon (gratification)
This card represents a state of flux and illusion. It is time to reflect on yoru lifestyle, for it may be damaging to you and to others around you. You tend to be moody and constantly change your opinion. This sort of oscillation in your emotional state causes confusion amongst family and friends. You may be repressing feelings of resentment, anger, or guilt. Discuss problems openly with others; be focused on them during these talks, giving them time to explain and listening to their point of view. You will find that you begin to understand others' thoughts before they speak. Use this gift to become more aware of the people who mean the most to you.

9) The outward appearance of the relationship between you and Person #2
Destiny (equilibration) - reversed
The card of the choices yo umade before birth in the search for karmic justice. People will appreciate your integrity for your ability to discern what is right and what is wrong. Seeing another person's perspective enables you to be more accepting of the mistakes we all inevitably make. Everyone has strengths and weaknesses, and the aspect of character you may consider faulty in a person may be perfectly acceptable to someone else. You have the power to make choices; choose to forgive others and you also forgive yourself.

10) The heart of the relationship between Person #1 and Person #2
Queen of Pentacles (persuasion)
This Queen is warm-hearted and kindly, a sensible woman who is intuitive and understanding. she can sometimes err on the side of mental laziness and mellow passivity. Gentle persuasion can be used to show others the right way to lead their lives, but this can only be done by those who have been convinced themselves to take a better path.

11) The mind of the relationship between Person #1 and Person #2
Queen of Swords (subversion)
The coldly beautiful Queen is a perceptive individualist and a confident diplomat. She may become treacherous if thwarted. There is now an opportunity to demolish rational edifices to allow intellectual energy to guide us during times of deep reflection.

12) The outward appearance of the relationship between Person #1 and Person #2
Devil (subjugation)
Someone is hiding something from you, and because of your credulity you are taken in by their falsehoods; or perhaps you are the false one. Keeping the truth from people is away of manipulating them, and that is to subjugate them to your will! You may be inclined to slander and vilify others to bring them down so that you appear superior. One method of doing this is to make someone the butt of a cruel joke or cutting remark. Although this may seem hilarious at the time, later you may feel deeply ashamed. Try to make amends with those you have wounded.

13) The Main Lesson
Nine of Wands (intensity)
Approach the unknown with skepticism and determination; carefully double-check interpretations and assumptions. You are seeking the right path at this time in your life, but are confused and misled by linear thinking. Let go and allow your instincts to pick your actions, for they will reflect your destiny.

neptune5:
congratulations on getting some work of yours published in the near future but DANG neptune5 - regardless, i'm going to do a money in my life spread for you - as you already know from your past readings, this is subject to your interpretation:

Card One: shows the past financial situation, or event from the past that is still influencing the future.
Eight of Pentacles (economy)
Money is only a tool, a link in the chain between effort and sustenance. To sustain, it must be saved; to gain, it must be used as a living sculpture of one's will. You will make good decisions regarding investments.

Card Two: is the current financial situation.
Ten of Wands (oppression) - reversed
the most powerful of the four tens signifies fire out of control and the centering of intuition. Intuition frees us from the desire to receive plaudits for our daily work, thus teaching us humility. Leave behind psychological baggage; look within in order to learn and grow.

Card Three: shows how you feel about the situation, or how it is seen.
Strength (omnipotence) - reversed
You are able to reclaim the power which is rightly yours. The inspiration which invigorates you and enables you to drive forward is a strong feeling of confidence in yourself, your motives, and the environment you have prepared for this success. The seeds tha tyou sow will blossom into long-lasting achievement. You feel omnipotent, ready to conquer the world, for you have finally resolved conflicting issues within your own personality.

Card Four: a likely future influence, based on current actions.
Two of Swords (concurrence)
Becoming involved in other people's disagreements saps your energy without yielding meaningful results. Step back and allow the conflict to continue without you, for the argument can only be concluded by the warring participants themselves. Make sure you are not neglecting your own needs.

Card Five: what needs to change or be done to improve financial situation. Card Five might generally point to internal changes, or change in outlook.
Devil (subjugation) - reversed
Someone is hiding something from you, and because of your credulity you are taken in by their falsehoods; or perhaps you are the false one. Keeping the truth from people is away of manipulating them, and that is to subjugate them to your will! You may be inclined to slander and vilify others to bring them down so that you appear superior. One method of doing this is to make someone the butt of a cruel joke or cutting remark. Although this may seem hilarious at the time, later you may feel deeply ashamed. Try to make amends with those you have wounded.

