posted April 27, 2014 10:55 PM            

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Originally posted by sambam:
[B He's Russian and im Haitian btw...while on the date he couldn't stop talking about my eyes,thick black hair and dark.skin[/B]

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I feel like this sums up what went down...

posted April 27, 2014 10:57 PM            

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Originally posted by Kerosene:
I feel like this sums up what went down...

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posted April 27, 2014 10:58 PM            

SamBam, you're welcome!

posted April 27, 2014 11:01 PM            

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Originally posted by Odette:
Ok I haven't read all the replies here but based on my knowledge of Eastern EU men.. more specifically Russian men... and even more specifically fixed sign men who are Russian - They can be pretty traditional, bordering on sexist.
Any man (regardless of nationality/culture) with significant fixed-sign influence in his chart - is already pretty traditional. Leo, Aquarius, Taurus and Scorpio will wait a very long time to 'get' the woman of their dreams, if necessary. If she says no to physical things (including sex) - they would respect her boundaries.
Sure - they might push for some action - but they would have more respect for a woman who puts her foot down and says "no way" - as opposed to "maybe" .. (Specially on a first date).

However - a Leo coming from a more open minded culture(eg if he was Danish) - could maybe look past this and forget his ideals of "purity" for the sake of egalitarianism.
But a Russian guy? No way.

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posted April 27, 2014 11:07 PM            

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Originally posted by Kerosene:
Ehhh actually it was not entertained by the thread more like second hand embarrassment because there was nothing worth arguing about..

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True. Things were pretty clear from the start.

posted April 27, 2014 11:20 PM            

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Originally posted by DeepFreeze:
As a Leo with Virgo Venus (gem moon)

He expected to be completely irresistible to you. He wanted you to utterly worship him and be defenseless to his advances.
Since that was not the case he has gone cold to pout, show you that he could care less (though he does care), and most important as a test to pull away to see if you'll come running. (the whole irresistible thing.)

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posted April 27, 2014 11:21 PM            

Must suck to be a hetero leo man because most women want a man to be less focused on his own vanity and on her desirability..

But in all fairness most men spend a fraction of the time getting ready unlike women so yeah I've never heard women being like OMG MY MAN LOOKS SO BEAUTIFUL TODAY LIKE WOW I'M SO IMPRESSED.

posted April 27, 2014 11:28 PM            

Oh And I have an Aries rising! Lol

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Originally posted by Kerosene:
My dad is like that...

Must suck to be a hetero leo man because most women want a man to be less focused on his own vanity and on her desirability..

But in all fairness most men spend a fraction of the time getting ready unlike women so yeah I've never heard women being like OMG MY MAN LOOKS SO BEAUTIFUL TODAY LIKE WOW I'M SO IMPRESSED.

because he looks like that everyday lol..

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posted April 27, 2014 11:46 PM            

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Originally posted by Kerosene:
But in all fairness most men spend a fraction of the time getting ready unlike women so yeah I've never heard women being like OMG MY MAN LOOKS SO BEAUTIFUL TODAY LIKE WOW I'M SO IMPRESSED.

because he looks like that everyday lol..

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That's what they want. Then they just have to throw a button down shirt on and she's like:

"My man is a SEX GOD!"

posted April 28, 2014 12:16 AM            

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Originally posted by sambam:
And what do you usually expect the person to do? Coddle you? And if they do don't you just feel like they've given in and lose respect for them? Or no?

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It's tricky. lol

If they get clingy and attached too soon... "later!"
like a middle ground thing but everyone is different.
He's not behaving like I would in the same circumstance but I do understand I think.
I'm quite a bit more patient.

posted April 28, 2014 01:11 AM            

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Originally posted by sambam:
Also,have any of you dated a Leo male? If ao,what was your experience? Good,bad,happy,sad? Would love to hear from you. Don't forget to add your sun,Venus,mars and asc : )

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Mmm well I have dated leo ladies xD but I will contribute to get the others going or something
My experience with leos have been wonderful and I love the positive vibes that they have, they are really wonderful.
For me though, I couldn't handle the amount of attention that they demanded [venus in leos]
Maybe culture played a role in my case as well? Since I am asian and the leo lady was Jamaican. But then again last 6 girlfriends of mine were Jamaican or Carribean background, except that one south asian/indian lady I dated, and I didn't find culture differences to be problematic so...
And I really liked how this one leo lady told me that I was pretty often xD I would be able to be playful with them, and we would be able to laugh for a long time xD

I have Leo rising, sag sun, aries moon, sag mercury, cap venus, scorpio mars.

My leo rising attracted a lot of leo mars and leo venus ladies but due to my scorpio mars...
ugh nvm

posted April 28, 2014 04:10 AM            

The thing is, it wouldn't matter whether you kissed him on the first date, kissed him with tongues, let him do naughty things to you on your lady bits, or had full-blown sex. If you're two mutually consenting adults then what's the problem.

