posted January 02, 2012 11:58 AM            

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Originally posted by MertSerimer:
Relationships = friends, lovers, business partners..

Now Say that YOU DONT NEED IT if you can ?

You are an also example of what i wrote there. You are either too proudful not to accept your own weakness or you didnt understand single of what i said .

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No, I have no idea what you said, and I still have no idea.

I thought we were referring to love relationships solely.

As far as friends, yeah, I don't need friends. They do flock to me and they make me happy. They walk away,no sweat off my back.

I derive my comfort in life via God and my family. No one else really matters.

As far as business partnerships, I'm not an entrepreneur. I'm an employee. And yes, I'm not reliant on partnerships ar work. People don't have to like me. We just have to work together out of necessity to accomplish tasks.

What is it that you said, again?

What weakness are you referring to?

Last I checked, I'm not the one without the relationship.

posted January 02, 2012 12:03 PM            

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Originally posted by Capriquarius:
Way too many souls on this forum who favor being kind to males, when doing so will make them manipulate and take advantage of you. Not the place for me. It was nice talking astrology with you, folks. Happy new year.

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posted January 02, 2012 12:06 PM            

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Originally posted by Capriquarius:
Way too many souls on this forum who favor being kind to males, when doing so will make them manipulate and take advantage of you. Not the place for me. It was nice talking astrology with you, folks. Happy new year.

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posted January 02, 2012 12:38 PM            

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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:

No, I have no idea what you said, and I still have no idea.

I thought we were referring to love relationships solely.

As far as friends, yeah, I don't need friends. They do flock to me and they make me happy. They walk away,no sweat off my back.

I derive my comfort in life via God and my family. No one else really matters.

As far as business partnerships, I'm not an entrepreneur. I'm an employee. And yes, I'm not reliant on partnerships ar work. People don't have to like me. We just have to work together out of necessity to accomplish tasks.

What is it that you said, again?

What weakness are you referring to?

Last I checked, I'm not the one without the relationship.

People who live in glass houses....

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posted January 02, 2012 01:03 PM            

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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:

No, I have no idea what you said, and I still have no idea.

I thought we were referring to love relationships solely.

As far as friends, yeah, I don't need friends. They do flock to me and they make me happy. They walk away,no sweat off my back.

I derive my comfort in life via God and my family. No one else really matters.

As far as business partnerships, I'm not an entrepreneur. I'm an employee. And yes, I'm not reliant on partnerships ar work. People don't have to like me. We just have to work together out of necessity to accomplish tasks.

What is it that you said, again?

What weakness are you referring to?

Last I checked, I'm not the one without the relationship.

People who live in glass houses....

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I'm with you on this, Ian.
And I don't think the judging know-it-all attitude of Mert helps him make his point.

posted January 02, 2012 01:42 PM            

Well, I guess it takes all types.

My good relationships have not been like that - much more about trust and partnership than war, thank goodness - but if that's the way your interactions have been, I won't discount your individual experiences.

posted January 02, 2012 02:44 PM            

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Originally posted by Capriquarius:
Way too many souls on this forum who favor being kind to males, when doing so will make them manipulate and take advantage of you. Not the place for me. It was nice talking astrology with you, folks. Happy new year.

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posted January 02, 2012 09:11 PM            

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Originally posted by lilithpluto:
In fact, if you read my words, i was emphasising on Carl being more confident and believe he is worth it. Whether Carl wants to or not, i am only offering mere words. He is the decision maker. Besides, the world is full of girls to test the theory. Go on, date a storm.

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@lilthpluto: You are funny Love love it. I took your advice to Carl as to be more confident.

posted January 02, 2012 09:15 PM            

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Originally posted by lilithpluto:
Well said RegardesPlatero!! Thank you for taking the tiime to write such lengthy post! I cldn't hv put it as well as you!

Cheers!

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posted January 02, 2012 09:18 PM            

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Originally posted by MertSerimer:
You can easily talk like that because there are eventually some people in your life that make you feel not lonely. You are not hermit, you cant live by yourself in the case that nobody loves, knows you. Also truth in what you are saying is un-provable. It can be just "cocky in keyboard" style because nobody sees, knows real you in this forum

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I have nothing to prove to you.

