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Topic: Cancers are so immature!
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GrlyGirl20
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From: USA
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 25, 2010 03:29 PM
 
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EXACTLY Diandra. Just being yourself is the easiest thing in life. Hell, it doesn't even require you to engage your brain, whereas being fake is a conscious mindset and has your brain working overtime Grly, l just used your name as an example to illustrate a point. It was not personal because your name is not really grly, so how can that be personal? To hold onto the past is not being real. The past is done and so its gone, finito. It's not supposed to be held onto and people are in your past for a reason, ya know?
Well like I said we'll agree to disagree...I'm going more based on my own studies and others that have occured in my field that its psychologically easier to be "fake." Nor do I view people as things of the past...caring and appreciating someones qualities now irregardless of the past isn't holding on to me. I like caring about all people and if someone has an opinion that its holding on to the past or that you should discard each ex you encounter over the course of your life, that's fine. If someone agrees with me or doesn't either way its not a big deal. Thats what makes this world a great place...no matter what opinion people have they are entitled to it. And I am glad Lara that mentioning my chosen profile name that occured like 6 or 7 years ago wasn't personal...if it was that would have been again a dic* move on your part, and not added anything to the convo. IP: Logged |
GrlyGirl20
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From: USA
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 25, 2010 03:47 PM
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I think I changed my mind? (How fitting! ) There won't be a hiatus, but I do gotta put more priority on other things than my online time
I agree here...I'm running out of time I have research that is due by Decemeber and I have JUST started really going into it now. So I will say I deff use this site (and facebook lol) as a way to distract myself lol. IP: Logged |
Lara
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posted October 25, 2010 06:35 PM
Grly, trust me i don't do d1ck moves. No need to!I'm happy to agree to disagree  IP: Logged |
amowls*
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From: richmond va
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 25, 2010 07:46 PM
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WHY on earth would a guy want to keep in touch with a no no, not even a maybe?!
Because not all men only value women as things to f****? Some men like women for their personalities, believe it or not. It's a shame that you have to diminsh their "manliness" because they like to keep in touch with people they have connections with. It's also a double shame that you still hold sexist world views even though you call yourself an enlightened individual. As for me, it depends on the situation. I am friends with some of my exes but others I have no interest in being friends with. I can see the need to still want to be friends with someone after keeping them so close to your heart. IP: Logged |
GrlyGirl20
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From: USA
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 25, 2010 08:53 PM
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Because not all men only value women as things to f****? Some men like women for their personalities, believe it or not. It's a shame that you have to diminsh their "manliness" because they like to keep in touch with people they have connections with. It's also a double shame that you still hold sexist world views even though you call yourself an enlightened individual. As for me, it depends on the situation. I am friends with some of my exes but others I have no interest in being friends with. I can see the need to still want to be friends with someone after keeping them so close to your heart.
Amowls I heart you!!!! Lol this is why I love most Aqua's...I deff agree some I keep up with and some I don't (as they were not even good people in terms of how they treated others...and they wouldn't be good friends anyway). But for the most part I try. IP: Logged |
belgz
Knowflake Posts: 2442
From: Planet love :)
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 25, 2010 09:16 PM
LMAO CrazyAquarian ran away  I do that too when things get out of hand. I still read the comments but I don't reply till a later date when I feel logical.
Is that what your doing too 
The other funny thing is the people arguing on here are not even Cancerians
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GrlyGirl20
Knowflake Posts: 253
From: USA
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 25, 2010 10:20 PM
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The other funny thing is the people arguing on here are not even Cancerians
Lol I'm not really sure who is arguing though...
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Benedict Moon*
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From: Avendesora
Registered: May 2009
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posted October 25, 2010 10:50 PM
TBH, I get really suspicious of people who claim to be 100% real, instead of just being the best they can be in real life. I don't think anyone is completely real, unless we all wear ourselves on our sleeves. ---Coming from a Cancer Sun who often hides behind a Cold Capricorn Facade. I guess that makes me superfake...hahaha. IP: Logged |
Benedict Moon*
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From: Avendesora
Registered: May 2009
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posted October 25, 2010 10:51 PM
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Benedict Moon*
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posted October 25, 2010 10:52 PM
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GrlyGirl20
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 25, 2010 11:24 PM
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---Coming from a Cancer Sun who often hides behind a Cold Capricorn Facade. I guess that makes me superfake...hahaha.
Lol...I don't have the ability to hide...my Cancer Sun is Conjunct both my Cancer Asc and Cancer Mars in the 1st...so for the most part what you see is what you get lol. IP: Logged |
Benedict Moon*
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From: Avendesora
Registered: May 2009
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posted October 25, 2010 11:34 PM
I often wonder what it be like to not have a Cold Cap Ascendant to get in the way of extending myself more. *sigh* *sigh* *sigh* Back to work...LOL. IP: Logged |
MyVirgoMask
Knowflake Posts: 2970
From: Bay Area, CA
Registered: May 2009
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posted October 26, 2010 02:34 AM
I like staying friends with my exes...most of them anyway, and by friends I don't mean like I want to hang out with them all the time either. I just still care about them as human beings, and care for their well-being. They can always come to me if they need someone to hear them out, and there are a couple of them that I can do the same with.
