posted May 12, 2012 04:21 PM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
loll...YES barely breathe is right! we also have composite sun opposite netpune and when themes repeat themselves i always think it means something. So u must be right. But even so...dunno how that stops him from liking me. You know? He is married now and people have commented on how his wife reminds them of me, but she is very earthy, a taurus with aries moon and lots of earth. He has virgo moon and leo venus so i guess he looks for a fiery earthy chick and i have no earth though a lot of fire.

Do i make him laugh, you mean? lol..funny you should ask..

Sand's favorite love calculator really said how i felt it is between us. Like when he stops being a grumpy virgo moon with sun conjunct mars who has to pretend he's all macho and all that nonsense...then he gets kind of girly and he talks to me in the sweetest voice, its almost like he's doing baby talk or something, and then we make each other laugh and make funny faces at each other. And his laugh is really shy when he laughs at something i do to make him laugh, i noticed. Very different from when he laughs at something else. I know for sure he's physically attracted to me bc he always flirts just with his expression and slightly touching me accidentally when we're standing close to each other. We have venus conjunct mars...after all, heh.

This is what it says and i almost cried when i read it bc i was like how do they know!

"You are 95% compatible. Attached-at-the-Hip Much?
Could you guys please stop being so unbelievably ideal for each other, already? Yes, you're super attracted to each other, but everyone around you can tell that's just the tip of the relationship iceberg. You actually "get" what makes each other tick on a seriously deep emotional level (no... We're not talking about a drug-induced discussion on the intricacies of Pink Floyd's "The Wall"). And you do that weird thing... What's that called again? Oh, right. Empathize. You empathize with each other, so you're excellent sources of comfort when times get tough; similarly, you totally and unselfishly rejoice in each other's successes. To make matters even more insufferable, you're genuinely into the same sorts of music, hobbies, and entertainment; you probably even share the same iTunes playlist, and we're pretty sure we caught you giggling while watching "The Soup." Gross. So, yes: we know you're BFFs who are all "2-getha 4-eva." Now, take your little two-person perfection brigade and go somewhere you can't make us ill."

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If you don't mind me asking, what is the name of that love calculator site? lol i'm curious to try it.

Anyway, i can attest to the pluto conjunct ascendant thing, you become very, very infatuated with that person. You can't seem to take your eyes off them, your day isn't complete when you haven't seen them, and you feel very self-conscious when that person is around.

posted May 12, 2012 09:02 PM            

in the end, we must all remember that this passion starts in the heart first, once anyone decides they are attracted to/interested in someone then the astrology kicks in and colours the behaviour and expression of it.

posted May 12, 2012 09:07 PM            

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Originally posted by MyFavouriteName:
aha, i was expecting a question more than a thesis about what makes for passion, i think everything you wrote is much to do with your experience in your relationship. i agree, in my experience, pluto seems to create the most intensity or what could also be called passion, at-least on an emotional level.

in the end, we must all remember that this passion starts in the heart first, once anyone decides they are attracted to/interested in someone then the astrology kicks in and colours the behaviour and expression of it.

i would vote that Pluto creates tension, intensity and strong attachment, sensitivity to one anothers feelings. since pluto is a planet related to scorpio and there for psychology (thats my opinion atleast) then i think pluto makes people in a relationship very sensitive psychologically.. the intensity of hurt or love will be high based on what the other party does or says, and what that means psychologically.

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Since you are a newbie, why don't you come in the Beginners Forum and I will look at your placements

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posted May 12, 2012 09:14 PM            

i didnt write anything about my chart or being a newbie.

posted May 12, 2012 10:26 PM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
thanks, Ceri, for all that info. Wow!

I just had a great astrology lesson today

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posted May 13, 2012 09:33 AM            

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Originally posted by neptunicity:
If you don't mind me asking, what is the name of that love calculator site? lol i'm curious to try it.

Anyway, i can attest to the pluto conjunct ascendant thing, you become very, very infatuated with that person. You can't seem to take your eyes off them, your day isn't complete when you haven't seen them, and you feel very self-conscious when that person is around.

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posted May 13, 2012 09:34 AM            

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Originally posted by Lonake:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
[b]thanks, Ceri, for all that info. Wow!

