posted August 13, 2015 09:50 AM            

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Originally posted by bansheequeen:
And if another girl around her is getting more adoration than her she goes into overdrive "omg im having suuuch a bad daaaayyyy work was so hard i dont knwo what to doooo ((" "oh no I just hit my boob on the table ooooooowww my BOOB!"

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LMAO

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Originally posted by bansheequeen:
Like mineagain said, they have this really special soft spot other men dont have. But thats it. Underneath its something else. I guess when you jump in the ocean its always cold no matter how warm the surface is.

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Not sure why this is, but I have always been aware of the coldness. There is like a wall up around them. You only get in on their terms.

Actually most of the women I know who married a Pisces were hand-picked and pursued with determination by the Pisces. It wasn't like they met at work, got along great, realized they had things in common...
No, more like the Pisces just realized "that's the one, that girl over there" and set about to win their love, sometimes marrying young or marrying after only knowing each other a short time.

My friends who married Pisces men actually complained about them being too bossy and condescending, not too indecisive/emotional/flakey. Well they didn't even have to complain, it was obvious sometimes. Like I remember at a potluck, my friend's Pisces husband was practically irate that the hot dogs in the crock pot hadn't been cooked long enough and were only lukewarm at lunch time. Easily solved problem, but he was going nuts.

Yes they divorced later.

posted August 13, 2015 10:30 AM            

She is older than me but all her life she has used me to be her guide and help avoid troublesome people. She is incredible naive and innocent. People can be taking advantage of her and she won't see it. Oh so many times I spent with her telling her to avoid certain places or people, but she is also stubborn too and went through some quite troublesome times because of that.

Years ago, even though I was like her little sister, she started ignore me, seldom spoke to me or always arranged excuses to not speak to meet me. She like disappeared and so I gave up trying to reach her. Meanwhile life goes on and I moved out of the country to a far away place. Apparently that hit her hard.

It took her a couple of years but eventually she asked my parents for my new number and actually called me overseas, crying for forgiveness and how she loves me like a sister and nothing ever changed. Of course, I welcomed her back into my life.
I truly believe they (Pisces) don't have any bad/mean intentions.

She has always been a very playful person, we make jokes out of anything and everything lol, we always have a lot of fun together, she is also very sweet, very charismatic, people easily like her but at same time she can attract haters very easily too. I am again, at the moment, being the one helping her out dealing with certain people at her work.

She also has this other side. She does not like to speak on the phone in front of her boyfriend. She likes to have her private time away from him and whenever he arrives home, she speaks differently, changes subject and we always end the call... she doesn't even pick her cellphone if he is around because as she says and I quote "I don't feel comfortable, there are things he doesn't have hear or know".
She loves him deeply, yet she does feel the need to have this private space. She has also complained he is quite clingy and she has some trouble with that.

She is very empathic and a very sensitive person (which sometimes causes her to blend with other people's moods), and she is also very insecure and she is a person who gets easily intimidated.
It always makes me sad because she is so awesome.

She has Sun and Mercury in Pisces, Moon in Sag.

posted August 13, 2015 10:35 AM            

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Originally posted by polkadotstars:
Why do Pisces men have such a bad rep? I have seen a lot of posts here stating they are flaky, mean, and will leave someone quickly without any explanations. I haven't found this to be the case. Does anyone have any positive insights on them? I'm a Pisces myself so I don't think we are bad people

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posted August 13, 2015 10:42 AM              

All pisces that I've known have loved to do their own thing, follow their own path and do what THEY want. Keyword for pisces: transcendence

posted August 13, 2015 10:57 AM            

My ex boyfriend of four years was a Sagittarius with an Aries moon, Capricorn Venus. He was not romantic and I felt like we were more roommates than BF/GF. I'm enjoying the Pisces energy so far.

It seems there are various degrees of Pisces men obviously. I know another Pisces man who is very sensitive and he gets easily hurt which drives me crazy. He's a great friend but he wants a relationship so bad (Venus Pisces) that he wants every girl friend of his to be his girlfriend, which is uber annoying.