But it's a detached friendship for the most part if I am involved with someone else, because I just have no interest in being all close buddies with an ex while I have a boyfriend.As for the whole fake/real thing...meh, I think some of us have a hard time figuring out WHO we are and that's a life long journey. I don't even understand what 'fake' means. Like what, two-faced? We're all real enough, whether or not we like it lol IP: Logged |
Lara
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posted October 26, 2010 05:07 AM
LOL Amowls!!!!!!I'm not even speaking about sex and you go off on a sexual manhood RANT!
and in future please don't associate me with your polluted words - they are yours not mine pmsl @world sexist views. Where on earth did you spring that comment from? Be careful what you accuse people of Amowls. Sometimes, you get it very very wrong and l hope you now have the balls to apologize. IP: Logged |
Lara
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posted October 26, 2010 05:15 AM
MVM,
I agree with you to a point and l said to Ami that we are all real, cos we are, to ourselves! We aren't robots and we all survive but some of us live beyond survival and are comfortable to bare ourselves to the world.Fakeness, as far as l am speaking about it, is more linked to attitude, ego, selflessness, acceptance and denial, materialism, conscious awareness and taking full responsibility for ones entirety within the world we live in. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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From: Orbiting
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted October 26, 2010 05:19 AM
From my experience ,I am NOT real to myself. I have lied to myself about who I was , what I feel.
I STILL do.
I think it is not OK to be me. I think I have to be better, more mature, less petty, not as selfish etc.
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Pluto conjunct Dejanira, Girlfriend. IP: Logged |
Lara
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posted October 26, 2010 05:26 AM
Honesty is a wonderful thing Ami IF you can then fully let go of the traits about yourself you can be honest about.So give up re-affirming the negative to yourself by reiterating it all the time, and literally write this post of yours down on a piece of paper, burn it and never ever subscribe to those things in yourself again. It takes seconds, moments to change your mindset and a lifetime to enjoy the real you. Try it. It's totally free! IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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From: Orbiting
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted October 26, 2010 06:30 AM
I am gonna put a link up here. They showed this at the conference .
It was SO inspiring about love .
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dDnrLv6z-mM&feature=related ------------------
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DiandraReborn25
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From: Portugal
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 26, 2010 07:13 AM
well i guess that the real thread theme went down the rabbit hole .what Lara says i completely understand cause im now in the place where surely Lara was a couple of years ago. times ago i didnt,and Lara remember one time i discussed with you? Dawm i was so different than who i am now. now,seems that what you say is exactoly what im finding out,step by step along the way. IP: Logged |
matt
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Registered: Jul 2009
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posted October 26, 2010 07:21 AM
Lara- Idk, you seem to promote yourself as a highly advanced spiritual being but then you imply somebody is being foolish for staying in contact with an ex and respond angrily when somebody pulls you on something........just an observation, correct me if im wrong. IP: Logged |
amowls*
Knowflake Posts: 1663
From: richmond va
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 26, 2010 08:43 AM
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Any man who is a friend of a woman who has dumped him is in my eyes a total pussy. WHY on earth would a guy want to keep in touch with a no no, not even a maybe?!
Clarify that and maybe I'll apologize. IP: Logged |
DD
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posted October 26, 2010 08:45 AM
my friend is still friends with her ex-boyfriend (loose contact though), because they genuinely like each other, they just didn`t work out as a romantic couple and especially not concerning their lifepaths.IP: Logged |
Lara
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posted October 26, 2010 11:43 AM
Diandra, thats absolutely wonderful! I'm really happy for you, its awesome and l do remember discussing it with you.
Matt,
I am? Promoting myself as such? lol Hell, where am l doing that?
Matt, an observation is entirely different from an implication and l am not angry, l am simply telling Amowls to not pigeon-hole my words into her entirely different view point because l never said anything about a man's sexual nature and yet her mind straight away judged me for it!
Amowls,
Forget it. If you don't understand my comment then i'm not about to clarify regarding the psyche of men and women, although l find it interesting that you yourself used the classic female blackmail line of "do this and MAYBE i'll do that" in your post. LOL
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matt
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posted October 26, 2010 12:09 PM
Lara- Thats fine, Im not here to gang up on you. It's just how you come across in your posts that I come to that conclusion.Live and let live. IP: Logged |
Lara
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posted October 26, 2010 12:33 PM
It's cool Matt. I'm intense, what can i say but l do speak quite a lot of truth and l have made it to the light at the end of the long karmic tunnel so l like to share/assist others still in their tunnels. I appreciate that it doesn't always go down well but that does not deter me from trying
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