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Topic: Moons That Will Sell You Out
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 67045 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted February 04, 2015 11:32 AM
quote: Originally posted by VacantGazer: I think one should also consider the aspects, I myself am a gemini moon and im fiercely loyal to those I care about. I don't think aqua moons I have come across are disloyal either, sure they like their space at times but in the long term I think they are actually quite predictable. Remember Aquarius is a fixed sign. Aspects are important because the signs and planets are not islands in themselves. I have moon in gem trine saturn in scorpio. In addition I have moon sextile Mars and venus both in leo.
I was thinking HOW to describe the gemini Moons I have encountered when it comes to loyalty. They want to know all the details before they jump in. That is disloyalty to me, a Cancer Moon, but makes sense to them lol
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posted February 04, 2015 11:40 AM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: I was thinking HOW to describe the gemini Moons I have encountered when it comes to loyalty. They want to know all the details before they jump in. That is disloyalty to me, a Cancer Moon, but makes sense to them lol
Speaking for myself, but maybe it's all Gemini moons. I am busy (in my mind) with so many things. So much mental exploring, learning, getting lost in imagination, generating ideas, planning, etc etc. I don't want to waste my time when I could be doing more "productive" things. Not that all people that I pass up are not worthy or somehow bad people. But I recognize that people are different and I want to spend my time with people that I like and find interesting. There's no sense in wasting their time either when they could be doing the same. I love people, but I'm not the only one that does so if I don't give it freely it does not mean that they can't find it somewhere else. (Friendship love)
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Solar_Leo_Queen Knowflake Posts: 2464 From: Planet Earth Registered: Jan 2014
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posted February 04, 2015 11:47 AM
I know a Cancer moon who cheated, but he had his reasons. He was feeling insecure with his relationship and he felt like his girlfriend wasn't giving him enough attention. This drove him to the point of feeding on attention of other girls.I'm a Cancer moon myself and I would say it's a natural instinct for lunar cancerians to cling to something else they have a better grip on. IP: Logged |
Faith Knowflake Posts: 16956 From: Bella's Hair Salon Registered: Jul 2011
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posted February 04, 2015 12:17 PM
quote: Originally posted by DeepFreeze: Yep, Pretty much! (I don't have any Pisces for those that don't know.) I worry for them sometimes in that they just WILL not unload their own issues. Determined not to burden anyone else with their issues. I always encourage them to, but they won't. Definitely the sign that you'd see in the movies, "Go on without me. Save yourself!"
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LeeLoo2014 Knowflake Posts: 17730 From: Venus cornering Neptune Registered: Mar 2014
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posted February 04, 2015 01:09 PM
All Moons are fickle  O, swear not by the moon, the fickle moon, the inconstant moon, that monthly changes in her circle orb, Lest that thy love prove likewise variable. Big Willy ------------------
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FruityLlama Knowflake Posts: 856 From: Registered: Sep 2013
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posted February 04, 2015 05:37 PM
I'm a Taurus moon, and I'm pretty loyal, as in I'll still think about the other person's needs even after theyve screwed me over. And I know alot of people will say theyre loyal, but its like I cant ever let go. I suppose that sounds like a textbook astrology response, but its true. I am a little set in my ways, including loyalty, or at least my version of it. Aries moons I've found tend to idealise their family members, and most scorpio moons don't really tend to think about anyone else's feeling apart from their own, and unless theyre pretty evolved, family too, but some of them seem very blase about this. These are just my observations in general. I've met like, one person with these placements and defies this so yknow IP: Logged |
venus2tinkerbell Knowflake Posts: 1636 From: the baseball hall of fame Registered: Nov 2014
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posted February 04, 2015 05:48 PM
quote: Originally posted by LeeLoo2014: All Moons are fickle  O, swear not by the moon, the fickle moon, the inconstant moon, that monthly changes in her circle orb, Lest that thy love prove likewise variable. Big Willy
is it too early to quote this? It is just so perfect IP: Logged |
Odette Moderator Posts: 6753 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted February 04, 2015 05:58 PM
Since we all got talking about Pisces Moon earlier - I've had my issues with Pisces Moon men, but they weren't disloyal as such. I mostly just find their psychological problems difficult to deal with. Another Moon sign that's usually considered fickle is Gemini - and in my experience with them, they have all been very loyal and honest towards me. IP: Logged |
Odette Moderator Posts: 6753 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted February 04, 2015 05:59 PM
quote: Originally posted by LeeLoo2014: All Moons are fickle  O, swear not by the moon, the fickle moon, the inconstant moon, that monthly changes in her circle orb, Lest that thy love prove likewise variable. Big Willy
OMG ... LoL.. Just LoL.
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 67045 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted February 04, 2015 06:02 PM
quote: Originally posted by Odette: Since we all got talking about Pisces Moon earlier - I've had my issues with Pisces Moon men, but they weren't disloyal as such. I mostly just find their psychological problems difficult to deal with. Another Moon sign that's usually considered fickle is Gemini - and in my experience with them, they have all been very loyal and honest towards me.
