posted October 24, 2015 02:41 PM              

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Originally posted by Supreme cT:
Haha thats funny i always call my girl baby , babycakes , babygirl and she LOVES it lmao i guess it really is a mars in cancer thing because in my head i just think every guy would call there girl that but i see thats not the case

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posted October 24, 2015 02:47 PM              

And she takes it to the next level with the whole Lolita image..

posted October 24, 2015 03:14 PM            

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Originally posted by Elysia:
You a cancer mars too?

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posted October 24, 2015 03:17 PM            

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Originally posted by Elysia:
Actually, I also see a lot of this influence in Lana del Rey's persona. She's a cancer mars too - and not a song goes by without a ton of 'baby' references. Complete with baby voice and baby talk.

And she takes it to the next level with the whole Lolita image..

Thoughts??

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That is true i've noticed that! I like her music.

posted October 24, 2015 04:11 PM            

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Originally posted by Wild Horses:
Cool, so am I. Mine's at 23°34' Cancer.

Mine is 0° conj. my 24° Cancer Ascendant, so it's a strong part of my personality.

It's funny because I read earlier about the Cancer Mars drive to take care of the needs of those we love. It's instinctual. We don't even think about it, really. Like, I always have to make sure my husband is comfortable before I can sleep. I make sure he's covered up, make sure he has enough pillows, his feet aren't cold, etc.

Someone mentioned how a Cancer Mars will get up in the middle of the night and notice your feet are uncovered and make sure to cover them. I do that almost every night with my husband. I never even thought about it until I read it mentioned on here, then I was like, "heh, I do that."

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posted October 25, 2015 04:06 AM              

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Originally posted by Supreme cT:
Oh wow we have an exact conjunction!
Thats funny cuz i do the same thing when i sleep over my girls dorm i always cover her feet up with the blanket and give her a little kiss on her forehead and pull the sheets up to her neck shes a cancer sun she EATS it up! Hahaha

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posted October 25, 2015 06:41 PM            

Too late I found my bf has cancer mars trine pluto, really hate if he plays GUILT TRIP which is often even with small/unrecognised mistakes (I never did big mistakes, so this game really makes me want to punch him in the face). Sometimes I call it sulking.

Assertiveness is LOW, he's passive-aggresive behavior is totally a turn-off, like he said yes but actually he didn't want to do it then he played guilt trip because of it. Sometimes it turns out to him lying.

Cancer mars is protective, yes, but also protective to his "ANY" relationship. I will not put cancer mars to the honest sign, leave it to sag mars, if sag mars ever cheated on you he will be honest about it if you ask, but cancer mars? he will play passive-aggressive or hide to his shell until it is safe to come out then his instinct to protect "any" relationship leads him to denied it and he will suck you again into their sweetness until you think that he would never did that, "awww, look at those face, he would never did that". Yup, they really know how to manipulate you. He once cried during intimacy, later I found out it was because he cheated on his longtime gf.

Cancer mars is sex addict, but he is too afraid that his Mama will find out, so he won't admit it to anyone.

Cancer mars is sweet while at the same time, he is the meanest person I've ever met once when he thinks you attack him personally. Hardly to see objective side, no matter how you tell hundred times it is not subjective.

Cancer mars man secretly wants to be treated like a baby too (the attention from Mama, the sweet talk from Mama, the tenderness from Mama, love of Mama), he loves security too, so if you are poor or lack of maternity, where is the pampers?

Cancer mars is like a vampire in emotional department, an emotional wreck. A person that you wanna slap but how can you slap a baby? It's a struggle.

posted October 26, 2015 04:10 PM            

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Originally posted by Wild Horses:
I'm a Cancer Mars, and I can't speak for all of us, but it definitely applies to me. My husband is a Scorpio Mars, Venus, and Sun, and he struggles to keep up with my sexual appetite. It's absolutely insatiable, and when I'm not actually having sex, then I'm thinking about it, planning for it, or fantasizing about it. I know my other chart placements add to it, but I think my Cancer Mars has A LOT to do with it.

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posted October 26, 2015 09:15 PM            

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Here are the aspects that I think contribute to my highly overactive sex drive. It's voracious, and I'm not just trying to sound dramatic. I actually wish I could calm it down.

-My Cancer Mars is 0° conj. my Asc. and it's conj. my S.Node 2°. My S.Node is in my 1st house. Mars being conj. it and my Asc. makes it feel like there's this limitless supply of Mars energy that I can never seem to deplete.
-Mars sextiles my Moon-Pluto conjuntion. Moon rules my Chart; Pluto rules my 5th house.
-5th ruler Pluto is tightly conj. Moon and tightly square Sun and Venus.
-Mercury, which rules my Sun, Venus, Moon, and Pluto, is 1° square my 8th ruler Uranus. My Mercury also forms a 0° grand trine with my Scorpio BMLilith and Eros in Pisces.
-my 8th ruler is Uranus and is conj. my IC 3° in my 4th house.

There's other stuff going on, but that covers the gist of it. Maybe for me it's a combination of having a Cancer Mars and having it's ruler, Moon, tightly conj. Pluto, which also rules my 5th.

