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Topic: Cancers are so immature!
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CrazyAquarian
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posted October 24, 2010 05:32 PM
 
Lol Now before I get yelled at for making another generality, which I am aware of I realize that not EVERYONE is like that BUT I have noticed that my god!
The most childish and immature people I know are sun cancers! I don't even know how to explain it, they just look like a Freaky Friday movie, which is how my whole childhood was like with my mother (Scorpio moon in 12th house...lovely)Actually if Freaky Friday was about a 5 yr old and her mother that would describe the Sun Cancers I know. I think there was a reason the disease Cancer was named so..... LOL
Anyway, anyone else feel the same? ------------------
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woah cakes
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posted October 24, 2010 05:36 PM
well as an aquarian, i feel like cancer and aquarius are a really odd pairing, forsure. aquarians want to KNOW everything and cancers are so emotionally insular. aquarius can 'shelve' their emotions and cancer is completely governed by them, and at the same time, hidden away. could this be why you feel this way?IP: Logged |
Lara
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posted October 24, 2010 05:56 PM
LOL @ a freaky friday movie.
(no offense!)Yeah, my cancerian friend is really immature. She has a tantrum over everything. :s IP: Logged |
seeleah
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posted October 24, 2010 06:08 PM
what the hell!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! we are not ruled by our emotions and we are not immature! so what if I like to wear my hair in pigtails occassionally and I had a fuzzy lunch box in high school...had a fuzzy theromist too  it matched..... I NEVER do things based off my feelings and always go with my head! so what if I like to enjoy things and find the fun in EVERYTHING! sometimes I wonder if it is cancer sun or venus gemini... we are not immature! now with that being said...*laughs hysterically*
nawh, just teasing..honestly tho I am not sure why you say that, would like you to articulate. Just saying. Honestly I think cancers are some of the most emotinally MATURE of us all because they deal with it all the time. I feel some of the other signs, can at times, run from their feelings instead of feeling them, honoring them and letting them go. but each sign has good and bad things about them.
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CrazyAquarian
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posted October 24, 2010 06:10 PM
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Yeah, my cancerian friend is really immature. She has a tantrum over everything. :s
Haha! That's just it! tantrums!------------------
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CrazyAquarian
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posted October 24, 2010 06:12 PM
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well as an aquarian, i feel like cancer and aquarius are a really odd pairing, forsure. aquarians want to KNOW everything and cancers are so emotionally insular. aquarius can 'shelve' their emotions and cancer is completely governed by them, and at the same time, hidden away. could this be why you feel this way?
Nah, It's not just me. I know others signs who see the same thing as me.
They express it in different ways but it all boils down to immaturity. Lot of pouting I notice though...------------------
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woah cakes
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posted October 24, 2010 06:15 PM
ahh, well. generalization yes, astute observation, likely, agreement, definite. BUT.. it's only the shadow of cancer, no? or is this just a vent type thing?IP: Logged |
CrazyAquarian
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posted October 24, 2010 06:15 PM
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nawh, just teasing..honestly tho I am not sure why you say that, would like you to articulate. Just saying. Honestly I think cancers are some of the most emotinally MATURE of us all because they deal with it all the time. I feel some of the other signs, can at times, run from their feelings instead of feeling them, honoring them and letting them go. but each sign has good and bad things about them.
Not really based on feelings. And I never said anything about emotions whatsoever.
Just THEM. In many ways. How they view life. How they express themselves. How they think. How they deal.
Each sun cancer I am thinking of shows it in a different way, some similarities but in the end it's the same.------------------
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RunAroundScreaming
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Registered: Oct 2010
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posted October 24, 2010 06:15 PM
That's funny because I'm a Cancer and I usually think Aquariuses are immature :PThey're rational but it's just a front. Controlling their emotions so much makes them explode one day, several times a year. So, they're actually emotional. And, I know some very whiny aqauriuses, fyi.
Always complaining about this or that...I think they just do it for attention. Pathetic, really. The Cancers I know are really some of the sweetest people. Remember that Cancer's job is to fill others up with emotion. Aquarius's job is quite the opposite IP: Logged |
Lara
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posted October 24, 2010 06:17 PM
Yup. When she has them in front of my young kids l just look at her with a totally wtf face.
