posted April 27, 2014 08:34 PM            

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Originally posted by Venusian Moon:
Wtf. I was very interested in this thread until grandma and great grandma came in preaching and nagging.

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posted April 27, 2014 08:36 PM            

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Originally posted by sambam:
My issue earlier was just the bad energy and all that self righteous preaching.

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posted April 27, 2014 08:41 PM            

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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
That's a stupid comment and you've crossed the line. Being told by someone that maybe you've made a mistake and that you had other choices doesn't make that person "with bad energy' and a "self-righteous" preacher. I was respectful to you and if you can't take criticism without feeling "judged" and with respect for the one who criticizes you, then don't come to a public forum and generally expect not to be respected in real life either.

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posted April 27, 2014 08:49 PM            

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Originally posted by Venusian Moon:

No leeloo u crossed the line. U kept going and going and going on and basically hijacked the thread about how u are the perfect human and would never spread her legs or use tongue on the first date. Blah blah. No one cares. If u want to be praised for being perfect then heres a doggy biscuit. Go fetch!!!

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You got it all wrong, I do it all the time, that's how I know what the Russian thinks

posted April 27, 2014 08:51 PM            

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Originally posted by Venusian Moon:

No leeloo u crossed the line. U kept going and going and going on and basically hijacked the thread about how u are the perfect human and would never spread her legs or use tongue on the first date. Blah blah. No one cares. If u want to be praised for being perfect then heres a doggy biscuit. Go fetch!!!

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posted April 27, 2014 08:59 PM            

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Originally posted by sambam:
Girl,don't even give it that! let's just continue a fun thread without the negativity. She can have several seats. Moving on...

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Yes, it's a very "fun" thread to insult someone who took the time to look at your thread and tried to give an honest and respectful answer.

posted April 27, 2014 09:14 PM            

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Originally posted by sambam:
Like you insulted me? Girl,bye! You are not the only person w/ your views. You are the only idiot who went a nagging,annoying saga about it. Seriously,let it go...move the F#ck on already! You are sooo needy. This isn't about you. There are plenty other threads to hijack...it was positive and fun before you came in standing on your pulpit! Good riddance granny buzzkill!

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Congrats, bambam, finally showing us your real class! The Russian got himself a classy lady!

posted April 27, 2014 09:41 PM            

You really had no business going back to his place if you had no intention of sleeping with him. What universe do you live in where a guy drops 500 benjamins on a chick and not expect a little action afterwards..girl get real! And if it would have been 5 am by the time you got home and just HAD to go back to his place you DEFINITELY should not have slept in his bed, you knew damn well he was going to try and get some. Either you're a tease or you're EXTREMELY naive. He should have slept on the couch and YOU in his bed ALONE, if you guys were truly going to keep it innocent.

posted April 27, 2014 09:51 PM            

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Originally posted by Venusincap89:
I would like to apologize to Sambam, as well as anybody who has viewed this thread, if I have come off as a preacher or a grandma.

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posted April 27, 2014 09:55 PM            

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Originally posted by sambam:
You were fine. I only had an issue with ONE person on this thread and it had nothing to do with a difference of opinion. I enjoyed speaking with almost everyone wether they agreed with me or not. The above poster won't even be addressed as she clearly skipped a few pages. Moving on. Either we can all continue to enjoy conversation or get ugly. And if it gets ugly I can ignore this thread all together as this has gotten waaay out of hand!

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No I read them and my opinion still stands, feel free to ignore if you'd like as I'm sure you will as you only want to hear things you AGREE with. Take care! Good luck!

posted April 27, 2014 10:17 PM            

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Makes sense. Do you think cutting communication for a while is cold then?

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Ow no not at all. He clearly promised not to try anything sexual. BUT.. he did. Red flag red flag red flag.

Well, what's a word still worth if we can't rely on it?

posted April 27, 2014 10:31 PM            

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Originally posted by babybull82:
Honestly, I don't think anybody cares if you ****** him or not, but you can't get all up in your feelings if people give you an opinion. To be honest this isn't even an astrology issue it's more of a dating issue.

You really had no business going back to his place if you had no intention of sleeping with him. What universe do you live in where a guy drops 500 benjamins on a chick and not expect a little action afterwards..girl get real! And if it would have been 5 am by the time you got home and just HAD to go back to his place you DEFINITELY should not have slept in his bed, you knew damn well he was going to try and get some. Either you're a tease or you're EXTREMELY naive. He should have slept on the couch and YOU in his bed ALONE, if you guys were truly going to keep it innocent.

Now you wondering why he's acting funny...

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Nobody cares if she screwed him or not? So why are u in here lecturing her about how much of a bad girl she is for sleeping in his bed. Dont come in here acting like ur a virgin. What are u gonna spank her now and send her to her room? Thats how stupid ur making yourself look right now. Ur not her mother so tone it down. This isnt the 1400's. quit exagerrating old lady.

posted April 27, 2014 10:32 PM            

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Originally posted by mir:
Ow no not at all. He clearly promised not to try anything sexual. BUT.. he did. Red flag red flag red flag.

Well, what's a word still worth if we can't rely on it?

Same story with the call promise. No apology, nothing.

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posted April 27, 2014 10:33 PM            

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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
You girls feel like wh0res as soon as "grandma" tells you not to get in bed with him on the first date. Man, aren't we touchy on the subject! Talk about a bulletproof confident feminist self-image...

Let's shoot "grandma"

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posted April 27, 2014 10:40 PM            

On topic though:

If I really liked this dude then I'd get it all out in the open. I'd tell him what I think about what happened, ask his intentions and be really direct about not wanting to play around. If he doesn't answer genuinely then I'd throw in the towel immediately.

I know quite a few Russian men and from what I've witnessed, Odette is spot on about their behavior and attitude.

I wish you the best of luck though.

P.S. My face reading through this thread.

posted April 27, 2014 10:53 PM            

Did op post his chart?

posted April 27, 2014 10:55 PM            

Hahahahaha! I almost fell out at your pic! Yea,this thread has become outrageous!

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Originally posted by MsPrism:
SamBam, just dropping in to say you're a boss. I love you already.

On topic though:

If I really liked this dude then I'd get it all out in the open. I'd tell him what I think about what happened, ask his intentions and be really direct about not wanting to play around. If he doesn't answer genuinely then I'd throw in the towel immediately.

I know quite a few Russian men and from what I've witnessed, Odette is spot on about their behavior and attitude.

I wish you the best of luck though.

P.S. My face reading through this thread.

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posted April 27, 2014 10:55 PM            

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Originally posted by Kerosene:
Lawl yeah.

Did op post his chart?

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