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Topic: Cancers are so immature!
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amowls*
Knowflake Posts: 1663
From: richmond va
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 26, 2010 02:41 PM
 
Girly (& MVM): This is the Aqua ex born on Feb 16 1987 right? If it is, MVM, he has a Pisces Mercury and Scorpio Pluto. I dated a guy with the same birthdate (Scorp rising) and he acts exactly like Girly's guy lol. Although now (after a YEAR of being openly hostile towards me) he's eased up a bit because I helped him out after he face planted off his bike after a night of drinking. So maybe there's hope for you grly... that is, if you still want him in your life after his actions. It's also Venus Retrograde so we'll see how that goes  IP: Logged |
GrlyGirl20
Knowflake Posts: 253
From: USA
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 26, 2010 02:45 PM
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GrlyGirl, it sounds like the Aqua ex has some aspect fun going on in his chart. Something water? Earthy?
Lol yeah he's very very much so the softy...even more than me. He is a Cap Rising Conjunct Nep, and a Virgo Moon in the 8th with aspects to Pluto, Uranus, and Saturn lol. His Mercury is in Pisces with an aspect to Pluto, and then his Venus in Cap is conjunct Neptune, and also touching Pluto, and finally an Aries Mars that tends to take ALL stuff personal. So he is deff a feeler.
The reason I've wanted to stay connected to him is because when we were dating he told me about his background. His father is an alcoholic, and his mother partied all the time) and he was used to hearing people (his father) call him a "piece of crap" or "worthless," etc. His father even picked him up for break while drunk and yelled at him for two hours about how he was a waste of space. If I ever said anything positive about him he'd say he's not used to people saying nice things about him. So I grew to care for him more than as just a boyfriend but as an actual person. He had a good heart, he was just really really screwed up. So that's why I have taken this so hard. I promised I would always care for him even if we weren't together, and that I don't bail on people when I do care...so that is why I try so hard with him. I'm not trying to save him but I want him to know that despite everything someone cares very deeply for him. Astrologically we had Opp Risings, and my Moon is Conjunct his Rising and Venus. His Moon is Trine my Venus and Moon, and our Moons are Trine. We have two Grand Trines...one with his Mercury in Pisces, his Pluto in Scorpio, and my Sun in Cancer. And the other with my Venus in Taurus, my Moon in Cap, and his Moon in Virgo. IP: Logged |
GrlyGirl20
Knowflake Posts: 253
From: USA
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 26, 2010 02:50 PM
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HAHA, you make me laugh.
Your a 50 year old woman and you talk like this. You sound like you've just read a self help book. Your funny. I think you need to get a grip. I'm sure if I needed surgery I would go to a pro, lol. I'm out of here, got a life to live.
Mmmm Matt funny, I'm just kinda wondering if you could tell me more about yourself...and yes I am being sketchy and flirting with you online haha.
Amowls...yep he was born Feb 16, 1987...that's crazy the guy is FINALLY being nice to you after you helped him lol. Is he being sketchy and starting to feel stuff for you again...or is he just being cool and normal with you? I still stick by what I said that he was **** *d you dated his friend...he IS a Scorp Rising...so I'm more than positive in Water sign speak when ever someone says "date so and so" and you've been with them they are testing you. And according to him you failed his test and became disloyal...regardless of the fact he said to date that guy lol. Plus didn't you guys only date a short time as well? I don't know if I want him in my life...he did so much crap and hurt me so much...and I'll admit I was a clinging Cancer in a lot of ways...but with everything I did my motives and intentions were ENTIRELY pure and genuine...because I cared very deeply for him and I didn't deserve the way he treated me. So I'd have to factor all that in. IP: Logged |
amowls*
Knowflake Posts: 1663
From: richmond va
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 26, 2010 03:02 PM
He's just being civil (as civil as he can be lol) when we see each other, which is once in a while because he is friends with my boyfriend. He's not making moves (even though that would TOTALLY be his style, but he respects my boyfriend too much). He also has started texting me randomly (such as "there are a lot of zipperheads in loehmanns today" [zipperhead referring to asians, because I am half asian]). That's him extending the olive branch lol. I don't make the first move regarding him anymore after the way he treated me, I only talk to him if he talks to me first.The only reason why I keep him in my life at all is because of the soul connection I believe we have. I'm sure that's the same reason he keeps me in his life (subconciously) because he would've just cut me out like he's done to other people. If it were anyone else (like my ex boyfriend), I would've just been done with it. Idk, if your Aqua is anything like my Aqua, I would say you're not missing out on much =/ IP: Logged |
GrlyGirl20
Knowflake Posts: 253
From: USA
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 26, 2010 03:08 PM
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The only reason why I keep him in my life at all is because of the soul connection I believe we have. I'm sure that's the same reason he keeps me in his life (subconciously) because he would've just cut me out like he's done to other people"
MMMM I more think the Aqua would just cut me out of his life. He readded his ex of three years on facebook and a friend of mine (who he didn't know, she requested him so I could see his page lol) not too long ago but rejected my facebook request sometime later. So I'm more along the lines of I'm someone he cut out of his life without a 2nd glance or thought. And hurtful as that sounds but oh well. I thought we had a connection, but I'm guessing not so much. I had at one point thought thats why he couldn't deal with me. I made him feel stuff that he didn't want to feel. So in order to not feel anything he stopped dealing with me. But he is an Aqua and they don't forget their first loves...which is the girl he added. So I'm negative about it, and still hurt that I was easily forgotten but I thats sometimes how Aqua's are. Even his friends have said he's screwed up and I deserve better. But I guess in some strange way its just hurtful about being cast aside, unworthy of even being a facebook friend. That last act really hurt...when he was able to add my attractive friend who is white, and thinner and his ex who is mexican and thinner. But then me I'm black and mexican and deff not a stick. So I wonder about that. IP: Logged |
Lara
Knowflake Posts: 4740
From:
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 27, 2010 04:32 AM
Agree Grly and its all cool  Matt, l am far from 50 lol and self help doesn't come in a book. Whats funny is that if you take control of your mind and body then operations become null and void anyway. Of course one would go to a specialist for a hip replacement, unless you are uncool and then you just need to 'hop'.
