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Topic: Why do Pisces men have such bad reps?
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LeeLoo2014
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posted August 15, 2015 02:54 PM
  
C'mon, Faith, the more you "wrinkle", the more they love your soul. And that is eternal.   It may even get more complicated with age. We are stripped of flesh and love shows itself. ------------------
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Faith
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posted August 15, 2015 03:01 PM
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Originally posted by Gabby:
Faith I wouldn't be able to handle that either. I'm sorry!
I can't stand feeling like I can't be totally open and honest in all aspects. I guess that's why I need someone who's on the same page with me regarding love and relationships if we have totally different standards and styles I feel like it's fake or we are lying to each other.
Right... My dream is transparency and acceptance but truth be told I don't know ONE married couple that doesn't lie to each other about some things. It's almost like, the longer they've been married and the happier they seem, the more they are hiding from each other! My conscience was not built for this. *edit quote:
Originally posted by Gabby:
I hope I have not come across harsh in this thread or hurt feelings, this subject is something I'm passionate about because I've been hurt by so many pisces lately. It's just annoying and an open wound. They always come back n want to be friends and that to gets on my nerves, lol!
I never dated a Pisces sun, but if I had your experiences I might be wanting to blow off steam, too. One thing is, I don't think I've ever been cheated on. Either I have luck or I'm just so dense I never picked up on it. LOL But I wouldn't handle that well at all, I don't think.... IP: Logged |
12muddy
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posted August 15, 2015 03:01 PM
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es if they flirted with me, I would be flattered
Lol faith. I feel good whenever I talk or meet my exes and feel that they still have some sort of affection for me. It's nice when they don't treat me like complete strangers, glare at me or are awkward around me. Libras do it best ime. The time when my husband and I met one libra former sweetie for a coffee (he and I parted on bad terms but eventually got over ourselves), he was like "Oh look at you". Hugged. Turned to my husband "It's clear that you've been treating her well. Thank you". They then proceeded to have a bonding session by telling each other about my short-comings. Needless to say I wasn't flattered from that point onwards It was light hearted and nice. You know what I keep at arm's length. Unrequited "love". Scratch that, I cut them out completely if I can. While I understand that some people can keep their feelings from turning into something destructive, I don't want to take any risk when they haven't put their feelings to rest. IP: Logged |
Faith
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posted August 15, 2015 03:04 PM
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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
C'mon, Faith, the more you "wrinkle", the more they love your soul. And that is eternal. It may even get more complicated with age. We are stripped of flesh and love shows itself.
 Maybe you're right.  Old people in love are so cute. 
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Faith
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posted August 15, 2015 03:18 PM
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Originally posted by 12muddy:
Libras do it best ime. The time when my husband and I met one libra former sweetie for a coffee (he and I parted on bad terms but eventually got over ourselves), he was like "Oh look at you". Hugged. Turned to my husband "It's clear that you've been treating her well. Thank you". They then proceeded to have a bonding session by telling each other about my short-comings. Needless to say I wasn't flattered from that point onwards It was light hearted and nice.
*cries* That is sooo cute!!!  I do kinda miss my Libra ex.
*edits crazy story about him... Though I'll tell the same story again sometime probably... Cuz it's not like I'll forget. quote:
Originally posted by 12muddy:
You know what I keep at arm's length. Unrequited "love". Scratch that, I cut them out completely if I can. While I understand that some people can keep their feelings from turning into something destructive, I don't want to take any risk when they haven't put their feelings to rest.
 I relate to this, too. IP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted August 15, 2015 03:45 PM
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Originally posted by Faith:
I never dated a Pisces sun, but if I had your experiences I might be wanting to blow off steam, too. One thing is, I don't think I've ever been cheated on. Either I have luck or I'm just so dense I never picked up on it. LOL But I wouldn't handle that well at all, I don't think....
I wasn't to into him fortunately he'd kind of pressured me into saying I love you and once I do that I feel I need to at least try to make it work.
He didn't technically cheat, just kissed her....same to me though. I don't even want men looking at me if I'm in love.
It was more the lies and the fact that I knew something was up and asked him about but he just kept lying to cover his butt. Lying is a character flaw I can't handle!!
