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RedScorp
Knowflake Posts: 4934
From: The Sun
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted June 14, 2012 02:57 AM
  
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^ YES!
Oh, oh gee...yeah I can see how that would be uh, awkward, ahaha... IP: Logged |
Gem-Gurl
Knowflake Posts: 2050
From: Los Angeles, CA
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted June 14, 2012 04:00 AM
I wouldnt do an*l. Its ... gross. When he asks you "Why dont girls like an*l s*x?" Just ask him why HE wouldnt like it. Bam, problem solved! Unless.... you dont suppose he would be into that? Guess you dont know what to expect anymore..... you need a hug. *hugsies*IP: Logged |
Libreo
Knowflake Posts: 1180
From: Australia
Registered: Sep 2011
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posted June 14, 2012 04:04 AM
The thing is he is trying to tell me that girls love it.IP: Logged |
PixieJane
Moderator Posts: 5196
From: CA
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted June 14, 2012 04:11 AM
He's probably mistaking porn for real life. Many guys do. There are women who enjoy that, but I believe that most women who go along with that do it for him, not for herself (not that they necessarily mind). IP: Logged |
Libreo
Knowflake Posts: 1180
From: Australia
Registered: Sep 2011
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posted June 14, 2012 04:14 AM
I asked him this afternoon if he knows what that feels like and he screwed his nose up and said "no way, I'm a guy, I just know that girls love it". IP: Logged |
PixieJane
Moderator Posts: 5196
From: CA
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted June 14, 2012 04:21 AM
If you wanna mess with his head and/or turn the tables then google this for something that can help:bend over boyfriend IP: Logged |
Hera
Knowflake Posts: 8636
From: Olympus
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted June 14, 2012 04:25 AM
Been there, didn't do that. I had it worse, he wanted it done on him as well. Sag Sun
Gemini Moon
Sag Mercury
Sag Venus
Cap Mars
Scorpio Asc (his placements) IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 57030
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted June 14, 2012 05:12 AM
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Originally posted by Libreo:
....and he had me thinking (not intentionally) that I am in the minority of girls who don't want that, he insisted that most girls do and seemed genuinely shocked that I didn't or hadn't before. His words 'omg really? NEVER? Trust me you'll love it"" Well, no never and no one has ever suggested it to me either. So I asked friends today of both genders and they all said no too, my male friend said he didn't like doing it and my female friends said they would never do it.
FYI I am a Gemini venus and I would never do it  ------------------
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T
Knowflake Posts: 11039
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 14, 2012 05:15 AM
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Originally posted by Libreo:
I asked him this afternoon if he knows what that feels like and he screwed his nose up and said "no way, I'm a guy, I just know that girls love it".
Libro, run. Run as fast as you can. He's a pig. IP: Logged |
T
Knowflake Posts: 11039
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 14, 2012 05:20 AM
And it sounds like he thinks you are an idiot. Using the "ooh yeah, all girls love it! DIdnt you know???" thing....please stop entertaining him and letting him think he's going to get one over on you. Sounds like he thinks youre dumb or have low enough self esteem that he'll be able to convince you that it's the cool thing to do. If a guy was telling me the things he's saying to you, i'd be p*ssed. He's just hoping you'll believe him and do it eventually. He's trying to convince you it's cool and everyone's doing it and loves it. Ick. Get away from the creep-o now. I can't stand guys who try to play those kinds of games on girls. It's disgusting. IP: Logged |
T
Knowflake Posts: 11039
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 14, 2012 05:22 AM
unless of course you want to. loldoesnt sound like you do though. IP: Logged |
T
Knowflake Posts: 11039
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 14, 2012 05:29 AM
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Originally posted by PixieJane:
He's probably mistaking porn for real life. Many guys do.
Exactly  I could tell you some funny stories. IP: Logged |
birdy
Knowflake Posts: 1542
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Registered: Dec 2011
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posted June 14, 2012 05:34 AM
lol sorry to laugh but this is a funny thread.yeah the girls love it line....creepy. IP: Logged |
RedScorp
Knowflake Posts: 4934
From: The Sun
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted June 14, 2012 05:53 AM
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He's a pig.