Card Six: action that can be taken, or area that should be focused on specifically. Card Six might generally point to external changes, physical actions that can be taken, or work with others.
Queen of Swords (subversion) - reversed
The coldly beautiful Queen is a perceptive individualist and a confident diplomat. She may become treacherous if thwarted. There is now an opportunity to demolish rational edifices to allow intellectual energy to guide us during times of deep reflection.

posted March 29, 2007 08:25 PM         

How is this situation affecting me ...
Card One: in mundane or obvious ways
Kings of Wands (restriction) - reversed
A proud and active man with a wonderful sense of humor, he can show coolness and resolution in his actions. He jumps to conslusions easily and needs to remember tolerance and generosity rather than an autocratic approach on occasions where he is required to state his opinions. This card reflects the ability to visualize future actions and focus firmly on goals.

Card Two: on an emotional level
Four of Cups (discontent) - reversed
Pinning down a vague feeling of dissatisfaction with life is not easy. it is time to take stock of those around you and let go of people who are not fulfilling your needs. To do so, you must have a clear idea of who you are and what sort of people are of value to you.

Card Three: spiritually
Star (revelation)
There is no doubt that the practice of meditation has valuable physical and emotional benefits which will enrich your life. During these moments, when you have learned to let go, you will receive revelations within your conscious mind. There visions have an air of your unconscious mind rising to the surface. By remaining tranquil, you will free many of these inner waves of intent and allow them to do their work by influencing your conscious decisions. In this way, you return to the source of your potential, bulding a self-confidence and resourcefulness which will enable you to face all yoru life experiences.

Card Four: karmically (have I veered from an important path, etc.)
Lovers (discrimination) - reversed
Through the mirror of perception, you can see that your missing part bears an exact resemblance to your known part, but is also complementary. The process you are going through demands a great deal of audacity, for in order to take on this unfamiliar version of yourself, you must have behind the outworn idea of your own individuality. From this union within you will notice a tremendous exhilaration, for this is your full potential.

Card Five: in my relationships
Eight of Wands (velocity) - reversed
There is an impetus to get somewhere! Use this time to get things organized and projects established. Everything is in your favor, so do not procrastinate. Join forces with others who have similar ideas to achieve fruition. Wands tell us to use intuition when choosing the right group of people, and base our actions on instinct.

What are my ...
Card Six: true motivations
Three of Cups (abundance) - reversed
Sorrow hides behind the pleasures of the world. Pay close attention to offers from others which seem tempting at first glance. They may conceal intentions calculated to manipulate you. There are further unseen obligations which accompany this proposition.

Card Seven: real aspirations
Ten of Pentacles (affluence) - reversed
Accumulation of property and wealth. Prevent early dispersion by devoting part of your riches to charity. Remember that even with all the riches in the world, our lives are not complete and thus we search for something more satisfying to lead us to our inner goals.

Card Nine: past actions
Page of Pentacles (reservation) - reversed
This page is a solid, stable person who sets out on a quest, knowing inwardly that there is more to life than meets the eye. Observe reasonable limits, avoid extremes of behavior and expression. Becoming free of overindulgence enables one to concentrate on the search for knowledge, reason, and enlightenment.

Card Ten: future events
Ace of Wands (stimulation) - (i'm not sure if it was reversed or not because it actually fell on the floor)
You are strongly aware of intuitive feelings and are prepared to rely on their wisdom. you realize there is more to existence than outward show, and you are ready to set out on the quest for greater psychological understanding of yourself and all those who share your life.

What do I ...
Card Eight: need most now
Devil (subjugation)
Someone is hiding something from you, and because of your credulity you are takne in by their falsehoods; or perhaps you are the false one. Keeping the truth from people is a way of manipulating them, and that is to subjugate them to your will! You may be inclined to slander and vilify others to bring them down so that you appear superior. One method of doing this is to make someone the butt of a cruel joke or cutting remark. although this may seem hilarious at the time, later you may feel deeply ashamed. Try to make amends with those you have wounded.

What should I ...
Card Eleven: learn now
Strength (omnipotence)
You are able to reclaim the power which is rightly yours. The inspiration which invigorates you and enables you to drive forward si a strong feeling of confidence in yourself, your motives,a nd the environment you have prepared for this success. The seeds tha tyou sow will blossom into long-lasting achievement. You feel omnipotent, ready to conquer the world, for you have finally resolved conflicting issues within your own personality.