They conjunct your ASC. Could that be why, perhaps?
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 67045 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted February 05, 2015 08:25 AM
I really thank everyone for participating in this thread. It might look like I try to "state things" and I do state my current understanding but I am always open to modification. Astrology is like the Bible in that it is impossible to ever "master" It is ever opening new understandings and that is part of what makes it so magical and compelling.I really got more of a sense of the blending of the planets in the signs by the ASPECTS. I feel my Astrology has really opened a new door. I knew it, intellectually, but it reached my heart. Thank you, again, dear Friends  ------------------ Want to Read Simple, Fun,Sexy Articles on Astrology? Check Me Out, DUDE. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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diamondbaby Knowflake Posts: 312 From: Registered: Jul 2012
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posted April 10, 2016 06:07 PM
Here is my opinion: Most Loyal Moons: Leo Moon, Scorpio Moon Disloyal Moons: Gemini Moon, Libra MoonIP: Logged |
Mergoatsun Knowflake Posts: 537 From: Michigan, USA Registered: Aug 2015
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posted April 11, 2016 12:30 AM
Here's my experiences with other moons,being am extremely loyal leo moon. Virgo moons are very steady and will be loyal to the people who know them best. Gemini moons, it depends honestly, they are half/half but I've certainly seen them go to the ends of the earth for people they care about. Aries moons are loyal to family and their spouse from what I've encountered. Sagittarius moons are flighty, you really have to nail them down. I'm bias, but Leo moons are extremely loyal to those they love. Cancer moons are like mom's to me, I love them so much and they are very loyal, my Taurus sun/cancer moon Grandma has been with my scorpio moon/sun gramps for 66 years. Libra moons seem like they just want to play. Capricorn moons are very serious and kinda cold, but when settled they seek to trust. Scorpio moons are loyal, but betray them and you will get cut. Aquarius moons can be loyal but they need a lot of space and freedom. I don't know anyone with a Taurus moon or a Pisces moon so I'll refrain from giving any personal judgements ------------------ "Do not let the behavior of others destroy your inner peace." -Dalai Lama IP: Logged |
teasel Knowflake Posts: 8180 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 11, 2016 10:31 AM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: I was thinking HOW to describe the gemini Moons I have encountered when it comes to loyalty. They want to know all the details before they jump in. That is disloyalty to me, a Cancer Moon, but makes sense to them lol
This just kills me, every time. Speaking as someone who has defended you over the years. I don't always agree with you, but I don't like to see you attacked. And then you write this, and other things. Seems like Cancer Moon sat back and had no problem with me being ridiculed, or attacked. It isn't loyal to a fault, and needs all the facts.
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teasel Knowflake Posts: 8180 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 11, 2016 10:32 AM
quote: Originally posted by Faith: Thank you ~ well, it's hard when I am trying to be nice but cannot clearly see how the other person is interpreting my kindness. Maybe I won't want strings attached but they will...and in that case, it might be smarter and kinder to never form an attachment.Anyway... Pisces moons are more likely to be kind to people who don't "deserve" it, because for one thing, we hate to see anyone suffer. (Arguably, we have the number one placement for that.) So we are more likely to get accused of making false gestures of friendship: there are more kind gestures from us altogether, so there's a greater chance of having those gestures misinterpreted. (Unlike some other moons, who won't bother so much with random acts of kindness. They don't "sell you out" because they never paid attention to you to begin with.) Well hey, no one's perfect. 
This describes me, too - maybe my Mars in Pisces contributes to this. Funny how certain people (not you) think that Pisces needs to learn to be more selfish - I finally did that in ways, in an effort to safe myself - and I've only been punished for it (and most likely seen as an Obnoxious Aries - nice, calm Aries for years, finally needs to just tell people where to go, and it's the most awful thing in the world apparently). IP: Logged |
Faith Knowflake Posts: 16956 From: Bella's Hair Salon Registered: Jul 2011
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posted April 11, 2016 11:40 AM
quote: Originally posted by teasel: This just kills me, every time. Speaking as someone who has defended you over the years. I don't always agree with you, but I don't like to see you attacked. And then you write this, and other things. Seems like Cancer Moon sat back and had no problem with me being ridiculed, or attacked. It isn't loyal to a fault, and needs all the facts.
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Faith Knowflake Posts: 16956 From: Bella's Hair Salon Registered: Jul 2011
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posted April 11, 2016 11:46 AM
quote: Originally posted by teasel: This describes me, too - maybe my Mars in Pisces contributes to this. Funny how certain people (not you) think that Pisces needs to learn to be more selfish - I finally did that in ways, in an effort to safe myself - and I've only been punished for it (and most likely seen as an Obnoxious Aries - nice, calm Aries for years, finally needs to just tell people where to go, and it's the most awful thing in the world apparently).
