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posted June 16, 2012 06:59 AM            

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Some men are such woman-hating sh**heads, oh god. The OP's partner sure acts like one too.

1]An@l IMO is not kinky but one person's kink, is another person's vanilla. NO, most women don't go anywhere near it and that's a fact.
That's a BS excuse guys use to coerce women into doing it.

2]I always say, if he scratches my back, I shall scratch his. He wants a favour, well, he should do something for me too. You want an@l? Let's try strap-ons on you as well. Hey, I am not the one with the prostate!

3]Any man that does not respect his partner's wishes, should get his ass handed to him ASAP.

You should seriously consider dumping him, it's mindblowingly obvious he is into full manipulation mode at the moment.

PS. I have Venus in Gem. with Uranus opposing it and in the 8th H. Also my Mars is in Cancer.

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posted June 16, 2012 08:55 PM            

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I don't like how he seems so pushy and two faced.

That is scary.

On the idea that anal is kinky...um Idk.
I'm a virgin waitign for marriage but I don't find anything with my husband kinky.
I think the only things I would dislike--I mean be totally turned off to-- are any gory crap, cemetery crap, threesome, swingers, underage, cheating, and the peeing and pooping that is done. Ick!!

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posted June 16, 2012 08:57 PM            

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posted June 19, 2012 12:20 AM            

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Thinking about you.

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posted June 19, 2012 01:30 AM            

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Thankyou T. I am ok, he knows without a doubt that he stuffed up, I have made it clear thatif the little episode the other night EVER happens again he is out. It took him 2 days to face my daughter again, I spoke to his twin sister who is a police officer and she said this happens once in a blue moon and is just what their father used to do, she said if it ever happened again not to hesitate to call her no matter what time, and her and her husband (also a police officer) will be straight around immediately and they will take him off my hands until he sobers up. He has gone way out of his way to make it up to me and vows never to drink again. He updated his status on fb saying "never drinking again and I am such a lucky guy to have what Iv'e got now". I believe him. He's horrified at what he's done. The sex thing has also been forgotten.
Don't get me wrong I have not forgiven and forgotten, it's very much on my mind and he knows this. I have drummed it into his head until his squirming that I get flashbacks of it and continue to give him detailed descriptions of his behaviour. (None of which he remembers). It reduced him to tears. My role as a mother comes before anything else and he knows my children will not be bought up in that kind of environment. He seems to have so much more respect for me. I'm not being naive now, Iv'e seen a side of him that I wasn't aware of and now I'm very aware of it.
I really want to thank each and every one of you for your input, I wish I could give you all a big hug. I'm so thankful for your support. I didn't speak to anybody else about any of it, just you guys (and his twin). And I took note of everything you all said. Your advice and support is so much appreciated. xxx

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posted June 19, 2012 01:43 AM            

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Oh im so glad things are looking up!! iv also been wondering about you... over the weekend. But iv just been so busy!! Very glad you posted progress and that its so cool how were all here for eachother! Its an LL family *hugs* xxx

Glad you made your position clear and how he seems very willing to make everything right. And how your not letting him off easy, thats exellent. Now he (hopefully) will be forever on his best behavior. He knows whatll happen if he fks up again. Way to not be a pushover doll!!! Im so very proud of you!! XOXOXO

-Rebekah

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posted June 19, 2012 02:01 AM            

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Originally posted by Libreo:
Oh and another thing, he told me that he was talking about it with the boys at work, and their advice was to get my drunk first so that I'd be relaxed. I don't think he meant to reveal this, I think it slipped out. He's only just moved in and my kids adore him.

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OOOOmggggg, whyyyyyyyyyyyyyy are you with this guy???? This guy seems to have no respect for you.

And not becasue of his sexual preferences but because he does not respect your space, or your feelings or your intimate privacy. Wow i do not know how you put up with that. You deserve better, and he deserves to learn some lessons.

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posted June 19, 2012 06:37 AM            

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Well, I'm glad youve layed down the law and have his twin to back you up at least. Because you know you and your daughter/kids(?) don't need to deal with someone like him.

Or the way he was being.

Love to you, girly.

Don't put up with anymore bs. Make that his last chance.

You deserve the best.

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posted September 09, 2014 11:03 PM            

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I'm curious... what happened to your relationship Libreo?

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posted September 13, 2014 10:24 PM            

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^^

I doubt we'll get an answer, but hopefully the ending is similar to how this similar sitch from a deleted Twilight scene ended:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t76YW7cTaHw

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posted September 14, 2014 08:46 PM            

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Originally posted by PixieJane:
^^

I doubt we'll get an answer, but hopefully the ending is similar to how this similar sitch from a deleted Twilight scene ended:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t76YW7cTaHw

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haha that spoof is so funny!

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posted September 15, 2014 05:38 AM            

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Omg

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I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy.

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posted September 20, 2014 09:00 PM            

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Another one still open.

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