I just had a great astrology lesson today

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posted May 13, 2012 09:35 AM            

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Originally posted by MyFavouriteName:
you ignored everything i wrote!

i didnt write anything about my chart or being a newbie.

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Yes, it was from my own experience as everything I write about is--either direct experience or enough charts that I feel comfortable that I do understand.

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posted August 11, 2012 10:59 AM            

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Originally posted by phoenixxx12:
Hey Ami

just today i commented on your lovely blog - the Vertex thingy , i am looking forward to reading what u have to say on Mars/Saturn, I have a Square, Ol' Saturn is my chart ruler and conjunct NN in Virgo, si its the bane of my existance a square is definitly a tough one, it wears u down

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posted March 02, 2014 01:15 PM            

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What Makes for Passion?
By amiann | Published: May 7, 2012

I am talking passion with soul, here. I am not talking longevity. Pluto is the king of passion.Pluto is the majestic tiger strolling through the veld. Look at how he moves with the grace of a dancer. Look at how he is attuned to his senses. Look at how he takes what he wants. Translate that to a man looking at you from across the room. Transpose the tiger over him and you will have Pluto come to life. In synastry, his Pluto must be touching yours and vice-versa for you to feel anything. Pluto has it’s own flavor based on what it touches. If his Pluto touches your Venus, he will make you feel like the most beautiful female who ever walked the earth. If you are a shy type, you will transform. If you wore flannel nightgowns, you will don black silk. You will walk differently. You will have the persona of a sexy woman as you will feel as if you have found your inner animal. That is the power of his Pluto touching your Venus.

If his Pluto touches your moon, you will be hooked beyond Pluto/Venus.Pluto/Venus will fade away as Pluto/Moon pushes you under the tidal wave of passion. The Moon is the tides . Moon/Pluto seems to leave people breathless more than any single aspect in synastry. This is because it is the union of your deepest heart with his primal passion. The moon represents a certain slice of oneself, whether we be a man or a woman. . The moon is the mother. You know the fierceness of a mother’s love. Think mother tiger. What would she do to protect her babies? That is what you would do to protect the man who touches your Moon with his Pluto. The same goes for him with you.The moon is our inner child . What do we love so much about children? They lead with their hearts. We open our heart to our lover when he touches our Moon with his Pluto. That is why Moon/Pluto is so powerful. It encompasses many different kinds of love which rarely go together. Think the love of a mother for a nursing baby. That is the intensity.

I will take a brief detour from passion to talk about soul, per se. Moon touching Moon is soul. This will be the case with a platonic friend, a child, a relative or a lover. Soul touching soul may be the most beautiful aspect to have, surpassing passion. See how your moon touches his if you want soul love. I do not think people can have soul love with moon square moon or moon opposed to moon. This is my personal opinion, only.

I cannot leave the topic of passion without talking about some of the asteroids. We have the dark asteroids, Nessus and Dejanira. These given a certain kind of passion, a dark passion. I have seen soul mate charts which do not have this dark passion. The relationship seems to last longer without it.Perhaps, the intensity which may burns up the longevity. These are speculations based on samples not large enough to form actual theories, so I will leave it in the realm of speculation. However, in my limited sample of readings, this seems to be the case in most of the Nessus/Dejanira relationships.

There are other asteroids for passion. Lilith is raw passion. When one person’s Lilith hits another’s planet or angle, one will experience raw passion. This passion is not dark, as in Nessus and Dejanira. It is simply passion that exists on it’s own. It is not soul, either. It is passion unleashed, would be the best way to phrase it. Each asteroid has a slightly different twist when we are talking about something love and passion. The Apollo asteroid is about worshipful adoration. When the woman’s planet touches the mans Apollo, she will worship him. The same would be true if his planet touched her Apollo. There are many other asteroids I could add here. I may do this, at a later time. However, this is a good start to answer the question of “What Makes for Passion?”

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posted March 02, 2014 04:55 PM            

In the synastry with a guy I recently met, his Pluto conj my Pluto and my Moon, and his Moon squares my Pluto and my Moon. Plus Mars trine Pluto and Pluto trine Venus.