posted September 19, 2014 01:40 PM            

I'm a virgo with pisces moon and scorpio venus, and even though its the weakest planet in my chart and I also have more "accepting" placements such as moon square uranus, mars square uranus and venus sextile uranus, STILL I can become jealous sometimes…. almost always without any reason at all….

posted September 19, 2014 02:58 PM            

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Originally posted by Vajra:
Umm….well… actually I know someone with a Scorp Venus conj. Uranus, and an Aquarius Moon on top of that, very intimately, but I'm afraid even this strongly Uranian-influenced Scorp Venus guy is really rather jealous. He would like to not be, though, perhaps because he perceives it as a weakness, and it runs contrary to his Aquarian Moon's ideals. He can hide it rather well most of the time. However, when it does break through (and it does in regular intervals), I'm always amazed at the intensity of his reactions. So, I'm afraid, my answer to your question would have to be "nope".

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posted September 19, 2014 03:24 PM            

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Originally posted by bethbabe:
Hey neptune!

My friend who is venus, moon and pluto in Scorpio, she's not the jealous type set all. At least, I have known her for 10 yrs and have never seen that side of her.

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posted September 19, 2014 08:02 PM            

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Originally posted by Vajra:
Haha, that's exactly what I get to see on the receiving end Being "owned", that is. The thing is, when asked, he would never admit it; he always claims he's not at all jealous... yeah right! I've learned the hard way not to give him cause to be. As in, I casually mention some guy at work is really smart, and he'll bark right back at me, "Why don't you start seeing him then?" Or I'll mention I'm going to have coffee with a married older colleague the next day, and he'll "accidentally" be on the spot, and blow up my phone with calls and messages the entire time... Things like that Sounds creepy but it really isn't, I find it endearing and try not to arouse the green-eyed monster unnecessarily. As you said, this side of Scorpio is always going to be included in the package in some form or other. But I love them so I don't mind.

@Supreme cT: I know it's OT but I just have to ask… how's it going with your Cancer lady? Any progress yet?

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posted September 19, 2014 08:56 PM            

I'm sure I've written this story before but...

When I was in high school I was super jealous of the person I considered my BFF having other friends that she wanted to spend time with without me. It was horrible the level of jealousy I had. I knew it was unhealthy so I learned to let go of jealous feelings.

The guy I'm seeing now is really social and sometimes flirty. But it doesn't bother me or make me jealous. It is part of who he is and I think if he would rather be with someone else I can not lock him in a closet. He has to stay because he wants to.

posted September 19, 2014 10:01 PM            

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Originally posted by LucieLemonade:
I'm a Scorpio Venus and I'm not particularly jealous.

I'm sure I've written this story before but...

When I was in high school I was super jealous of the person I considered my BFF having other friends that she wanted to spend time with without me. It was horrible the level of jealousy I had. I knew it was unhealthy so I learned to let go of jealous feelings.

The guy I'm seeing now is really social and sometimes flirty. But it doesn't bother me or make me jealous. It is part of who he is and I think if he would rather be with someone else I can not lock him in a closet. He has to stay because he wants to.

I do wonder though if he would prefer I were jealous. He is a bit jealous and not afraid to show it.

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How nice to read! I totally agree with you, but even though I still sometimes get afraid to "lose" my guy to someone else - even though it is really, really unlikely to happen and I know.

posted September 20, 2014 05:24 AM            

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Originally posted by next to neptune:
How nice to read! I totally agree with you, but even though I still sometimes get afraid to "lose" my guy to someone else - even though it is really, really unlikely to happen and I know.

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Getting to "knowing" and "feeling" is the difficult part. It's like my totally irrational fear of flying. We all know it's safer than being in a car. But I just can't help being petrified in an airplane no matter how many times I've flown.

Honestly, I think dealing with changing these fundamental things is much easier when you are young. I'm glad I tackled that one when I was a teenager! Trying to change my "faults" as an adult is much more difficult.

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If your guy would actually want you to show your jealousy, I think it would depend on who he is and if he can handle it,

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but I also think there is a fine line between being a little jealous and then actually trying to "lock someone in the closet" like trying to demand and control who they see and get friends with.

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LOL! Of course. For the purposes of online discussion however it was a more fun way of saying it.

posted September 20, 2014 11:56 AM            

I'm a sucker for them but it isn't easy. Usually people with Scorpio placements will land on my Sun, Merc, and DSC in Scorpio and all bets are off.

posted September 20, 2014 01:40 PM            

I'm sooooooooooo not jealous.

I have been in polyamorous relationships & that requires one to be the opposite of jealous, controlling, etc.

However, in a monogamous relationship (like now, since I am married), I tend to be a little territorial. Like, if a girl at work is 'liking' too much of my hubby's facebook posts, I jump in and make comments to show my presence.

It's not jealousy, I just don't want her getting any idea. Now, if he were open to polyamory, I would be cool with any extra attention he's getting because I would also be allowed to get that same attention.

I think the need for "fairness" comes from my Libra Mars though.

posted September 20, 2014 01:47 PM            

I am also a Virgo Sun, but I have a Sagittarius Moon. I think if I had more Water in my chart, my Scorpio Venus may be more "Scorpionic" but I am very low in Water.

All of that said, I have no idea how old you are, but when I was younger, I was very insecure, which often led to jealous behaviors.

It could have been immaturity, but I think in my case, it was more likely the lack of a father figure and my need for attention/love. I had a very unstable upbringing and a VERY bad model for relationships, so I was only going on what I learned.

posted September 20, 2014 03:48 PM            

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Originally posted by Geeky:
Oh & NTN:

I am also a Virgo Sun, but I have a Sagittarius Moon. I think if I had more Water in my chart, my Scorpio Venus may be more "Scorpionic" but I am very low in Water.

All of that said, I have no idea how old you are, but when I was younger, I was very insecure, which often led to jealous behaviors.

It could have been immaturity, but I think in my case, it was more likely the lack of a father figure and my need for attention/love. I had a very unstable upbringing and a VERY bad model for relationships, so I was only going on what I learned.

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posted September 20, 2014 03:50 PM            

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Originally posted by Koho:

The problems begin when things go down the road. My Venus in Libra starts expressing itself. I end up feeling crowded by the Venus Scorpio. Some either want to be too much of a unit, or express jealousy.

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posted September 20, 2014 06:24 PM            

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Originally posted by LucieLemonade:
Well, Geeky... Maybe we are on to something!

I have Sag moon & Libra Mars as well.

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Are you a Virgo Sun too?