posted July 30, 2015 10:06 AM            

Also, I did gain some courage and ended up texting him and invited him to a show tomorrow night. He said he can't go because he is going to Europe for work tomorrow at 6 for a few weeks. I knew he was going, he had told me before, I just forgot it was this week. Anyway, so I got brave again and I said well what about tonight? And he said he is having dinner with his parents "for a bit". I took the "for a bit" as an implication that he could hang out after, so I told him to let me know if he wants to meet up later and he said okay!

posted July 30, 2015 10:36 AM            

As an aqua stellium who has known several aquas, I can tell that you never have to question where you stand with us. If you do, we are not that into you. And as busy as we are, we make time to make that person feel special. Uranus is exalted in scorpio and we are similar to scorps in that.

An aqua who loves you will make it known that you are one in a million.

I'll leave it at that.

posted July 30, 2015 10:41 AM            

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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
That's a booty call. Who wouldn't come? And after that, he is probably going on vacation with someone else, or free to be with someone else. How old are you, BTW? You know what? Whatever. I am wasting my time here, like everyone who tried to tell you did. Sorry for intruding. Best wishes to you!

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Lol that's a booty call? We were literally making plans this morning at like 10am.. but okay. I'm sorry you're cynical. And he's not going on vacation... it is for his work, which I know for a fact..

posted July 30, 2015 11:28 AM            

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Originally posted by confused_libra:
Lol that's a booty call? We were literally making plans this morning at like 10am.. but okay. I'm sorry you're cynical. And he's not going on vacation... it is for his work, which I know for a fact..

Anyway, thanks for trying to give me advice. But I realize now that writing down the situation to strangers on the internet doesn't really work because it doesn't really convey the reality. I have been friends with him for over 10 years now, I think I know he's not a jerk at this point.

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There is plenty of people who did not respond to the thread in the fashion she has but you talk back to her and not to those other people and focused on her, next time ignore that person who is projecting their own wounds onto your situation and don't feed him or her..

At the end of the day *I feel is always better to take that chance bc you will be able to say you did your part and tried and you would have that satisfaction, the satisfaction of knowing you were not a coward and did not let pride get in the way of truly knowing or getting what you want out of fear. Courage is knowing when to ignore fear.

posted July 30, 2015 11:35 AM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
There is plenty of people who did not respond to the thread in the fashion she has but you talk back to her and not to those other people and focused on her, next time ignore that person who is projecting their own wounds onto your situation and don't feed him or her..

At the end of the day *I feel is always better to take that chance bc you will be able to say you did your part and tried and you would have that satisfaction, the satisfaction of knowing you were not a coward and did not let pride get in the way of truly knowing or getting what you want out of fear. Courage is knowing when to ignore fear.

I am glad you guys are making plans and got to see each other before he left.

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Thanks. Yeah, I only responded to her because I felt like she was really irrationally angry for some reason about the situation and she seemed to be attacking people who didn't agree with her.

posted July 30, 2015 11:35 AM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
There is plenty of people who did not respond to the thread in the fashion she has but you talk back to her and not to those other people and focused on her, next time ignore that person who is projecting their own wounds onto your situation and don't feed him or her..

At the end of the day *I feel is always better to take that chance bc you will be able to say you did your part and tried and you would have that satisfaction, the satisfaction of knowing you were not a coward and did not let pride get in the way of truly knowing or getting what you want out of fear. Courage is knowing when to ignore fear.

I am glad you guys are making plans and got to see each other before he left.

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Are you telling someone to ignore another user because you don't like their opinion? I can see you have a moderator badge there. How dare you?

Stick to your own opinions and promote those with your own arguments, and don't try to shine by bashing other users and theirs.

And do your mod job! It's not this!

posted July 30, 2015 11:36 AM            

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Originally posted by confused_libra:
I have been friends with him for over 10 years now, I think I know he's not a jerk at this point.

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This is my last post too.

You answered your own questions and doubts right there. You have been friends. That's it.

No one has tried to paint him a jerk, but you came for advice and based on what you told us, people just tried to open your eyes.

