posted February 28, 2010 05:27 PM         

But there are lots of great ppl on these boards and have learned much over the years so I will be back now and again back to lurking for awhile.

posted February 28, 2010 08:22 PM         

Imagine for a second that PDF said this:

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Alot of people would no doubt congratulate you on wearing blue jeans, and liking the colour blue.
But i'm afraid i'm not one of those fools. I find it staggering and ridiculous. I'm sorry you went through having to wear tight blue jeans for an an entire night - but that's how i feel.

Moreover it's people like you that enable idiots like all those other denim lovers out there - to continue wearing denim time and time again.

Why do these people get such lame sentences in court, when their tight jeans stop traffic and have caused manya drunken-male car crash!!

I'm sorry but it's just not on and they need dealing with properly. Personally i'd just put them up against the wall and shoot them.

I would also question what you describe as 'love' OF DENIM - and i would say that having been what you've been through it is likely to be some kind of repressed emotional reaction, flat affectivity and a loss of self-understanding.

You had your TIGHT denim pants cut through.. all night long – that must've HURT!! That doesn't make sense. It makes no sense whatsoever and it isn't love of tight denim!!! It's confusion.

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OK - seriously.. if it was something like that..
Would you even care at all about what he said?

posted February 28, 2010 08:28 PM         

Your life is your own business. You simply posted your experience on here.. so we can all learn something about anger and the way it is expressed..

PDF has his own take.. which is fine. He's a highly Sagittarian man and he will tell you what he thinks whether you asked a question about it or not.. His ex nickname was marsconjunctmercury.. I thought you'd be familiar with his posting style since you've both been around for years.. But maybe you haven't seen him around before?

I would agree with what he said ^ if this happened yesterday. If your mother had broken your jaw yesterday - I would strongly suggest that you stay far away from her.

But it happened years ago.. Time went on, you went through the court proceedings and all that jazz.. and time changes things! You can't harbour hate forever. There is no point. So if you DID manage to let go - and you DID forgive.. I think that is a positive thing.
And the fact that she has changed in her behaviour towards you is also a step in the right direction for her.. a step which may not have been easy considering her mental problems.

This thread is not the place to discuss you and your life.. and it is not up to me or anyone else to judge or dissect your life..

posted February 28, 2010 10:37 PM         

Mars is in a very nice trine with my 12th house Saturn. I am patient and tolerant to a point and then I draw my line and read the other party the riot act. If things get very bad then I will write the person off - however friendship is forever with me....contradictory, I know.

So I find with me it just depends what is what. When I was expectant with Missy then PREGZILLA took ober and wanted to devour people and spit them out - I have tamed up a bunch.

posted March 01, 2010 06:43 AM         

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I was thinking about if someone's sexual style was the same as their anger style.
What do you think?

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I don't think that works for me. My anger style - you described perfectly - because I'm very detached. Sexually I'm not detached at *all*.. I'm very passionate - but that could be other aspects I have and my Sun being a fire sign.

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The Mars energy is outward power which would be expressed as anger and/or sexuality--wouldn't it?
Wouldn't they both be expressions of one's sense of one's own power?

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hmmmm Maybe it's because my "power" is very controlled.. I pick and choose how I express it.
So in an angry situation or a highly emotional situation - I would choose to stay detached because I feel it's the best thing to do.
In a sexual relationship I wouldn't have a reason to detach. I'd have to feel distrusting, upset - have some kind of problem with the guy to *detach*. When things are good between us I'm sensual and loving. I have a strong urge to make them feel good.

You asked about Venus and Mars - I think Venus is more about seduction - attraction - drawing someone in.. Mars is more about instinctual sex-drive - pursuit of a sexual partner..
Venus is more about feminine sexuality.. and Mars is more about masculine sexuality - if you consider very traditional feminine-masculine symbols.

How do you think this plays out for you ^ with the Gem Venus and Cancer Mars?

posted March 01, 2010 06:54 AM         

Well I have yet to have a child.. O_O
I may just be a pregzilla-godzilla myself lol

posted March 01, 2010 08:01 AM         

I'm surprisingly non-confrontational and very far from the vicious/spiteful description you often hear about in relation to this placement. I'm not at all vengeful either, but shamefully enough I have occasionally used violence, (when started on first, obviously)..... I also have a sharp tongue if someone's been REALLY out of line. Normally I won't bother.....

posted March 01, 2010 05:38 PM         

AmiAnn for quotes you put the word quote in [ ]then your passage and end it with [/quote]

I'm not very good at explaining stuff on paper so bear with me, if there is still some confusion will some kind soul please help her out.

PDF, I totally got what you were saying about the Sun/Mars opposite Moon but others may not, please treat your sisters with a little more restraint.

Ladya it's nice to see you posting

posted March 01, 2010 08:06 PM         

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hit my edit button to see how I did it.