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MayEve
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posted May 04, 2010 11:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MayEve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Does anyone have experience with the Mars in Cancer Man? How do you think this Mars placement affects a guy romantically and sexually? Would love any input...


ps...he is Taurus Sun/Leo Ascen/Venus Gemini and Capricorn Moon.

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Were super sex freaks and a dream come true

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MayEve
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posted May 04, 2010 12:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MayEve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hahhaha

rofl

Please expound, continue, details... I can only hope....

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posted May 04, 2010 12:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for cherle     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Avoid. Avoid. Avoid. All that Mars energy turned inwards under the Crab sign in not inclined produce good results in a male psyche, especially if the Mars also falls in an inward-moving house.

Think: Passive-aggressive. Cannot communicate directly. So overwhelmed with their own emotions that they can't think straight about anything. Prone to being sexually neurotic, and not in good ways. Highly sensitive to bad experiences, may have had a trauma in the past that deeply wounded their sexuality and would take decodes of therapy to heal (but of course, they won't go to therapy because they are deeply crippled by their shame and guilt). Cries a lot, emotionally manipulative, psychic vampiric. So consumed with their own emotions that your emotions will send them into a downward spiral, dragging you with him, so you learn quickly to censor your own feeling to make room for his and only his.

In summary: A Cancer Mars man is an endless well of neediness, sexually and psychologically, so they aren't that good at reciprocating and being attentive to your needs. Or more to the point, he's an unsatisfiable parasite that will suck you dry, and then go running to Mommy weeping with snotty tears that you don't love him anymore.

If you're into that, go for it. I'm not. I dated three Cancer Mars men. One of them I was engaged to.

Of course, I'm being excessive and biased, but all of these things are true of the Cancer Mars men Ive dated.

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posted May 04, 2010 12:11 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
OK well im a girl and I can tell you how I am.


I'm very protective of people i love..

I dont like emotional sex at all but I love passionate sex. I believe that might be due to my gemini moon though. Anyways I appreciate someone who is more a home type family type person and is caring.

I guess these are typical things but I don't think we require anything more than that. Unless there are other mars in cancer people who are attracted to certain things in particular.

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posted May 04, 2010 12:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MayEve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Wow Cherie...lol

Okay so what I can glean so far--and to be fair the Mars Cancer will probably act out differently with his Venus Gemi/Taurus Sun/Leo Ascendant than say other placements:

Gentle..and sort of a chivalrous type of guy..

Kindhearted--generous

Outwardly funny and gregarious but sort of truly a private person who does not like to tell many people his "business"

Loves food..loves the outdoors..sports..hugs..touching..
seems very oral literally and figuratively

Slow to anger but can be passive aggressive as well. I see that with his Virgo ex.. Let's others occasionally boss him around then he sort of bites the hand after an extended period of time. Definitely does not like change.

Very independent (uranus on ascendant)..likes to do his hobbies etc but also huge into family events.

Seems like a true hybrid of sorts...loves kissing is all I can tell so far...

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posted May 04, 2010 12:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Ann     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Does anyone have experience with the Mars in Cancer Man? How do you think this Mars placement affects a guy romantically and sexually? Would love any input...


ps...he is Taurus Sun/Leo Ascen/Venus Gemini and Capricorn Moon.


I feel intimately associated with many of his placements from myself and close friends.
He seems like a complex mix as a person.
His Sun is Taurus so he is steady, earth bound and strong shoulders to lean on.
His Ascendant is Leo so he has a flair for the dramatic with a warmth.
I was just told that Leo Ascendants are self absorbed and the conversations can be all about them.
I don't know enough Leo Ascendants to say.
One female I know IS that way and one male I know is not.
I have a Gemini Venus. *I* like it even though many people diss it lol.
I enjoy that my Venus is attracted to words and a person's mind, first.
People say Gemini Venus is shallow but you have to look at the rest of the chart to see if there is depth in water, for example, to give balance to the Gemini Venus.
He needs an attraction to the mind, first,though,before he will be attracted if he is like I am.
Then, we come to Cap moon which has as bad a rep as Gem Venus lol.
I love Cap moon,myself.
Cap moon can see the practical earth bound world like no one else,IME.
He is good in business, can step back and detach from situations and plan what he will do.Some people call it calculating but I see planning as an important part of life on this earth. They are very good at planning many steps ahead,perhaps one of the best in this.
I have Mars in Cancer.
I know Cherle said some strong things about it.
Perhaps, they are true.
I don't like it.
I think it is much worse in a man than a woman.
Mars in Cancer has its assertiveness and sexuality going in the wrong direction.
I am only speaking for myself and my sense of it. I am not judging anyone else.
I want to say that.
I, as a female, have a hard time with Mars things such as assertion in anger, power or sexuality.
So, I could NEVER be with a Mars in Cancer guy or we would both be sitting on the sofa with no one moving

Ami

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MayEve
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posted May 04, 2010 02:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MayEve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have never had sex with him--not yet anyway. I do wonder what the deal is because sometimes he is incredibly passionate and "on" and then other times he seems utterly distracted.

