posted April 29, 2012 02:34 AM            

Zodiac sign wise, i'm a bit wary of cancer. They are super sensitive and tend to hold grudges way to long. They have that crab mentality too. Next would be scorpio, because i had a scorpio mom, and she was controlling, violent, and always exploded like a bomb over the silliest things. She throws whatever she can get her hands on during an argument. I remember when i was 13, my room looked liked as if a hurricane passed through it, coz all my stuff that was exposed was thrown at me or at the wall. I know all zodiac signs have negative traits, but those are the 2 zodiac signs that i tend to be "cautious" in dealing with. And of course, i'm not saying all cancers and scorpios are like that, but the ones that i met are.

Next in terms of natal aspects are the ones with negative mars-neptune aspects. The ones that i met have mars opposition neptune, and they seem to be obsessed with sex. They like stimulating themselves several times a day or if they have a partner, having sex everyday. They're also very fond of phone sex and sexting. Plus they have weird fetishes too. I also tend to be wary of sun conjuct mercury, they can't be trusted! A close friend of mine has this aspect, and i noticed that she tells me the personal stories of other people that i'm not supposed to know. She even makes her bf read my text messages to her. Hows that for privacy. I read before that the sun conjuct mercury person needs to know and write everything, and they tend to keep diaries. They tend to gossip too. Taylor Swift has this aspect, if you notice her songs are like an open book story of her life.

House wise, jupiter in the 3rd house is prone to exaggerate stories, and neptune in the 2nd house can be dishonest regarding money matters. My friend, the one that i mentioned also has these aspects, and it is exactly how she acts.

posted April 29, 2012 03:23 AM            

^^ I have Capricorn influence in my chart so I guess I am too grounded and realistic for the stories they try to weave

In terms of getting "close" whether romantically or in friendship... I'm unlikely to get close to people with Cancer influence in their personal planets, in particular women. This is because I don't trust that they care about me.
I feel like they are envious and have issues with me, so I'm wary of being back-stabbed.
If they have Capricorn or Aries stuff happening - that can make our relationship better.

In men - I'm also wary of:

Venus in Aries
Venus Retro
Venus square Mars
Mars in Taurus (if afflicted)
Mars in negative aspect to Pluto

posted April 29, 2012 03:29 AM            

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mars opposition neptune, and they seem to be obsessed with sex.

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Mars conj Neptune are asexual.

I know a guy with the square and he seems sex-obssessed but he is mostly making things up that he never actually does. Neptune = Dream World.

If you want to meet a genuinely sexed person who actually does what they say they will do - date a Mars/Pluto person! lol

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They like stimulating themselves several times a day

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posted April 29, 2012 03:31 AM            

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Originally posted by Betty Boop:
Mars conj Neptune are asexual.

I know a guy with the square and he seems sex-obssessed but he is mostly making things up that he never actually does. Neptune = Dream World.

If you want to meet a genuinely sexed person who actually does what they say they will do - date a Mars/Pluto person! lol

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posted April 29, 2012 03:32 AM            

That's amazing.

You are the first one I have met.

posted April 29, 2012 03:35 AM            

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I know a Mars Neptune sq and he is a complete wh0re.
And yea, he's up to high heaven with his sexual fantasies as well.

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The one I know has Mars in Libra square Neptune in Capricorn but he makes up so many things - I'm genuinely not sure what to make of him anymore.

posted April 29, 2012 03:41 AM            

venus square or opposite uranus

posted April 29, 2012 03:49 AM            

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Originally posted by Betty Boop:
I just based the statement on people I know of or have met. I have Mars conj Neptune and I am demisexual. Regardes has Mars conj Neptune and she is asexual. Then there was a male poster here with Pisces Mars and Sun conj Neptune who identified as asexual. Then there is a guy I know in RL who has Mars conj Neptune in Scorpio who is not asexual but has been celibate for 10 years... and I am absolutely sure I am forgetting someone. There was one other person but I can't think of them now.

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I am also mars/neptune and demisexual. I actually never knew there was a term for it until I googled it just now. Yup, I need to be friends first. I am not someone who sees someone and is attracted by them, ever. It's why I have a hard time dating, because I'm just not interested in people romantically until I know them well. I have zero sex drive until I begin to have feeling for someone -- the feelings don't have to be love, bur affection or affinity etc. and only then will I become attracted to someone.

posted April 29, 2012 03:53 AM            

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Originally posted by Betty Boop:
WOWWWWW

That's amazing.

You are the first one I have met.

What's the orb?

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You still didnt answer my question. Where did you get the statement? Why do you think Mars/Neptune people are asexual? Celibacy is a choice, asexuality is a sickness. One can be celibate but have sexual intercouses.

posted April 29, 2012 03:57 AM            

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Originally posted by Diana:

I am also mars/neptune and demisexual. I actually never knew there was a term for it until I googled it just now. Yup, I need to be friends first. I am not someone who sees someone and is attracted by them, ever. It's why I have a hard time dating, because I'm just not interested in people romantically until I know them well. I have zero sex drive until I begin to have feeling for someone -- the feelings don't have to be love, bur affection or affinity etc. and only then will I become attracted to someone.

Anyway. I take a step back with scorpio moons. They can be a terror. It's a very very difficult and sometimes toxic and violent placement.

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posted April 29, 2012 04:04 AM            

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Originally posted by Lonake:
I'm starting to feel the same way about H8 Moons. I didn't always, but now that I've bunched together the ones I've been friends with and dated, the picture is not pretty. But for the record I don't feel the same way for Lunar Scorpios.

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What's the deal with 8 H moon men? My bf has Libra Moon in 8 H and you have to really ask him questions to get some kind of emotional response.

posted April 29, 2012 04:06 AM            

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Originally posted by Diana:
I don't need to be in love. I need to feel affection like friendship & familiarity with the person OR actually like them romantically before I begin to have sexual feelings toward them. Then I have a high sex drive. Pluto can have something to do with it as can 8th house planets, ironically. Pluto people are all or nothing people and have very definite feelings about sex. They can abstain for long periods or be promiscuous. Sometimes they swing from one extreme to the other in life.

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posted April 29, 2012 04:06 AM            

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Originally posted by Lonake:
Haha Boo (!) So far I see a difference there, to me Scorp Moons are more upfront about their insanity (for lack of a better term). In H8 it simmers, in a cauldron. I hope that sounds clear. I also have Jupiter in Scorp so that *might* add for my greater tolerance of that Moon sign, when in orb, and yea it's usually in orb. And I have to say that I'm OK with the upfront insanity. I have Moon/Pluto myself

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Hmm, maybe they are more upfront about it. You are right that 8th house simmers more. It seems to really need to be triggered badly - almost like getting a taurus mad -- they don't get mad that often, but look out when they do and they seem so laid back that it's shocking when it happens. It's like that in my experience.

I think there are many similarities with scorp moon and 8th moon though. I think it takes less to tick off a scorp moon than an 8th moon and I think a scorp moon can be more vindictive and hold a grudge longer if they're so inclined too. Maybe the reason you think they're more upfront about it is because it happens more often so they warn people, lol.

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Originally posted by Rosalind:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Diana:
[b]I don't need to be in love. I need to feel affection like friendship & familiarity with the person OR actually like them romantically before I begin to have sexual feelings toward them. Then I have a high sex drive. Pluto can have something to do with it as can 8th house planets, ironically. Pluto people are all or nothing people and have very definite feelings about sex. They can abstain for long periods or be promiscuous. Sometimes they swing from one extreme to the other in life.

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My sun is in aqua. See, suns are important!