posted September 24, 2014 03:09 AM            

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Originally posted by Nine:
How about you stop being such a lying Libra.

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Really? You're a moderator and you think it's OK to act like this?

Sad really.

posted September 24, 2014 03:11 AM            

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Originally posted by LucieLemonade:
I love my VIS. It's intense, secretive and deep, said before. But not jealous.

Honestly, I don't see why people don't believe it.

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I believe YOU, I just admit that I don't believe Barbiegirl when she says she has NEVER EVERRRR felt jealousy because it just sounds so downright unlikely!

posted September 24, 2014 03:19 AM            

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Originally posted by next to neptune:
I believe YOU, I just admit that I don't believe Barbiegirl when she says she has NEVER EVERRRR felt jealousy because it just sounds so downright unlikely!

It's just the way she so desperately tries to prove her point, and gets so angry about people not believing her, that I kinda think she tries to prove something to herself that isn't true (or maybe tries to prove to someone else)
Whatever I don't know and I don't care, but I am glad to hear that you have overcome your jealousy, cause the way you describe it to me, sounds honest and believable.

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That's silly. She's just stating her point. I really don't understand why you all are reading so much drama into this thread.

Maybe she hasn't! Who are we to say? She is a typical VIS, intense! But that doesn't mean she is necessarily jealous.

You (all of you) are taking just as much energy telling her she is a liar than she is to state that she isn't jealous.

posted September 24, 2014 03:39 AM            

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Originally posted by LucieLemonade:

Really? We are stubborn because we answered your call for non jealous ViS. I thought the point was so that you know you too can over come you're jealousy.

I guess not. You're right. You are doomed to be a jealous raving lunatic forever and ever til the end. Good luck with that.

The only people who are getting angry are those who don't believe us to the point of one calling the other a liar?! I think you should maybe have a second look at the thread to see who is being attacked first. Hint: It's not you. It's us "three stubborn people".

Next time don't ask questions you don't want answers too. Or rather, don't ask questions you only want those to agree with you.

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Nope, I don't think you are, but I think this thread was much more interesting before barbiegirl ruined it. Go back and watch how this whole thread turned into a war zone after barbiegirl appears.

posted September 24, 2014 03:57 AM            

so jealousy comes out with my man and only other time i feel jealous is when other people are having sex and im not. hahahah thats about it

posted September 24, 2014 04:14 AM            

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Originally posted by next to neptune:
Thank you I was going to answer you before I saw Barbiegirl ruining my thread once again…

I am looking forward to my saturn return, though it also sounds like a hard time for some people :/

But I really appreciate your answer, I never thought much about gemstones but now I want to look more into that

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I'm happy to help in any way I can.

I am not here regularly enough to know who 'ruins' threads, but I think some unfair assumptions were made along the way.

No one likes that.

posted September 24, 2014 04:18 AM            

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Originally posted by bansheequeen:
I think many times jealousy is a result of conditioning.

I'm very insecure, which is the reason for my jealousy, also I just have severe trust issues so I never believe someone's word. To me, words are just hot air. Nothing. I grew up without a father and all the men I've known have been extremely unreliable. I grew up learning the only person you can ever trust is yourself.

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Yup. I definitely went through the insecurity for very similar reasons. Life experience makes your reality.

posted September 24, 2014 10:03 AM            

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Originally posted by next to neptune:
Nope, I don't think you are, but I think this thread was much more interesting before barbiegirl ruined it. Go back and watch how this whole thread turned into a war zone after barbiegirl appears.

I appreciated your answers, I just never got the time to fully reply back at you because it all turned very fast….

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I have to be honest. I don't see that BarbieGirl is the one that ruined. Personally I think Nine's attack of BarbieGirl, calling her a liar was far more outrageous. She stated how *she* feels about jealousy in her way. She didn't attack anyone else.

posted September 24, 2014 11:31 AM              

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Originally posted by next to neptune:
Nope, I don't think you are, but I think this thread was much more interesting before barbiegirl ruined it. Go back and watch how this whole thread turned into a war zone after barbiegirl appears.

I appreciated your answers, I just never got the time to fully reply back at you because it all turned very fast….

