posted September 23, 2014 06:00 PM            

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Originally posted by DeepFreeze:

Funny that this started out as a question. If you are so convinced of the answer then don't waste people's time by asking. How about that?

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Preach! Some people are more Catholic than the pope.

posted September 23, 2014 06:01 PM            

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Originally posted by Nine:
This is hilarious coming from a Libra. I would bet anything that you ARE a stereotypical intense & jealous ViS. I don't care what you say here, your behavior betrays you argument. I know Libra.

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posted September 23, 2014 06:03 PM              

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Originally posted by LucieLemonade:
Intense and jealous are not the same thing.

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Exactly. Intense I am, very much so, jealous not all nor have I ever been. I'm just not understanding how the question was for those of us who are NOT jealous and it's turned into shitshamming and calling all of us who answered the question liars.

posted September 23, 2014 06:17 PM              

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Originally posted by bethbabe:
Hey neptune!

My friend who is venus, moon and pluto in Scorpio, she's not the jealous type set all. At least, I have known her for 10 yrs and have never seen that side of her.

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I knew someone with the three conjunction in Scorpio as well. He was also a scorp rising. Not a jealous guy at all. In fact the least jealous man I've dated.

posted September 23, 2014 06:23 PM              

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Originally posted by Geeky:
Oh & NTN:

I am also a Virgo Sun, but I have a Sagittarius Moon. I think if I had more Water in my chart, my Scorpio Venus may be more "Scorpionic" but I am very low in Water.

All of that said, I have no idea how old you are, but when I was younger, I was very insecure, which often led to jealous behaviors.

It could have been immaturity, but I think in my case, it was more likely the lack of a father figure and my need for attention/love. I had a very unstable upbringing and a VERY bad model for relationships, so I was only going on what I learned.

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I'm a Capricorn Venus. We're supposed to be all cool and calm but I'm actually a very jealous person. Like overly so. you bring up some great points. I think many times jealousy is a result of conditioning. Probably a Scorpio Venus would be more likely to respond to cues from early life and the opposite sex and become jealous more easily than a libra Venus or something, but I believe everyone has the potential at birth.

posted September 23, 2014 06:37 PM            

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Intense and jealous are not the same thing.

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Being jealous and not, much as having a personality and not having one, is a figure of speech. Everyone has a personality. The person who is said to not possess one is called boring in other terms.

Jealousy is an emotion and everyone feels it. Scorpio, among other things, is the sign of intensity - it brings a certain intensity to that which it touches. As a water sign it dwells in the emotional realms, here, jealously - an emotion resides. By extension Scorpio intensifies such feelings.

A person who keeps their jealousy in check is said to not be jealous. A person who struggles to keep their emotion in check whenever a potential rival emerges is said to be very jealous.

posted September 23, 2014 06:50 PM              

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Originally posted by Nine:
Being jealous and not, much as having a personality and not having one, is a figure of speech. Everyone has a personality. The person who is said to not possess one is called boring in other terms.

Jealousy is an emotion and everyone feels it. Scorpio, among other things, is the sign of intensity - it brings a certain intensity to that which it touches. As a water sign it dwells in the emotional realms, here, jealously - an emotion resides. By extension Scorpio intensifies such feelings.

A person who keeps their jealousy in check is said to not be jealous. A person who struggles to keep their emotion in check whenever a potential rival emerges is said to be very jealous.

Where there's intensity the emotions will be amplified.

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I think they're talking about intensity as in intensity of feelings and love and such. And it's not just scorpios that feel that, it's everyone. Everyone feels jealousy sometimes, everyone feels intensity of emotion in the right atmosphere. Some people it takes a lot of bring out the intensity, in others, the intensity comes out all the time. I think everyone just have different intense emotion thresholds.

posted September 23, 2014 06:59 PM            

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Originally posted by Nine:
Being jealous and not, much as having a personality and not having one, is a figure of speech. Everyone has a personality. The person who is said to not possess one is called boring in other terms.

Jealousy is an emotion and everyone feels it. Scorpio, among other things, is the sign of intensity - it brings a certain intensity to that which it touches. As a water sign it dwells in the emotional realms, here, jealously - an emotion resides. By extension Scorpio intensifies such feelings.

A person who keeps their jealousy in check is said to not be jealous. A person who struggles to keep their emotion in check whenever a potential rival emerges is said to be very jealous.

Where there's intensity the emotions will be amplified.

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Ok. I really don't understand what you are trying to say.

I am intense but not jealous. End of story. Not much else to add.

posted September 23, 2014 08:03 PM            

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Originally posted by LucieLemonade:
I don't know if I hate jealousy. I just think it's unproductive. A *tiny* bit of jealousy from my crush is cute. But this thing he does where he actively *wants* me to be jealous is so pointless and childish. I like his child like qualities, not so much his childish ones.

I've hidden it so well to the point of it being non-existant?! Hmmm.

I've mentioned this before. But why is it that when we discuss those that don't fit the stereotype, *especially* Venus in Scorpio, it is always that we are delusional and not self aware? I have to say I find that really insulting and annoying.

But I still loves ya.

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Well, the truth is I'm a sun square pluto and I know I'm controlling and extremely secretive. I actually appreciate scorpio energy. What is life without being a little bit dark and twisted

I was just joking earlier (kinda).

I think scorpio venus is an intense energy. I haven't met women with this energy but the men are really brooding. Unnecessarily so. But the scorp suns tend to own it better.

Now lots of people wouldn't mind scorpio venuses. My cap venus doesn't. But I think when a person has such intense feelings, they need a strong mars. If they don't, it gets badddd.

posted September 23, 2014 09:17 PM            

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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
This isn't about jealousy, it is for those who are NOT. Believe what you'd like, several have answered the question here. How about you step down from that high horse and stop aiding in the continued derailment of this thread.