I'm just happy my husband has his Scorpio Mars-Venus-Sun, and his Mars rules his 8th house. He may be struggling to keep up, but he's staying on top of things.

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I believe it's definitely your Mars conj the asc, especially that tight of an aspect. Mars is in your 1st house? If it's a zero degree orb that it's in the 1st house. You have alot of Arian energy there.

The sextile to your moon/mars conjunction could be it but my Aunt has a Moon/Pluto conj in Libra and it squares her Cancer Mars. From what my Uncle tells me (lol) she is rather...the opposite of you haha.

Do you mind if i ask if your Ring finger is longer than your index finger on both hands, for scientific purposes? Apparently, women who have their Ring fingers longer than Index have more testosterone than a woman with a longer Index finger.

posted October 26, 2015 11:00 PM            

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Originally posted by hearttreasure:
Cancer mars can repress their sexuality/sensuality, because they can worry A LOT so they hide it, until they find PASSIONATE EMOTIONAL intimacy/sex. lol.

I found on youtube someone claimed this too, and he's very funny for telling the facts of every mars signs (the truest and funniest facts I've ever found). I just go to check his channel again and it has been deleted (all of his videos).

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This! They can repress it and be celibate for quite a long while.

posted October 26, 2015 11:24 PM            

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Originally posted by hearttreasure:
Cancer mars can repress their sexuality/sensuality, because they can worry A LOT so they hide it, until they find PASSIONATE EMOTIONAL intimacy/sex. lol.

I found on youtube someone claimed this too, and he's very funny for telling the facts of every mars signs (the truest and funniest facts I've ever found). I just go to check his channel again and it has been deleted (all of his videos).

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Yeah, the Peace Dealer. He deleted all his videos on placement. What a shame!

posted October 27, 2015 02:33 PM            

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Originally posted by Wild Horses:
My Mars is in my 12th. It's just barely on the other side of my Asc., but it falls on the 12th side.
I can see that having Cancer Mars in 12th does make me tend to repress some of my energy, and I release it sexually.

With it being conjunct my Asc. 0°, maybe it makes the urge to release that energy feel stronger.

That's funny about the ring finger. I've never heard that, but, yes, I do have that. On both hands, my ring finger is longer than my index finger, by a half-inch or just barely under a half-inch. Today I learned.

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posted October 27, 2015 02:55 PM            

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[QUOTE]Originally posted by Wild Horses:
[b] My Mars is in my 12th. It's just barely on the other side of my Asc., but it falls on the 12th side.
I can see that having Cancer Mars in 12th does make me tend to repress some of my energy, and I release it sexually.

With it being conjunct my Asc. 0°, maybe it makes the urge to release that energy feel stronger.

That's funny about the ring finger. I've never heard that, but, yes, I do have that. On both hands, my ring finger is longer than my index finger, by a half-inch or just barely under a half-inch. Today I learned.

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And yes, i've been mixing astrology with a bit of science. The women i know that are agressive in and out of the bedroom all have their ring finger longer than their index. I believe in this study. The girls i know with longer index fingers are not agressive at all and most have lower energy levels. [/B][/QUOTE]

what about having equal length

posted October 27, 2015 03:44 PM            

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what about having equal length

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I've seen equal length before but only when it's one hand and the other hand has either a longer ring finger or index finger.

Basically it's like this, the longer the ring finger, the more testosterone. So if it's of equal length, you would have more testosterone than someone with a longer index finger, but less than someone who's ring finger is longer than THEIR index finger.

posted October 27, 2015 04:41 PM            

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Originally posted by Gemini30:
I've seen equal length before but only when it's one hand and the other hand has either a longer ring finger or index finger.

Basically it's like this, the longer the ring finger, the more testosterone. So if it's of equal length, you would have more testosterone than someone with a longer index finger, but less than someone who's ring finger is longer than THEIR index finger.

Hope that makes sense lol.

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That doesn't work for me. My ring finger is slightly shorter but I'm quite aggressive. Are you talking about one specific energy?

posted October 27, 2015 05:32 PM            

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That doesn't work for me. My ring finger is slightly shorter but I'm quite aggressive. Are you talking about one specific energy?

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I thought you had of equal length? Well my theory is this. Mixed in with a longer index finger with a cancer or pisces mars, are not going to be as assertive as one with a longer ring finger.

Your mars is in Cap, correct? Your mars is exalted, and add your Aries moon in there, you are more assertive than if someone with a mars in cancer and a weaker moon.

I'm just testing theories, i still need work to do but i feel like i'm on to something.

I'll give you a perfect example. I have a cousin who was born the same exact day as Miley Cyrus, same day same year.

Mostly the same aspects however my cousin is a libra rising while Miley is a taurus rising, both signs ruled by Venus.

My cousin is no where near as agresssive as Cyrus. Cyrus has cemented herself as a strong assertive woman. My cousin, she works and is a bit independent but she is confused most of the time and has a bit of a lazy streak.

Cyrus has a longer ring finger from the photos i have seen while my cousin has longer index fingers, and they are actually longer than usual.