I don't think pisces are cheaters, we just have different ways of showing loyalty and commitment. IP: Logged |
bansheequeen
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posted August 15, 2015 04:42 PM
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posted August 15, 2015 04:47 PM
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Faith
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posted August 15, 2015 04:52 PM
@banshee..Not sure how old you are and I don't mean this accusatively. But I'm curious... How long has your longest relationship lasted? I mean, how long have you been able to maintain absolute emotional exclusivity with someone? IP: Logged |
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posted August 15, 2015 04:52 PM
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Faith
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posted August 15, 2015 05:10 PM
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Faith
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posted August 15, 2015 05:15 PM
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Originally posted by bansheequeen:
2 years. I'm in my 20s.
That's pretty long... Well good luck making it last even longer with your man...  Though I honestly marvel that anyone can be totally immune to the forces of astrology that can manipulate you...like if you have amazing synastry with someone how do you not feel it? I can understand not acknowledging it, out of loyalty... But not even FEELING it?  Really? IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014
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posted August 15, 2015 05:34 PM
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Originally posted by Faith:
That's pretty long...Well good luck making it last even longer with your man... Though I honestly marvel that anyone can be totally immune to the forces of astrology that can manipulate you...like if you have amazing synastry with someone how do you not feel it? I can understand not acknowledging it, out of loyalty... But not even FEELING it? Really?
I know this is not addressed to me, but it made me think of how I feel the exclusiveness. When I am in love, I am not attracted to other people. First of all, I don't find them beautiful and attractive, I can acknowledge they are attractive and beautiful people, but it is different from how I perceive him, as being radiantly beautiful and heartbreakingly attractive. I am not physically attracted to other people anymore; I wouldn't kiss them or make love to them, they feel cold to me in this respect and even repulsive; by this I mean the idea and physical sensations about kissing them or making love to them are repulsive (that's because I am never indifferent about touch or physical love, it can only be hot or cold for me); I also feel it makes me tainted, it taints our love, our connection; there is a common energetic field when you are mutually in love with someone, accepting no outsiders (when it comes to the romance itself, and the physical connection too); it's an island, a common bubble. Thoughts and feelings are as powerful as acts, in love, with equal power to sustain or destroy a relationship. In fact, everything starts with a thought. There is a constant bridge of thoughts and feelings between lovers, and any intrusion or distraction is felt, especially in the long run. Love is cumulative. When and if I feel another man begins to attract me, I know my love is fading; and it never fails, so far ( I am a professional forever-being-in-love person BTW haha; also, I can never and will not be in a couple with someone if I am not in love; even when children are involved, I would prefer to be by myself and have short but intense relationships; I am very precise about this and I know this won't change, for I have already tested myself with this and discovered it for good). But as long as I am in love, I simply have no romantic and erotic interest in other people, on the contrary, the idea repulses me, physically. It is understandable, in these circumstances, I can only be with someone similar; I only once experienced being with someone with a different approach (being attracted to other women, but imposing on himself not to act, as you describe; I can't be with such a partner, I feel everything about this, and I don't care if he resists the temptation or not, what matters is that he never feels it; it has to be something genuinely similar to what I feel) ------------------
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Faith
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posted August 15, 2015 05:55 PM
Cool, Lee.*edits life story.... IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014
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posted August 15, 2015 06:21 PM
Faith, my dear, you are a harem girl I mean a girl deserving a harem. We have all the archetypes inside us and one of them is not to be monogamous; they are in various degrees in various people; I guess we can also choose to built one or the other inside us; we are everything at once. I think there are many people feeling as you do, and many feeling as I do. My nature is radical (that was Venus sq Neptune almost 0 + 8th house/strong Pluto in action, my last post ), but me and you and everyone else has the seed of what you describe inside. So we'll just hang in there for a while and if (this (darn Neptune ) doesn't work, meet you here, sister...just for a chat or...we shall see
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LeeLoo2014
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posted August 15, 2015 06:31 PM
To be honest, I also think it is about being into the fantasy and romance part, the excitement and mystery of the beginning, the feeling of falling in love, the need for that. As you can see, I totally relate to this, and it is very difficult if not impossible to keep that feeling after years of marriage; it can be done, but with very hard work, you need to become a love guru IP: Logged |
Faith
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posted August 15, 2015 06:35 PM
ROTFL!!! @ that picture.I think I'm just incapable of maintaining 100% exclusive interest, even if my interest is practically all-consuming and I feel like I would die for the other person, or without the other person... Chalk it up to my Sag Venus... And oh hey I guess Adele (Gemini Venus) gets me ~ You know I have a fickle heart
And a bitterness
And a wandering eye
And a heaviness in my head...