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How about you stop being such a lying Libra.

posted September 23, 2014 09:19 PM            

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I think they're talking about intensity as in intensity of feelings and love and such. And it's not just scorpios that feel that, it's everyone. Everyone feels jealousy sometimes, everyone feels intensity of emotion in the right atmosphere. Some people it takes a lot of bring out the intensity, in others, the intensity comes out all the time. I think everyone just have different intense emotion thresholds.

Intensity is kind of an interpretive word.

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posted September 23, 2014 09:22 PM              

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Originally posted by Nine:
How about you stop being such a lying Libra.

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That's just a stupid statement, plain and simple. As if you had nothing left and pulled a real winner out of your bag of insults.

posted September 23, 2014 09:28 PM              

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Originally posted by Nine:
^^ I wasn't talking to you.

That and she was rude - as always. Plus, this thread IS about jealously - read the title.

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posted September 23, 2014 09:42 PM            

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That's just a stupid statement, plain and simple.

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That's your opinion.

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I know. One, I don't care if you were talking to me or not. You are now.

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Okay. Well, I have no time for liars and those who enable them.

posted September 23, 2014 11:21 PM            

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Originally posted by Nine:
How about you stop being such a lying Libra.

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Wow, now you're just being a ***** because several people disagree with you.

posted September 23, 2014 11:23 PM            

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Originally posted by DeepFreeze:
That's just a stupid statement, plain and simple. As if you had nothing left and pulled a real winner out of your bag of insults.

Act like a moderator. When mods can't be any better than some other blithering idiot, what's the point of that mod?
And then people wonder why members complain and the site slows down.

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@DeepFreeze:

Internet high five!!

posted September 23, 2014 11:24 PM            

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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
We've answered the question, why isn't that good enough..?

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Right?!! *lol*

posted September 24, 2014 01:37 AM            

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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
Grow up, it's not that serious. Next to Neptune does this all of the time and it's why her threads are always ignored, she's insecure and thinks that everyone else with similar placements are also when in reality it has nothing to do with astrology. This is why I've strayed away. I'm sick of constantly having to explain myself to people who automatically assume, judge and deem me as the bad girl when no one here knows me personally besides a couple people. I answered the question without an ounce of emotion or feeling in and it still isn't enough.

It's been fun though Nine. Have a good night. ✌️

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posted September 24, 2014 02:29 AM            

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Originally posted by Geeky:
I *really* didn't gain complete security in myself until I was about 30-31, so it's still new to me (36 now). But my way of thinking is in line with a similar comment from page 1. If I am with someone who loses interest in me... oh well. I'm too busy / too fun / too sexy / too much of a catch for jealousy or wallowing in sorrow. I'm just done with that.

As much as it sucked, I believe I can thank my Saturn return for this new way of thinking.

Anyway, back to you. That IS a lot of water for you to work through.

I am new to this, but have you considered wearing gemstone jewelry that is fiery to boost up your confidence?

I would choose Carnelian for your confidence mixed with some Peridot to protect you against negative emotions (such as jealousy). Rose Quartz is supposed to be healing (including healing of emotional wounds). Also, Snowflake Obsidian is supposed to help you see your old patterns so you can more easily release them.

Lastly, you could consider wearing the birthstones associated with Fire signs: Sardonyx, Bloodstone, Fire Agate, Pink Rhodochrosite, Amber, etc.

Just some ideas. We can't change our time of birth, but we can bring the right kind of energy around us.

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Thank you I was going to answer you before I saw Barbiegirl ruining my thread once again…

I am looking forward to my saturn return, though it also sounds like a hard time for some people :/

posted September 24, 2014 03:03 AM            

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Originally posted by theunknown:
Well, the truth is I'm a sun square pluto and I know I'm controlling and extremely secretive. I actually appreciate scorpio energy. What is life without being a little bit dark and twisted

I was just joking earlier (kinda).

I think scorpio venus is an intense energy. I haven't met women with this energy but the men are really brooding. Unnecessarily so. But the scorp suns tend to own it better.

Now lots of people wouldn't mind scorpio venuses. My cap venus doesn't. But I think when a person has such intense feelings, they need a strong mars. If they don't, it gets badddd.

And honestly, every venus has their issue. Cap venus is stifffffff. Pisces is deceptive. Taurus is too 1950s. Etc...

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I love my VIS. It's intense, secretive and deep, said before. But not jealous.

Honestly, I don't see why people don't believe it.

PS. I know you were not being totally serious. But this happens alot and you can clearly see it in this thread. It happens on certain specific topics where people just can't conceive of people not acting like their stereotype to they *must* be delusional.

posted September 24, 2014 03:07 AM            

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Originally posted by next to neptune:
Ahahahaha good old dramatic VIS, just as I have foreseen this topic has turned into a dramatic war zone haha

Well, but congrats to the 3 stubborn VIS people(or maybe make that just 1), that desperately tries to make us believe they have NEVER EVER felt jealousy towards anything. It would have sounded more convincing to me if you tried to explain that you are not ominous to the feeling of being jealous, but it is something you have learned to let go of. I believe you ok(except barbiegirl)! But I just don't get why you have to be so dramatic (and angry/steady/stubborn) about proving your point? Relax man….

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Really? We are stubborn because we answered your call for non jealous ViS. I thought the point was so that you know you too can over come you're jealousy.

I guess not. You're right. You are doomed to be a jealous raving lunatic forever and ever til the end. Good luck with that.

The only people who are getting angry are those who don't believe us to the point of one calling the other a liar?! I think you should maybe have a second look at the thread to see who is being attacked first. Hint: It's not you. It's us "three stubborn people".

Next time don't ask questions you don't want answers too. Or rather, don't ask questions you only want those to agree with you.