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cappy1277
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posted June 03, 2011 07:39 PM
  
Virgo venus= people haters. Always critical, cant keep relationships going & think they're superior from what I've seen.IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted June 03, 2011 07:43 PM
Virgo Venus is too picky about details like a bad meal  ------------------
Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personality
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SmilingHeart
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posted June 03, 2011 07:50 PM
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Astra
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posted June 03, 2011 07:57 PM
I have a brother with venus in virgo and the ruler of his seventh house is in his first. His wife is very overweight with a plain face, so he's definitely not superficial when it comes to women. She's a real sweetheart, though with a strong intellect, which attracted my brother. IP: Logged |
amowls**
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posted June 03, 2011 10:43 PM
Aw, my beloved roommate has Venus in Virgo. He also is a Libra Sun so he's terribly indecisive when it comes to relationships, but he's definitely not a people hater. He can get critical at times and he's kind of particular, but he generally goes for "weird" women as opposed to VS models.IP: Logged |
mintgirl123
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posted June 03, 2011 10:58 PM
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Dear Mintgirl
Could you please elaborate on how the hard aspects between the Sun and Neptune and the Sun and Uranus played out for you.
Thanks so much!
Sun hard aspects uranus --- has the need to rebel, can't be controlled, they have issues with commitment bc they need to feel 'free'
Free spirit in the worst sense Sun hard aspects neptune. Leads to a kind of confusion? They find it hard to handle boundaries (relationship boundaries etc) Merc in Gem--- Very witty but they like to twist the truth or leave out things. Good at spinning tales, and the sad thing is they're usually very convincing lol.
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Yrone
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posted June 04, 2011 02:40 PM
Uh so, if the bloke has Sun conj. Mars conj. Uranus all squared by Saturn/Neptune and a Gemini Dsc it's better to run?  IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted June 04, 2011 02:50 PM
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Originally posted by Yrone:
Uh so, if the bloke has Sun conj. Mars conj. Uranus all squared by Saturn/Neptune and a Gemini Dsc it's better to run?
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Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personality
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You must lose your life for My sake in order to find it .
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sassaqua
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posted June 04, 2011 11:37 PM
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Originally posted by Benedict Moon*:
-Mutable T-squares involving Mars
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Hi Benedict, can you say more about this if possible? I would like to add:
saturn hard aspect to venus - absolutely viciously cruel and uncompromisingly hard-assed. Pluto hard aspect to Venus - vindictive, emotionally manipulative, peversely sadistic, and unstopable. 
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Benedict Moon*
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posted June 05, 2011 08:12 AM
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Originally posted by sassaqua:
Hi Benedict,can you say more about this if possible?
Hi, Sassaqua!
I experienced it in my only long term relationship to date and it wasn't pretty. He was prone to passive-aggressive behavior and majorly projected stuff in many arguments. He also wasn't the most direct person despite having a Scorpio and Sag stellium, its like Neptune as the focal point in that T-Square won out. I guess I should mention that Neptune (in Sag) and the moon (in Pisces) were involved too.
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Yrone
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posted June 05, 2011 11:19 AM
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Originally posted by sassaqua:
I would like to add:
saturn hard aspect to venus - absolutely viciously cruel and uncompromisingly hard-assed.Pluto hard aspect to Venus - vindictive, emotionally manipulative, peversely sadistic, and unstopable.
Oh cute, the guy from above also has a Venus-Pluto square  IP: Logged |
moonram
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posted June 06, 2011 09:44 PM
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starcrossedleo
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posted June 06, 2011 10:00 PM
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Originally posted by sassaqua:
Hi Benedict,can you say more about this if possible? I would like to add:
saturn hard aspect to venus - absolutely viciously cruel and uncompromisingly hard-assed. Pluto hard aspect to Venus - vindictive, emotionally manipulative, peversely sadistic, and unstopable.
I can confirm the venus square saturn aspect makes them cruel beyond comprehension. I dated one on and off for almost 7 years.
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Lonake
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posted June 09, 2011 01:49 AM
Mars conj Saturn & Mars sq Neptune in the same chart. Lack of faith, direction, and feeling that no matter how much they try to do things right that nothing is ever going to work out for them. IP: Logged |
Yrone
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posted June 09, 2011 02:11 AM
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Originally posted by Lonake:
Mars conj Saturn & Mars sq Neptune in the same chart. Lack of faith, direction, and feeling that no matter how much they try to do things right that nothing is ever going to work out for them.
Hmm would yo say that Saturn conj. Neptune squaring Mars could have a similar effect?