My boyfriend's (from college) dad was a Pisces. And he did not at all come across as a Pisces. He was very outgoing, always threw parties, drank a lot, was very much the extrovert. My ex talked about how his parents fought a lot growing up and they got divorced because of his dad's cheating with a stripper. He was a very nice guy however. He treated me like a daughter and was very patient with my stutter. He always stuck up for people close to him, and would do anything for anyone no questions asked.

posted August 13, 2015 11:59 AM            

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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
I've been thinking about the Pisces suns I have known and the only one who was in a long term relationship was my Grandmother. All the others were in them from time to time but never really intensely so. It seems like Pisces sun people are here to experience something different than what others might consider traditional. It's best to acknowledge this and not feel like it is improper to recognize this desire. It doesn't work well to force Pisces sun people into these situations where they feel confined. Pisces is the sign associated with dissolving boundaries so it might be counter intuitive for some of them to live such a confined lifestyle.

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I agree.

ETA: I know plenty of Pisces who stayed married but all of them have their independence...

* One Pisces man I know surprised me by saying right in front of his wife that he was going to a concert that night with his female neighbor.

* Another Pisces made his wife "come unglued" in her words, by freezing her out over an issue for months, after they had been together for decades. It only ended when he had a stroke.

* Another Pisces serially cheats on his wife.

* A Pisces woman was telling me how upset she was that her married daughter is so honest about her finances with her husband. She advised her daughter to always have a secret bank account and never apologize for it.

* My Pisces best friend has never been married, has always moved on after a little while, and I honestly can't see her ever settling down.

The longest she lasted was with a Sag who was emotionally unavailable and therefore freed up her emotions to devote to other things and people.

posted August 13, 2015 12:01 PM            

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Originally posted by Faith:

Not sure why this is, but I have always been aware of the coldness. There is like a wall up around them. You only get in on their terms.

Actually most of the women I know who married a Pisces were hand-picked and pursued with determination by the Pisces. It wasn't like they met at work, got along great, realized they had things in common...
No, more like the Pisces just realized "that's the one, that girl over there" and set about to win their love, sometimes marrying young or marrying after only knowing each other a short time.

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Still I have a lot of respect for Pisces men, I just think of them like Virgo on steroids, and adapt to them that way.

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lol you mean underwater Virgo

Being a Virgo Sun, I get along very well with Pisces Sun, Moon and ASC.
It is said Virgo woman/Pisces man is one of the best pairings of the zodiac for marriage. Everyone important in my life has something in Pisces, in my 12th or prominent Neptune. Pisces have always been devoted to me, or in fact my Virgo and their Pisces have always been devoted to each other. All the Pisces I know have sacrificed something at some point for the ones they love. Most of them have Virgo influence as well, so I think this makes for a very devoted combo.

Pisces are very very susceptible to their environment and if they live a disorganized life or are surrounded by addicts or misfits (in a bad sense) etc, it gets the best of them, they can fall and crawl very low.

All Pisces influence people need a partner who transports them into otherwordly realms from time to time. Otherwise they feel lonely and they can become bitter and depressed, and if they can, they will leave. Everyday prosaic life and that's it, is not for them. My Venus sq Neptune opp Jupiter totally understands that and couldn't live that life either. This is probably the main reason for their need for solitude, reconnecting with the other realms and their dreams. The need for occasional solitude is natural for intuitive people, this is how they recharge and reconnect with themselves (since the presence of other people, if it takes too long, eventually interferes with this)

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posted August 13, 2015 12:06 PM            

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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
Normal would be a relationship between two people and then going to work everyday, returning home, and spending all their spare time with the partner.

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posted August 13, 2015 12:15 PM            

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Originally posted by polkadotstars:
*shudder*

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@Lee

Loved your comments

Virgo is my downfall, and I can only hope to be theirs. ...Laughing, but it's nice to think I've had an effect on them since they affect me so strongly..it would only be fair.

