posted April 27, 2014 06:34 PM            

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Originally posted by LoadedPistil:
Invoking a common enemy...
Mob psychology...

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posted April 27, 2014 06:45 PM            

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Originally posted by Venusincap89:
It is my understanding that both parties were evidently attracted to each other. I think what we should focus on is how the guy responded to such situation, rather than who initiated. With that being said, we must discuss the best options for Sambam. What's done cannot be undone

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posted April 27, 2014 06:45 PM            

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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:

Well, apparently you know certain things... with so much good knowledge in your Pistil, you should have known better

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posted April 27, 2014 06:46 PM            

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Originally posted by Venusincap89:
It is my understanding that the attraction between both parties were evident. I think what we should focus on is how the guy responded to such situation, rather than who initiated. With that being said, we must discuss the best options for Sambam. What's done cannot be undone

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You're right. I know Sambam doesn't care about my "self-righteous" "outdated" advice , but just for the sake of the thread, as an astrologer and a Leo Moon/Virgo Venus, I think you should let him chase you, with his astral configuration, if he really liked you, he will do that.

posted April 27, 2014 06:47 PM            

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Originally posted by LoadedPistil:
Separation anxiety

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posted April 27, 2014 06:48 PM            

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Originally posted by LoadedPistil:
Separation anxiety

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posted April 27, 2014 06:49 PM            

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Originally posted by sambam:
Hahahaaaaa!!!

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Can't leave folks alone.

posted April 27, 2014 06:54 PM            

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Originally posted by LoadedPistil:
Can't leave folks alone.

Anyway, if you do continue seeing him, I'd be interested in the synastry.

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posted April 27, 2014 06:58 PM            

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Originally posted by Odette:
It sounds like a culture clash to me, at least partially.

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posted April 27, 2014 07:05 PM            

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Originally posted by LoadedPistil:
This is fun, excitement and attraction like being at an amusement park. You'll have a lot of fun when you're together.

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posted April 27, 2014 07:18 PM            

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Ok I haven't read all the replies here but based on my knowledge of Eastern EU men.. more specifically Russian men... and even more specifically fixed sign men who are Russian - They can be pretty traditional, bordering on sexist.
Any man (regardless of nationality/culture) with significant fixed-sign influence in his chart - is already pretty traditional. Leo, Aquarius, Taurus and Scorpio will wait a very long time to 'get' the woman of their dreams, if necessary. If she says no to physical things (including sex) - they would respect her boundaries.
Sure - they might push for some action - but they would have more respect for a woman who puts her foot down and says "no way" - as opposed to "maybe" .. (Specially on a first date).

However - a Leo coming from a more open minded culture(eg if he was Danish) - could maybe look past this and forget his ideals of "purity" for the sake of egalitarianism.
But a Russian guy? No way.

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posted April 27, 2014 07:22 PM            

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Originally posted by sambam:
Yea,we did actually!! Bedroom mess aside we had a blast! Lots of laughing,jokes,wine, and just an overall good time. Neither of us wanted to separate but I now wish I had. He's so pouty now. He doesn't disappear for more than 2days without texting or calling and if I act irritated by how he's acting he immediately reels it back. I feel like he's being immature but damn,I wonder how long I can expect this huffing and puffin to last? :-(

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I pout for a while when I'm upset in a relationship. Conversely, I can handle a long puffer if I know I messed up. If I feel my puffing isn't being catered to, I'll feel you don't care. I feel usually I'm right although I am willing to be proven wrong.
You have his attention. I can tell you that. Leos cling to their love interests, so even two days seems a while.
I don't feel like all is lost.

posted April 27, 2014 07:30 PM            

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Originally posted by sambam:
As I said earlier hindsight is 20/20. Could I have made better decisions? Probably. We were both drinking. His place was closer to us and at 3am I would have gotten home around 5am. Either way,let's keep the judgments to a minimum. Thanks!

