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Libreo
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posted June 14, 2012 12:33 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Libreo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I don't know if this is posted in the correct forum but, well, my bf has ummm, 'surprised' me recently and I was wondering, which placements are a bit, for want of a better word, 'kinky', or adventurous in the bedroom. He does have his Mars in Virgo, but nothing significant in Scorpio to my knowledge. I don't have his TOB but I can tell you he is Gemini sun conjunct Venus, Taurus moon, Mercury in Cancer and he also has a Sag singleton. Could have knocked me over with a feather I was that shocked.

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posted June 14, 2012 12:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Libreo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
....and to add to that it wasn't really a pleasant surprise either.

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sweet-scorpion
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posted June 14, 2012 12:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sweet-scorpion     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oh edit, never mind - I saw you said, he has Gemini Sun conjunct Venus. Well TBH, I believe that could be your answer.

Someone I know has Gem Venus. For years they were with a veeeery eccentric partner, who had sexual interests that they LIKED to divulge to us yet weren't even ashamed of telling about.

Their partner seemed to be on the secretly kinky side and I would not be shocked find out that they were too. Since they DID end up staying with the kinky-ish partner for quite some time, and weren't bothered by their habits (a lot of sex toys, weird hair fascination, porn obsession, etc.) to leave them!!

Not all Gem Venus people could be this way of course. But the person I know who has this had a shocking interest in partners and obviously, probably participated in the weird sex games with them. Why else did they talk about it and never leave them? Bizarre. (I still don't get why they ADMITTED it happened, like they were bothered by it but obviously weren't... dead give away to them being kink too IMO). I've read that Gemini Venus can also lead to some... on-and-off eccentric tastes in love. One very straight forward site even had the guts to say bisexuality! Maybe that's true. The person I'm acquainted with has never divulged about that.

Another possible idea is that his Virgo Mars is making him have suppressed sexual desires, and then he'll suddenly let it all out... in weird ways. Here's info I found on other LindaLand posts like this one.

"Virgo Suns, moons, Venuses and Mars are often noted for having a very strong fascination with sex that may or may not be acted out. Since Virgo peeps tends to fussy about their partners and other circustances they tend to have trouble expressing their own sexual desires and fantasies. In extreme cases (depending on life circumstance, childhood, and other astrological aspects in their chart), they can develop psycho-sexual issues due to inequality between their amount of sexual fantasizing and their lack of sexual expression, which may lead to strong interests in porn, S/M and more extreme fetishes. Virgo also tend to be highly idealistic, and often find early sexual expreiences unsatisfying because of these high ideals - this sometimes produces a self-destructive cycle in which the Virgo person might pursue more extreme sexual encounters in order to find sexual gratification."

It makes sense to me. Virgo can make one squash down emotional, sexual, etc. urges. Needing to be perfect can make a Virgo person so high strung and obsessive that they have a break down, for example. Needing to have the 'perfect' sex, the most gratifying sexual performance, etc. could make your guy have those bizarre or outside the norm interests too, as a way of going to extremes in trying to attain this ideal expression, that lead him to be seen as kinky and sexually 'off'. What do you think??

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Libreo
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posted June 14, 2012 12:35 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Libreo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
No Neptune, his Venus is in Gemini, mine is in Sag though, and even I'm not that way inclined.

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posted June 14, 2012 12:38 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RedScorp     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Virgo is a kinky enough sign, but are we talking like...extreme kinkiness? Pluto comes to mind for like, chains and stuff...maybe his house/Mars aspects play a role?

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posted June 14, 2012 12:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Libreo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well I think it's extreme, and I have spoken to friends to see if I'm the prude here and they have all said "No way I'd NEVER do that". It came out of nowhere he's like a whole new different person in my eyes now. I was kinda blaming the Virgo.

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posted June 14, 2012 12:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Libreo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sweet Scorpion you have hit the nail right on the head. This is the 'guy next door', clean cut, well mannered, almost boring ish (although not to me) although the bedroom shenanigans WERE a little on the dull side before now, and then with no warning he does this! After reading your post I'm feeling the pressure, I don't know if I should be flattered cause he's apparently fussy or if I should go hide behind a cupboard somewhere.

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posted June 14, 2012 12:56 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sweet-scorpion     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Libreo:
Sweet Scorpion you have hit the nail right on the head. This is the 'guy next door', clean cut, well mannered, almost boring ish (although not to me) although the bedroom shenanigans WERE a little on the dull side before now, and then with no warning he does this! After reading your post I'm feeling the pressure, I don't know if I should be flattered cause he's apparently fussy or if I should go hide behind a cupboard somewhere.

It seems with the Gem Venus and Virgo Mars combo you've got quite a handful. :/ As I said, Virgo Mars in itself will be very on-and-off like Gem Venus but even worse, since you'll probably get little to no forewarning or signs of him suddenly switching into a mode of intense and overwhelming sexuality. Gem Venus is more fickle on and off whereas Virgo Mars is more in your face, all or nothing sex.