Yes, I'm not lonely. More than enough people love me dearly, and they show it.

If I were not married and if I were to live alone and not have any friends, and if no human loves me, I would have no problem being alone. I have the Greatest Friend I could ever have. God is my best friend. God is always there for me no matter what. God is infallible. In God I Trust.

Having said that, you can't possibly fathom how deep of a relationship I have with my wife. If I were to have to trek through the depths of the abyss and spend an eternity in hell, there are no others than she and I rather be than with each other.

This is not "cocky-in-keyboard-style." I am cocky and hyper aggressive in real life. It is who I am. Its called confidence and self-assurance. I work hard for my success and I enjoy success only because I am dedicated to achieving success. In real life, I make mince meat out of people like you. I kick posteriors for a living, and I do my job rather well.

Yes, there is one active forum member here who is my colleague at work, and she works about 20 feet away from me. She knows my entire background well. There are several individuals here who have ready access to my attention via e-mail. One individual has open access to all the public photos of my family. All know that my family forms the center of my life, and my relationship with God forms the foundation of my existence.

posted January 02, 2012 09:25 PM            

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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
Thanks Amelia,

I don't doubt that it has nothing to do with me. However, this is where the communication between the two sexes breaks down. When someone has an issue with the opposite side and makes a sweeping statement of gross generalizations, it endangers feelings of negativity. And then the other side reciprocates. That's where the sentiments of war come into play. Relationships are supposed to be about love and care, not about friction.

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posted January 02, 2012 11:48 PM            

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Originally posted by raya_of_light:
@lilthpluto: You are funny Love love it. I took your advice to Carl as to be more confident.

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Glad i amuse u. Normally, I'm pretty boring a person. It's when my heart is in tatters that all these humorous braincells comes alive - to distract fr the pain u see. Plus I'm a workaholic at times like these. Bosses love me at times like these.. I work til I forget, I dun complain. Its the moon in aquarius at work - everything can b programmed, including the mind.

posted January 03, 2012 12:00 AM            

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Originally posted by lilithpluto:
Glad i amuse u. Normally, I'm pretty boring a person. It's when my heart is in tatters that all these humorous braincells comes alive - to distract fr the pain u see. Plus I'm a workaholic at times like these. Bosses love me at times like these.. I work til I forget, I dun complain. Its the moon in aquarius at work - everything can b programmed, including the mind.

All these talk on rships suddenly reminded me of iQ. Does all these hv anything to do with nessus square juno n nessus square Lust, both exact now? Hmmmmm... will make for interesting observation.

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posted January 03, 2012 12:10 AM            

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Originally posted by Capriquarius:
Way too many souls on this forum who favor being kind to males, when doing so will make them manipulate and take advantage of you. Not the place for me. It was nice talking astrology with you, folks. Happy new year.

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Dear Capriaquarius, fr my perspective, it was never abt forgive or not forgive, angry or not angry, who win who lose, it is abt what outcome one desires. Being kind is nt the issue. Being aware of a person's true nature is what makes moving forward clearer.

Have u given given free route to a guy to manipulate n take advantage of you but he wldn't take that path? I have. That's when i know I am in love n in safe hands. But of course i wldn't recommend that gamble to take to anyone.. A girl can always back out, if she wish. U did. U made yr decision, he made his, the emotions entwined between will eventually fade.

posted January 03, 2012 12:55 AM            

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Originally posted by lilithpluto:

Have u given given free route to a guy to manipulate n take advantage of you but he wldn't take that path? I have. That's when i know I am in love n in safe hands. But of course i wldn't recommend that gamble to take to anyone..

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Yes, good point. When someone has a good heart, it can redeem your faith in humanity, regardless of gender. Not everyone hurts intentionally either. Sometimes it's done out of sheer accident and clumsiness. Not to discount that there are cruel folks out there, because there are....definitely.

posted January 03, 2012 01:04 AM            

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Originally posted by Capriquarius:
Way too many souls on this forum who favor being kind to males, when doing so will make them manipulate and take advantage of you. Not the place for me. It was nice talking astrology with you, folks. Happy new year.

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