Are you an 80's kid Matt? IP: Logged |
Benedict Moon*
Knowflake Posts: 1367
From: Avendesora
Registered: May 2009
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posted October 27, 2010 07:41 AM
I know I'm late, but I agree with you, Amowls. Most of these Gender stereotypes are the stuff of pop psychology found in Cosmopolitan or ridiculous self help books. We need to put down the magazines and start looking at eachother as individuals. IP: Logged |
GrlyGirl20
Knowflake Posts: 253
From: USA
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 27, 2010 09:07 AM
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I know I'm late, but I agree with you, Amowls. Most of these Gender stereotypes are the stuff of pop psychology found in Cosmopolitan or ridiculous self help books. We need to put down the magazines and start looking at eachother as individuals.
I deff agree...not only is using pop psychology and self help things unwise but its also unsafe. I am not discounting that some of these books can indeed help some people, but overall I would say anyone who feels the need to turn to a book to get understanding should see someone...not because something is wrong with them but I think in most circumstances talking with anyone (from a clergy member, to therapist) can indeed help. quote:
Whats funny is that if you take control of your mind and body then operations become null and void anyway
Lara, I'm not really understanding this comment...I don't want to put words in your mouth but you are indeed saying that if you learn to control your body and mind that any needed procedures for it are not needed? Right? IP: Logged |
Benedict Moon*
Knowflake Posts: 1367
From: Avendesora
Registered: May 2009
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posted October 27, 2010 09:23 AM
I actually wish I had atleast minored in psychology (I love it), but I realize now that it would've been too much. Maybe after I graduate I'll try it. IP: Logged |
GrlyGirl20
Knowflake Posts: 253
From: USA
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 27, 2010 09:27 AM
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I actually wish I had atleast minored in psychology (I love it), but I realize now that it would've been too much. Maybe after I graduate I'll try it.
Yeah you should deff take classes in it. I got my undergrad in it and am now doing my Masters on track to PhD in it with a specialization in Human Factors/Ergonomics...so I love it...sometimes I wish I went into engineering though lol. What year are you BM? And what is your major? IP: Logged |
Benedict Moon*
Knowflake Posts: 1367
From: Avendesora
Registered: May 2009
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posted October 27, 2010 09:29 AM
I'm a Nursing Major who is now in Nursing School and will hopefully graduate in July 2011. I've taken psychology classes towards my Major, and alot of my Current course involves basic developmental psychology...but I want MOAR. 
It will definitely have to be after I'm finished with Nursing School though because I have enough on my plate as it is.
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Lara
Knowflake Posts: 4740
From:
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 27, 2010 11:20 AM
Yeah well l don't bother conversing with people whom live out of magazines. Yes, Grly that is what l mean.
I love psychology and psychology is great but it's only a part of ones health on a psychological level because muscle has memory so you can do all the psychotherapy that you want to but if you don't combine it with rolfing then you simply won't get to release nor heal yourself. ALL the trauma will still be in your body. So l agree that talking helps but it is extremely limited. IP: Logged |
CrazyAquarian
Knowflake Posts: 493
From: US
Registered: Jan 2010
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posted October 27, 2010 10:14 PM
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CrazyAqua --This is a classic Capricorn - Cancer clash (i.e. the Capricorn in you blaming the Cancer in others for what you perceive as "immaturity").
mmmm yeah I have a Cap stellium lol But I swear the people I have in mind even non-caps think it too. It is obvious outright childishness. quote:
I'd really like CrazyAquarian to come back...I think that they shook up the site and left lol...in true (generalized) Aqua fashion lol.
LOL so true   quote:
We can get CrazyAquarian back at a later date Or in fact we can hold a grudge and he will never know
Haha, you may be a Cancer but Scorpios are the masters at that!And for all yous trying to make a stab back at my by saying Aqua are immature, I know that! lol I'm not denying it. In fact one of the Sun Cancers I was referring to as an Aqua Asc, probably doesn't help ------------------
~Believe~ IP: Logged |
MyVirgoMask
Knowflake Posts: 2970
From: Bay Area, CA
Registered: May 2009
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posted October 27, 2010 10:24 PM
So is this Cancer your Mom, Aqua? Or a relative? Because gawd only knows they can drive anyone crazy no matter the sign LOLIP: Logged |
CrazyAquarian
Knowflake Posts: 493
From: US
Registered: Jan 2010
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posted October 27, 2010 10:46 PM
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So is this Cancer your Mom, Aqua? Or a relative? Because gawd only knows they can drive anyone crazy no matter the sign LOL
YES!! One is my mother and another is a relative as well. Ironically,(going back to the Capricorn thing, I also think someone else is who is a Cap. ) LOL Wait! Ah ha! You know what they say about Scorpio Moon's mothers! Do you? Side note, there are others who I aren't related too ------------------
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