Pisces just needs a safe haven to retreat to where no one can bother them. If I have that, I'm okay. Without that I would be a mess. IP: Logged |
Lerena Knowflake Posts: 282 From: Registered: May 2015
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posted April 11, 2016 12:45 PM
It's not as simple as "If your Moon is in this sign then you are not loyal." You have to consider the entire chart.I have a late Gemini Moon. Yes, I probably do have a limit to my loyalty, but no one has reached it so I cannot say at which point I would betray someone's trust. Certainly, I would never cheat. However, I also have a Taurus Sun and Scorpio Ascendant. IP: Logged |
missblyss Knowflake Posts: 983 From: neverneverland Registered: Oct 2015
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posted April 11, 2016 01:46 PM
Hmmm, well yes, everyone does have different views on what loyalty actually is... I think that loyalty is also, honestly, a spiritual trait. Something that is cultivated and developed as we grow and learn from our mistakes. I am a Virgo moon and I am extremely loyal in the sense that if I tell you I will always have your back- I will. Doesn't matter if you get me arrested, I will forgive you. People who have done physically and emotionally horrific things to me always are given my forgiveness and support, especially if they ask for it. I don't think I have ever turned down an apology.My ex-husband was loyal in the sense that he would never talk about me to anyone else. No matter what I did, he never went to his parents and divulge, or his friends for that matter. He held it all inside. When we split, I viewed myself as being the loyal one because I still had his back, prayed for him, wanted the best for him even though he was being basically an absent father and out partying and had totally let me and our marriage down... But to him, I was disloyal. At the time, I had a belief that if something was the truth, I could say it. It didn't matter if it was talking negatively about someone.. I had no problem divulging intimate aspects of our life to even a grocery store clerk. I was an open book. I have since learned, that true loyalty is not discussing some negative trait behind someones back, but by being strong enough to bring that concern to them directly, with love. It is actually something I am totally not okay with... He can do me wrong now, but I won't allow myself to talk badly about him to others- even if it may be warranted... So, in some ways I am loyal, and some ways disloyal. But as I grow and mature and apply effort to get rid of my bad habits, I am become WHOLLY loyal. Each sign is loyal in their own way, through their own perception... And we can honestly probably learn the most from the people we consider to be most disloyal to us. I now see how my ex and I were perfect mirrors. We were both loyal and we both weren't.. Perfect teachers for eachtoher. IP: Logged |
LaceyLeigh Knowflake Posts: 711 From: New Jersey Registered: Jul 2014
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posted April 12, 2016 06:00 PM
Leo, Libra, maybe Gemini.IP: Logged |
LaceyLeigh Knowflake Posts: 711 From: New Jersey Registered: Jul 2014
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posted April 12, 2016 06:37 PM
Aries, and Virgo if you talk to them long enough.IP: Logged |
DopGang Knowflake Posts: 2142 From: INTJ Registered: Jun 2015
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posted April 12, 2016 08:53 PM
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 67045 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted April 12, 2016 10:09 PM
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StubbornVirgo Knowflake Posts: 834 From: Sittin' on Mercury Registered: Jul 2015
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posted April 13, 2016 12:34 AM
quote: Originally posted by Vajra:
No Gemini, Libra, or Aqua Moon known to me has ever come close to displaying such behavior, although no doubt these Moon signs can be disloyal or loyal as well, depending on the circumstances. The most loyal people I've known: - A woman who offered to buy a family's home and rent it to them when they were threatened by eviction, which would have meant investing all of her savings for old age, even though she had already made a huge loan to that family which she knew she would probably not get back - a Gemini Moon. - A woman who will bring a sick friend medicine in the middle of the night without even having been asked to, just because she wants to, and thinks nothing of it (and who does similar things again and again to other people as well, on a regular basis, even though she has very little spare time) - another Gemini Moon.
+1 If I consider you family, it means that I will take care of you. Period. I gave my parents my life savings so they could buy a house elsewhere because they were in a bad situation. I've taken money I needed and handed it to people I care about because they needed it more. I make time when there is no time. I give my all even when I have nothing to give. I defend you even when there's a chance that you might be wrong. And if you are wrong, I'll be standing there facing that hurdle with you. I'm a very loyal and caring and compassionate person to those I consider to be family. I am fickle about who gets to be my family because not everyone can be trusted. I can pick up on a vibe from across the room and if I don't like it, they don't get the benefits of my friendship or loyalty. It may look fickle and cold to other people, but it's actually a very intuitive process to hopefully avoid pain and being taken advantage of. I have Gemini Moon/Mars conjunction in my 4th house. In contrast, one of the worst betrayals I ever experienced was at the hands of a Sag Sun/Cancer Moon with Scorpio Mars. She became one of my closest friends and then stood by as coworkers dragged my name through the mud, forced me out of my job and then became friends with them afterwards. I wish I could say that it was an isolated occurrence but she did it several times - a testament to the fact that I didn't want to give up on our friendship because that's the kind of person that I am. I found ways to defend her actions in my head because I was being being loyal to her. So, yeah. Moon signs simply aren't enough for determining loyalty. No quoting please. IP: Logged |
mollywu Knowflake Posts: 432 From: Chengdu, China Registered: Jul 2014
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posted April 13, 2016 12:50 AM
Loyal or not depends on natal house placement, aspect and the synastry, I think.IP: Logged | |