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You can't put your business out there on a public forum and not expect someone to judge you..that's not how it works boo..

posted April 27, 2014 07:31 PM            

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I pout for a while when I'm upset in a relationship. Conversely, I can handle a long puffer if I know I messed up. If I feel my puffing isn't being catered to, I'll feel you don't care. I feel usually I'm right although I am willing to be proven wrong.
You have his attention. I can tell you that. Leos cling to their love interests, so even two days seems a while.
I don't feel like all is lost.

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posted April 27, 2014 07:54 PM            

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Originally posted by sambam:
Here's the thing. The moonchild in me wants to cater to his tantrum,hug,kiss and makeup but I'm reluctant that it makes him feel everytime things don't go his way that we'll be at square one and I'll be forced to cater to his fits again. I've chosen to be nice but just almost ignore him pouting. I guess I'm wondering if this makes him feel like I don't care or he'll just get over it in his own time and we'll move on. I also get the feeling that he goes through my social media. When he called me back today he said "how's school?" And my friend tagged me in a pic this morning from our study group yesterday.I feel like he's acting so tough but he clearly is snooping...

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We snoop!!! There's a whole thread on that. ( Leos being nosy kinda title) You not catering to his tantrum may be a problem. I'm Cancer Rising, so I can't help but coddle that puffer fish pisces. I LITERALLY rock and kiss profusely. Come sit on my lap. * arms stretched * it's my nature. I'm thinking that will fix his 'tude. You don't have to have sex with him to snap out of it.

posted April 27, 2014 08:01 PM            

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Originally posted by LoadedPistil:
We snoop!!! There's a whole thread on that. ( Leos being nosy kinda title) You not catering to his tantrum may be a problem. I'm Cancer Rising, so I can't help but coddle that puffer fish pisces. I LITERALLY rock and kiss profusely. Come sit on my lap. * arms stretched * it's my nature. I'm thinking that will fix his 'tude. You don't have to have sex with him to snap out of it.

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posted April 27, 2014 08:10 PM            

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Hmm...ok that makes sense but they're was no maybe. He was told no even before we went to his place. It seems as though he's pouting because nothing happened. Any insight?

Sam

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I think he has a madonna-wh0re complex, like most extra traditional men - and now he doesn't know which box to put you in, so he's confused. In my opinion this is what he meant by saying he's 'still thinking about the experience'.
He initially thought you were the good little wifey type (but - according to tradition- this 'type' wouldn't have stayed up all night and gone home with him on a first date). Later in the night he thought you might be the wh0re type .. and hence sleep with him eventually (considering the amount of money he spent on you). But now you're in a weird grey area that is too much for his closed-minded self to process.

posted April 27, 2014 08:14 PM            

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was told no even before we went to his place.

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posted April 27, 2014 08:15 PM            

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Originally posted by Odette:
I think he has a madonna-wh0re complex, like most extra traditional men - and now he doesn't know which box to put you in, so he's confused. In my opinion this is what he meant by saying he's 'still thinking about the experience'.
He initially thought you were the good little wifey type (but - according to tradition- this 'type' wouldn't have stayed up all night and gone home with him on a first date). Later in the night he thought you might be the wh0re type .. and hence sleep with him eventually (considering the amount of money he spent on you). But now you're in a weird grey area that is too much for his closed-minded self to process.

This is just my honest opinion. I'm sorry if it sounds harsh. I don't know the guy, but based on the details I have this would be my interpretation.

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posted April 27, 2014 08:18 PM            

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Originally posted by Odette:
He didn't believe that no. He thought you were bluffing.
A 'real' goodie goodie would've taken a taxi back to her place. He spent $500 - Surely he could afford a taxi.

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posted April 27, 2014 08:21 PM            

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Originally posted by Odette:
I am not at all judgmental of you by the way. Your behaviour was perfectly fine in my book. I am only judgmental of men with his mindset.

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