It is ultimately your choice.
I just hope you aren't going to be stuck to a friend another 10 more years while there are plenty of other men out there who could actually love you and have a loving relationship with you.

posted July 30, 2015 11:37 AM            

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Originally posted by DopGang:
Something to keep in mind. Any thoughts about him here are only based on what you've told us.
There's a whole lot of tone of voice, facial expressions, and body language that we have missing.

I'd say just take a shot. Draw your boundaries (so that you don't end up played) but go after what you want.

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posted July 30, 2015 11:38 AM            

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Originally posted by Sunnya:
This is my last post too.

You answered your own questions and doubts right there. You have been friends. That's it.

No one has tried to paint him a jerk, but you came for advice and based on what you told us, people just tried to open your eyes.

It is ultimately your choice.
I just hope you aren't going to be stuck to a friend another 10 more years while there are plenty of other men out there who could actually love you and have a loving relationship with you.

My sincerely best wishes.

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posted July 30, 2015 11:41 AM            

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Originally posted by confused_libra:
Exactly! I was trying to say that in one of my last few responses but you articulated it much better than I could have. Thanks for the input.

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posted July 30, 2015 11:49 AM            

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Originally posted by confused_libra:
Well, you guys can argue all you want about what his intentions are but I honestly do not think I am a doormat to him. That's ridiculous. I don't think people are that black and white. I also don't think he would ever use me after the multiple intense conversations we have had regarding how he hurt me in the past. He sends me hearts, cuddles me, etc. etc.

Also, I did gain some courage and ended up texting him and invited him to a show tomorrow night. He said he can't go because he is going to Europe for work tomorrow at 6 for a few weeks. I knew he was going, he had told me before, I just forgot it was this week. Anyway, so I got brave again and I said well what about tonight? And he said he is having dinner with his parents "for a bit". I took the "for a bit" as an implication that he could hang out after, so I told him to let me know if he wants to meet up later and he said okay!

I feel pretty good about that and I'm proud of myself for doing it finally. Thanks for everyone's input.

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The moon will be full in Aqua tomorrow, so that will help you get more clarity about this Aqua guy. If you really want to find out how he feels about you, it's now or never. Good luck!

posted July 30, 2015 03:08 PM            

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Originally posted by stillatlarge:
Why does everyone say this moon is in Aqua' first house when astro says the one I know is in the 10th? Can somebody explain that, please?

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What do you mean? the moon moves into Aquarius tomorrow. Why are you confused?

posted July 30, 2015 03:50 PM            

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Originally posted by stillatlarge:
Why does everyone say this moon is in Aqua' first house when astro says the one I know is in the 10th? Can somebody explain that, please?

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Originally posted by stillatlarge:
The astrologers sites say it falls in the first house for Aquas but on Astro.com,, it shows it falls in the person's 10th house. It's just the transiting moon, right?

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Tomorrow at 3:43am PCT the moon will be full at 7 degrees of Aquarius. 7 degrees can be considered the first decanate of Aquarius. Is that what you call "house"? House has a different meaning. But here is a website that gives information about decans/decanates: http://www.horoscopeswithin.com/decans.php

When it comes to houses, we're talking about different areas of an astrological chart. Each chart has 12 houses, though some of them may be intercepted. Look at your chart to see where is 7 degrees of Aquarius and you will know in which house of your chart the full moon is falling.

posted July 30, 2015 05:43 PM            

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Originally posted by saggyscorp:
I came to this thread because I have a lot of experience with Aqua guys acting in dumbfounding ways, hoping to help...but reading over the comments...

It honestly seems like the OP wanted everyon to validate her, and tell her exactly what she wants to hear. Why are you all wasting your time and energy on this?

I know I am also wasting my time and energy by posting this, but I'm kinda like...amused. And I'm at work. So I have nothing better to do and I'm getting paid for this.

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Thanks for sharing your opinion we really appreciate it!

posted July 30, 2015 06:05 PM            

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Originally posted by stillatlarge:
Yahoo is almost always accurate for me and mine like that.

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