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It is said Virgo woman/Pisces man is one of the best pairings of the zodiac for marriage. Everyone important in my life has something in Pisces, in my 12th or prominent Neptune. Pisces have always been devoted to me, or in fact my Virgo and their Pisces have always been devoted to each other.

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posted August 13, 2015 12:22 PM            

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posted August 13, 2015 12:30 PM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
My Virgo ex-soulmate LOVED this one Pisces and devoted a whole journal to her. Kinda makes me wonder if our sun-moon opposition meant more than I've given it credit for.

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posted August 13, 2015 12:35 PM            

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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
Faith, I don't know if there's any comfort for you, but you will always have a strong effect on me, I can tell

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Oh GOOD! Thank you.

For that I will always scare away the Yetis for you.

Oh and you're right about the full moon!

I think one reason Pisces and Virgo get along is because both need space. So when Virgo wants to close themselves off and deal with their issues, Pisces just gives a sigh of relief and goes out walking under the stars instead of nagging and pushing the Virgo to open up immediately again. They are just in rhythm, a lot of the time. It only goes bad when those invisible signals get too subtle and there are misunderstandings.

posted August 13, 2015 12:52 PM            

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Oh GOOD! Thank you.

For that I will always scare away the Yetis for you.

Oh and you're right about the full moon!

I think one reason Pisces and Virgo get along because both need space. So when Virgo wants to close themselves off and deal with their issues, Pisces just gives a sigh of relief and goes out walking under the stars instead of nagging and pushing the Virgo to open up immediately again. They are just in rhythm, a lot of the time. It only goes bad when those invisible signals get too subtle and there are misunderstandings.

Bringing this back on topic, I think Pisces requires some psychic understanding or they are not going to be happy.

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Oh, I remembered I am behind with the Yeti issue, thank you for that hahahaha
This is great insight, Faith. You know, both Virgo and Pisces are merging and submerged with other people's issues all the time, in their own way, and they both need their own thing from time to time, because of that.

About the psychic connection...so true! All Pisces placements I know have magical thinking, a part of them lives with childhood fairy tales. Thinking of Einstein, and how a great deal of what he accomplished is in fact due to that. Not having this in your love life, at least a little bit, is impossible for them. Plus, their domain is the invisible, intuition...they can't be around non-intuitive people too much, they feel awkward.

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posted August 13, 2015 02:11 PM            

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I agree.

ETA: I know plenty of Pisces who stayed married but all of them have their independence...

* One Pisces man I know surprised me by saying right in front of his wife that he was going to a concert that night with his female neighbor.

* Another Pisces made his wife "come unglued" in her words, by freezing her out over an issue for months, after they had been together for decades. It only ended when he had a stroke.

* Another Pisces serially cheats on his wife.

* A Pisces woman was telling me how upset she was that her married daughter is so honest about her finances with her husband. She advised her daughter to always have a secret bank account and never apologize for it.

* My Pisces best friend has never been married, has always moved on after a little while, and I honestly can't see her ever settling down.

The longest she lasted was with a Sag who was emotionally unavailable and therefore freed up her emotions to devote to other things and people.

* But anyway as a Pisces moon I definitely relate to what you said about wanting to transcend boundaries...and how hard it is to meet people's standards of absolute fidelity when you actually sorta love the whole world.

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Reading this causes me to feel somewhat guilty at the exasperation I have been having lately for my Gemini friend. It becomes a matter of acceptance without aggravation and thinking about why they are endearing. What can you learn from them about life? There must have been some kind of attraction to begin with.

posted August 13, 2015 05:10 PM            

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Originally posted by stillatlarge:
They are one of my least favorite signs. They don't like to take responsibility, go with the crowd, lie like rugs, and always get away with it. And for everybody that plans to pile on and say I can't judge them all by the ones I've known, knock yourself out. Everyone here is too sensitive. All signs have their common traits good and bad and that will differ with other placements besides the sun, blah blah blah, usual disclaimer. That's the way I see them.

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posted August 13, 2015 05:12 PM            

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I agree.