Part of me loves Venus Gemini. My Sun and Mercury are in Gemini and our planets are on top of eahc other. I also have a Venus Taurus so it goes great with his Sun. We are both very verbal --lots of chatter..lots of lovely and sexy flirtatious conversations. Nice cards and letters--all Gemini talking...

Sometimes he seems like he really needs to be in charge..not sure if that is his LEO ascendant or his Taurus Sun speaking up...

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posted May 04, 2010 03:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Ann     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The way I look at it is you have to take the good with the bad.
To me, the Mars in Cancer is bad .
I have it so I can say lol.
However, we all have bad so it is just a matter of if you can deal with it,in my opinion.


x o x Ami

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oh and it makes us moody. If i dont *feel* like going out, or if im not in the mood i wont go out. I always have to feel good or i cant bring myself to do anything.

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posted May 04, 2010 07:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for glamgem25     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm a venus in Cancer and I dated a mars in cancer guy for about 2 years. I would say romantically/sexually they are "very" protective of those they love. I would agree with them liking passionate sex and you almost never get all of them (they keep alot inside) I'm a very intense/emotional person and that was hard for him to grasp sometimes because I wasn't afraid to discuss my feelings or let them out...but he couldn't do the same (unless he was drunk lol)

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posted May 04, 2010 08:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Benedict Moon*     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Does anyone have experience with the Mars in Cancer Man? How do you think this Mars placement affects a guy romantically and sexually? Would love any input...


They are very verrrry magnetic.


On the other issues, I'll only tell of one I got to know over the course of a year instead of generalizing them all. My friend thought he was perfect and honestly, on first impression...he was really nice to me....I got alot of common courtesy from him that I rarely ever recieved from any of my friend's previous boyfriends. I still think he is, but he has some typical Cancerian faults which are magnified since he's also a Cancer Sun, keep that in mind.

I'm a Cancer Sun too, but with a fire mars, I lack the passive aggression problems that he definitely has. One night it was sooooo bad that instead of telling us he didn't want us to go out, he acted out when we got to the club an hour later. The insuing drama annoyed me since my Aries Mars believes he could have saved us the trouble by telling us what was wrong before we left.

These men can be moody too, but its more of an 'angry' moodiness as opposed to the general moodiness of a Cancer Sun.


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posted May 04, 2010 08:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MayEve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
LOL...

I have an Aries Mars and Moon.

He rarely gets angry. I have seen him moody--really moody twice in the past year. Defintely not pleasant. I am a get in and get out person when it comes to a bad mood. I rarely get in one and I get out quickly.

He was moody for a number of days and then came out of it. He said I feel apathetic and fat! (he's neither).

I notice that he is a very good listener but also gets tongue tied if: 1- I compliment him directly and 2-If I express in words very literally how I "feel". I am not a crazy over the top emotional type (Gem Sun/Mercury) but can be loquacious/verbal. He seems to love the attention but also shys from it too. Hard to explain.

He has lost his temper only once and it was totally unexpected. I had shared with him this sort of fantasy date I had about him. And he was sort of quiet about it..didnt not say anything. Then I later said regretted sharing it with him (because it made me feel rather dopey and vulnerable...esp since he was sort of not responding...) He was so upset. (How can you say you would take it back???..etc)

Anyway, he does make me feel very protected ..more than any man I've ever met...and Yes that LEO asc.comes out. Sometimes, all conversation threads lead to him! I think sexually he would probably be very gentle but he does seem to express a thing of competitive streak....where he wants to be my best kisser--etc...Maybe that is the Leo/Taurus.

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posted May 04, 2010 08:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Benedict Moon*     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think 'moodiness' is their way of blowing off steam. To use a metaphor, their temper is not hot or volcanic like a fire mars, but its more like a tidal wave.....very appropriate for a water mars. I've seen it in action and it isn't pretty. This one girl (who's also as Taurus Sun) was soooo ****** because their was a glitch in her application process to UNC. So because of that, she was quiet all day until this guy thought it would be a good idea to pick at her to get her to talk (effin' retard ). Anyways, she unleashes a tirade on him...and then runs off in tears. It was so fawkward.