I have a song for that!  Libreo, don't feel pressured into it, do what YOU want, if he...well, you get the idea.  IP: Logged |
FireMoon
Knowflake Posts: 2002
From: Minnesota
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted June 14, 2012 08:21 AM
Lol yeah, everyone else has said it best....Most girls DON'T try that or want to, so don't feel pressured into it I've never tried it and am glad that I haven't, it's a really awkward thing for someone to try to pressure you into lol IP: Logged |
DepTaurus
Knowflake Posts: 2265
From: canada
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 14, 2012 11:27 AM
funny you should mention the venus gemini and mars virgo combo because aren`t they in those signs right now.Libreo check if both Mars and Venus are conjunct his own Mars and Venus. IP: Logged |
RedScorp
Knowflake Posts: 4934
From: The Sun
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted June 14, 2012 12:18 PM
DepTau-tau, IP: Logged |
mercuranian
Knowflake Posts: 885
From: not here
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 14, 2012 12:24 PM
tell him the only way you'll try it is if he lets you strap one on and do it to him first.
oh, and tell him he'll love it.
i agree with the poster above who said she thinks its disgusting when guys play these mind games with girls
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Gem-Gurl
Knowflake Posts: 2050
From: Los Angeles, CA
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted June 14, 2012 02:03 PM
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Originally posted by Libreo:
The thing is he is trying to tell me that girls love it.
Oh hell no!! Whats he know? > : ( i agree with whoever said that next time he wants that, you strap one on and do him first!! If he doesnt like it well, tell him its the same diffrence.... IP: Logged |
ail221
Moderator Posts: 4922
From: Hanging Gardens of Babylon
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted June 14, 2012 04:41 PM
I have heard worse but its all according to your own personal preference. If you don't want to try then don't do it only do what you feel comfortable doing. Everyone has varying degrees of extremes in their sexuality. Some women do like that some don't, on a side note maybe he's become more comfortable with you to the level that he wants to try something that was hidden. Shrugs.IP: Logged |
Libreo
Knowflake Posts: 1180
From: Australia
Registered: Sep 2011
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posted June 14, 2012 05:03 PM
He's being very aggresive now. We had a talk last night and he was being very sincere and sweet and said the most moving things that he's never said before. Then I said that I didn't want to do it and his tone changed. Later on sure enough he tried to do it again and I said no and he became really grumpy and short with me. I DID suggest he try shoving something up there just to experience what he was asking me to do and he got angry and said I'm not a p**fter", and I said "well neither am I! I'm a girl, you obviously think that it's only something that gay men do so why are you asking me to do it? Do you think it would hurt you?" He told me "girls and guys do it all the time and it's way better than the other way" so I said "well I don't know what wer'e going to do now because now I know how you really feel about the other way". Iv'e never seen this side of him before, it obviously means a lot to him that I comply with his wishes. And I don't actually know what wer'e going to do now. Sorry I know we've veered off the subject of astrology. I was in a very happy loving relationship a few days ago.  IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 57030
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted June 14, 2012 05:12 PM
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Originally posted by Libreo:
He's being very aggresive now. We had a talk last night and he was being very sincere and sweet and said the most moving things that he's never said before. Then I said that I didn't want to do it and his tone changed. Later on sure enough he tried to do it again and I said no and he became really grumpy and short with me. I DID suggest he try shoving something up there just to experience what he was asking me to do and he got angry and said I'm not a p**fter", and I said "well neither am I! I'm a girl, you obviously think that it's only something that gay men do so why are you asking me to do it? Do you think it would hurt you?" He told me "girls and guys do it all the time and it's way better than the other way" so I said "well I don't know what wer'e going to do now because now I know how you really feel about the other way". Iv'e never seen this side of him before, it obviously means a lot to him that I comply with his wishes. And I don't actually know what wer'e going to do now. Sorry I know we've veered off the subject of astrology. I was in a very happy loving relationship a few days ago.
This is a BAD warning sign, imho. If he doesn't get off this kick, I would run.
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Libreo
Knowflake Posts: 1180
From: Australia
Registered: Sep 2011
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posted June 14, 2012 05:19 PM
Oh and another thing, he told me that he was talking about it with the boys at work, and their advice was to get my drunk first so that I'd be relaxed. I don't think he meant to reveal this, I think it slipped out. He's only just moved in and my kids adore him.IP: Logged |
birdy
Knowflake Posts: 1542
From:
Registered: Dec 2011
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posted June 14, 2012 05:23 PM
omg...he talked about it with guys at work.....okay I know everyone is different but that would bother me so much if my guy was talking about our sex life at work. I think one of the worst things people can do when theyre in a relationship is listen to other people. Most of the time people have best intentions but it's not their life and theyre just giving their 2 cents. You should go off on how you feel/want/need, and take advice without it influencing your feelings about things. IP: Logged |
mercuranian
Knowflake Posts: 885
From: not here
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 14, 2012 07:01 PM
dump his a**!!!
he's definitely not a keeper. i don't like the fact that his tone changed when he didn't get what he wanted. manipulative creepo.
also now that he's moved in and feels like he has you, you're going to start to see more of his REAL self, as opposed to his courting self, and i have a feeling you will not like what you see one bit. i have a feeling this is just the tip of the iceberg (no pun intended). sorry, i know his personality "type" a little too well.IP: Logged |
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