ETA: I know plenty of Pisces who stayed married but all of them have their independence...

* One Pisces man I know surprised me by saying right in front of his wife that he was going to a concert that night with his female neighbor.

* Another Pisces made his wife "come unglued" in her words, by freezing her out over an issue for months, after they had been together for decades. It only ended when he had a stroke.

* Another Pisces serially cheats on his wife.

* A Pisces woman was telling me how upset she was that her married daughter is so honest about her finances with her husband. She advised her daughter to always have a secret bank account and never apologize for it.

* My Pisces best friend has never been married, has always moved on after a little while, and I honestly can't see her ever settling down.

The longest she lasted was with a Sag who was emotionally unavailable and therefore freed up her emotions to devote to other things and people.

* But anyway as a Pisces moon I definitely relate to what you said about wanting to transcend boundaries...and how hard it is to meet people's standards of absolute fidelity when you actually sorta love the whole world.

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The interesting question would be: do other Sun signs do the above less?

It's for everyone, the question. Do you know more Pisces doing this than other sun signs?

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posted August 13, 2015 07:06 PM            

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The interesting question would be: do other Sun signs do the above less?

It's for everyone, the question. Do you know more Pisces doing this than other sun signs?

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My answer would be both Gemini and Pisces are more restless and tend to get easily distracted, compared to other sun signs.

My one cousin became infatuated with her boss at work after he embezzled money, bought her expensive gifts with the money and then got caught. Her infatuated ended there. She's not Pisces sun, Cancer, rather. After that fiasco she learned her lesson and stuck with her Virgo husband, whom she had separated from over the embezzler. He has a lot of lady friends but as far as I know they are just friends. I never heard of him cheating on her but he likes hot women and will be friends with someone just because they are hot so he can't resist them. He's shallow but he's also colossally overweight and yet he still has all these really hot facebook friends of the other sex. Just bizarre. These are the only two that come close to what I have seen from the dual signs.

My friend's brother is a Gemini sun and he always went out on his wife. He spent weekends at the bars with other women. He didn't care. It's just he wanted to go out and be with others and marriage wasn't going to stop him acting on this desire. This can be the attitude of Gemini men.

My friend's Aquarius sun mother never even came close to cheating on her husband or flirting with other men. She would talk to them but she was never interested in any of them and barely interested in him as well but at least she could handle the traditional marriage thing. As far as I know, her Virgo sun husband was the same and never cheated on her, either.

My Pisces sun grandmother never cheated on her husband, that I know of but she had her own hobbies and interests that took a lot of time so she had a way to deal with all that energy and it didn't cause her to be quite so restless.

Pisces sun I knew from school never stayed with the same person for very long.

The Taurus suns I encountered are all very devoted but one was married to someone who had Venus in Pisces and sun barely in the sign Aquarius and this guy was always with another woman. He would lie and say he was at work, a graveyard shift. Late one night, she got a call from a stranger who asked her if she wanted to know where her husband was. She said alright and he came over and took her for a ride on his motorcycle to an apartment complex. He banged on the door and this gal with a dog in her arms answered. The woman's husband was in the bedroom. The guy got really angry and wanted to fight her husband since he was the girl's boyfriend. Her husband took off but eventually reappeared at home and that was just one time among many. Pretty soon he had a job where he traveled with these vendors in a van and was gone for days, staying in hotels and whatnot. Eventually they divorced but there was a huge amount of monetary debt. It seems a lot of times there's relationship karma involved because she found another guy to marry and although he never cheats or anything, neither of them are happy with each other.

Seeing all these relationships just bring one word to mind and it's SINGLE! Just makes me glad I am not in any of them. I like being free of the drama and mess of relationships. I know it sounds selfish but seeing what the Taurus sun friend went through really soured me on relationships. It was such a drag.

posted August 13, 2015 08:37 PM            

Then there's the ******* that sang a sweet time to me, then fled when things were getting deep. Put a huge negative dent in my view of his type of Pisces. I don't know why I bothered.