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posted May 04, 2010 09:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for vapor-lash     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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I have an Aries Mars


uh oh

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posted May 04, 2010 09:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MayEve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
dont worry...my moods are very repressed lol... actually I blow my top once every 2 or 3 years...sort of like an earthquake or california wildfire..quick and taking everything in its wake...My venus saturn aspect tends to keep me overly responsible when it comes to my temperament in love.

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posted May 04, 2010 09:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for vapor-lash     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
lol MayEve... I wasn't thinking about your moods as much as your sexuality.

Aries tends to prefer something more aggressive.. I'm Aries Sun.

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posted May 04, 2010 09:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MayEve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
ohhh lol..missed that...yes and NO.I have a Venus Taurus which makes a grand trine to my Virgo NN and my Saturn Capricorn...If a guy comes on too strong it really scares me big time. But I do have an intensity and passion. If I trust you--I'm all yours. I think this guys Taurus Sun is really setting off my Taurus Venus and his Leo Ascendant is meshing hot with my Aries MOONMars. But you are right ...I defintely cannot handle like Pisces guys--or super super emotional watery men. This guy has that one planet in water (mars cancer)and the rest in fire and earth and the Venus Gemini.... I have very little sexual experience (2 guys my whole life). He has had alot more---not tons but more than me--that's for sure!

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posted May 04, 2010 09:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Belage     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My personal experience of 1 man with Mars in Cancer: Very thoughtful, imaginative, intuitive and sensual lover.

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I have an aries mars and while I hate passiveness in a guy, I'm also very turned off by people who come on too strong. I think the Cancer Sun is what complicates things...or perhaps the Gemini Venus that rules alot of my preferences.

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posted May 04, 2010 11:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for glamgem25     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I don't know about the Aries mars being aggressive....been with a aries venus/mars on and off for 11 years and there is not aggressiveness there at all sexually or any other way! Very laid back kind of guy!

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Benedict- I have an Aries Mars and Cancer Moon/ASC and I also hate passiveness, but am probably more so turned off by someone that's too forward as well.

And Glam- I don't know that I'm very aggressive, but I think I'm pretty straightforward. There's usually no question whether I am interested in you or not.

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posted May 05, 2010 01:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MyVirgoMask     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I dated a man for a stint with Mars in Cancer. His whole chart was otherwise Leo. He was very sexual and showy with his sexuality - I'm thinking the Leo had something to do with this though

One thing about him which really struck me as interesting was how his sexuality reminded me of a tree frog in the rain, the way he slipped and slid around lol
He loved being physical around water - was very watery in the way he physically/sexually expressed himself.

He was highly sensitive of moods too... his sexuality was seamless without being passive. But. BUT. Moody. Cuddly, luscious, and moody. I agree that these people are very magnetic. They don't run or walk - they glide (and leap, like frogs)

Maybe the frog part sounds weird...but I love them ...that's why I henceforth dub Mars in Cancer the Magic Tree Frogs (for guys at least), with the way they can expertly climb all over you (suctions on their feet and everything )

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posted May 05, 2010 02:06 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for vapor-lash     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Your guy sounds good MVM!
lol @ they leap like frogs

MayEve --- yes that's what I meant - over-emotional types. But he doesn't sound like that considering his other placements
I have Taurus Venus trine Capricorn Mars btw
I attract Taurus Sun and Mars often but usually there is friction.. I will see how things go with someone I am working with -- It was a bit up & down for a while.. but I think it is getting better. He has both Sun/Mars in Tauro exactly conj my Venus-NN.

glamgem - I was thinking it could be the venus-mars combination.. making him more laid back. But that said -- my friend is a female Pisces with Aries Venus and Mars and she is pretty aggressive. She is turned on by speed as well and very addicted to motorbikes.
Everyone's chart is different though. I don't know my friend's AC. Maybe it depends on the house as well.

dinobleu -
After the relationship is kind of "set" -- and you have a good connection with someone and good communication going.. (this is more sun-moon-ac-mercury level).

When it comes to -just- initiating sex and being aggressive sexually -- not in other ways.

Do you still feel this way:

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I am probably more so turned off by someone that's too forward as well.

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posted May 05, 2010 02:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for dinobleue     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oh no, once we're together I love aggressiveness. I just meant I hate those guys with the big egos that approach you like they're God's Gift to Women, and don't get the hint when you're not interested. Ick. But otherwise, when I'm with someone, I love being 'prey'. Lol.

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