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Card Twelve: is this situation good or bad for me or that which has not appeared yet?
Five of Pentacles (adversity) - reversed
A feeling of hopelessness pervades this card. Do not assume excessive guilt, nor seek to place undue blame over a mistake which involves a financial loss or disappearance of material goods. This setback will eventually move you further toward the objective you seek. Experieneces teach us to make informed decisions.

Here is the Cup of Relationships Spread reading for you:

Q1 Significator 1
Destiny (equilibration) - reversed
The card of the choices you made before birth in the search for karmic justice. People will appreciate your integrity for your ability to discern what is right and what is wrong. Seeing another person's perspective enables you to be more accepting of the mistakes we all inevitably make. Everyone has strengths and weaknesses, and the aspect of character you may consider faulty in a person may be perfectly acceptable to someone else. You have th epower to make choices; choose to forgive others and you also forgive yourself.

Q2 Significator 2
Moon (gratification)
This card represents a state of flux and illusion. It is time to reflect on your lifestyle, for it may be damaging to you and to others around you. You tend to be moody and constantly change your opinion. This sort of oscillation in your emotioan state causes confusion amongst family and friends. You may be repressing feeligns of resentment, anger, or guilt. Discuss problems openly with others, be focused on tem during these talks, giving them time to explain and listening to their point of view. You will find that you begin to understand others' thoughts before they speak. use this gift to become more aware of the people who mean the most to you.

1. The Foundation of the Relationship
Magian (encapsulation)
Having fulfilled an absolute balance between the two hemispheres of the brain, you create a point of power which produces incredible vibrations that influence those around you. You will possess superior abilities of perception. With this capacity, it is possible to resort to trickery and manipulation, but this is dangerous and should be avoided at all costs.

2. Recent Past
Eight of Cups (seclusion)
We tend to make excuses for our behavior, particularly when we are unhappy but powerless to make a change. Yet you can change and start putting your life together by applying self-discipline. The reason you make excuses is because you are afraid you won't succeed. Realize your self-worth using your innate determination.

3. Current State of the Relationship
Hierophant (intuition)
You may be required to make sacrifices in order to move on with your life. You are in a vulnerable position, for much is demanded of you, and if you fail to give, you will not achieve supremacy over those who would pull you down. Endurance will be expected of you during this transition, and you must be patience and forgiving. Look for deeper meaning in yrou current situation; reconciliation helps you see exactly what is going on and what motivates your aggressor.

4. Obstacles they both face
Three of Swords (desolation)
Occasions of deep dejection can be used as a sounding board to seek out the unsatisfactory areas of your life and come into contact with unconscious forces. Opening yourself to the root cause of your fear will banish it for good. Allow yourself to feel sorrow, and building a new foundation on the surprising results of discovering your inner self.

5. Views of #1 regarding the relationship
Nine of Swords (desperation)
A conflict in the mind which can lead to madness. Being overwhelmed allows us to become resigned and accept martyrdom. Overcome isolation and merge again with the everyday world to restore sanity and composure. There will be a breakthrough.

6. Views of #2 regarding the relationship
Knight of Swords (penetration)
An adult of lean and stately stature, this Knight is clever, capable, scientific, cool, and remote. He can put forward any argument and move his position constantly, remaining ever elusive. He is suspicious of others and tries to dominate through manipulation. the ability to penetrate intellectually over and above the conflict of our daily thoughts is bestowed by this Knight.

7. Expectations of #1 regarding the rel.
Nine of Cups (satiety)
A tendency toward self-denigration and a fear of success, which can manifest themselves in heavy partying and denial of problems. Destiny ultimately plays a role in our lives, there is no harm in going with the flow as long as principles are not abandoned.

8. Expectations of #2 regarding the rel.
Ten of Swords (destitution) - reversed
The debasement of all moral qualities. Weakness and corruption. Yet even during moments of sorrow and depression, divine karma is at work bringing justice to all. do not attempt to defend yourself by making excuses; reevaluate your principles and make a new start.

9. Best Outcome
King of Pentacles (motivation) - reversed
The King is trustworthy, methodical, and down to earth. he can become an implacable enemy if his smoldering fires are around. He is a devoted but undemonstrative partner, applying his energy to practical matters. Motivation is the key to progress; we need incentive and follow through to grow psychologically.