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pepper
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posted June 09, 2011 02:29 AM
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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
Sun hard aspects uranus --- has the need to rebel, can't be controlled, they have issues with commitment bc they need to feel 'free'
Free spirit in the worst sense
Agree!!!!!  I dated one!!!! He has Sun conjunct Uranus Exact and your description fits him perfectly!!!!
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ekf
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posted June 09, 2011 04:05 AM
i'd love to hear more about the mars - pluto opposition. i have one of those around now...
the placement i will never do again is venus in the 12th house, especially in a non astrology aware person. in my experience it meant no demonstration of love whatsoever, and really no awareness of even being in love.
i probably would avoid heavy 12th houses too - especially since i have one. both people ending up living the whole relationship alone. IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius
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posted June 09, 2011 04:28 AM
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Originally posted by starcrossedleo:
Mars square uranusthe explosive often times violent temper is something I'd rather not experience again
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Aya_and_baby
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posted June 09, 2011 02:13 PM
I've been thinking today, and I think... at least in my case... It's best to avoid people with venus in the 8th house. At least two of which I know they had venus in 8th ended up disastrously. Don't even want to go into details.After the first one I gave it the benefit of the doubt but now... Only they are in different signs though, but both in 8th. And maybe I met more men with venus in 8th, too
Not sure why it seems that I should avoid men with venus in 8th but... Maybe others experienced the same thing and could explain? I'm guessing it does a certain thing with their personality that just does some strange click with a part of my personality? 
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Benedict Moon*
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posted June 09, 2011 02:18 PM
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Originally posted by ekf:
i probably would avoid heavy 12th houses too - especially since i have one. both people ending up living the whole relationship alone.
Oooo, I totally agree. I don't think I'd want to date another heavy 12th houser. I wouldn't want to go out with someone with my personal planets in my 12th house either...when I meet people who do this in my chart, it feels like encroachment. IP: Logged |
nordicsoul
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posted June 09, 2011 03:18 PM
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Originally posted by Betty Boop:
Mars opposite Pluto: Blatantly cruel.. pure cruelty! No reason whatsoever.
(if it's close!)Mars in Taurus: Too romantically laid back (or lazy) and non-eventful.. Not to mention standing on their pride for 15 yrs once you have a problem. Venus in Aries: Very immature. Depth is lacking. My Venus is an area where I need emotional intensity.. It is in Taurus opp my Pluto. So I can't deal with the superficiality of these men. Venus retrograde in Aries - The only placement I found more difficult than Venus in Aries lol
Venus in Aries direct - wants you to conform to his image of the perfect woman. On the bright side he is living in the "here and now" so this image is at least - a current one.
Venus in Aries retrograde - wants you to conform to an image of the perfect woman in 18th century England. I'm serious! lol Venus retrograde in general... They are looking for love in order to have a certain "normal" social appearance.. but would actually prefer to be alone. Venus square Mars: They hate women. They hate men. There isn't much left. Animals?
hmmm what else?
Too much mutable stuff -- virgo/pisces/sag/gemini...
Because they are not sure what they want and tend to be very changeable.
Too much transpersonal stuff -- capricorn/sag/aquarius/pisces
Because even when they know what they want -- it is NOT you.. It is something like working on - "world peace" or "war world 3" - depending on their "inclination".
You crack me up Betty. Lol IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
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posted June 09, 2011 03:23 PM
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Originally posted by Benedict Moon*:
Oooo, I totally agree. I don't think I'd want to date another heavy 12th houser. I wouldn't want to go out with someone with my personal planets in my 12th house either...when I meet people who do this in my chart, it feels like encroachment.
Please describe the feeling of encroachment more,if you can BM? ------------------
Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personality
Jung
You must lose your life for My sake in order to find it .
Jesus
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Ami Anne
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posted June 09, 2011 03:25 PM
I did not know Venus square Saturn was cruel and Uranus square Mars was mental  ------------------
Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personality
Jung
You must lose your life for My sake in order to find it .
Jesus
He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
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nordicsoul
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posted June 09, 2011 03:26 PM
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Originally posted by Deux*Antares:
I would avoid someone with at least 3 of the following:Libra stellium esp. involving Sun and Moon
Chiron in 7th
Venus square Neptune
Venus in Virgo
Majority of planets in left hemisphere
Too much Uranian action in the chart
ahahahahah you are describing my ex and it was a disaster. lol IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted June 09, 2011 03:38 PM
What does the majority of planets in the left side feel like--in real life?
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Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personality
Jung
You must lose your life for My sake in order to find it .
Jesus
He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
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