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Topic: I feel like I'm living a double life
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LionFish
Knowflake Posts: 592
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Registered: Aug 2012
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posted June 05, 2013 04:08 PM
  
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
Chances are Pisces Venus will always have a hard time with the blunt judgments and self righteousness of the Sag planets, or sun. Not sure if her mother's Mercury is in Sag as well. Venus has tender feelings in Pisces and can be hurt by Sag.
My Sag Mars square Merc wants to say "Suck it up and deal with it" :/ We all choose the path we take and have to deal with the consequences or reap the rewards of those paths. The consequence in this case would be having her mother disapprove of her, but goatcat made the decision to do the things she does knowing her mother's views...
I do empathize, but I have no pity for the situation. You make the choices you make and you have to handle the outcomes, whether they are pleasant or not. IP: Logged |
goatcat
Knowflake Posts: 868
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Registered: Nov 2012
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posted June 05, 2013 04:08 PM
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Originally posted by sweet-scorpion:
I'm not sure why you feel the need to reveal things of this nature to your mom... it appears that smoking weed subconsciously causes you guilt. Why else would you feel the need to get your skeletons out of the closet and reveal them to her? It seems that this secret is eating away at you because perhaps deep down you recognize how upset she'd be if she ever knew. This is just my 2 cents... feel free to disagree with me.
I feel guilty that she doesn't know that I smoke. Nobody or anything could ever make me feel guilty about smoking weed. Nobody can ever make me feel bad about showing off my body. That's just the way I am, and I feel guilty that my mom has no idea...
I could care less about the rest of my family knowing about who I really am. It's just my mother who's raised me pretty much by herself my whole life doesn't have a clue of who I am. And my point is if I was a mother, I would want to know what my kids are doing. I feel that there comes a point in parenthood that your kids begin to teach you lessons that you may not have learned or experienced. I feel like my mother can learn a lot thru me if she really knew about me. But I know how she is. IP: Logged |
goatcat
Knowflake Posts: 868
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posted June 05, 2013 04:21 PM
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Originally posted by LionFish:
My Sag Mars square Merc wants to say "Suck it up and deal with it" :/
I have Mercury opposite Mars! IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
Knowflake Posts: 1436
From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted June 05, 2013 04:22 PM
You either have a mom you can talk to or one you can't, it seems. My mother has never really gone out of her way to foster direct communication. Whenever I didn't like going somewhere she always demanded to be told exactly why in vivid detail with nothing left unspoken and that scared me so all I could answer was "I don't know I just don't want to go" and that would make her even angrier. She had Virgo planets but they are sorta like Sag ones in a lot of ways. When you are a parent, goatcat, maybe you will have a different way of communicating with your kids than your mom does with you so they will tell you stuff without being anxious or scared. You have nothing to feel guilty about because you will raise them to feel secure in telling you everything. It has to be a two way street. It's difficult communicating with people who are overly anxious and judgmental. Yes, you would want to know everything and they will tell you because they know it is safe to. When a feeling of basic security is lacking, you don't really feel much like disclosing and it's not your fault. IP: Logged |
Pisces-Sweety
Knowflake Posts: 558
From: Under the Sea
Registered: Aug 2012
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posted June 05, 2013 04:35 PM
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Originally posted by 7thGuardian:
Well, you posed a personal question on a public forum - a question for which only you seem to know the appropriate answer. The others gave you their resolve - based on their relation with their mothers. If you find their responses crazy - maybe you're heavily influenced by your mother - while the others... not so much, so for them it's "normal". Same applies to me - I have so little in common with my mother that - we can't even compliment each-other (as if we're from different worlds)... so yeah - i don't tell her much about me. She wouldn't be interested anyway - as she finds my way of thinking and my subjects of interest - to unorthodox... incomprehensible.
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Jessica2407
Knowflake Posts: 2163
From: Saturn
Registered: Sep 2012
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posted June 06, 2013 12:32 AM
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Originally posted by goatcat:
Oh that's wrong.
That's so wrong. My drug dealer supports his family with the money he earns. He loves life but hates money and would rather make his money the easy way while he can. He doesn't want a 9-5 because life is short. Some people have unconventional jobs. He shouldn't be respected if he was raping and killing people, but he's not. He's selling weed. That's it.
Excuse me? you think a 9-5 job is an easy way at earning money?
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Jessica2407
Knowflake Posts: 2163
From: Saturn
Registered: Sep 2012
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posted June 06, 2013 12:35 AM
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Originally posted by goatcat:
How do I sound selfish and self-centered? Honest question because I don't wanna come off that way.
Because you don't seem to understand the concept of making someone else happy. IP: Logged |
goatcat
Knowflake Posts: 868
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posted June 06, 2013 01:59 AM
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Originally posted by Jessica2407:
Excuse me? you think a 9-5 job is an easy way at earning money?
You read that wrong. I was saying that getting a 9-5 is a conventional way to make money. IP: Logged |
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