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posted September 24, 2014 11:32 AM              

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Originally posted by LucieLemonade:
I have to be honest. I don't see that BarbieGirl is the one that ruined. Personally I think Nine's attack of BarbieGirl, calling her a liar was far more outrageous. She stated how *she* feels about jealousy in her way. She didn't attack anyone else.

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Exactly!

posted September 24, 2014 12:28 PM              

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Originally posted by next to neptune:
I believe YOU, I just admit that I don't believe Barbiegirl when she says she has NEVER EVERRRR felt jealousy because it just sounds so downright unlikely!

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Sweet girl you have a LOT to learn in life. 1) I don't give a ratsass if you choose to believe or not believe me. I'm a grown woman with a life that does not revolve around you and what you believe.

2)You constantly prove just how immature you with your "it just sounds so downright unlikely," when I answered your damn question that has nothing to do with what you believe hahaha. May I ask why it's bothering you so much? Why is me never being jealous upset you so much? Are you jealous that I've never been?

You constantly post threads about feelings this way and that way. They're constantly negative and it's why people ignore you. I wasn't trying to a b itch and if you felt I were then I apologize, I'll take the title as honest b itch anyday over a lying one.

I was never rude until I was treated that way. I DID NOT ruin your thread or any of your threads so I find it pretty comical that you claim that I've done so now and in past threads. I answered YOUR question and was thrown in the boat with the other people who answered YOUR question and kept YOUR topic on topic. How's that work out? We follow YOUR directions and then get s hit on for it...?

If this is how you react when people answer your questions then why ask them?

I will not lose sleep because you don't believe me, you don't know me personally anyway so why the hell's it matter? I didn't go any extra mile to try and make you believe me nor did I try to "prove or show" how cool I am, I am very cool you have no idea , I talk alot I realize this and I'll keep talking a LOT regardless of how long my posts are to get my point across. Yes point, not proof, I don't need to prove myself to anyone, especially on the internet. If what I say comes across as angry than that's on you. What are you telepathic? You sense the opposite of what I feel now? Those who know me personally love me and I promise if you did you would as well.

posted September 24, 2014 12:53 PM            

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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
May I ask why it's bothering you so much? Why is me never being jealous upset you so much? Are you jealous that I've never been?

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I was wondering the same thing. Why so much hostility towards people who don't harbor a negative emotion (jealousy)?

Especially from Nine... like wtf? Where did THAT come from? Oh wait -- my bad. She had an experience YEARS AGO with a 17 year old ex-lover with Venus in Scorpio.

Apparently one experience -- without taking in to account Mars sign or anything else in the natal chart -- proves we're all crazed with jealousy.

(oh and I know she listed more than one experience, but I am picking and choosing content like other people here do just to prove a point)

posted September 24, 2014 02:40 PM            

I started getting more into astrogolgy so that I could learn more about myself and understand why I might have certain reactions/action/non-actions/feelings etc. But ALSO so I could over come the negative ones and accentuate the positives.

In learning there are other people with X planet/aspect/etc who have over come their issues, knowing there are positive an negative manifestations of planets/aspects/etc helps me evolve. Otherwise why are you learning astrology? Just to wallow in all the bad horrible things destiny has given you? Personally, I don't believe that in the least.

ViS is not the only planet/aspect/etc that gets picked on. I get the same when I say I'm a Sag who is not blunt! omg, new can of worms!! In this case, I have proof!!!! An aspect to my merc that makes people careful of what they say. ViS, I'm not sure why it doesn't manifest in jealousy. Maybe the three of us have some aspect that softens the ViS jealousy.

posted September 24, 2014 04:35 PM            

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Originally posted by LucieLemonade:
I also don't understand why someone would lie about something like that.

I started getting more into astrogolgy so that I could learn more about myself and understand why I might have certain reactions/action/non-actions/feelings etc. But ALSO so I could over come the negative ones and accentuate the positives.

In learning there are other people with X planet/aspect/etc who have over come their issues, knowing there are positive an negative manifestations of planets/aspects/etc helps me evolve. Otherwise why are you learning astrology? Just to wallow in all the bad horrible things destiny has given you? Personally, I don't believe that in the least.