She's 43.IP: Logged |
CrazyAquarian
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posted October 24, 2010 06:17 PM
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ahh, well. generalization yes, astute observation, likely, agreement, definite. BUT.. it's only the shadow of cancer, no? or is this just a vent type thing?
Bit of both. Venting and wanting to see what others think------------------
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CrazyAquarian
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posted October 24, 2010 06:21 PM
Wow RunAroundScreaming giving an example of immaturity for us? By trying to turn it around and point the finger at someone else? Maybe I just have higher expectations of people handling things in a mature manner. But this has nothing to do with Aquarius so could you please move on?
Also being sweet is irrelevant to immaturity. Ever been around a kid?------------------
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Lara
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posted October 24, 2010 06:22 PM
runaround is giving you the run around. He states on his other thread that cancers rule from guilt lolIP: Logged |
Peri
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posted October 24, 2010 06:23 PM
I have known very mature Cancers.
It depends on a person not their Sun sign.IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted October 24, 2010 06:23 PM
Well, I guess that's just your opinion, then. I've never thought other cancers were immature. Just sometimes a bit crabby but that's only because they're trying to be honest.I always felt aquarians were a bit of a stick in the mud at first, even though once you get to know them they're very fun people. Then again, i dont usually go around judging people like that. If someone has a dofferent way from me of dealing with things I just let them be. When i said aquarians were immature I meant they were alqays so preoccupied woth igboring emotions bc they think it makes them appear weak, yet thats not the mature way to handle it at all. But, i couldnt care less how they choose to handle their emotions lol, as long as they're nice, caring and loyal, cancers are willing to stand by anyone thru their tough times. IP: Logged |
CrazyAquarian
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posted October 24, 2010 06:26 PM
There is no judging here, not by me. We all have certain characteristics given to us through out signs and I was just speaking about this particular one. But it seems like many people can't handle talking about it. Saying that someone has a particular trait that is seen as negative shouldn't imply that they are a bad person. Those are assumptions from your own mind. We all have "negative" traits.------------------
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RunAroundScreaming
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posted October 24, 2010 06:27 PM
I'm not goving you a runaround at all. I just thought maybe it was a difference between cancers and aquarians. No reason to get sensitive about it.IP: Logged |
CrazyAquarian
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posted October 24, 2010 06:27 PM
Did you read anything other than the title Peri? O_O------------------
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Lara
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posted October 24, 2010 06:28 PM
Runaround, wouldn't you say that as a generalisation, all air signs have issues with their emotions and displaying them.IP: Logged |
woah cakes
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posted October 24, 2010 06:29 PM
runaround, i agree cancers are sweethearts. i can sort of agree with your assessment that aquas think emotions make them appear weak, and maybe that's how it seems, but that's not really the case with me. for me, emotion is felt, but as an undercurrent, with my mind ruling my perceptions, by default. i THINK my emotions, if that makes sense. well, i feel them, but i think about them simultaneously. which is why we can appear aloof, i think. we're busily THINKING about what we feel and perceive, and how it all fits into the matrix of life. sounds weird, but it's a true story.IP: Logged |
Peri
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posted October 24, 2010 06:32 PM
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Did you read anything other than the title Peri? O_O
yes I did, what makes you think I did not? IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted October 24, 2010 06:32 PM
You are judging cancers as immature by saying they throw tantrums. The word tantrum in and of itself is a judgemental word.And, sure cancers control by guilt..I don't see how that's immature. It doesn't mean blackmail...it means they try to show you how you've made them feel bad, by filling u up with emotion. Again, that's one of cancer's purposes. IP: Logged |
amowls*
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From: richmond va
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posted October 24, 2010 06:33 PM
Whatever people, you can't base ridiculous generalizations on Sun signs. That's not astrology, thats horrible pop astrology that you find in Cosmo.-an Aqua IP: Logged |
CrazyAquarian
Knowflake Posts: 493
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posted October 24, 2010 06:34 PM
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yes I did, what makes you think I did not?
 Just wondering, cause I said in the
beginning that I realize everyone is not. And there are many who like to come into the threads I started and yell at my before they read my disclaimer 
just like the above post
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CrazyAquarian
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posted October 24, 2010 06:37 PM
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The word tantrum in and of itself is a judgemental word.
Really now? http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tantrum Seems like just an emotional outburst to me  ------------------
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