It all depends on you. Does it make you feel uncomfortable and weird? Do you want to leave when he starts acting like this, just stop everything altogether? Is he even aware you feel like this about him? I'm a little worried for you since the eccentric partner the person I know was with was like that too. He was a clean-cut business man on the outside yet had all those weird sex issues behind closed doors. It's actually not very good at all IMO, to have that happen with someone. I personally dislike being deceived in partnerships especially about someone's true self. I can usually get the 'vibe' off of someone if they'd be more adventurous romantically versus shy and typical. In your case, Virgo Mars totally tricked you, and probably got the helping hand from the Gem Sun-Venus conjunction. As I said, it's how YOU feel, your comfort level. NOT about being flattered, or feeling like you should feel flattered over someone dumping sexual intensities/issues on you.

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posted June 14, 2012 12:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gem-Gurl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Libreo:
or if I should go hide behind a cupboard somewhere.

LOLOLOLOLOL!!! ^^^Thats funny. But im so mad that i clicked on this thread!!! My Gemini sun is dying of curiousness over here..... maybe its HIS gemmy-ness!!!! Im a kinky one O_O

If i think its weird, then it must be the virgo thing, cuz i think most virgos are weird..... HEY!! email me @ scarlettwolf1993@yahoo.com and ill let you know if its a gem or virgo thing.... you know, if you want. I just realized im sounding like some creepy sex obbsessed stalker or something.... ok take out the 'creepy' and the 'stalker' the rest is... true.

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posted June 14, 2012 01:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Libreo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Will do Gem Gurl, but he just got home so I will have to come back when the coast is clear!

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posted June 14, 2012 01:03 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gem-Gurl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Will do Gem Gurl, but he just got home so I will have to come back when the coast is clear!

Ok!! Lol i was just re-reading my post thinking i really do sound like a total perv weirdo..... but you didnt laugh me out of your thread so yay!!! Ill do my best to help. Although, if i were you id pay more attention to Sweet-Scorpion. Shes/Hes the real deal!! And yeah, if you feel, like, violated... thats not healthy, a bit worrisom you know?

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posted June 14, 2012 01:11 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for FireMoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Haha Gem sun and venus? I'd be willing to bet I can guess what this kinky/creepy thing he wanted to do was.... email me as well if you want lol (filia009@umn.edu)

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posted June 14, 2012 01:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Libreo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Fire Moon it's not a threesome!

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posted June 14, 2012 01:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ail221     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Kinky like 50 shades of grey? LOL

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posted June 14, 2012 01:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for FireMoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Not what I was thinking promise! Just can't exactly post it here lol

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posted June 14, 2012 01:23 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ail221     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Libreo:
Sweet Scorpion you have hit the nail right on the head. This is the 'guy next door', clean cut, well mannered, almost boring ish (although not to me) although the bedroom shenanigans WERE a little on the dull side before now, and then with no warning he does this! After reading your post I'm feeling the pressure, I don't know if I should be flattered cause he's apparently fussy or if I should go hide behind a cupboard somewhere.

Now that I think about it my ex was a double Virgo he had a very eccentric sexuality. Granted this was when we were in high school therefore it could have developed into something now......but I have also noticed this with Venus is Aquarius...

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posted June 14, 2012 01:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for FireMoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Was an it an attempted penetration of something unexpected… Something that’s never been ummm explored before? Sorry if this is inappropriate, will delete if is…

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posted June 14, 2012 01:45 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Libreo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
^ YES!

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posted June 14, 2012 01:45 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Libreo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
So then it's the Gem at fault not the Virgo!??

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posted June 14, 2012 01:48 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for FireMoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Lol lucky guess on my part! And yes I would say so...

The majority of guys I've been interested in have had Gem Venus or somewhere else prominent in their charts so I know a thing or two about their kinky fantasies...

What is his sun sign? Is he a Cancer?

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posted June 14, 2012 01:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Libreo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
....and he had me thinking (not intentionally) that I am in the minority of girls who don't want that, he insisted that most girls do and seemed genuinely shocked that I didn't or hadn't before. His words 'omg really? NEVER? Trust me you'll love it"" Well, no never and no one has ever suggested it to me either. So I asked friends today of both genders and they all said no too, my male friend said he didn't like doing it and my female friends said they would never do it.

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posted June 14, 2012 01:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Libreo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Lol lucky guess on my part! And yes I would say so...

The majority of guys I've been interested in have had Gem Venus or somewhere else prominent in their charts so I know a thing or two about their kinky fantasies...

What is his sun sign? Is he a Cancer?



Sun Gem
Moon Taurus
Mercury Cancer
Mars Virgo

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posted June 14, 2012 01:53 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for FireMoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Haha I agree with you Libreo, and understand the difficult situation you're in...

Trust me it's him not you, and if we're attributing it to astrology I would most definitely say it's the Gemini...

Just decide for yourself what you're comfortable with and let him know where your boundaries are and that he should respect them!

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posted June 14, 2012 02:14 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dreaming111     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Are you guys using code for up the behind?

I'm so confused. I thought kinky as in he wanted it up his, and she would somehow do that for him.

I guess you mean that he wants to do it up the female's?

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Libreo
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posted June 14, 2012 02:48 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Libreo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yeah we are and call me a prude but I think it's kinky. It's more of a shock than anything though because he's so 'wholesome' on the outside. I can also sense more weird things to come that are just under the surface. Other things he's hinted at, stange toys etc....
And today he comes home and wer'e all back to being straight up and normal again. What the? How many people is a Gemini person anyway?

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