posted September 24, 2014 05:33 PM            

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Originally posted by PixieJane:
Anyone who remembers me knows I don't mind getting into it with Barbiegirl, so I'd be surprised if anyone thinks I feel a need to kiss her butt. And with that said, I agree with LucieLemonad on this, Nine was the one who was the first to truly cross the line in getting downright belligerent with posts that were little more than insults and personal attacks.

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I don't care who was the first one. Nine and Barbie is equally immature then, whats the big news about that?

The point is, that you come in here to insult me with personal attacks, with NO reason at all. So just stay out then, whats the ******* problem with that?

posted September 24, 2014 05:37 PM            

And I'm not being mean, I'm being fair (or at least making a sincere attempt to be). Unlike you.

posted September 24, 2014 05:43 PM            

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Originally posted by PixieJane:
If you can't handle answers you don't like then don't ask the questions.

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This.

posted September 24, 2014 05:44 PM            

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Originally posted by DeepFreeze:
If you make a thread it's open to anyone.
I don't remember insulting you, did I?

Well anyway, as you wish with this thread. It's gone off to some other worldly place now.

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The persons here who I feel insulted me is Barbiegirl, pixiejane and lucielemon. And all 3 of you is very good at ignoring the fact that you did so.

posted September 24, 2014 05:46 PM            

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Originally posted by Geeky:
This.

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posted September 24, 2014 05:50 PM            

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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
*Are*, not is. You sound ridiculous.
We all contributed and did what you wanted. I don't get what more you want. An a ss rub? Back rub? Feet? A kiss?

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WTF? you are a ******* crazy ***** , I don't even know what to say to you anymore. "We all did what you want", well, if you really did so, then you would have shut up a long time ago.

posted September 24, 2014 05:57 PM            

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Originally posted by next to neptune:
YES "This" is not what it's about. I am angry about being personally attacked by you??? Why do I deserve this treatment from you all?

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So you never said these things AFTER four different people said we weren't jealous?

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Originally posted by next to neptune:
"I think that EVERY scorp venus is a little bit jealous (or a lot actually)"

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Originally posted by next to neptune:
"It's also really typically scorpio venus to dramatize everything and make it a huge thing"

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Originally posted by next to neptune:
"Well, but congrats to the 3 stubborn VIS people(or maybe make that just 1), that desperately tries to make us believe they have NEVER EVER felt jealousy towards anything. It would have sounded more convincing to me if you tried to explain that you are not ominous to the feeling of being jealous, but it is something you have learned to let go of. I believe you ok(except barbiegirl)! But I just don't get why you have to be so dramatic (and angry/steady/stubborn) about proving your point? Relax man…."

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And you wonder why we're all angry? Seriously?!

posted September 24, 2014 06:12 PM            

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Originally posted by Geeky:
To clear it up, you basically accused us of lying, being the same person, and then over-reacting when you accused us of those things.

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Of course I am overreacting, because Barbiegirl throw comments into this thread that has NOTHING to do with jealousy, but is just some lousy attempt to put me down and as I read it (trying to make me go away from Lindaland)

And then the rest of you just kiss her ass and agrees with anything she posts.

I also stated in the very comment you quoted that I DO believe in you (except barbiegirl lol)

I am sorry if I sounded like I said you were lying, or as if I think you're all the same person, cause I really don't do that.

posted September 24, 2014 06:22 PM            

Even when you try to clarify things, you accuse us of kissing ass. I don't know anyone here personally, so I have no reason to do that.

I agree or disagree with people on a thread by thread basis. Not based on his / her user name.

posted September 24, 2014 06:31 PM            

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Originally posted by Geeky:
Ok, here's the thing.

Even when you try to clarify things, you accuse us of kissing ass. I don't know anyone here personally, so I have no reason to do that.

I agree or disagree with people on a thread by thread basis. Not based on his / her user name.

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Well then I really don't get why you constantly defend a person who has done nothing but being rude, arrogant and throwing personal attacks.

posted September 24, 2014 06:31 PM            

I don't think it's too hard to believe that there may be people here who were raised with more self esteem or better relationship models that what I had.

I don't necessarily believe astrology is 100% responsible for a person, which is why I came and answered your question in the first place.

