posted October 16, 2009 09:17 PM            

although my moon aspects my venus, and that moon is in aries.

posted October 19, 2009 02:20 AM            

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I'm very curious. When you're with someone, and you sense they're attracted to you, how do you feel? Does it excite you, flatter you, intrigue you, annoy you?

Because it terrifies me.

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posted October 19, 2009 10:17 AM            

p.s. i went after a venus capi last night a bit like a capi maybe?

edit* i mean saturday night lol

p.s. she made a good example of my conclusion - they don't flirt or make a move! wall flower is the style.

lol

posted October 19, 2009 12:27 PM            

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Nine, I think you are definately onto something! I express venus through my sign and house position. Who I attract?? Definately the aspects.

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I have Venus in aspect to Mars & Uranus. I've attracted quite a few Aquarius Sun-Aries Moons. And Scorpios.

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At the time, t.Mars was cnj my Venus.) I've had similar experiences throughout my life.

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posted October 19, 2009 01:12 PM            

I get this respons very well!
Even difficult to understand that it couldn't feel that way...

If I sense they're attracted to me it only terrifies when I don't like them.

posted October 19, 2009 01:37 PM            

Venus in libra

posted October 19, 2009 02:00 PM            

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If the feelings are mutual, then it makes me ANXIOUS. And I'm a gemini venus too.

posted October 20, 2009 12:00 AM            

Sag is also about philosophy. I tend to think of Sag as part lusty animal, part contemplative philosopher. Both ways, Sag wants to experience "more". To take their bodies and minds beyond the dull and commonplace. So maybe those who pursue you appeal to you in that way, with a promise of taking your mind higher and your body further than you've ever been?

GW -

The beer chugging sounds fun. I suck at arm wrestles though. If only it was socially acceptable to do leg wrestles instead. As Saggie females, we could dominate that sport.

AG -

posted October 20, 2009 12:07 AM            

Seeing as how we both have a hard Moon-Uranus aspect, how 'bouts our "marriage" consists of a standing date at the hotel every Wednesday afternoon?

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But it's interesting because I feel we very much mirror what we seek per the Venus and 7th house stuff. So I'd think it has to do with how we perceive stuff, and perception is receptive, much like Venus (and the 7th cusp)

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posted October 20, 2009 12:16 AM            

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in general I don't really attract the hide in the bathroom kind of guy.

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I wouldn't say they're the hide in the bathroom kind. Although at times, they've certainly all been wankers.

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EDIT: At first, I imagined a "hide in the bathroom" type as a timid guy who's afraid of talking to g-g-girls. And none of the guys who told me about this were like that. So I figured, it wasn't them, it was me that motivated their behavior. I thought they were picking up on my need to set the pace, so they held themselves back, waiting for me to pounce them.

But I thought it over, and realized that it wasn't just me. It was them too. They're all strongly Piscean/Neptunian and are looking for a woman who makes them fantasize. They want a woman who's unattainable at first, because to them a sexy woman is one who can invade their minds and make them long for satisfaction. So they weren't just responding to what I needed, I was who they needed. Perfect fit of kink (and, on my part, neuroses).

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See, your Venus is a hot piece of Taurass. It's healthy and sexy, like a young shirtless farmer riding a tractor. (I'm going to need the bathroom again soon. You and AG exhaust me!) So I'd imagine that when a man in your company has been turned on, that Taurus vibe allowed him to release that energy in a healthy way. Pursuing you or, when that's been inappropriate, flirting.

posted October 20, 2009 12:33 AM            

Swirl-kitt, your description for Libra Venus sounds a lot like one of my best friends with that placement.

pire, your post made me laugh when you said you haven't noticed being pursued. Was that deliberate Pisces humor? I hope you're able to enjoy that tight orb one day, if not him then someone else who will cherish your lovely Pisces Venus self and serenade you with more David Gray.

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posted October 20, 2009 12:37 AM            

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p.s. she made a good example of my conclusion - they don't flirt or make a move! wall flower is the style.

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She may have been focusing all her energy on not having a heart attack.

posted October 20, 2009 02:06 AM            

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Have you noticed coworkers/friends running to the bathroom for an unusually long visit after a sexually themed convo?

