posted October 24, 2010 10:53 PM         

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And it really seems like from the end of your post that this was built up from others posts as well, so don't take it out on me.

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I know I said I'd stay away, but I'm tired of you projecting your issues with people in real life onto me. I'm not yelling at you nor am I becoming oversensitive, I'm simply pointing out the errors of your ways on here. If I can't get my point across without people seriously discrediting me with shadow traits of my sun sign to make themselves look good ( as this wouldn't be the first time this has happened), then I have no business on Lindaland.

posted October 24, 2010 11:07 PM         

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I know I said I'd stay away, but I'm tired of you projecting your issues with people in real life onto me. I'm not yelling at you nor am I becoming oversensitive, I'm simply pointing out the errors of your ways on here. If I can't get my point across without people seriously discrediting me with shadow traits of my sun sign to make themselves look good

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posted October 24, 2010 11:11 PM         

I just wanted to say that rereading over my first reply to the post, I worded things in a way that made it sound like I was getting defensive and attacking you. Not at all. Sometimes I don't phrase things the best way.

Now I understand why it felt like you were attacking me time and time again when all I was doing was commenting on your post. I was being honest about the way I saw aquarians, but I could've phrased in a way that sounded less threatening.

posted October 24, 2010 11:16 PM         

So now I know why they call you Crazy

Aquarian

Eh?

posted October 24, 2010 11:57 PM         

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Whatever people, you can't base ridiculous generalizations on Sun signs. That's not astrology, thats horrible pop astrology that you find in Cosmo.
-an Aqua

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I couldn't have said it better!!!

-A Cancer

P.S. Not wanting to start anything...but whatever happend to judging people on their personality and behavior rather than just attributing their behavior to their Sun sign.

posted October 25, 2010 12:13 AM         

This is a classic Capricorn - Cancer clash (i.e. the Capricorn in you blaming the Cancer in others for what you perceive as "immaturity").

These people are not necessarily immature - and definitely not *always* immature.. I mean we all have our moments taken from whichever point of view lol

But it's a classic Capricorn thing to call another immature when things get frustrating.

I always do this. It's my first gut reaction - whether I say it or simply think it: "You're a two year old!!! grow UP!"

lol

Perhaps I'm even correct at that particular time in that particular situation. Perhaps whatever situation we find ourselves in could've been resolved in a more mature manner.

But at the end of the day - people have many facets. You don't always see the *best* in someone on display.
I like those moments when I do catch a glimpse - and I try to remember those, rather than focus on the negatives.
It's really not easy since the Capricorn in me is excellent at pointing out negatives in more detail than most Virgo influenced people you will meet.

I've quenched (I've quenched??? Ok, maybe not lol - *I'm in the process of quenching*) my inborn negativity by reminding myself - at such times - that I'm also only human and capable of just as much "immaturity" - maybe not in the same context, but in other contexts that are difficult for *myself* to deal with.

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posted October 25, 2010 12:38 AM         

My mother is a Cancer and her emotions are like a roller coaster. I remember when I was a little girl I used to look up at the moon to see what her mood would be like. This was way before I even knew was Astrology was. She also has an Aries moon, though, which just reacts with the watery Cancer in a very bad way. x.x

But aside from that, she is a great mother.

posted October 25, 2010 01:59 AM         

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posted October 25, 2010 02:19 AM         

I tell you, it's cultural (though in Mars Taurus case, when we lose it, we really, really lose it, and it's best to get out of the way)

My mom's Mars surprised me. I thought she had some Mars in the 1st like me, or Aries or something like that but no. And Virgo Mars likes to nitpick, too, which I found odd since she didn't do that so much as blow up. She's pretty mellow these days though...after an eternity of insanity lol

posted October 25, 2010 03:09 AM         

Why is everyone getting offended. I am an immature cancerian it keeps me going lol

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posted October 24, 2010 06:08 PM         
what the hell!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
we are not ruled by our emotions and we are not immature!

so what if I like to wear my hair in pigtails occassionally and I had a fuzzy lunch box in high school...had a fuzzy theromist too it matched.....

I NEVER do things based off my feelings and always go with my head!

so what if I like to enjoy things and find the fun in EVERYTHING!

sometimes I wonder if it is cancer sun or venus gemini...

we are not immature!

now with that being said...*laughs hysterically*

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posted October 25, 2010 06:06 AM         

I do get support from here, and have had my share of "I'm being childish" posts and I've said the same thing...but again why would someone leave a site that is based in virtual reality anyway...likewise why would someone feel the need to try to express discontent to someone so much they would feel the need to leave. I hate saying this but ppl here just need to chill out and stop taking things so personal. And try to be more understanding here. We are all here for the same reason, and that shouldn't include negativity or any bashing of signs (may it be Cancer, Aqua or whatever).

Crazy Aquarian...I haven't read all your posts but I'm giving you the benefit of the doubt and saying you don't literally mean every Cancer is immature. Rationally you've not met every Cancer...so obviously that isn't true, and you can't back up your statement with proof. But I will agree with you (esp if you have Cap in you) about finding (certain) signs or placements more likely to be immature (in my opinion). I have a Cap Moon. So sadly I'm the QUEEN at focusing on where someone is immature or being critical more than a Virgo lol.

I will say this though...perhaps a Cancer being more reactionary and being dramatic is due to the Moon. I know the Moon for any sign tends to augment it, and being Moon ruled can make all the difference. I know I actually don't tend to get along with other pure Cancers, Pisces (and Libras)...I'm not expressive or outwardly emotional enough (again the Cap Moon and Taurus Venus Aspecting Saturn) or I'm rude and hurt their feelings (my Sun Conjunct my Asc and Mars in the 1st).

I will also admit that I can indeed be childish and immature...everyone can. No matter what the sign is. No one is perfect, and no one will react to a situation in the same way.