I think humans are driven by selfishness, animal instinct, how we were raised, maturity/immaturity, astrology profiles, spirituality, what society has shaped as "acceptable" or within moral boundaries, etc. etc... lots of things contribute and for me, having Venus in Scorpio hasn't doomed me to being a jealous or possessive person.

posted September 24, 2014 06:37 PM            

Maybe it's house placement too? I am curious which house Barbiegirl19 & LucieLemonade have their Venus in (mine is H3).

posted September 24, 2014 06:44 PM            

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Originally posted by next to neptune:
whatever, you obviously feel the need to kiss her ass apparently, just because you share some similar feelings/opinions about jealousy. To be honest you've been kissing her ass the whole thread.

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Huh? Now I know you have lost the plot. This is the first or second thread she and I have ever interacted in. It sounds like you've gotten into with her much more than I have.

And "kissing her ass"? Wow. I can't imagine what it must be to see drama in everything.... You need to take a deep breath.

posted September 24, 2014 06:47 PM            

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Originally posted by Nine:
Earlier in this thread when you admitted to suffering from jealousy in the past but have overcome it, I believed you.

However, if you genuinely believe the bolded part above^^, perhaps I ought to reconsider. Evidence to the contrary abound in this thread alone.

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LOL. I mean not in the offensive kind of way like "you look really fat in that dress" type of comment. But I sure do speak my mind. As do you. Are you a Sag too?

posted September 24, 2014 06:52 PM            

Maybe someone with Venus 1-2 degrees in Scorpio manifests much differently than someone at say 16 degrees.

posted September 24, 2014 06:53 PM            

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Originally posted by theunknown:
Well, the thing with plutonic energy is paranoia. So even though the person isn't particularly jealous, paranoia can manifest as jealousy. This applies most to venus and moon because scorp mars is domicile.
I'm not saying that people are delusional. I'm saying that if your sun is libra or sag, then your sense of self and your values (venuses) are at odd. My sun is in aqua and my cap venus is at odd with the non conventional aqua self. In the case of scorpio, because scorpio is a "weak" venus, the need for possessing someone's soul is so intense that the conflict between the self and values would be more intense than with other sun signs. Like a cap sun with scorpio venus wouldn't manifest as badly

This is just for self understanding! I had difficulties understanding my venus in the past so I assume the challenge for the intense scorpio venuses would be stronger. And the men I know with this position with a weak mars tend to act very possessive and jealous in relationships. I'm assuming if you are like Usher (venus-mars in scorpio), you won't manifest these traits as much.

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I don't live my Venus that way. I don't need to possess anyone though I probably like to be possessed a bit more than a normal freedom loving Sag would.

The fact that I don't want to possess is probably why I'm not jealous. Or I should say I don't want to possess ANYMORE. As my story in the beginning indicates. I DID want to possess my friend and I didn't want to share her. But I learned to get over that. And that is why I've written in this thread to that the OP understands you can get over it.

Seems that all gone a bit wrong.

posted September 24, 2014 06:55 PM            

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Originally posted by LucieLemonade:
Huh? Now I know you have lost the plot. This is the first or second thread she and I have ever interacted in. It sounds like you've gotten into with her much more than I have.

And "kissing her ass"? Wow. I can't imagine what it must be to see drama in everything.... You need to take a deep breath.

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I have not lost any plot. I am just being really honest now, and am telling the truth as I see it.

posted September 24, 2014 07:01 PM            

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Originally posted by Geeky:
LucieLemonade - My Venus is only 2 degrees into Scorpio & Barbiegirl19's is only 1 degree into Scorpio. I am wondering where yours is placed. ???

Maybe someone with Venus 1-2 degrees in Scorpio manifests much differently than someone at say 16 degrees.

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Sorry. I was comment as I went along. I should really have read all of them before I replied, but you can't multi-quote on here. Or at least I don't know how.

Mine is in the 12th @ 9 deg conj ASC by 3 deg. Could it be a the first decan thing?

It could be our moons & mars. I know we have the same moon & mars. What moon & mars does Barbie have?

posted September 24, 2014 07:02 PM            

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Originally posted by next to neptune:
I have not lost any plot. I am just being really honest now, and am telling the truth as I see it.

And yes, its not the first time barbie has ruined a thread of mine I think… at least I've seen a couple of other threads where she is in a similar drama with someone. Believe me, its not the first time.
But it is the first time she has really tried so hard to attack me with personal insults.

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Well. Ok. It seems you have history with her. I've only "talked" with her in a thread once or twice.

If she upsets you, you should probably just try to ignore her.