posted February 25, 2010 04:25 PM         

But often people with different half-emphasis are drawn to each other.

For example:
Let`s say someone has a lot of planets in 10th, 11th and 7th house, while the other person has many planets in 1st, 4th and 5th house.

The first person would - generally speaking- be more oriented towards other people, relating to them, understanding how society "works", and maybe could draw the other person out of their "inner world", to at least now and then participate in the world outside, in relationships, in a social environment.

Just as an example.

posted February 26, 2010 12:52 PM         

YES!IM Mars in Leo and it is cj Nessus btw---i wonder how this plays out really---nessus is much about emotional abuse mainly.

but i dont see myself as a nessus type of person...even when i express my anger.

mars has only nice aspects ; trine jup/uranus/aura and sextiles ASC.squares MC.

mars rules my 7th.

being in Leo in 11th:

i tend to rebel against existing structures,all that i might feel an impediment of being free,of having my own rules,like society´s norms and rules that i consider to be...flawless..

this also gives me a strong sense of justice.and this is underlined by my libra asc and for the fact that i have sun and venus here too..

i like to create strong impressions and im also very creative.
i tend to argue a lot,out loud when i feel injusticed specially.when i feel that im speaking ,putting my heart out and or nobody is listening closely,or is understanding everything wrong.

posted February 26, 2010 02:59 PM         

like if a person has predictable lack of self control it is easy with the right words to calmly make them lose it and show a lot about themself and then i (sometimes) feel kinda bad afterwards. but its not my fault they were so predictable in response. and then i walk away whisteling not a care in the world. and people think, wow she must really be mad, and i actually never even got mad. weird.

posted February 26, 2010 03:38 PM         

my libra mars is actually a very good thing. my taur asc never lets me forget anything uttered under the sun and i can perservere and outlast most anyone i know in most battles of the will. the mars lets me detach and be analyitical about how to win, and losing temper and winning do not go hand in hand. i can be as cold and detached as an iceberg and it can really infuriate people who try to get a rise out of me, they just get madder and madder when you don't take thier bait.

posted February 26, 2010 06:59 PM         

I am a Libra rising also, so most of the time I am clam and do my best to avoid conflict. I will even avoid asking for help when I need it if I feel like it will anger the other person. If you have angered me unless you are very close to me you are not likely to know you have offended me unless you are very observant. I tend to hold it in or subtly let you know you are doing is not okay. Or if I can find a way to switch the subject at the perfect moment I will do just that.

I pace intensely when I am upset. Actually, I pace a lot when I am thinking about something or deep in though. It drives my family bonkers. I am known as a worry wart around my family. When I simply disagree/frustrated my voice actually sounds a little bit higher/slightly whiny as I attempt to show you a different point of view.

When I have finally had enough or am about to cut ties with someone who has done me wrong, I usually do it by an overly long letter or voicemail. All my bottled up anger is then usually released as I take every flaw you may have failed to notice in how you treated me, every single lie you ever said and quote your exact words showing every contradiction possibly with more than one example, and then I end it wishing you the best of luck. I am a sincere person, and when I feel I have been dishonored, or disrespected, and severely taken advantage of you will lose my trust -- then you will lose me as well.

posted February 26, 2010 06:59 PM         

I am a Libra rising also, so most of the time I am clam and do my best to avoid conflict. I will even avoid asking for help when I need it if I feel like it will anger the other person. If you have angered me unless you are very close to me you are not likely to know you have offended me unless you are very observant. I tend to hold it in or subtly let you know you are doing is not okay. Or if I can find a way to switch the subject at the perfect moment I will do just that.

I pace intensely when I am upset. Actually, I pace a lot when I am thinking about something or deep in though. It drives my family bonkers. I am known as a worry wart around my family. When I simply disagree/frustrated my voice actually sounds a little bit higher/slightly whiny as I attempt to show you a different point of view.

When I have finally had enough or am about to cut ties with someone who has done me wrong, I usually do it by an overly long letter or voicemail. All my bottled up anger is then usually released as I take every flaw you may have failed to notice in how you treated me, every single lie you ever said and quote your exact words showing every contradiction possibly with more than one example, and then I end it wishing you the best of luck. I am a sincere person, and when I feel I have been dishonored, disrespected, and/or severely taken advantage of you will lose my trust -- then you will lose me as well.

posted February 26, 2010 07:43 PM         

I blow up- and get very poisonous with words.

posted February 26, 2010 07:58 PM         

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The 2 Mars I have the hardest time understanding are Cap and Aqua.
Is there anyone out there who can explain what it feels like to have these Mars(or know someone with these placements)
Thanks so much , Ami

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I have a Cap Mars and I answered the thread on the first page. Was there something more specific you'd like to know?
What do you find difficult to understand?
I'll try and explain it.

My dad has an Aquarius Mars - so I can answer Qs about that also..
He doesn't express anger much. He gets verbally sarcastic when angry. He doesn't usually raise his tone but if it is an issue he feels strongly about he can come across as intimidating (usually in a career setting.. not so much in a personal setting).

posted February 26, 2010 07:58 PM         

i like your nick.

when you were describing you,i was seeing myself too

posted February 26, 2010 09:04 PM         

I'm not very expressive.. It might be the conjunction to Neptune though.

I guess people get angry for very personal reasons. For example they may feel offended or personally betrayed by someone else's behaviour. Or they may feel attacked by another.. or they may be angry at particular behaviours they see that are against their own system of values.. or they might just be angry at life, in general (feeling they got the raw end of the deal).

All of these *typical* classic situations.. where someone might get angry - are situations that seem very common to me.
It's very common for people to fuk up.. It's very common for someone to cheat or steal or talk about you behind your back or whatever else.. It's very common for people to go through pains and losses (so I don't think anyone is "favoured".. or that the grass is greener elsewhere.)
I don't expect people to be saints.. I expect them to be both beautiful and ugly overall, so this doesn't surprise me and it doesn't anger me.

It does disappoint me, though...Sometimes I nag them about it or 'reprimand'.. but I usually expect it.

When I do nag, I'm very much aware of the fact that I'm unjustly getting on a high horse - when I may have made similar mistakes.. But the instinct to nag is too strong for me to hold back.

I feel guilty about nagging though lol I can only imagine how annoying this can get.

Also - I have pretty good hunches regarding who I'm dealing with and what they are capable of.. I seldom feel *surprised* by something someone does.. so there is no *instant* shock.. That could be another reason why I seldom have an "angry" reaction.

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or expresses it's own power.

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