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Topic: in 2 deep 2 get out
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DiandraReborn25
Knowflake Posts: 160
From: Portugal
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 16, 2009 01:54 PM
 
nevertheless Larai wish that you find someone to share your life with.happilly and fullfilled and balanced. im one of those girls that only see´s that life is really a blessing when being loved by our familie´s and partner.  IP: Logged |
Peri
Moderator Posts: 654
From: 49N35 34E34
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 16, 2009 05:04 PM
Lara, I wish you good luck on this roller coaster ride!  IP: Logged |
MissLibra5
Knowflake Posts: 4
From: Colorado, USA
Registered: May 2009
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posted July 17, 2009 06:04 AM
Hi Lara  I have to say that I read to page 3 and saw all the hits you were taking for the whole "i'd still see you if you were married" comment. I just want to say that I know exactly how you felt when that comment was made to you. It's kind of like a subtle underlying hint towards how devoted you are to one another. Its like two magnets that are drawn to each other no matter what. You try and try and try to leave and always end up going back and he will always take you because you two are connected in some crazy, intense, passionate way. I completely understand. I feel the same exact way for a man, and we have said the same exact thing to one another. I don't really think the "relationship" is healthy, yours or mine. But you know what, HEALTHY is BORING. I want some spice and some PASSION. There's just a line that needs to be acknowledged and it should not be crossed by either party. Just wanna show some support, I get you girl. IP: Logged |
amowls*
Knowflake Posts: 425
From: richmond va
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 17, 2009 10:49 AM
Can I see FB's chart?IP: Logged |
aka Kat
Knowflake Posts: 6
From: Cleveland, Ohio
Registered: Jun 2009
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posted July 18, 2009 08:31 AM
Perhaps you're one of those people who are afraid of being alone and need to have someone there. You mentioned he was like a drug. I think synastry aside, a marriage with this type of dynamics is destined to fail. You already mentioned it failed 8/9/10 times. Perhaps you haven't thought of a better option rather than running back.You need to do some building of your own self esteem so that you will not be running to a man out of need, but having a common vision and walking side by side. IP: Logged |
Lara
Knowflake Posts: 1100
From: aspideronmars
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 18, 2009 11:45 AM
Thanks Diandra and Peri and everyone.MissLibra - I KNOW!!! exactly.. sigh. The thing is, this is not a guy i'd necessarily marry - i just have this incredible energy with him, sexual and mental. I can't go near him without wanting him so badly like it's life or death. I never had that with anyone before... and when he kisses me it's like he's sucking my last breath out of me lol
It's not even obsessive, it's just unreal tension and lust, attraction and mental compatibility. Amowls - i have asked him again for his birth time because he got it wrong... so will post it when i get it, sorry. I'm pretty sure he's Cappy AC though. Aka Kat - no, i'm not one of those people, sorry. He is like a drug but i'm no addict! I love myself and my own company. I never "date" or have sex for the sake of it. I'm also not running back - it's hard to explain but i am pulled back, whether i like it or not. It's like a huge magnetic field and he and i are it!
I never do anything out of need. I don't believe in needing another - when you love yourself and are confident, need is not necessary. Want is, for sure but need isn't
I don't want to marry him either - and it hasn't failed.. i just keep trying to break it off and am totally unable to.
hope that makes more sense to you now?
I do totally understand his point. He wants to get married and start a family from fresh. I have a family and don't wish to have anymore kids... if i didn't have kids and we were younger i'm sure we'd be married by now. He even said to me that if we'd met 10 yrs ago we would have been together. The thing is, he likes what i do better than anyone else, i feel the same and so we are unable to break it off! It's just magnetizing stuff. lol
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