Just never assume he will see you as "girlfriend" material afterwards, that's all.

I kissed and even had sex with a guy on our first date (admittedly I was on holiday) ... I ended up staying with him for three years. Other times I've held out for as many dates as possible and the romance STILL fizzled out pretty quick. There are no set rules really. It's just that men often see things as black and white and if you were able to share a bed with him, then he may have assumed you were up for more.

Him "thinking about the experience" might actually be him thinking: "does she do this with ALL guys on her first dates?" It's just how men are, it sounds old-fashioned I know, but some things will never change when it comes to men's attitudes to women and sex.

posted April 28, 2014 05:56 AM            

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Originally posted by Kerosene:
I feel like this sums up what went down...

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Ha HAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!!!!!!!!

This thread!!!!!

posted April 28, 2014 05:59 AM            

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Originally posted by sambam:
Also,have any of you dated a Leo male? If ao,what was your experience? Good,bad,happy,sad? Would love to hear from you. Don't forget to add your sun,Venus,mars and asc : )

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Horrid. They're too childish!!! I once said, "I'm too old for games" he said, "Games make it fun"

NO🙅 I'm surprised he let you know he's been snooping because the men usually abuse what they find, not confront.

posted April 28, 2014 08:57 AM            

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Originally (posted by LoadedPistil:
Horrid. They're too childish!!! I once said, "I'm too old for games" he said, "Games make it fun"

NO🙅 I'm surprised he let you know he's been snooping because the men usually abuse what they find, not confront.

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posted April 28, 2014 08:59 AM            

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Originally (posted by LoadedPistil:
Horrid. They're too childish!!! I once said, "I'm too old for games" he said, "Games make it fun"

NO🙅 I'm surprised he let you know he's been snooping because the men usually abuse what they find, not confront.

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posted April 28, 2014 09:00 AM            

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Originally (posted by LoadedPistil:
Horrid. They're too childish!!! I once said, "I'm too old for games" he said, "Games make it fun"

NO🙅 I'm surprised he let you know he's been snooping because the men usually abuse what they find, not confront.

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posted April 28, 2014 09:09 AM            

Yea,just find his pouting excessive and even though I want to talk about it and fix it I wonder if it's even worth the effort. While on the date,chemistry seemed off the charts but this?! Not fun :-/.

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Originally posted by Jo B:
Wow, this thread got a bit active since I last looked.

The thing is, it wouldn't matter whether you kissed him on the first date, kissed him with tongues, let him do naughty things to you on your lady bits, or had full-blown sex. If you're two mutually consenting adults then what's the problem.

Just never assume he will see you as "girlfriend" material afterwards, that's all.

I kissed and even had sex with a guy on our first date (admittedly I was on holiday) ... I ended up staying with him for three years. Other times I've held out for as many dates as possible and the romance STILL fizzled out pretty quick. There are no set rules really. It's just that men often see things as black and white and if you were able to share a bed with him, then he may have assumed you were up for more.

Him "thinking about the experience" might actually be him thinking: "does she do this with ALL guys on her first dates?" It's just how men are, it sounds old-fashioned I know, but some things will never change when it comes to men's attitudes to women and sex.

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posted April 28, 2014 09:20 AM            

It would if I felt I did something to him...but yea no. Part of me wants to have an honest convo about it so we can move on. The other part says "girl,run!".

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Originally posted by foxxyxo:
he sounds extremely insecure and immature. my bets are if you were to have given him what he wanted your relationship would heat up fast and end even faster...from my experience leos have a really hard time controlling their impulses, what you see is what you get emotionally wise. and they get really clingy as well....since you wanted your space he took this personally and his passion probably has died/his pride is hurt....its hard to win with them because they are so freakin stubborn

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posted April 28, 2014 09:28 AM            

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Originally posted by Venusincap89:
Mmm well I have dated leo ladies xD but I will contribute to get the others going or something
My experience with leos have been wonderful and I love the positive vibes that they have, they are really wonderful.
For me though, I couldn't handle the amount of attention that they demanded [venus in leos]
Maybe culture played a role in my case as well? Since I am asian and the leo lady was Jamaican. But then again last 6 girlfriends of mine were Jamaican or Carribean background, except that one south asian/indian lady I dated, and I didn't find culture differences to be problematic so...
And I really liked how this one leo lady told me that I was pretty often xD I would be able to be playful with them, and we would be able to laugh for a long time xD

I have Leo rising, sag sun, aries moon, sag mercury, cap venus, scorpio mars.

My leo rising attracted a lot of leo mars and leo venus ladies but due to my scorpio mars...
ugh nvm

anyways leos are really wonderful but I think they are best matched with venus in cancers or fellow venus in leos xD

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