But don't you remember?
You used to love me. <3 IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014
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posted August 15, 2015 06:39 PM
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Originally posted by Faith:
ROTFL!!! @ that picture.I think I'm just incapable of maintaining 100% exclusive interest, even if my interest is practically all-consuming and I feel like I would die for the other person, or without the other person... Chalk it up to my Sag Venus... And oh hey I guess Adele (Gemini Venus) gets me ~ You know I have a fickle heart
And a bitterness
And a wandering eye
And a heaviness in my head...
But don't you remember?
You used to love me. <3
lovely verses! Ahhh Sag Venus with Sag Neptune yes! The mysterious glamorous stranger...always an alluring promise What can you do? It's the stars EDIT: I think the picture is not intended for girls but we'll manage somehow. IP: Logged |
polkadotstars
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posted August 15, 2015 07:23 PM
@leeloo - Are you a Leo? Because I saw somewhere that Leo's are fiercely loyal. I'm a Leo rising and I never have had any interest in anybody else while I am in a relationship. This sounds like you too. IP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted August 15, 2015 09:48 PM
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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
I know this is not addressed to me, but it made me think of how I feel the exclusiveness. When I am in love, I am not attracted to other people. First of all, I don't find them beautiful and attractive, I can acknowledge they are attractive and beautiful people, but it is different from how I perceive him, as being radiantly beautiful and heartbreakingly attractive. I am not physically attracted to other people anymore; I wouldn't kiss them or make love to them, they feel cold to me in this respect and even repulsive; by this I mean the idea and physical sensations about kissing them or making love to them are repulsive (that's because I am never indifferent about touch or physical love, it can only be hot or cold for me); I also feel it makes me tainted, it taints our love, our connection; there is a common energetic field when you are mutually in love with someone, accepting no outsiders (when it comes to the romance itself, and the physical connection too); it's an island, a common bubble. Thoughts and feelings are as powerful as acts, in love, with equal power to sustain or destroy a relationship. In fact, everything starts with a thought. There is a constant bridge of thoughts and feelings between lovers, and any intrusion or distraction is felt, especially in the long run. Love is cumulative.When and if I feel another man begins to attract me, I know my love is fading; and it never fails, so far ( I am a professional forever-being-in-love person BTW haha; also, I can never and will not be in a couple with someone if I am not in love; even when children are involved, I would prefer to be by myself and have short but intense relationships; I am very precise about this and I know this won't change, for I have already tested myself with this and discovered it for good). But as long as I am in love, I simply have no romantic and erotic interest in other people, on the contrary, the idea repulses me, physically. It is understandable, in these circumstances, I can only be with someone similar; I only once experienced being with someone with a different approach (being attracted to other women, but imposing on himself not to act, as you describe; I can't be with such a partner, I feel everything about this, and I don't care if he resists the temptation or not, what matters is that he never feels it; it has to be something genuinely similar to what I feel)
100% I agree and feel this wholeheartedly!!
When I'm in love...all other men in the way sexuality vanishes. It's like my guy is the only guy on Earth!! IP: Logged |
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posted August 15, 2015 10:30 PM
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Faith
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posted August 15, 2015 10:40 PM
All I can do is wish you girls the best of luck fulfilling your dreams of an all-consuming, ever-enduring love. I'm rooting for you.  IP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted August 16, 2015 04:28 AM
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Originally posted by Faith:
All I can do is wish you girls the best of luck fulfilling your dreams of an all-consuming, ever-enduring love. I'm rooting for you.
I wish you luck in getting your hot steamy harem of sexy young muscular men with no shirts(or pants)on!! 😱😍👬👬👬💃👬👬👬 😘❤️
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