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teasel
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posted August 19, 2010 12:30 PM
  
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I am everyone else's psychologist and problem solver in my own life, and shy away from opening up to people who won't really understand. I want him to push past my excuses and demand to know me.
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I wonder if being the psychologist is the role of the Scorpio Asc, since we all seem to have that imbalance. In the relationship, we're the observant, penetrating Plutonian.I've known a few people who can give me that too, right off the bat. They pick up on everything, no matter how subtle. More often, I've known people who can understand me as long as I'm first willing to give them myself. I, as the Scorpio Asc, have to rip myself apart for them, not wait for them to tear me open in the way I do them. They "open" me by giving me an irresistible desire for intimacy with them. I must share myself with them. Once I rip myself apart for them, they're able to swoop in, understand, and transform me.
This last part - along with meta's comment about someone wanting to push past excuses and really get to know me - is why I got along so well with the guy I mentioned on the first page (I'm sorry, I'm doing the stereotypical Gemini moon thing - I still haven't read the whole thread). *editing out my rambling - I really shouldn't be posting when I'm feeling weird (I shouldn't be here anyway). 
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posted August 19, 2010 03:43 PM
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posted August 19, 2010 03:56 PM
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posted August 19, 2010 04:55 PM
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posted August 19, 2010 06:29 PM
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posted August 19, 2010 08:21 PM
ami, is there a way i can talk to you privately? sorry for being off topic, i really mean it.. dyn-a can i tlak to you ? do you still have messenger? IP: Logged |
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posted August 19, 2010 08:28 PM
Of course, Letram.
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posted August 19, 2010 08:30 PM
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posted August 19, 2010 08:39 PM
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posted August 19, 2010 08:53 PM
Ami - Thank you for saying that. I am also sorry that I answered Jane as I did and that it all spiraled into being unearthed again. Letram - I don't use msn at all lately. But I can still log on to my old address. Was there something in particular you wanted to tell me about or just chatting?
Because I made a half-year resolution not to sit at the comp much unless I am writing stuff for uni. IP: Logged |
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posted August 19, 2010 09:04 PM
You are welcome Dyna!
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letram
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posted August 19, 2010 09:23 PM
no worries Dyna, thanks so much for looking out, i'll be alright.good luck with uni! great nwe years resolution, might make it mine come 2011 IP: Logged |
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posted August 20, 2010 10:25 AM
Dear Dyn-a
I am sorry I thought you were threatening me. I know you have high integrity and would never hurt me like that.
I am sorry about this whole thing.
It is some weird kind of space.
I don't get it but we have to respect whatever it is that is making us fight i.e not be able to communicate.
Perhaps, it will lift , in time, like a fog.
I hope so but for now, for us and for everyone on LL, I think we both agree to give each other a wide berth  Ami ------------------
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posted August 20, 2010 02:50 PM
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posted August 20, 2010 02:50 PM
Ami -I'm sorry if I'm misunderstanding what went down between you two. I can only comment on what's been shared, and I respect your desire not to speak about the experience. IP: Logged |
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posted August 20, 2010 03:05 PM
Jane Dyn-a
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posted August 20, 2010 03:37 PM
mir -Mir, I am your mother. <-- To be read in Darth Vader's voice. quote:
don't expect too much in the sphere of communication, this isn't my mother-language
Oh, maybe you'll give me foreign language lessons.  Your Moon is exactly cnj my first love's Moon! You must be incredibly sexy. No need to confirm. I know. My Valentine right there may be causing my love of 16* Scorpio. quote:
Jupiter Scorp 26
I don't think I've experienced that cnj before. Please let me know if you find anything cool in your Draco! IP: Logged |
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posted August 20, 2010 03:42 PM
meta - quote:
I think i'm slightly in love with you.
Only "slightly"? Meh, you can keep it.  I'm turned on by a good memory too. IP: Logged |
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posted August 20, 2010 03:52 PM
DD quote:
did you already compare the 8th houses synastrically?
Do you mean with me & my friend? Falling into my 8th: His NN (cnj my Vertex & opp my Sun). Falling into his 8th: My Moon, NN, Mars, Jupiter, and Saturn. His 8th house ruler: cnj my Asc. He's a Sco Sun, so I think he feels right at home with me bc I place so much in his 8th, & his 8th house ruler is cnj my (Sco) Asc. My Sun on his SN contributes too. IP: Logged |
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posted August 20, 2010 03:56 PM
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meta - [quote] I think i'm slightly in love with you. Only "slightly"? Meh, you can keep it.
You are so hard to get, Girlfriend 
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posted August 20, 2010 04:02 PM
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