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posted October 20, 2009 07:56 AM            

seriously though, she couldn't have been scared :P, we have been some what 'aware' of each other for months lol.

basically, i first saw her picture on facebook, she was (for a joke) in a married relationship status with one of my best friends. when i looked at my best friends profile, my virgo'ness was curious to see who this was, so when i looked, her profile wasn't private, and i thought she was hot!. i told my mate, and he told his sister, (his sister is like her best friend, or one of them)

so my comment about her spread like Wild fire lol, anyway, i had seen her a few times since that went 'around' and nothing happened, we never talked, just kind of acknowledged and smiled at each other (at mutual gatherings through friends or parties, or clubbing)

apparently she said i was 'cute' in return (to her friend), when i heard that, i just figured she was being nice and wasn't interested. so these few times we had seen each other we had never spoken, but i noticed each time we was in each others presence, we couldn't help but notice and look at each other now n then (i attribute this to our mars-sun aspect double-Whmie!), we'd look at each other (in a way like we wanted to talk to each other, it was pleasant i might take it a step further to say her look was a little more than friendly) .. one time at a bar (which was the last time i saw her before sat) she tried to talk to me (she was drunk) i was being quite aloof and i was a bit 'cold' towards her social attempt with me. (it wasn't on purpose, i couldn't drink that night so i was sober!, and i am somewhat aloof when sober)(i didn't like how she started talking to me, we had this short little gaze going on at each other like right up close at a table (before she said anything)..and she asked me if i still liked this other girl that everyone thought i liked, i wasn't particularly engaged by the question, i hated people asking me about that already at the time.

i think that bothered her, but saturday at my best friends 21'st, i managed to catch her outside on her own having a cigg (i had one too) and we had this thing where we were looking at eachother again, so i started talking to her, cut a long story short, we had the longest convo we'll probably ever have, it was nice, we spoke about music interests/life/uni/work/jobs.. at first i actually complimented her about her looks again, and told her she looked great with how her hair was, btu that she looks even better with it longer (she agreed and said she was growing it back) she didn't seem to have a heart attack from this compliment, or my obvious attraction to her, but maybe thats because of the series of 'nothing said' /aloof interactions we have had ?

outside was nice though, i said i was cold so we kinda hugged and was giving eachother some nice strokes/rubbing to keep warm , it was a little longer than perhaps 'friendly'.. but i guess that was down to me cause i didn't stop.. lol

anyway, i felt sorry for her that night, she was a wall flower big time, she looked so bored and left out at one point, thats when i wanted to try and find a good situation to talk to her (and it ended up being the cigg outside) (i hate trying to move to a girl if she has 3 of her friends sat/with her, i can't move to them!) lol

i'd be very appreciative of your tips or advice about the cappie girl.

if it helps, her chart is in the inside (blue) (no birth time though!)

sorry for hijackin your thread*! jane lol

posted October 20, 2009 11:26 PM            

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Jackin, hijackin...It's all good.

Sounds like you're doing very well with your Cappy. I'm glad to hear you've already known of one another for months. That gap has given her enough time to have grown comfortable with the idea of being with you. It's a good sign that she was receptive to your request for body heat. Well played, letram. You are a natural for the Cappy Venus gals.

When she asked you before about that other girl...I think that's also a good sign. I can't speak for her, but a Cap influence usually makes someone a bit private and reluctant to discuss deep feelings. They grant that privacy to other people too. So my first thought is she wouldn't ask you about that other girl simply to make convo. (Since she would see your private feelings as off-limits for conversation.) I think she asked because she's interested in you, and is trying to see if your emotions are available for her or already committed to another.

About the heart attack stuff...Cap has a good poker face. (Just as good as Scorpio.) I'm being hyperbolic though. I don't mean severe discomfort, just a slight moment of panic as Cap figures out her plan. Cap is big on plans. So if you never sensed her pulling back, I think everything that happened so far between you two (you complimenting her, some cuddling) was already a part of her plan with you.

It's hard to see clearly - looks like she has Venus cnj Saturn which is opposite Chiron. Is Chiron cnj her SN?

That, along with her Uranus and Neptune stuff makes me think she's independent-minded & unconventional, but also very sensitive and (underneath the Cappy poker face) soft. Maybe a little sad?

Her Jupiter on your Leo Asc probably indicates that she's attracted to what she perceives as your easy confidence. You two would probably have a lot of fun together with that cnj.

Sun-Mars is very hot in synastry. Lucky yous.

It looks like your Juno (cnj Mercury) completes a grand trine for her with her Mars & Saturn. Saturn is always important, but hers seems especially important considering it's cnj her NN & Venus/opp her Chiron, and disposits all those Cap placements. I think with you she'll feel a pleasurable inner harmony. (I don't mean that in a dirty way, but that may very well happen as well. )