ViS is not the only planet/aspect/etc that gets picked on. I get the same when I say I'm a Sag who is not blunt! omg, new can of worms!! In this case, I have proof!!!! An aspect to my merc that makes people careful of what they say. ViS, I'm not sure why it doesn't manifest in jealousy. Maybe the three of us have some aspect that softens the ViS jealousy.

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Earlier in this thread when you admitted to suffering from jealousy in the past but have overcome it, I believed you.

However, if you genuinely believe the bolded part above^^, perhaps I ought to reconsider. Evidence to the contrary abound in this thread alone.

posted September 24, 2014 04:39 PM            

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Originally posted by LucieLemonade:
I love my VIS. It's intense, secretive and deep, said before. But not jealous.

Honestly, I don't see why people don't believe it.

PS. I know you were not being totally serious. But this happens alot and you can clearly see it in this thread. It happens on certain specific topics where people just can't conceive of people not acting like their stereotype to they *must* be delusional.

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Well, the thing with plutonic energy is paranoia. So even though the person isn't particularly jealous, paranoia can manifest as jealousy. This applies most to venus and moon because scorp mars is domicile.
I'm not saying that people are delusional. I'm saying that if your sun is libra or sag, then your sense of self and your values (venuses) are at odd. My sun is in aqua and my cap venus is at odd with the non conventional aqua self. In the case of scorpio, because scorpio is a "weak" venus, the need for possessing someone's soul is so intense that the conflict between the self and values would be more intense than with other sun signs. Like a cap sun with scorpio venus wouldn't manifest as badly

This is just for self understanding! I had difficulties understanding my venus in the past so I assume the challenge for the intense scorpio venuses would be stronger. And the men I know with this position with a weak mars tend to act very possessive and jealous in relationships. I'm assuming if you are like Usher (venus-mars in scorpio), you won't manifest these traits as much.

posted September 24, 2014 05:01 PM            

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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:

You constantly post threads about feelings this way and that way. They're constantly negative and it's why people ignore you. I wasn't trying to a b itch and if you felt I were then I apologize, I'll take the title as honest b itch anyday over a lying one.

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WTF why you post this point again? All the other things you write doesn't matter to me but THIS one comment.

And how the f*** can you begin to talk like you're the voice of Lindaland and everyone feels the same way about me and my threads as you do?

By the way I don't feel ignored? This thread has over 90 answers and most of the threads I post get a lot of answers… so why do you think I'm getting ignored like Im some piece of s*** here on Lindaland?

And you know what? I don't ******* care that you try to put me down once again, I'll promise you I will continue to post "insecure" threads if that is what I want. Its a free forum and if I feel like I want to post a specific thread I am going to…. and by the way, how the f do you know if I post about some insecurity and not somebody else's? I'm a sensitive person yes, but what is wrong about that? What is also wrong about being insecure and maybe jealous?

posted September 24, 2014 05:08 PM            

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Originally posted by LucieLemonade:
I have to be honest. I don't see that BarbieGirl is the one that ruined. Personally I think Nine's attack of BarbieGirl, calling her a liar was far more outrageous. She stated how *she* feels about jealousy in her way. She didn't attack anyone else.

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posted September 24, 2014 05:24 PM            

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Originally posted by DeepFreeze:
Can I offer you a beer, a mixed drink, or a Lorazopam? lol

Woooooow

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posted September 24, 2014 05:27 PM            

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Originally posted by next to neptune:
whatever, you obviously feel the need to kiss her ass apparently, just because you share some similar feelings/opinions about jealousy. To be honest you've been kissing her ass the whole thread.

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posted September 24, 2014 05:30 PM            

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Originally posted by DeepFreeze:
You asked, we answered.
It's pretty straightforward.
There wasn't any reason that anyone should have gotten upset.
Oh well.

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I didn't asked for getting a personal insult from anyone. Barbiegirl has a lot of free insults for me apparently. Did I ask for them? NO. So please stay out of me threads from now on, cause you don't want to contribute with anything, you just want to insult me with personal attacks and ruin my threads and Im ******* sick and tired of this now.