posted April 29, 2012 07:22 AM            

Maybe they meant the things that they said, but their opninion/feelings of you changed over time? And the thing is, they're probably not as into friendship as you are. You just need to find people who value friendship as much as you do.

posted April 29, 2012 07:54 AM            

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Dunno what orb it is. Its a blank field. I was born in July 86. I started studying astrology 4 years ago and believe at least regarding my natal chart I still have questions without an answer because astro says one thing, the software I use another thing and astrotheme another thing. Thats why I am not 100% sure about the orbs. I do think I have Mars/Neptune aspect.

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The orb is basically how far away the planets are from each other.

I had a look for July 1986...
On the 1st of July - Mars was at 30 deg in Capricorn
On the 30th of July - Mars went retro all the way to 12 deg in Capricorn

During that period Neptune was at 3 deg Capricorn.

posted April 29, 2012 07:58 AM            

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Originally posted by Betty Boop:
Hi Rosalind -

The orb is basically how far away the planets are from each other.

I had a look for July 1986...
On the 1st of July - Mars was at 30 deg in Capricorn
On the 30th of July - Mars went retro all the way to 12 deg in Capricorn

During that period Neptune was at 3 deg Capricorn.

So the closest orb you would have is around 9/10 deg.
Most astrologers would consider that very wide for a transpersonal planet aspect. If you do feel like it affects you - it may just be because the planets are in the same sign. To some extent planets in the same sign have a simpatico kind of vibe happening.... even though it wouldn't be as intense as a conjunction.
I'm not surprised this does not affect you sexually though, because it's a wide aspect. Besides Mars is exalted in Capricorn. It is a strong Mars.. In your case, it is not directly affected by Neptune... so you probably have what most psychologists would refer to as a healthy sex drive.

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Thanks Betty. Mars is at 17 degrees in Cappy in Rx motion in 3rd house. Neptune is at 4 degrees in Caoricorn also in RX motion in 2nd house. I was born on July 11 1986.

posted April 29, 2012 08:25 AM            

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Originally posted by Lonake:
Hmm I know a Mars Neptune sq and he is a complete wh0re.
And yea, he's up to high heaven with his sexual fantasies as well.
He has Scorp rising too.

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posted April 29, 2012 09:06 AM            

*seems that Neptune is a hot topic*

I have Mars/Neptune sq and I confess to strong fantasizing aspect of sex,however once it hits realisation phase ,it is all Mars' doing - passionate,could be love-less,very physical.
The main problem with Mars/Nep is that energy is derived from thin air,the sex is what happens between the moment when you start desiring someone and actually having sex with them - it is a flimsy,undefined,yet glittering sentiment in-between and the thinking that there is no need for consummation is what causes frustration and sexual confusion often linked with Mars/Nep aspects.

There is also sponge-like tendency to soak up everyone's fantasies and to tease with them,but never to fulfill them.
On the good side,natives can be are magicians,you can't see the trick and you end up being attracted to them all over again.

posted April 29, 2012 09:19 AM            

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Originally posted by VenusDiSirius:

Boy,do they live in Illusionville.

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This made my day!

posted April 29, 2012 09:41 AM              

Yeah, I used to be really angry, mean, hostile and defensive but I've done a lot of self-work and I'm not in that place anymore. I had to heal a lot of hurt to get out of that frame of mind. I still have my dark side and I'm still really hot-tempered but I'm a good person. I don't care about revenge anymore and I'm not nearly as resentful. I've just been learning how to let go.

But I've always been a good person at heart, even back when I was really difficult to deal with. Lunar Scorpios are just so pathologized from an early age. Because we're such intense personalities and react in such extreme ways, we're called 'psycho' and told we need to calm down and be rational. So, I feel like, even when we're just trying to do good, we're still going to be called 'evil' and 'dangerous' because our very nature is so strong that it's threatening to most people. And that may not be fair but I guess that's the way many people are. But, to get that response constantly from society can plant a seed in someone's head and make them believe they're as bad as people say they are.

That being said, I don't think it's cool to judge ANYONE before getting to know them, in any sort of way. I think it's just as bad to write someone off because they have a particular Moon placement as putting someone in a box because of their skin color or sexual orientation. It's just as prejudiced as that. Because not everyone in a certain group is going to be the same.

There are certain placements I haven't meshed well with in the past but I try to give everyone a chance. There are also certain placements I've gotten along with swimmingly before and I met someone with the same placement and I couldn't stand them. It all depends on the person and their maturity level and how they handle their chart.

posted April 29, 2012 09:43 AM            

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So how about you? What zodiac signs and aspects are you wary of?

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posted April 29, 2012 10:03 AM            

"Maybe Diana will chime in again, but ime the H8 Moons keep their cauldron locked up. You don't get to see what's inside, it only bubbles over in their reactions when they can't contain its contents any longer. Then they close up shop and try to get away from those feelings. That's what it looks like from the outside. It doesn't seem that they are scared of their feelings, just that they want them to be hidden for some other purpose"

lonake: i have a 8h moon, and i must say..........i tend to agree.

posted April 29, 2012 10:07 AM              

Not trying to stir up trouble or anything. Just my opinion.

posted April 29, 2012 10:08 AM            

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What if you hadn't done their chart? Would you still feel the same way?

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I'm OK with people disliking certain placements. Heck, some of those already mentioned, I have in mine. But I don't care if it doesn't rub them the right way. I just keep going. That's my take.

posted April 29, 2012 11:31 AM            

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Originally posted by Betty Boop:
I'm not so much wary but.. I'm romantically disinterested in Pisces/Neptunian men (unless it is balanced by other things... (like a dose of earthy realism and a strong Mars) - because they generally don't have what I want in a guy. ^^ I have Capricorn influence in my chart so I guess I am too grounded and realistic for the stories they try to weave
In terms of getting "close" whether romantically or in friendship... I'm unlikely to get close to people with Cancer influence in their personal planets, in particular women. This is because I don't trust that they care about me.
I feel like they are envious and have issues with me, so I'm wary of being back-stabbed. If they have Capricorn or Aries stuff happening - that can make our relationship better.
In men - I'm also wary of:
Venus in Aries
Venus Retro
Venus square Mars
Mars in Taurus (if afflicted)
Mars in negative aspect to Pluto Their version of love & sex is at odds with mine. Love makes me happy - whereas it makes them feel inadequate or angry.. and I can't relate to their problems. I have Tau Venus trine Cap Mars.

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posted April 29, 2012 11:42 AM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
sun square or opp mars or uranus

venus square or opposite uranus

sun in negative aspect is not that bad, it just annoys me. But the other ones are like gaaasp you have that in your chart...oh em gee, stay awayy.

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posted April 29, 2012 12:05 PM            

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Originally posted by amowls**:
why? Actually, I do know why but just know that some of us Venus square Uranus folk aren't that untrustworthy. I think I'm pretty constant in my affections with people.

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I know a gemini with all mutable signs and mostly air who has venus square uranus, and though he's a huge flirt, and he'll lead you on, he isn't a cheater and wont actually use girls either. After meeting that guy, I now can believe anyone can overcome their chart tendencies lol. ^.^ I was exaggerating really. I'd just be on guard for that kind of behavior, wouldnt avoid the person or anything. Not with someone who has sun square mars either. They might have overcome that aspect in their chart...